I love this scorpio guy but dont know if he does...

Why to prolong agony? Just tell him. Get rejected. Move on...case closed.

By ‘wondering’ you just hurting yourself and maybe him.

And please do not make my mistake. Waiting for 5 years for ‘the talk’ because Scorpio wasn’t sure how to say it. Lol

Actually it’s not funny! Good lick!

Posted by Impulsv

He probably hurt too

Courage he is not the others n better to find out than pass up a great lover. If he does t reciprocate is not because your a loser

Is not that personal

The problem is not about rejection. As I mentioned even before I had case of one sided love.

I m cancerian ... And seeing myself this vulnarable affects me. I thought like... Let universe take this in hand.. If its meant to it will happen but I wont take any step first. I scared.... I m really vulnarable and either way I will be getting hurt. I know I can sense that even he might upset with my behaviour but was wondering if he will move on without giving it a chance. I really wish if he could understand by himself that I've fallen for him and then show me signs weather to stay or move on.... I really wish..!

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Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Impulsv

He probably hurt too

Courage he is not the others n better to find out than pass up a great lover. If he does t reciprocate is not because your a loser

Is not that personal

The problem is not about rejection. As I mentioned even before I had case of one sided love.

I m cancerian ... And seeing myself this vulnarable affects me. I thought like... Let universe take this in hand.. If its meant to it will happen but I wont take any step first. I scared.... I m really vulnarable and either way I will be getting hurt. I know I can sense that even he might upset with my behaviour but was wondering if he will move on without giving it a chance. I really wish if he could understand by himself that I've fallen for him and then show me signs weather to stay or move on.... I really wish..!

He might not make a move

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Yep I know that.. But he will put me out of his life with my such behaviour right?

Maybe something to do, if you feel that you can't handle the emotions at this time, is to contact him and tell him that you're sorry that you've been out of touch, but you're going through something right now and it's hard to communicate at this time.

It's honest, without any details that you're not ready to share.

That does some damage control, at least, so he won't think you've totally snubbed him. If he asks questions about what you're going through, you can decide whether you feel brave enough to open up at that point, or you can tell him you're not able to talk about it at this time, and thank him for his caring.

I know how hard it can be. I've opened up about my feelings like you have in the past and one time I was rejected at first (the person only wanted a friendship with me), then later they changed their mind. Another time I was rejected and it hurt at first but I recovered. But, I don't like being in that position, even though I have experience with it and I've always in one way or another told people how I felt about them. It's rough to be in the limbo zone, not knowing how the other person feels.

Ideally you'll tell him one day, of course, I'm just offering an in between thing you can do so the relationship isn't totally damaged by your avoidance of him.

If you not going to tell him - he won’t know. You won’t know. What’s the point of this post then?

Just keep silent. Suffer. There is going to be another guy you won’t tell...it’s just messed up!

Posted by CopperDove

Maybe something to do, if you feel that you can't handle the emotions at this time, is to contact him and tell him that you're sorry that you've been out of touch, but you're going through something right now and it's hard to communicate at this time.

It's honest, without any details that you're not ready to share.

That does some damage control, at least, so he won't think you've totally snubbed him. If he asks questions about what you're going through, you can decide whether you feel brave enough to open up at that point, or you can tell him you're not able to talk about it at this time, and thank him for his caring.

I know how hard it can be. I've opened up about my feelings like you have in the past and one time I was rejected at first (the person only wanted a friendship with me), then later they changed their mind. Another time I was rejected and it hurt at first but I recovered. But, I don't like being in that position, even though I have experience with it and I've always in one way or another told people how I felt about them. It's rough to be in the limbo zone, not knowing how the other person feels.

Ideally you'll tell him one day, of course, I'm just offering an in between thing you can do so the relationship isn't totally damaged by your avoidance of him.

Heyy.. Thankssss! This really something better... Why thus didnt came up to my mind....

Also if I even tell this way and give indirect hints maybe he will understand by himself... And rest will come up with a flow... So yes right ...

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by CopperDove

Maybe something to do, if you feel that you can't handle the emotions at this time, is to contact him and tell him that you're sorry that you've been out of touch, but you're going through something right now and it's hard to communicate at this time.

It's honest, without any details that you're not ready to share.

That does some damage control, at least, so he won't think you've totally snubbed him. If he asks questions about what you're going through, you can decide whether you feel brave enough to open up at that point, or you can tell him you're not able to talk about it at this time, and thank him for his caring.

I know how hard it can be. I've opened up about my feelings like you have in the past and one time I was rejected at first (the person only wanted a friendship with me), then later they changed their mind. Another time I was rejected and it hurt at first but I recovered. But, I don't like being in that position, even though I have experience with it and I've always in one way or another told people how I felt about them. It's rough to be in the limbo zone, not knowing how the other person feels.

Ideally you'll tell him one day, of course, I'm just offering an in between thing you can do so the relationship isn't totally damaged by your avoidance of him.

Heyy.. Thankssss! This really something better... Why thus didnt came up to my mind....

Also if I even tell this way and give indirect hints maybe he will understand by himself... And rest will come up with a flow... So yes right ...

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You're welcome! Yes, sometimes things have to happen in stages so it's easier to process it all emotionally and open the door for more clear communication. Hopefully one day you'll have a really clear talk with him about it somehow, but this is a good first step to make sure that he knows that you care, at least (by telling him sorry you've been out of touch). You might feel a bit better and braver after that.

@Itssumu91

Seems like the issue is more like you loving people and them not returning it. I would wait this one out and say nothing. You've already got mixed signals from 2 others and thought it was love, and it wasn't. Just keep doing the friendly route and see where it gets you. This is a great alternative.

When Scorpios love you, they show you and want to be around you. They keep tabs on you, they keep their hands on you as well 😛 Scorpios don't have intimacy issues, so you will know.

Taking things a little more cautiously seems like a great route for you, you will learn how to be a little more patient and not mis-read the signs. You will also know whether you have a great friend or partner as you move along and continue enjoying his time.

Date in the mean time though, you guys are just friends, so date around.