How would a guy feel if you told him he sucked in bed?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Stensco21 on Monday, November 6, 2017 and has 19 replies.

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

I'd ask howcome/what I can improve. But something tells me if you said that I "suck" in bed in those precise words, you aren't out to be constructive but to hurt my feelz... in which case there's probably no reason for us to have sex again.

Besides what works for one chick may not work for the other so i wouldn't take it too personally.

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@Soul
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Personally I would know she is lying just to attack my ego. If anything people I slept with call me up wanting nothing more then conversation, then out of nowhere they are all over me wanting sex. Not saying being used for sex is a good thing either lol. I guess it's a bit easier for men though.

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by Soul
Personally I would know she is lying just to attack my ego. If anything people I slept with call me up wanting nothing more then conversation, then out of nowhere they are all over me wanting sex. Not saying being used for sex is a good thing either lol. I guess it's a bit easier for men though.

#humblebrag

EDIT: Actually it isn't even humble, it's just brag lol

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@blueskiesahead
9 Years

Posted by ItsMeRoman

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Posted by LePetitFisk
If he's an Aries, he wouldn't give a fuck as long as he busted his nut.

Yeah right, Aries have the biggest egos around! I dated one for 6 years!

Nah. I'm an Aries and if someone told me I sucked in bed after the fact then it wouldn't bother me at all....it says more about their frame of mind and maturity level than it would say to my sexual skills.

Ego means nothing when it comes to sex. Crappy things people say to one another when it ends is so passé and trivial. No one has time for that shit. If you can't look at someone you spent time with and walk away from it ending...without continuing to respect them or treat them decently then something's wrong with you and not them.

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Ego has a lot to do with sex when it comes to guys though. Maybe not to women. That's just from my experience though.

If I told my ex he sucked in bed after 6 years together he would have been pissed off and probably told me to fuck off. Haha.

Sometimes people really do say how they really feel after the fact. Like, they have nothing to lose. I told a guy I was hooking up with for months that his dick was small after we stopped hooking up. Was that immature? Yup. Was it true though? Also yes.

Point is, just don't go there with men. Or any person for that matter. Nobody ever truly doesn't care to hear it.