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houstonpeach74
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Ok, I am never trusting men again.

After all of the talk, and posts, and then trying to understand this "Scorpio", I find out that his birthday is not actually in November..NO, it's in JUNE! He's a Gemini, not a Scorpio!!! That's why none of the things he was doing was typical of what I knew about Scorpios! Oh my gosh..

WHere is that F(*&(*(*ing VOODOO doll when I need it?

I cannot believe he lied to me about his birthday. I am 100% convinced that my hunches about him lying about other things are now right on the money.

Oh my gosh, I am so frigging hurt and mad. I haven't cried yet, but it's coming soon.
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houstonpeach74
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TOo much of his stories didn't add up. I called and left him a VM on his cell phone - basically saying "What's it like to lie?" and "It must be pretty pathetic being you", etc.

Now I don't know what to do. I know nothing about Geminis but this definitely puts a bad taste in my mouth and I don't want to know anything about them now!

Part of me hopes he emails me so I can rip him a new one tomorrow...But most of me just wants to go cry on my pillow.
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Tiamat
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Oh,okay answers the other question.I don't know though,Im always suspecious so the source could be lying also with a little white out n stuff or whatever lol.I'd have to talk to his parents or whatever cause the birthday thing is pretty out there to lie about even for a gemini(yeah,starsign generalizing wise,they're known for lying).Not every scorpio is an angel or whatever about lying,cheating,etc.I'd be checking my sources also otherwise don't stress about it and move on.Its for the best🙂
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shortyrock
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What an ass!!!! That just irks me! I'm so sorry you're going through this....and I don't see a reason for him to lie about his age, for goodness sakes!!! I mean come on, we're not talking about ss# here!!! Unless, as some people said, he wants to be known as a Scorpio! That's just insane!!! I wonder how much longer he was going to keep up the charade...unless he never planned for you guys to get serious from the beginning! I've only dealt with Gemini women, and I've never seen this type of behavior..but then again, it may not be due to only his sign - it may have more to do with his gender!!!
Don't cry over him because someone that can lie about something as minute as his dob is NOT worth even an ounce of tears!!! I know its more the act of being deceived that hurts, but think of it like this...better now than later when you're in deeper!

Play "I will Survive..." by Gloria Gaynor.... 🙂
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Scorpionlady
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HP I am sorry to hear about what happened to you. And I am not trying to be mean or anything, but lets face the reality of it all first. YOU GOT PLAYED reconzied it live up to it and move on. I know it hurts I have been there before and the only think that has helped me to move on is to except it and face it. Don't try and figure why he did it and for what reason, don't sit and soak about it. Hold your head up and move on, Take it as a lesson learned. I know it is not that easy but why would you want to dwell on all that he did to you all it does is make you hurt longer.

Take this time and focus on you, get in touch with you and who you are, you will be fine.
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RainingPeanuts
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I am soooooo NOT surprised to hear something like this of a Gemini! I knew a Gemini who told his girlfriend he was puerto rican... even after she met his parents. Of course she was a total dumbarse who just ran with it and never questioned him. That guy is sooooo out there with his stories and it is not the first time I hear Geminis telling OUTRAGEOUS lies. Pretty bad at it too for the record.
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FierceSagittarius
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Freakin idiot! What the hell is he goin through all that for? Its not just the sign its people play a very important role in their individual actions. My dad and my aunt are gemini's and I personally dont fancy their traits and avoid any gem in relationship but both relatives are the most honest people I know, many times people wish they would lie or just shut up lol.
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CreepyPants
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pah. drop it like it's hot, hp. i never wanna see you post about this again! 😛 cuz you're right, it is drama. too little time knowing this guy and look at all this baloney. free your mind and free your heart... reach into that tackle box like i said before and grab another lure!!
and i've known taureans to lie as well, and they are just as bad at it as geminis. you bulls are so much better at honesty 😉
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flygyrllchi
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HE LIED TO YOU!!! —LOL LOL. I GUESS THAT GOES TO SHOW , THAT EVERYBODY WANTS TO BE A SCORPIO. SO WILL YOU BE LEAVING THE SCORPIO BOARD FOR GOOD NOW, OR WHAT? ? BESIDES HOUSTON_PREACHES, YOU ARE INCOMPATIABLE WITH SCORPIOS ANYWAY, YOU ARE A TAURUS!! I KNOW IT HURTS TO NOT HAVE A SCORPIO, BUT DON'T TRIP , MAYBE NEXT LIFE TIME. LOL DAMN ,YOU GOT TO DITCH THAT LIAR!
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houstonpeach74
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oh guys, i love you all....i'm not leaving...

i'm debating what to do with the Scorpio guy. I'm torn over if he's really just super busy as he claims or if I want to keep him around...

i'm dating others, that never was out of the picture, but i will honestly say i really liked this guy.

my best friend thinks however that once he figures out that my time is limited as well and that i'm dating others, he will start pursuing me like a vengeance...i don't know...not sure if i want him to.
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houstonpeach74
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Hey thanks for all of your advice.

I called him this morning and just told him that he and i just weren't clicking like we were in the beginning and the last thing i wanted to do was hold him back from pursuing anything or anyone.

He didn't have much to say over the phone, but he did send me an email that told me that I was right and that he wished me the best...

Little chicken shit...hid behind email and couldn't talk on the phone, ever!

Don't worry, i'm not leaving the Scorpio board...i love you guys.
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scorp5pt0
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awww HP. at least it ended well.

don't know if i should even say this, but i will anyway :p

it didn't seem like he was given much of a choice...it'd be different if he was asked a question like do you want to keep seeing each other? then he could say yes or no.

but instead he was presented with what seems like a 'dear john' phone call and he tried to deal with it as gracefully as possible. not sure if he was 'hiding', just maybe less emotional over email. i think i'm finding i communicate better over email too, coz i can edit/delete/revise before sending...i can't do that over the phone or in person, as much as i wish i could.
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