I may have hurt a scorpio (Page 3)

Posted by LilliLou
So... your post on your virgo husband was from a long time ago and you are now divorced?

Just so we are all clear as mud.

she posted that Oct 2013 but was fucking the Scorp in Feb 2014. Which was 8 months after she bolted.

No 8 months after HE bolted when she told him about her feelings.

CC cracks me up.

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Posted by LilliLou
So... your post on your virgo husband was from a long time ago and you are now divorced?

Just so we are all clear as mud.

she posted that Oct 2013 but was fucking the Scorp in Feb 2014. Which was 8 months after she bolted.

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Guess everyone missed the part of that post where it says DIVORCE. my marriage was over before I even knew the scorp. Smh.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
people never want what they ask for!

Posted by Damnata
LOL @ she's not a damnata

And @ not a Melly.

I'm dealing with my own bout of emotional high maintenance and reading this thread going 'Fuuuuuuuucccckkkkk' in my head.

Well.. I put it all out there. He won't talk to me. So, I guess I move on. Lessons learned.

Thank you everyone.

PS - I want what I ask for.

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Posted by nov13thscorp
pffft...freaking virgo chicks and their mouths...smh that was some deep shit he said to u, from the heart... and u questioned it?? u say he always has a wall up, he FINALLY opens up and u questioned him??!! He must feel so stupid/embarrassed among other things...dont be shocked if u dont hear from him for months....I dont care if "I" was in love with u, I would avoid at all costs for MONTHS, this poor guys' confidence/ego is freakin crushed.....good luck with that

thats a little bit dramatic.... maybe she wanted him to open up when it was a bit more appropiate. How can you have a conversation about how you feel during sex, well you cant really.

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lil bit Dramatic= scorpio man

Posted by basari
@ 2:00. Important life lesson people.

Posted by Herself
I'm not sure why someone would say those things in the bedroom and not outside the bedroom. Ugh

...um...because they are very private sentiments to him.

what's your update OP?!

Posted by bloodflood
what's your update OP?!

He's silent. I expect it to stay that way indefinitely.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Did you offer a sincere apology for basically making this guy seem like a prick for expressing his emotions to you during love making?

OR did you do what many of the Scorps thought you would do which is nit pick this thing into oblivion? And then be so offended by what you OVERANALYZED that you got pissed and stopped giving a shit?

A sincere apology, which is truly how I felt. I can only assume it meant little/nothing at this point. So, nowhere to go from here with him. I did what I could do.

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Posted by IrresistableScorp
Did you offer a sincere apology for basically making this guy seem like a prick for expressing his emotions to you during love making?

OR did you do what many of the Scorps thought you would do which is nit pick this thing into oblivion? And then be so offended by what you OVERANALYZED that you got pissed and stopped giving a shit?

A sincere apology, which is truly how I felt. I can only assume it meant little/nothing at this point. So, nowhere to go from here with him. I did what I could do.

Okay. How did you truly feel about it? You said your apology was how you truly felt about it--if you don't mind me asking: how did you truly feel about it?

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Haha... I'll spare you the mushy details. Just spoke from my heart.

i'm a virgo and a scorp rising like you (dunno if that matters) but i just had something eerily similar to your situation with a scorp man.. said something involving sex.. he got offended or "annoyed" as he stated... i gave him a day to cool down and apologized the next day. so sensitive... even though like you i didnt think what i said was insensitive... maybe if it has anything to do with sex, we should be careful haha

Posted by Impulsv
Sorry to hear. Give him time to process as well. How long has it been?if we are hurt we will
Retreat for a bit

It's been a few weeks. Honestly, I don't mind if he had to retreat. I do it myself sometimes. Need my alone time. If that's what it is, then he should say so. Say "give me some time" or something.

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Posted by Impulsv
Sorry to hear. Give him time to process as well. How long has it been?if we are hurt we will
Retreat for a bit

The point is, did you really understand where the hurt was coming from? I'm only saying that because sometimes you have to intuit the correct emotion. If its early on, not correctly intuiting why may get you sidelined. Just a thought.

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No idea. I can only guess..