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I am now guilty that I have hurt him and I really want to be with him after all. Technically, high school graduation is next year, meaning if I do not make a move now, I will never see him again, and I have grown rather fond of him (my Scorpio Venus kicks in). I have hurt him in the past because I was playing hard to get and I hated his highly sarcastic and arrogant nature,nseeming that he is the smartest guy in the school. He has won many awards from his academic intelligence. What should I do now before he loses interest. What should I talk to him about? Please help me guys. What if the conversation gets awkward or if he gets really nervous as he always does? I sat next to him for the whole year, but never made a move on him. I really really like him. I never made a move because I am afraid of rejection. Should I be his friend then confess or should I confess now and build up the relationship?
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And I guess you didn't become a rocket scientist, engineer or doctor? Did you really waste your childhood thinking about sex, trolling and boys, rendering a less than useless job now? I am 15 and I am glad that I have a bright future ahead of me since I value studying and the moral of life. I am getting my pilot's license this yearnandnsitting for the aviation exam, also taking advanced mathematics and all advanced subjects in the science and mathematics department. I also used to be a straight A student. I don't have time for trolling since it contributes little to the human society. May as well kill yourself and help other people from stopping the world from spinning. I have much better things to do than trolling like studying and doing volunteer work and charity. But lately, this Scorpio boy who I am truly infatuated with is getting on my mind, and I need advice and help from people. And how can you be sure he is thinking about sex? You can't judge someone by a stereotype. Otherwise, the world could become a terrible mess.
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Posted by 88PISCIS
Oh come on all of you guys. she is 15 years old.
Easy on this girl.

Have some respect and understand the mind of a young girl.
Give her good advice and don't attack her with rude words.

with all my respect
all of you at your age are acting worse than an annoying kid.😉, Grow up everyone! Geez.


For you girl --------> Go have a talk with mom & dad, and don't be asking any weirdos/strangers online.


Ok I'm out before I get killed on this thread... hehe



Word.
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Posted by 88PISCIS
Posted by BlueSandCacoon
Posted by 88PISCIS
Oh come on all of you guys. she is 15 years old.
Easy on this girl.

Have some respect and understand the mind of a young girl.
Give her good advice and don't attack her with rude words.

with all my respect
all of you at your age are acting worse than an annoying kid.😉, Grow up everyone! Geez.


For you girl --------> Go have a talk with mom & dad, and don't be asking any weirdos/strangers online.


Ok I'm out before I get killed on this thread... hehe



Word.





Muchas gracias for the correction. I appreciate it, 🙂
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Didn't really correct anything. Just highlighted the most important part, haha. 😉
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"Gullible" such a big word for a dumb person. Well done, that certainly made my day and your effort shall be commended. Also, my father won't go anywhere near a trashy person like you, inside out. My father is a very good man and he learns from life's mistakes. I look up to him and he is the one of the wisest and smartest man I have ever known and I love him to death. This is believable because he is a pisces. If you want to argue and degrade me, so be it, not bring my father into this topic. I do not qish to argue with such a trashy and low class woman. By the seems of it, you are not preventing trolls in this forum. It seems like you are bored and therefore want to argue with a kid that has a higher emotional matirity than you, even though I had only experienced life for a mere 15 years. You sound like a disgrace to women. I find it hard to believe such trashy and unreasonable could instigate from such delicate and intelligent creatures. Please stop degrading women and giving them a bad name. Also, I am not a troll. I have a bright future ahead and would like to spread my happiness and success in life by doing volunteer at the church or charity work. Trolling is for losers who are indeed very sad in life and they must have had very negative experiences in life, and of course cowards with very low self esteem. Willing to trash threads and annoy the hell out of others and start cyber fights. Why don't they troll the real life just to get the thrill of it, and start fights with gangsters? And if I was really a troll, wouldn't I have a more interesting topic to post? I pity you, because you obviously don't value virginity and threw it away as if it was nothing, and probably because of boredom or being desperate, fear for mever getting 'laid'. With that trashy and dirty attitude of yours, I do not understand how you have got 'laid' in the first place? Probably by trashy men that use you and beat the crap out of you next day or cheat and lie to you.
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*FYI, excuse the grammatical errors, I am typing on my phone. All your useless rants won't change me? You call yourself blunt? Then obviously you do not know me. I am cold, blunt, emotionless and insensitive, but not just to give off a fake trashy impression, but just bwcause I am often very bad with people and unaware of their feelings. I was brought up being bullied and degraded, that I started building walls around my former genuine self. I am a loner for quite a long time and by choice so I do not have much experience with people. I blocked them from my mind and became fixated on my studies.
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Posted by xxnightbynight
Posted by vegansagittarius
Trying to get off topic and escape our previous conversation? Nice try, but your dignity and respect is still gone. Your comebacks aren't even half as valid as mine. So put down your keyboard before you get hurt.



::yawn:: this bores me.



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LOL!!!

I know you're done with this, but I've had enough of her bullshit. I may be an asshole for what I'm about to say, but I feel it needs to be said...
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Posted by vegansagittarius
Trying to get off topic and escape our previous conversation? Nice try, but your dignity and respect is still gone. Your comebacks aren't even half as valid as mine. So put down your keyboard before you get hurt.



Your comebacks aren't valid in the slightest.

You really think you're more mature than xxnight? You're just a stubborn, arrogant, ignorant child. The parts about xxnight being a stripper/on drugs? She was fucking with you. An intelligent, mature person would be able to see that, but you did not and decided to insult her with a massive block of text. That's immaturity at its finest.

The fact that you're a virgin at 15 means nothing. It's not an achievement, and it doesn't make you "classy" by any stretch.

You try to validate yourself on an internet forum by going on and on about how you're going to "spread my happiness and success in life by doing volunteer at the church or charity work." Words are wind, and text on the internet is even less. Don't try to back up your statements either, because there's no way to prove them so it's not even worth mentioning.

As for your situation with the Scorpio guy, my advice remains the same; leave him alone. You're not right for each other and drawing this bullshit out will only hurt the both of you.

Being the stubborn, arrogant, ignorant child that you are, however, you won't listen to me. You're going to continue doing whatever you want, and one day soon karma is going to come right around and bite you HARD for all the pain you've caused that poor Scorpio. You'll hurt, badly, possibly from something he says or does, and you'll deserve every bit of it.

I've known plenty of girls like you; you think your "purity" and virginity make you special, and you'll hold on to that delusion for as long as possible until you find the guy who finally breaks through your self-imposed barriers and gets your panties wet. You'll put him through a gauntlet of tests and bullshit games, torturing the poor bastard into proving his devotion while offering no such demonstrations in return. Then you'll give in and fuck him because you think you're in love, and once the tension is gone he'll see you for who you really are and the relationship will fall apart. It's happened millions of times before and I won't be the least bit surprised when it happens to you.
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After the pain subsides you'll have a choice; either, to learn from your mistakes and grow up, or let the pain control you and blame everything on men in general. The mature choice should be obvious, but when you're feeling that pain it won't be such an easy decision to make.

Honestly, I really didn't want to say all of this. I know that if you're willing to step back, swallow your pride, and honestly critique your own beliefs and presumptions you could grow into a fine young woman. The fact that you seem (and I say seem because you can't possibly back up your statements in a way I'll respect or believe) to value hard work and education is admirable enough, though your reasons for dedicating yourself to them (hiding from the rejection of your peers by burying yourself in books/homework) are not.

But seeing as you decided to start bashing my friend so extravagantly, I feel no remorse. You've made it clear that you have no regard for other people's feelings, xxnight's or your Scorpio's, and that makes you a trashy low-class bitch.

Good luck with your life. You're gonna need it.
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And if you are so reasonable as you claim, how would you feel if someone was degarding your father when he wasn't the slightest involved? The Aries's comment was so immature, invalid and trashy than even a 10 year old could envy. Anyway, how is it any of ypur buisiness if I am hurting this guy? You are not my mu, dad or any of our relatives so I do not need to listen to your pathetic lecture and I do not need your concern or pity or neither will ypu change me as a matter of fact. Life is about decisions ypu make, not by some loser on the internet. You are not snart, philosophical or intelligent as Steve Jobs or Albert Einstein or Isaac Newton. You are just going with the flow and helping aid her trashy reasons. What is your occupation by the way? A scientist, engineer or philosopher? With that sort of atritude and values of yours, I could not agree any less. Just because the Aries's reasoning was trashy and needed pitying, you helped him/her. You are not here to heelp me or prevent trolling either. Also this forum is for advice not lectures from dumb and inexperienced people. Reasonings about wanton sexual activity and bragging about meat are valid rwasons, right? Yeah, so totally . I ca. I can see you as being one of the most retarded attorney in the future. That was also very mature of you. And if you happen to lose agaibst me with all of you 3 losers, then you are a total disgrace to humanity. It was also very mature of you to hijack this thread about bullshit Halloween. And you assume men only want women for sex baaed on movies and stereotype? Then your life must be very sad indeed. Please don't give men a bad name. How are men supposed to respect us if we all act lke the Aries? She could not fend for herself andthink only ab only does she spund like one of those women who lose their virginity just for attention or crap reputation no one respecta. I highly pity these people. Please, you are just making her look more rdiculous. Also, the Scorpio does not want to have sex with me and neither will he want me for sex. Are you implying all men are sex starved species that crave only about sex?
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Posted by vegansagittarius
How is bragging at bout sex and meat mature and valid??



LOL. Where did anyone brag about sex and meat? xD xD xD

You've never once responded to anything I actually said, just ramble on about "trashy" "classy" "immature" blah blah blah.

You posted this thread, so you opened yourself up to everyone's advice and judgement. You got what you asked for, it just wasn't what you wanted and now you're defensive.

You keep deluding yourself about this Scorpio guy not wanting sex and you try to put words in my mouth making sweeping generalizations that all men are sex starved and crave and think about only sex. Your ignorance in this is truly spectacular.

*roflcopter*

@thebigcarlos611:

She doesn't have a boyfriend, she has a tool she keeps fucking with and hurting for her own entertainment. I'm not being too hard on her; she needs a slap in the face, but this is the internet so a good verbal thrashing is all we can give.
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Posted by vegansagittarius
And if you are so reasonable as you claim, how would you feel if someone was degarding your father when he wasn't the slightest involved? The Aries's comment was so immature, invalid and trashy than even a 10 year old could envy. Anyway, how is it any of ypur buisiness if I am hurting this guy? You are not my mu, dad or any of our relatives so I do not need to listen to your pathetic lecture and I do not need your concern or pity or neither will ypu change me as a matter of fact. Life is about decisions ypu make, not by some loser on the internet. You are not snart, philosophical or intelligent as Steve Jobs or Albert Einstein or Isaac Newton. You are just going with the flow and helping aid her trashy reasons. What is your occupation by the way? A scientist, engineer or philosopher? With that sort of atritude and values of yours, I could not agree any less. Just because the Aries's reasoning was trashy and needed pitying, you helped him/her. You are not here to heelp me or prevent trolling either. Also this forum is for advice not lectures from dumb and inexperienced people. Reasonings about wanton sexual activity and bragging about meat are valid rwasons, right? Yeah, so totally . I ca. I can see you as being one of the most retarded attorney in the future. That was also very mature of you. And if you happen to lose agaibst me with all of you 3 losers, then you are a total disgrace to humanity. It was also very mature of you to hijack this thread about bullshit Halloween. And you assume men only want women for sex baaed on movies and stereotype? Then your life must be very sad indeed. Please don't give men a bad name. How are men supposed to respect us if we all act lke the Aries? She could not fend for herself andthink only ab only does she spund like one of those women who lose their virginity just for attention or crap reputation no one respecta. I highly pity these people. Please, you are just making her look more rdiculous. Also, the Scorpio does not want to have sex with me and neither will he want me for sex. Are you implying all men are sex starved species that crave only about sex?


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And as for the almighty wise Zenbear, I do not need your advice, old man.
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haha. 15 year old girl goes on forum for relationship advice.

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Doesn't like advice given by older wiser members.

Ends up attacking everyone.

You know, i had a theory that behind the values of all the signs of the zodiac, there is a hidden weakness. Scorpios crave power because they fear the feeling of not being in control, Leos crave admiration because they fear loneliness, something like that, ect., ect...

I feel like some Sagittarius women refrain from sexual behavior so that they can come down on other women with the "slut" card and establish this moral high ground where they feel superior to others.

Secondly, for the sign that supposedly pursues academic achievement, you have a disgusting amount of grammatical errors. I'll let it slide though because it seems like you lost your temper.
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Posted by 88PISCIS
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Come on guys. Does no one here remember being fifteen? I can't think of anyone I personally know who wasn't a feisty spitfire at some point that age. A lot of us are still firstly spitfires! Lol. 😛



I said the same thing. she is only 15,
& now that I think about I was fiesty too. lol/ I dont know how she is but If If someone was attacking me at that age, I would respond back just like her and then go cry. COME ON EVERYONE act like grown ups.

you all adults cant compare / you are emotionally stable probably more than her & should set an example in not lashing out with harsh words.

By the way, I am a mom of a 16 & 14 year old leo girls. I try to communicate with them as much as I can so they dont come to places like these and ask advice from a bunch of morons.. NOT THAT I am telling you guys this... so dont missunderstand me.

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she's actually more stable than alot of us....present company not included 😉
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Posted by DMV
Posted by lnana04
This is probably where it all begins for how Scorps, or men in general, view women, and how Sags, or women in general, learn to play the game.

Yes, they are both only 15, but I wonder how long both will carry this experience?



i think we're giving them way too much credit. 🙂
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Maybe so, maybe not.

I didnt date back in high school, but there are still some things from high school and even junior high that has stuck with me, or that I still clearly remember.

He can start to carry in the back of his mind how girls are about toying with emotions.

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The typing errors are resulted from my phone, a samsubg galaxy y and the keyboard letters are really small. They aren't grammatucal errors and they don't seem like one. I mean, how is "raant" grammatical? It seem more like a typo. Mores over, English is not my native language and I was not born in Australia. I am way better in mathematics and science though. I am learning matrices, vectors and advanced calculus now.
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@the dragon avatar: typing on a small phone keyboard with chubby fingers. And most people that are not good at English does not mean they will be shit at maths and science too. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, like a high school English teacher may not know the maths we are taught or a maths teacher knows how to write an essay. Just by assuming one's English is horrible and judged to be bad at everything, that alone is very shallow indeed. This is the reason why I lose more faith in humanity. And what are you? An English teacher? An English teacher doesn't even know what a typo is?! Wow, how incredibly intelligent!!!
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@the people: Thanks a lot for helping me 🙂 It is good to see some people in the world that aee compassionate and mature out there and help me regain more faith in humanity. It's ok, it'a a good thing I am insensitive, and if they come to my thread to bash me in hopes of hoping a teen commits suicide over stupid inexperienced and childish strangers, they have come to the wrong place 😄
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*better. Stupid keyboard and fat fingers? @dragon: Are you stupid enough not to see the typo? How is "wile" and "whilee" different? One is a spelling error and one is a typo. Trying to play grammar nazi? Go on a literacy forum and try to write an essay - I bet all the English teachers will criticize you there. Typing your thoughts is just a bareboned section of your true literacy skills, that is why there are separate grammar, spelling, reading and writing sections in an English test. A.d @ Zenbear? The Aries knows I am a vegan here and she is making childish comments such as "oh yum, a hamburger", etc. You find that mature? That just makes me lose even more faith in humanity.
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@Picis: Yes, he is quite mean to other girls and ignores them when they talk or flirt with him. He also makes sarcastic and rude comments at them. I have never seen him talk or flirt with other girls, especially staring. And for that, I played hard to get because I hate his overly mocking and sarcastic nature, though he never saida single word about me no matter how maby times I hurt him, and he always comes back and gives me more chances anyway 😄 He has only flirted with me once before I jad hurt him. Ge called me a naughty girl was I was making a joke about my Korean culture and he said that with a sardonic tone and smirk. I blushed of course in the manner he said that then he tried to sit next to me and make a conversation, but I thought he was coming on too hard. He never ate meat in front of me. This is unusuql because hisfriends told me he never flirts or go up to girls andwas 3 years ago. His friends also call me "My name and his last name" and one of them told me he likes me and the other told me he likes me too and has told them. However, do you think he still remmbers the day he had first flirted and tried to make conversation with me?ry and make conversation, but that is
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No, that isn't weird. You're just one of those quality women we hardly ever find in the world. Men truly admire women like you and as do some women. Don't worry, I am kind of a nerd too, but hey, there is nothing wrong with that! Nerds are what makes society work today, and if it wasn't for them, we wouldn't advance further in medicine and technology. You seem like a very intelligent and reasonable person. I like Pisces. My father is one and so are some of my friends and my favorite classical composer, Chopin. I'll take your advice, you seem really successful in life, unlike those immature and conceited losers. It is these sort of women that find good men that doesn't cheat and lie. 18 is a modest age for dating, to be honest. Seems like you were raised in a good environment and some very good parents 🙂 The thingis by the time I am over 18, I'll never see him again because like I said, we are graduating next year from high school.