How to make a scorpio girl forgive you

I know the first sentence will be 'she won't forgive you' or something. I know scorpio always remember these kind of things but what basically happened is; we ran into a conflict which wasn't really so dangerous it is just that we both had a strong personality and didn't kinda give up the discussion and it ended up with blocking eachother.

Now it has been more than a half year this happened. I sent her flowers two months ago but anoynmous so she doesnt know it was me. I also sent her a text message on new year with happy new year...

I tried call her yesterday but no answer now the question is, should I go knock on her door, should I leave it, is there a chance that she havent even seen the text or call due to that she has blocked my number?

I'm looking for some good advices because I don't wanna give up this yet, not until I get another no then I know for sure... so give me some scorpio mind opinions and advices, what should I do and how.. do you guys forgive someone, what would you appreciate?

Please save the negative comments that I have wrote about this before or something... thanks!

she could forgive you if you keep on being persistent but sending her anonymous flowers isn't helping you if she doesn't know its you. Best way to do anything is to talk about it with her. Letting half a year go by is where u fucked up

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I would just write her a letter to ask if you two could reconnect sometime.

I forgive and forget easily.

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Posted by didntknowwhattonamee
I know the first sentence will be 'she won't forgive you' or something.\

Lol then why do you ask?

Seems like you need to forgive yourself first.

Forgive yourself and apologize to the scorpio sincerely

and hopefully heal and learn

but remember to be kind to yourself.

mistakes are ok.

everything in the end is going to be ok.

You’ve tried a lot of things already. Sorry but it’s not looking good.

Hi again. I really appreciate the kind replies from you guys, it means much to me.

I am still thinking about it which way I should really do it:

a) a call is an easy but risky way because she might not think too much about it and just shut me down or she might just say ok it's okay...but as someone else said,

b) knock on the door - she is very careful with her privacy like she doesn't bring boys to her place and is careful about her reputation as I have understood the picture, it might would be a risk to knock on her door but as the same time, it wouldn't be so easy for her to just shut me down in personal infront of her with for example flowers or something else ?

c) I could write a letter and post it to her adress home because she lives alone and the question is should I write it kinda simple or really write out deep that I really wanna get back with her hanging out and so on... a letter would maybe make her think about it more and then for example write, if you want meet me up here or or there, call me or something?

by the way, I know its very individual and probably hard, but can you tell from what birth chart she has, which way would be a good way to approach this situation?

I wanna get back in contact with her, get to know her again and hangout.

I would also like to know; is it good to be a little bit as a mysterious, or should I reveal some deep feelings like I really liked the time we hangout with eachother and so on, which side would you for example like to see as a scorpio woman?

ty for the answers people.

Did you joke about writing on a paper for hand and burn the sides of the paper because that sounded pretty cool lol but no idea what she would've think of that that I am out of my mind or? and no I know the blood was too much.

Yea I know it will be a trail of period of tests hot/cold and so on, I'm totally fine with it as long as we can get back and have some contact. I was thinking of to write the letter tonight or call her or maybe in the end of week visit her place... I just wanna see some scorp comments and judge what would sound as the best way to go...

I liked the idea about the burned paper on the sides xD but I'm not sure if Im even able to get a dinner because I first need to apology and she is that kind of person who doesn't like to be in public

What about her chart? in first page i sent link

Posted by Caramel_Princess
I would write her up an email and I would get completely honest. As honest as you can be and as clear as you can be. Address things you know matters to her that may not matter to you as much and admit your faults, Scorpios are deep and when you dig deep you’ll reach us. No one that has ever reached out to me all honest and apologetic I’d ever turn back.

If you’ve really hurt her and lost her trust understand that even though she can try to forgive you it doesn’t mean trust is automatically rebuilt so if you put yourself in her shoes you’d see she’s just trying to protect herself from more hurt. Scorpios are extremely sensitive even if resilient.

I don’t know either of you or your history so I’m not sure if it’s possible to get her back, but getting her to forgive you is step number one. Scorpios rule death so you’ll be surprised how much we are willing to go back to what hurt us.

Ask her if she’d like to talk to you on the phone to talk about things and that’s you just trying to make peace and honor her and the past you’ve shared together.

Scorpios arent as spiteful or hateful as others love to paint us, we are actually very loving and very forgiving but you need to be at our level and you can’t withhold your cards if you truly want to win us. Shedding your outer skin is what will make us bow down.

'' I would write her up an email and I would get completely honest. As honest as you can be and as clear as you can be. Address things you know matters to her that may not matter to you as much and admit your faults, Scorpios are deep and when you dig deep you’ll reach us. No one that has ever reached out to me all honest and apologetic I’d ever turn back. ''

'' Scorpios arent as spiteful or hateful as others love to paint us, we are actually very loving and very forgiving but you need to be at our level and you can’t withhold your cards if you truly want to win us. Shedding your outer skin is what will make us bow down.''

I agree 100% ! Best advice!

^Okay but isn't a letter old fashioned dead way ? or do you mean email like "hotmail.com" send an email? Because I don't know her email but I could get her adress and send a letter yes but its just that I, myself would rather have a call / sms than a letter home lol but thats just me because I'm more impatient as person and like face2face situations but whatever, absolutely if that's what it takes to do of course I will do it.

I'm just wondering what do you guys think about receiving a letter home especially you girls reading this and/or scorpios... , thoughts?

and what should it contain, hey im sorry .. short and brief , or a long one with sorry, deep things, I miss when we used to hangout and stuff like that too?

Posted by Impulsv
YOU need to speak from the heart !!!

If she’s not allowing you an audience

Maybe write her that heartfelt apology in a letter or email

Let her read it

Think on it

N respond if she wishes

Now do it with no expectation

Word write a heartfelt letter & mail it. We like that kind of shit.

Isn't writing letters and sending to the door old way and have died out? I mean do people in the 20' age do these things / like that? I'll do it, just curious how the reaction would be.

I see. and if we look at a scorpio girl in her 20's would she still be forgiving? xD

also look on her chart in the first post I posted ,if it might help? ty.

Sorry for double post but this will be the last one I think;

What would you guys like to hear in a letter and what would touch your brain/heart?

Should I keep it simple and just write some sorry letter, or include some beautiful memories we had or so? how deep

Last question please guys ^

Sorry, I didn't read all the thread.....what are you looking for forgiveness for ?

I want to hangout with the girl again, I really wanna start to date her but it feels like she first wants to be friend with someone before going over to that dating part but I'm willing to take both ways whichever fits her better, I simply first just need to get back with her in a peacefully way so we can start to talk again.

now I have recivied some advices from people here and it seems that writing a letter would be the best way... and I was wondering how deep should I write it just like hey I wanna talk with you or more deep stuff that I miss the times we used to hangout and stuff like that?

Say sorry. Be honest.

UPDATE:

I found out that she is selling some books as she is studying and I thougt that I could contact her in that way. Pretend that I should buy a book and show up when we are supposed to meet then talk with her and say that I'm so sorry etc. Would that be creepy or bad? Then I at least get to see her face to face and get a chance to either apology and/or she can say it in my face like don't contact me then I at leat got it figured out and answered how she feels and that there is no chance to fix it?

Posted by didntknowwhattonamee
UPDATE:

I found out that she is selling some books as she is studying and I thougt that I could contact her in that way. Pretend that I should buy a book and show up when we are supposed to meet then talk with her and say that I'm so sorry etc. Would that be creepy or bad? Then I at least get to see her face to face and get a chance to either apology and/or she can say it in my face like don't contact me then I at leat got it figured out and answered how she feels and that there is no chance to fix it?

How did u find this out? You look creepy.

Oh come on it's a famous website for people who wants to sell their book and/or one google away to find it out, she also added her name and all stuff there. what u guys say?

UPDATE:

I found out that she is selling some books as she is studying and I thougt that I could contact her in that way. Pretend that I should buy a book and show up when we are supposed to meet then talk with her and say that I'm so sorry etc. Would that be creepy or bad? Then I at least get to see her face to face and get a chance to either apology and/or she can say it in my face like don't contact me then I at leat got it figured out and answered how she feels and that there is no chance to fix it?

We just had a fight with words, we have both strong personalities and we both were irritated on each other for minor things, just discussing you know and we just simply ended up the contact.

Okay to be honest, there is no reason to lie, I do not remember exactly. We did not have a relationship.

long story short as I have wrote about it before in the thread;

We had something going on between eachother, we did things that she doesn't do with people usually as "friends" and I know something more was going on. She was interested in my family, where I exactly come from etc. I think she saw something future ish between us but she wanted to see how I am first because she is that type of person that wants to be friend with someone before they proceed to next step.

once again; i did not say fuck you or something like that. it was JUST DISCUSSIONS. No personal attacks we just got mad at eachother and it ran out in the sand or how u say it^^

now I've tried to contact her but I've got no answer and I won't stop until I get a no in phone / in my face.

is it creepy if I meet her through that way as I said, pretend that I'm going to buy the book frm her and then when we meet irl I ask for forgiveness and talk to her?

What do you mean? I'm talking about myself I don't know what she remembers but what I can say is that it wasn't something big.we discussed about

But the thing is it has passed over a half year and we haven't spoke since then and I don't think she is planning to call back either, that's my job to do and here I am trying to make it up, at least give me a headup whether it's a yes or no or soemthing, btw, some days ago she met my friend in the club and I was also there but I didn't see her, she saw me from distance but couldn't get to me because I was at backstage where people ain't allowed to come in and apparently she asked my freind like why doesn't he say hi so i think she still kind of maybe wanna holla at me ?