
and still she hasn't returned to this thread. FAIL!


Posted by everevolvingepithet
Just type 'want bitty' into youtube, if anyone's interested, haha.

Posted by ThePixilator
So...I am making a huge decision with my husband, basically the idea of divorce. Among other problems, one of our biggest problems is his relationship with his mom (btw, we're both Scorps). He has a very inappropriate relatioinship with her, a sexual relationship, of sorts, to be more specific. I can never feel comfortable when they hang out alone, with his own mother, it seems so wrong. I also get jealous everytime they talk on the phone. I'm seriously thinking about getting a divorce because I feel second in my husbands life in comparison to his mom. I also can't get over the idea of them doing things together, it's deeply disturbing to me and is stuck in my head anytime we do something intimate. What makes it worse is that he refuses to cut his mom off. I understand it is his mom, but, at the same time, it's not normal to have that kind of relationship with your mother.
What would you do in my situation? I feel like I'm not explaining the situation very well, for I'm pretty sick and can't think too clearly. I just want advice as to what i should do. At this point, I feel like breaking off my marriage is the best decision I could make, but I'm not sure and would like either reassurance or better advice.
Ugh, sorry if this is porrly written or doesn't give enough information.
Posted by AutumnalChick
Oh my Jesus.
Honey? Therapy. Stat.
He has got to make a choice, his wife or his mom, and someone (not you, but a professional who is not emotionally attached to the situation) needs to help him understand how very, very unhealthy and dysfunctional that is.
I really think that unless he is willing to go see a counselor with you, you might as well call a lawyer now.



Posted by P-Angel
Of course we all know this is a story, right?
She's jealous of the attention he gives his mother, which seems to afflict a lot of women because for some reason they think that their man's mother isn't suppose to get attention. Or, it could be a sister.
This jealousy has lowered this woman to this fabrication. Because she cannot stand herself, as this jealousy rages through her being in just thinking that her man loves another woman other than her ... eventhough love for mother is entirely different. Doesn't matter.
Thus ... meet the Scorpio, who suffers themselves, at all costs.
And we know this is a story because we know that Scorpios are also extremely intuitive, and utterly controlling of their partners lives ... which means there's no way that this Scorpio did NOT know about this, if it was actually in place. If this were true that he and mother had this relationship for quite some time now, then a Scorpio would recognize something was amiss from day one.
When a person uses more than two brain cells ... the truth becomes obvious = this Scorpio is so jealous that her man would give his mother attention, that she would fabricate a story to defame his character = because she simply cannot handle that she suffers herself, and so has to put this burden onto him to carry.



Posted by ScorpioLand
I didn't read anything sick or inappropriate.
So, the mom was nude in bed with her son. That could be ... beautiful.
I want to do a psychological study on them sooo bad.

Posted by P-Angel
I bet you love getting bitty, don't you?



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