do scorpios cheat? how do I turn him down without hurting us both? my scorpio boss, married with two

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kids has asked me out to beach this weekend. I've been working here for the past 5 months and he used to text me casually and even hold strong eye contact, but this is last week was the first time he'd invited me to the beach (?!) alone. I turned it down saying I was held up, ( he said it's okay but that I should really see this place with him next weekend) he'd even invited me to his exclusive birthday party oct 25th already which is to happen in an out of state Ritz. he even held my hand for a good while after I wished him on the project completion. I even brought up his wife's health in our last uncomfortable encounter in the secluded elevator!

Really, I am freaked!

all the scorpios I've ever met have only been friends shy or funny whichever has only ever struck as loyal people but he is so strong when he comes on to me I just feel this is really crazy like as if he's acting like his marriage or his kids or my boyfriend or nothing exists in reality for that matter.

he treats me like I am his possession he's claiming now, as in he does things for me all the time, like dropping me (I refuse most times but he insists), finding my accommodation when I moved here, letting me work in things I am interested in rather than designated boring stuff.

(all this apart, he's a handsome 6 footer with a hot body and eyes like freakin magnet of some sort with an attitude and demeanor like a BOSS not that I'd do him but if we were both single we might've hit it off on the first day)

he has never explicitly come on to me like this ever so whew before I get all worked up and I call my guy and cause a commotion, what do you guys think? is it normal or what? my coworkers certainly don't think so they've even took to pairing us up and teasing since recently!

sorry for the long post I don't even have a potato!
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Posted by Impulsv
Turned him down by saying u were held up lol

U bed to tell him ur married so I won't go!

You have allowed it all I need to do is give him a look of disgust but seems ur intrigued
no this is my job and I have moved from far and I can't afford to lose it yet, maybe he won't fire me but it'll murk the whole work environment and it'll make it all the more awkward. you know what I mean
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He is married hun the end..... And not to you.... He should be the last on your mind
I know I know I'm not even considering this
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😄 haha lol. but dude I know he's so hot but he is someone else's and that's a huge turnoff to me that I am not his priority. also that he's being an asshole to someone without so much of a speck of guilt!
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Man I hope I´ll never experience this though. Somebody already commited coming on to me. What the hell would he expect?? I think it´s very belittling behaviour and speaks volumes about the big ass ego these people are running around with.
I just straight up ask them..

"Aren't you married?"

Usually clears up their intentions pretty quickly.

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hmm this is not that offensive and to the point I really hope I could muster up the courage to say this to his face though!
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He is married hun the end..... And not to you.... He should be the last on your mind
I know I know I'm not even considering this
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😄 haha lol. but dude I know he's so hot but he is someone else's and that's a huge turnoff to me that I am not his priority. also that he's being an asshole to someone without so much of a speck of guilt!
Thank you for your honesty. I advise just being completely honest if you want real advice. People are going to come in here and trash you regardless. Its a turnoff for you that you aren't a priority (notice that is your first priority, Aries - no judgment though), but at the same time the taboo of the whole thing is a turn-on. If you're sexually confident, you probably feel like you could make him make you his priority. You also don't even have to get into his moral nature because the bottom line is he is a total scumbag yet you are still turned on. He has enough power over you to override your own moral considerations. Have you dealt with a highly attractive Scorpio male before? He can read you and you signaling your attraction to him as much as he is to you. You two are both basically escalating it and you know this. How far will you take it? As far as you want to? Let me ask you..honestly:

1. how often have you masturbated to this dude and/or thought of him during sex with your partner?

2. how often are you fantasizing about him during the day? Are the fantasies euphoric? Thinking of him when certain music comes on, etc.?

3. have you had any dreams about him?

4. are you seeing any strange signs/coincidences day-to-day, that you interpret as having something to do with your interactions with him?

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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! you should stop talking to me!!! what are you? another scorp? I'm flushed red!! nonononoonono I love my sweet sensitive cancerian guy! don't encourage me to think up about this sexual beast please not when I'm alone and vulnerable. but 4 is spot on strange! everytime I look at his WhatsApp picture he immediately texts me within a few minutes! so many times even when I'm home! it's always like he's spying or something like I was about to go shopping and he called me he's going out to shop and if I'd care to join! also our conversation is almost like we could finish off each other 😄 's sentences haha that was for you 😉

what good is it gonna do me answering those to torture myself?
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Posted by Bottabing
He is married hun the end..... And not to you.... He should be the last on your mind
I know I know I'm not even considering this
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😄 haha lol. but dude I know he's so hot but he is someone else's and that's a huge turnoff to me that I am not his priority. also that he's being an asshole to someone without so much of a speck of guilt!
You are easy to break. Spilled the beans the moment he said he didn't believe you. Your Scorpio boss has you easily read as well, not sure you'll win this one, sorry.

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what beans? this is no secret of course he knows I like him too but I just wouldn't give him the time or the day and I'm looking for a way to express it that's all. it's nothing unnatural to be attracted to a someone whether married or not it's just what we do about it
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fine you earned it, lol, he looks like the body double of Christoph Schneider, 1. yeah I almost thought of him once with my guy but out of the fear it's gonna become a habit and of the guilt, I just snapped out of it.

2. yeah, whenever he wears this indigo shirt or any of the blues, he pulsates the entire room and the smell of his adg lingers

3. I think it went like we feel up and have a long kiss on a cold day on a park bench

owing to your question I'm gonna start another thread in the board go answer that
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Best read I've had on here in ages! —

OP, you are very much out of your depth with this one. You're young so you may take his bait and have an amazing fuck in the short term but you will lose in the long term.

He might even be using his charm to goad you because it's easy for him to do so. Boosts his ego and he'll continue because he knows you'll continue to be swooned by it. You're easy prey for him. He'll play with you like a cat toying with a mouse. Then he'll discard you. Don't think you're special because he doesn't.

The stronger women would have told him where to go and made it crystal clear at the first hint of any funny business.
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Posted by notsosure
Man I hope I´ll never experience this though. Somebody already commited coming on to me. What the hell would he expect?? I think it´s very belittling behaviour and speaks volumes about the big ass ego these people are running around with.
I just straight up ask them..

"Aren't you married?"

Usually clears up their intentions pretty quickly.

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What? LOL it is not going to clear anything. He will say yes, so what?

And stare at her so she will get her knees wet.

Don't even try to advise her. Girl is sold and ready. LOL
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miss out on sex with a mythical creature.


O_O WHY! WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO ME?
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LOL I knew you were sold. Speaking from years of experience.

The only thing I can tell you that can ease the pain is that sex is not always good with Scorpios

even it is hard to believe. However even if sex is not good - they are still mythical and dreamy and

as you describe him - there is no force that will make you resist him.

You are already there. In his paws. Or claws...what do Scorps have for hands? LOL

If you loved your boyfriend it would be easier somewhat. I say not easy. Easier maybe.

But apparently you don't give a rat's tail about your boyfriend.

I would stop fight it and maybe just maybe it will go away. Yeah. ..sure. But hope dies first.

You are what
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Posted by EnochtheWise
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Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by ariessungoddess
Posted by Bottabing
He is married hun the end..... And not to you.... He should be the last on your mind
I know I know I'm not even considering this
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😄 haha lol. but dude I know he's so hot but he is someone else's and that's a huge turnoff to me that I am not his priority. also that he's being an asshole to someone without so much of a speck of guilt!
Thank you for your honesty. I advise just being completely honest if you want real advice. People are going to come in here and trash you regardless. Its a turnoff for you that you aren't a priority (notice that is your first priority, Aries - no judgment though), but at the same time the taboo of the whole thing is a turn-on. If you're sexually confident, you probably feel like you could make him make you his priority. You also don't even have to get into his moral nature because the bottom line is he is a total scumbag yet you are still turned on. He has enough power over you to override your own moral considerations. Have you dealt with a highly attractive Scorpio male before? He can read you and you signaling your attraction to him as much as he is to you. You two are both basically escalating it and you know this. How far will you take it? As far as you want to? Let me ask you..honestly:

1. how often have you masturbated to this dude and/or thought of him during sex with your partner?

2. how often are you fantasizing about him during the day? Are the fantasies euphoric? Thinking of him when certain music comes on, etc.?

3. have you had any dreams about him?

4. are you seeing any strange signs/coincidences day-to-day, that you interpret as having something to do with your interactions with him?


AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! you should stop talking to me!!! what are you? another scorp? I'm flushed red!! nonononoonono I love my sweet sensitive cancerian guy! don't encourage me to think up about this sexual beast please not when I'm alone and vulnerable. but 4 is spot on strange! everytime I look at his WhatsApp picture he immediately texts me within a few minutes! so many times even when I'm home! it's always like he's spying or something like I was about to go shopping and he called me he's going out to shop and if I'd care to join! also our conversation is almost like we could finish off each other 😄 's sentences haha that was for you 😉

what good is it gonna do me answering those to torture myself?
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You're gonna let him slip ya the sausage. Let us know how it goes, ok?
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Posted by AgentP911
Best read I've had on here in ages! —

OP, you are very much out of your depth with this one. You're young so you may take his bait and have an amazing fuck in the short term but you will lose in the long term.

He might even be using his charm to goad you because it's easy for him to do so. Boosts his ego and he'll continue because he knows you'll continue to be swooned by it. You're easy prey for him. He'll play with you like a cat toying with a mouse. Then he'll discard you. Don't think you're special because he doesn't.

The stronger women would have told him where to go and made it crystal clear at the first hint of any funny business.
yeah I really really wish I had stood up against him from the beginning now that I think of it, that would've been a lot easier to do before we knew each other this well, a lot!
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Posted by Impulsv
Posted by Impulsv
Posted by AgentP911
Best read I've had on here in ages! —

OP, you are very much out of your depth with this one. You're young so you may take his bait and have an amazing fuck in the short term but you will lose in the long term.

He might even be using his charm to goad you because it's easy for him to do so. Boosts his ego and he'll continue because he knows you'll continue to be swooned by it. You're easy prey for him. He'll play with you like a cat toying with a mouse. Then he'll discard you. Don't think you're special because he doesn't.

The stronger women would have told him where to go and made it crystal clear at the first hint of any funny business.
At 24 I told a married man where to go n made it clear at first hint

Age is no excuse

I think she's not used to the chemistry though.

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you know that's what's scary, I've had a stronger connection with him that I've ever had with my guy (dating for almost 5 months now). it's like a cruel joke's being played on me by this guy intentionally just to try to beat me at my game but I only swoon here. I really don't think he has the slightest clue I noticed him this much in reality. I break away from his stare and usually walk away or outright ignore him in the office. so this is just here I have the liberty to let it go and talk about it. but knowing him, I even have a weird feeling he might stalk me in here or know about my posts or about my secret crush someohow. if there's only a way I could just pull out our connection I'll win!
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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by EnochtheWise


miss out on sex with a mythical creature.


O_O WHY! WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO ME?
LOL I knew you were sold. Speaking from years of experience.

The only thing I can tell you that can ease the pain is that sex is not always good with Scorpios

even it is hard to believe. However even if sex is not good - they are still mythical and dreamy and

as you describe him - there is no force that will make you resist him.

You are already there. In his paws. Or claws...what do Scorps have for hands? LOL

If you loved your boyfriend it would be easier somewhat. I say not easy. Easier maybe.

But apparently you don't give a rat's tail about your boyfriend.

I would stop fight it and maybe just maybe it will go away. Yeah. ..sure. But hope dies first.

You are what

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hahaha my boyfriend is sweet I'll never cheat on him but I'll never marry him either. he'll never cause a chaos in my head or stop being a man child but I love him for his kindness and honestly nonetheless, I don't elaborate on our relationship cause it's not in jeopardy and I come out with this secret here since I can't ever talk about this with any of my co cause you know, judgement and my friends back home think I'm too strong for this shit I'd be a let down if I confess this. maybe it'll go away if I keep ignoring it for a while.

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Man I hope I´ll never experience this though. Somebody already commited coming on to me. What the hell would he expect?? I think it´s very belittling behaviour and speaks volumes about the big ass ego these people are running around with.
I just straight up ask them..

"Aren't you married?"

Usually clears up their intentions pretty quickly.


What? LOL it is not going to clear anything. He will say yes, so what?

And stare at her so she will get her knees wet.

Don't even try to advise her. Girl is sold and ready. LOL
fml you're the reason they have huge ass egos

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Who are THEY?

Have you ever been with Scorpio?

Naaaaah...whipe your spewing shit face dork
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You are what, 23? You have about until 30 to play with your feelings. Have fun
gemi make up your mind! each of your post has a different perspective!
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No baby! I made up my mind YEARS ago. Tried to say NO WAY! Never! Naaah!

And giving you from the bottom of my heart.

You now what you want and what you going to do. Just be honest to yourself.

None of us here really give a damn what are you going to do BUT .

most of us here

knows that you are going to sleep with him no matter what.

Do not fool us here. You are fooling yourself. You are dripping right now reading

responses and seeing him as if he head already being there.

Do not kid people. Just go with a flow.

Kudos to your boyfriend.

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miss out on sex with a mythical creature.


O_O WHY! WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO ME?
LOL I knew you were sold. Speaking from years of experience.

The only thing I can tell you that can ease the pain is that sex is not always good with Scorpios

even it is hard to believe. However even if sex is not good - they are still mythical and dreamy and

as you describe him - there is no force that will make you resist him.

You are already there. In his paws. Or claws...what do Scorps have for hands? LOL

If you loved your boyfriend it would be easier somewhat. I say not easy. Easier maybe.

But apparently you don't give a rat's tail about your boyfriend.

I would stop fight it and maybe just maybe it will go away. Yeah. ..sure. But hope dies first.

You are what


hahaha my boyfriend is sweet I'll never cheat on him but I'll never marry him either. he'll never cause a chaos in my head or stop being a man child but I love him for his kindness and honestly nonetheless, I don't elaborate on our relationship cause it's not in jeopardy and I come out with this secret here since I can't ever talk about this with any of my co cause you know, judgement and my friends back home think I'm too strong for this shit I'd be a let down if I confess this. maybe it'll go away if I keep ignoring it for a while.

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NOW I really dislike you!

You came here posted all this butter about your sexy gorgeous BOSS because you are loving your sweet innocent cute freaking no man boyfriend?

Liar!

You walking and dreaming about your BOSS BUT...you know he is not going to be with you after first encounter but your stupid baby-boyfriend will wait and see whats what.

BE REAL! and TRUE to yourself. You can fool anybody but you can't fool yourself.

You are trying though...babycake! HAHAHA
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Posted by starwars
I'd call his wife and tell her about the dickhead he is and that she can count on me imma hide the body
And why would you do it stupid face?

To make this woman life miserable? Is she your enemy?

She could be living it knowing it and agree to BE.

Who asked you to spew all this crap onto stranger you don't know?

Want to use phone one extra time?

I can give you my number...but blame yourself.

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Married Scorpio Cheater is only there to gratify his sexual needs. You need to protect your self and your feelings as if you continue with him, you are the one most likely to get hurt not him. Scorpios have double standard. Whilst it's ok for him to cheat on his wife with you, you won't be allowed to even accidentally look at another man. It's an One Way road for you in this relationship. Before he goes cold on you, which Scorpions do often, you need to back off. Just tell him, you respect him as a boss and feel it is inappropriate to have anything more than a professional relationship.....remind him that he is a married man and say that you are not attracted to married men.

Scorpios supposed to be faithful. But NO... they often cheat with secret lovers, online relationships and dating sites. Because they are so secretive and controlling, their cheating is rarely found out that's why they falsely get credits for being faithful. A Scorpio can see sex as nothing more than sex.

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Posted by Arielle83
If you're really a 23 year old Aries female, you should have the BALLS to tell him straight up not interested because if yadda yadda yadda.

However, that's if you aren't interested.

You clearly are into the attention. It probably makes you feel BETTER than your other coworkers as well to be the chosen one.

Like I said, you're a young Aries chick.

You should have the balls to set him straight, but you're probably DJ diddling yourself on your coffee break sitting in the toilet googling Aries/scorpio sexual chemistry or some bull crap.

Or you make a thread where everyone can read you like a crystal ball.

You like your ego fed and you aren't honest.

Tell him to respect the work situation and his wife and family.
thanks for the advice it would've sounded much better without all that judgement shoved in, given a chance I can bet every one of you judgmental pricks would do the same shit, single or not, it's just easier to act like a prude in an anonymous site ain't it? whichever way, this thread was intended to rid myself off the guilt of liking a married man so shoot away 😄
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Posted by astroLara
Married Scorpio Cheater is only there to gratify his sexual needs. You need to protect your self and your feelings as if you continue with him, you are the one most likely to get hurt not him. Scorpios have double standard. Whilst it's ok for him to cheat on his wife with you, you won't be allowed to even accidentally look at another man. It's an One Way road for you in this relationship. Before he goes cold on you, which Scorpions do often, you need to back off. Just tell him, you respect him as a boss and feel it is inappropriate to have anything more than a professional relationship.....remind him that he is a married man and say that you are not attracted to married men.

Scorpios supposed to be faithful. But NO... they often cheat with secret lovers, online relationships and dating sites. Because they are so secretive and controlling, their cheating is rarely found out that's why they falsely get credits for being faithful. A Scorpio can see sex as nothing more than sex.


that's an interesting point
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I'd call his wife and tell her about the dickhead he is and that she can count on me imma hide the body
The wife might already be cool with it.
what?
You haven't told us the terms of their marriage, unless you don't know. Are they ok with seeing other people or not?
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I don't know the terms of their marriage, I only see his ring and heard from co about his wife and kids, I haven't even met her yet or the kids (probably this 25th at his birthday party I might) also why would anybody discuss in elaborate the terms of their marriage in the office?
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Man I hope I´ll never experience this though. Somebody already commited coming on to me. What the hell would he expect?? I think it´s very belittling behaviour and speaks volumes about the big ass ego these people are running around with.
I just straight up ask them..

"Aren't you married?"

Usually clears up their intentions pretty quickly.


What? LOL it is not going to clear anything. He will say yes, so what?

And stare at her so she will get her knees wet.

Don't even try to advise her. Girl is sold and ready. LOL
fml you're the reason they have huge ass egos


Who are THEY?

Have you ever been with Scorpio?

Naaaaah...whipe your spewing shit face dork
can't you come up with a better non 3rd graders comebacks?

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Like

No

What?

or other one word responses you make?

LOL...btw you would feel like a 3rd grader if you were in love.

Everyone does. 🙂

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I'd call his wife and tell her about the dickhead he is and that she can count on me imma hide the body
And why would you do it stupid face?

To make this woman life miserable? Is she your enemy?

She could be living it knowing it and agree to BE.

Who asked you to spew all this crap onto stranger you don't know?

Want to use phone one extra time?

I can give you my number...but blame yourself.


I'll pretend that whatever you're saying

Does make sense.

However, I sense some threating going on,

I don't feel good.

I might puke. oh no no no.
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Seems like puking is in your blood.

Even your avatar does that!

I bet you are having a great time doing it.

Go on. Clean your system. Who cares?
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Posted by Amethysst
I've slept with a married Scorpio man. Didn't know he was, no ring or talk about wife only his child. Told me he was a single dad but I knew he was hiding something from me...

The last time I saw him my gut was on fire. I stared into his eyes and asked about his wife. His face changed, he was lying to me.. I told him I had to go, got dressed and disappeared on him. (Aqua style )

I'm not interested in being a home wrecker.
wow. scorpio loyalty my ass! such scumbags they really are! did he not try to chase you again? knowing their stalker nature I bet he obsessed about you all the way!
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I've slept with a married Scorpio man. Didn't know he was, no ring or talk about wife only his child. Told me he was a single dad but I knew he was hiding something from me...

The last time I saw him my gut was on fire. I stared into his eyes and asked about his wife. His face changed, he was lying to me.. I told him I had to go, got dressed and disappeared on him. (Aqua style )

I'm not interested in being a home wrecker.
wow. scorpio loyalty my ass! such scumbags they really are! did he not try to chase you again? knowing their stalker nature I bet he obsessed about you all the way!
He did, couldn't find me.. You can't judge him because you're here creating a post pondering about your dirty thoughts towards this married Scorpio man at your job.

It's the circle of life and you're no better. 😄



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I've never been stupid enough to be cheated or victimized, that's where we use what's called sense or judgement to not spread legs around to everyone, even if I ponder about a married man who fancies me, that makes me way better 😄 sawry
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I'd suggest that whatever you do, you start looking for another job elsewhere - starting this minute ...

you know yourself better than anyone else and your temptation is strong being around him daily - it's exciting - but you know we get ourselves in too deep sometimes because of our lust - there are always consequences - changes not always in our best interest - pull out your morals and work ethic side and stop looking or just do it and then whatever come what may ... reality is right now - not in our heads ...
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Posted by Amethysst
Posted by HonestyIsBest
Every sign cheats. Remind him that he is married. Big decision to be made here.
Exactly, Remind him.
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Remind him? Like he's really forgotten he's married, lmao.

He's fully aware of what he's doing. The op should and is only accountable for her own actions and intentions. She's not responsible for being another's moral compass.
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ariessungoddess
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Does your bf know that your attracted to your boss? If he did I doubt he would've advised you to go to the boss's bday party.

Does your bf know that he's just a placeholder until you find the man you really want to be with?
no I haven't told him yet because it might just be a huge fuss for nothing and it'll upset him I'm pretty sure, but I suppose he knows he's not in this for long. he wanted me to meet his parents within the first month we dated, I declined politely stating I'd like to see where it goes. he handled it well
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Let me just take a minute to rewrite your post in a more accurate reflection of what you are really doing on here:

Title: I think my Scorpio boss will cheat with me...and I REALLLLLY want him to even though he has 2 kids and he's married!

My super attractive boss asked me out to beach this weekend. I've been working here for the past 5 months and he used to text me casually and even hold strong eye contact, but this is last week was the first time he'd invited me to the beach alone!! I played the game with him by saying I was held up even though I really wanted to go and he took the bait and invited me to this place with him next weekend. I'm also so flattered and excited That he also invited me to his exclusive birthday party at the Ritz, which you should all be so excited for me about because it means that I'm really super special and that he must reallly think I'm super hot. I let him hold my hand even though I knew it was inappropriate, but you all see that means he reall really thinks I'm hot right and not super easy AT ALL. I even brought up his wife's health in our last uncomfortable encounter in the secluded elevator to show what a good person I am and how caring so that he would Really think highly of me..I mean how considerate that I would think of his wife's feelings in such a moment of heat and passion, right?!!

Really, I am so excited and don't care about his family or what's appropriate in a work environment!!

All the scorpios I've ever met have only been friends shy or funny whichever has only ever struck as loyal people but he is so strong when he comes on to me, so that must mean that I am like incredibly special to be the only person to get a Scorpio man to want to cheat!!!

I just feel this is really crazy like as if he's acting like his marriage or his kids or my boyfriend or nothing exists in reality for that matter. But that's ok because none of it matters to me either!!!

he treats me like I am his possession he's claiming now, as in he does things for me all the time, which truly shows how amazing I must be and how interested he is in me... doe you all see how beautiful I must be to garner this kind of attention from a married man?? I'm such a good person that I refuse but it's just soooo hard when he insists that it completely overwhelms my sense of morals and integrity and I just can't say no!!!

So, please, tell me that I'm a good person, and must be incredibly talented and beautiful for this married SCORPIO (by the way he is a handsome 6 footer with a hot body and eyes like freakin magnet of some sort with an attitude and demeanor like a BOSS) to come on to me!! If we weren't both in committed relationships I would have fucked him the first time he looked at me, but out of respect I'm waiting until he pulls my panties down in the bathroom at his birthday party because really waiting is the right thing to do!

Even my coworkers have noticed and it makes me so excited and gives me so much attention that I adore it...but I feel like a better person coming on here and asking you strangers if you think I should tell my boyfriend about all the totally inappropriate ways my boss is coming into me...but I would never tell my boyfriend because in reality I'm hoping to fuck my boss, that he will leave his wife and kids and I will live in some made for TV movie where it all has a happily ever after.

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Posted by Gemoodeye1
Let me just take a minute to rewrite your post in a more accurate reflection of what you are really doing on here:

Title: I think my Scorpio boss will cheat with me...and I REALLLLLY want him to even though he has 2 kids and he's married!

My super attractive boss asked me out to beach this weekend. I've been working here for the past 5 months and he used to text me casually and even hold strong eye contact, but this is last week was the first time he'd invited me to the beach alone!! I played the game with him by saying I was held up even though I really wanted to go and he took the bait and invited me to this place with him next weekend. I'm also so flattered and excited That he also invited me to his exclusive birthday party at the Ritz, which you should all be so excited for me about because it means that I'm really super special and that he must reallly think I'm super hot. I let him hold my hand even though I knew it was inappropriate, but you all see that means he reall really thinks I'm hot right and not super easy AT ALL. I even brought up his wife's health in our last uncomfortable encounter in the secluded elevator to show what a good person I am and how caring so that he would Really think highly of me..I mean how considerate that I would think of his wife's feelings in such a moment of heat and passion, right?!!

Really, I am so excited and don't care about his family or what's appropriate in a work environment!!

All the scorpios I've ever met have only been friends shy or funny whichever has only ever struck as loyal people but he is so strong when he comes on to me, so that must mean that I am like incredibly special to be the only person to get a Scorpio man to want to cheat!!!

I just feel this is really crazy like as if he's acting like his marriage or his kids or my boyfriend or nothing exists in reality for that matter. But that's ok because none of it matters to me either!!!

he treats me like I am his possession he's claiming now, as in he does things for me all the time, which truly shows how amazing I must be and how interested he is in me... doe you all see how beautiful I must be to garner this kind of attention from a married man?? I'm such a good person that I refuse but it's just soooo hard when he insists that it completely overwhelms my sense of morals and integrity and I just can't say no!!!

So, please, tell me that I'm a good person, and must be incredibly talented and beautiful for this married SCORPIO (by the way he is a handsome 6 footer with a hot body and eyes like freakin magnet of some sort with an attitude and demeanor like a BOSS) to come on to me!! If we weren't both in committed relationships I would have fucked him the first time he looked at me, but out of respect I'm waiting until he pulls my panties down in the bathroom at his birthday party because really waiting is the right thing to do!

Even my coworkers have noticed and it makes me so excited and gives me so much attention that I adore it...but I feel like a better person coming on here and asking you strangers if you think I should tell my boyfriend about all the totally inappropriate ways my boss is coming into me...but I would never tell my boyfriend because in reality I'm hoping to fuck my boss, that he will leave his wife and kids and I will live in some made for TV movie where it all has a happily ever after.




hmm. never even in my dreams.