help.

My ex scorpio sun (30, Pisces moon ) told me she moved on while I was gone 18 months and only wants a friendship. I am a sagittarius (33 years old, Sun, aries moon, scorpio rising)... she says there is no hope in getting back together and I should accept her friendship and move on as she is with someone she thinks she is in love with for the last 5 months (and never mentioned it to me once). I told her 3 days ago I will not be friends with her because I always saw us together. She just reiterated to move on and sorry for hurting me. She's been reaching out to me ever since asking me if I am ok and sending me pictures of her in a bikini. I am going No contact because I don't just see her as a friend we were together 2 1/2 years before I had to leave and she decided not to come with me on the known 18 month time frame and 7 months in she decided she wanted to take a break... I came back for her and its crushed me. Why can't she just leave me alone to let me get over my heart break?

Block her on everything so you don't have to receive or see any of those things, and get closure. Out of sight, out of mind.( eventually)

It's tough because I still love her. She's why I relocated back. And I know how scorpios love but I hoped we could reconcile and be together again like I remember. Today she opened up and She said it hurt badly when I left and she doesn't want me to have hope of a reconciliation because hope is bad. And to move on and we can stay in contact. I'm not a back burner guy.

Not to mention she told me who she was dating. One of her leo fling exs she said she never loved how I was the first man she's been in love with... now all of a sudden she did love him before and is kinda in love with him now.... he's just lucky to have her. From what I knew of him he was happy a hot young woman wanted him and I bet he's lied just to get back with her when I left.

I don't know if she's testing my sincerity or having mixed feelings because I'm back. My brother thinks it's feelings(Taurus) my sister (Pisces) thinks I'm on the back burner.... my twin brother(sag) said move on you can bag plenty of chics... go figure...but. I want my Scorpio best friend.and don't know if to fight for her or accept her choice... she's reaching out obviously but it might be out of guilt from lying and avoiding confrontation this last half year. She's never been one to hurt me or argue much. We balance each other...

Seems everyone is telling me to step away.

Ha! I decided to respond to her last text. She said she's deeply sorry for hurting me and don't think she doesn't feel terrible, but she's been deeply hurt and betrayed before so she knows how I'm feeling.

My response...

Did that person ask you to be their friend or are you still friends with who did that to you?

No response lol

Is this a Scorpio thing? She wants me in her life so bad at the moment, I know for a fact we were scary close it was intense. But she's with this new guy ... or is she just trying to wash off some guilt.

I do play along... When I play along she's receptive until I say let's meet up and talk. Then she says it would be awkward. And says she doesn't know when she can see me. The one night I saw her, she avoided eye contact almost the whole time until I started making her laugh... then it started feeling like old times and she got anxious and left. All the pictures and texts came after that.

My older Taurus brother was like she can't switch her relationship off on a dime. My sister is like it was hard to move on for her and she's made up her mind. I think he's a rebound and will do anything she tells him to do. She likes men who stand up to her but aren't stubborn.