@N_leo
8 Years
I wish anyone can explain ..
Understanding Scorpio Breakup Behavior
Scorpios may withdraw suddenly when feeling hurt or overwhelmed, often to protect themselves emotionally. Their need for control and intense emotions can lead to coldness or silence during conflicts. Recognizing their desire for privacy and emotional depth can help in understanding their actions after a breakup. Patience and open communication are key to resolving misunderstandings with Scorpios.
You've posted here before and you were with a man who treated you like shit and you allowed it and stayed with him.
I'm really not trying to undermine your feelings but it really sounds like you are better off without him. Work on your self esteem and self confidence and find someone who treats you like a queen.
He probably doesn’t like something about you. It sounds cold. But it’s just blunt. Everyone that does the breaking up has a reason. Do you know what that is?
Thats the thing he wouldnt wanna break up ... he states over and over that he loves me and that he thinks i’m relationship goals ... but at the moment he doesnt wanna commet and that he doesnt feel strongly about it the way he did ... that is so contradicted!! I dont understand why he doenst wanna break up nor fix this ....
He probably doesn’t like something about you. It sounds cold. But it’s just blunt. Everyone that does the breaking up has a reason. Do you know what that is?
He is the same guy ... i just saw so much potential.. he passed all situations and thus i had so much faith in this ... but yeah i’m ... i talked to him yesterday and been so calm .. all he said was i love u and u r goals but i dont feel i can commit right now thats why i want us to be close and see how things go .. i told him .. I appreciate your honesty and i cant force anything u know how i feel about you but i also care about myself and i know that i cant adapt with being with someone who i cant fully consider mine especially there was feeeling involved ... so i choose to leave ... and you whenever one day u make up ur mind u know how to find me .. and if its meant to be it’ll be if it doesnt then we are already detachedz
You've posted here before and you were with a man who treated you like shit and you allowed it and stayed with him.
I'm really not trying to undermine your feelings but it really sounds like you are better off without him. Work on your self esteem and self confidence and find someone who treats you like a queen.
I’m not american/british so i’m not familiar with the slangs ... what do u mean by “treat you like butter” ? ...
One question. Is it true that he treated you like shit? Very important.
Be honest.
He is the same guy ... i just saw so much potential.. he passed all situations and thus i had so much faith in this ... but yeah i’m ... i talked to him yesterday and been so calm .. all he said was i love u and u r goals but i dont feel i can commit right now thats why i want us to be close and see how things go .. i told him .. I appreciate your honesty and i cant force anything u know how i feel about you but i also care about myself and i know that i cant adapt with being with someone who i cant fully consider mine especially there was feeeling involved ... so i choose to leave ... and you whenever one day u make up ur mind u know how to find me .. and if its meant to be it’ll be if it doesnt then we are already detachedz
You've posted here before and you were with a man who treated you like shit and you allowed it and stayed with him.
I'm really not trying to undermine your feelings but it really sounds like you are better off without him. Work on your self esteem and self confidence and find someone who treats you like a queen.
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So in other words h's pretty much saying exactly what you need to hear. He doesn't want a relationship. Just wants to eat the cake but no prep work so to speak. Let him go, every man has potential so spend it on someone who will make the same effort that you are. Yes breakups suck monkey butt, but you will move forward and find someone who matches you. Don't sit in limbo and wonder, take the control back in your hands instead of leaving it in his. This is YOUR life to live, make it count and matter don't waist it on people who make you feel so low.
Was he mistreating you?
Thats the thing he wouldnt wanna break up ... he states over and over that he loves me and that he thinks i’m relationship goals ... but at the moment he doesnt wanna commet and that he doesnt feel strongly about it the way he did ... that is so contradicted!! I dont understand why he doenst wanna break up nor fix this ....
He probably doesn’t like something about you. It sounds cold. But it’s just blunt. Everyone that does the breaking up has a reason. Do you know what that is?
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It’s because he is fucking Scorpio!
And if you lucky to have one - step back and wait. Don’t het on his nerves with questions. Just follow his lead and use your brain!
Find something to do. District yourself from anxiety about him.
I’ll tell you more...later
Http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-Scorpio-bastardi
Thats the thing he wouldnt wanna break up ... he states over and over that he loves me and that he thinks i’m relationship goals ... but at the moment he doesnt wanna commet and that he doesnt feel strongly about it the way he did ... that is so contradicted!! I dont understand why he doenst wanna break up nor fix this ....
He probably doesn’t like something about you. It sounds cold. But it’s just blunt. Everyone that does the breaking up has a reason. Do you know what that is?
It’s because he is fucking Scorpio!
And if you lucky to have one - step back and wait. Don’t het on his nerves with questions. Just follow his lead and use your brain!
Find something to do. District yourself from anxiety about him.
I’ll tell you more...later
Http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-Scorpio-bastardi
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It's over her brain is his now.
I am born on the 22nd. But a woman.
If I ever did anything like this, and I hope to god I don't, 'cause it's super cruel!!! But if I did or do, it would be because I wanted you to stick around while I was figuring out what I wanted, basically pretty much what he is telling you. And it would also mean something was missing between you and I, but I wanted you to stick around to cater to my ego and as a security blanket. #realtalk.
Thats the thing he wouldnt wanna break up ... he states over and over that he loves me and that he thinks i’m relationship goals ... but at the moment he doesnt wanna commet and that he doesnt feel strongly about it the way he did ... that is so contradicted!! I dont understand why he doenst wanna break up nor fix this ....
He probably doesn’t like something about you. It sounds cold. But it’s just blunt. Everyone that does the breaking up has a reason. Do you know what that is?
It’s because he is fucking Scorpio!
And if you lucky to have one - step back and wait. Don’t het on his nerves with questions. Just follow his lead and use your brain!
Find something to do. District yourself from anxiety about him.
I’ll tell you more...later
Http://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-Scorpio-bastardi
It's over her brain is his now.
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I am feeling bad. But he isn’t dumping you so...shut up. Right? If you love him so much...it’s hard. But you have yourself in it! Urghhhh
he asked for a break??
this guy doesn't want you that much. if he found someone else that fits his way and he loves too much,
he would leave you, and fade away.
i'm being honest from what you wrote. I honestly dont like those types that will say, "I need a break"
it will honestly piss me off and i will hate him.
he asked for a break??
this guy doesn't want you that much. if he found someone else that fits his way and he loves too much,
he would leave you, and fade away.
i'm being honest from what you wrote. I honestly dont like those types that will say, "I need a break"
it will honestly piss me off and i will hate him.
True for any sign BUT Scorpio!
He asked for a break...that’s a good sign! He needs ‘me’ time...
For the reason he isn’t able to explain! He is wired this way!
The best advise I’ve ever got was ‘stand by’...I’ll add...if you can afford it! Timewise!
With Scorpios - if you can’t stand it - get out! Or put up and shut up!
You can beat your head against the wall! He will be what he is! You have a choice. Complaining isn’t going to make it any better. Nor it’s going to change anything. You love them to death or they lead you into walking...
It’s your choice! Make it.
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I’m writing here .. because .. i broke up or been left not sure by a scorpio with no explanation.. im hurt and i cant understand how someone expresses love every single day can turn his back to you in the coldest way ever in just one hard situation... and i know i haven’t been anythjng but supportive and good to him ... and he admits it .. but wouldnt wanna talk and just asks me to be patient and its been 2 months now without anything to understand total lost ... am very hurt and stressed and facing anxiety... because at first i didnt want to go in a relationship because of my previous hurtful experience ... and he knew that but kept begging for a chance .. and he was the perfect lover !! ... he was a dream coming true ... but then he got a bittttt colder so i was kind of suspicious... and asked questions but thought its okay since he does that to me ... except he got annoyed and asked for a break ... which made him more distant and cold till she got veryyyy distant and changed completely!!! He is crewel and harsh ... and wouldnt give any explanation or talk about us no matter how much time i give him .... i dont understandddddd and i feel am so torn .... and lost .... if only i know why i wouldve been better ..... but he is abusing my feelings !.
Please please scorpions 21st of november ... if u have anyyyyy explanation to this help !!! <\3 cuz its getting me crazy and i cant stop myself from feeeling anxious <\3