
PhoenixRising
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Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by TheLadyScorpio
How strange, when men do not get what they want from us Stinger women.
We are then somehow villainized.
They declare us as evil beings, who have only brought wrath and sorrow into their lives.
Just because we did not give them what they want, just because we did not succumb to their manipulations, just because we could actually think for ourselves.
We are declared - delusional, insane, cold, manipulative, deceiving etc. Even when we have clearly stated our stance and reinforced it as well....
Perspective is such a cruel fickle mistress.
The ego is a fragile beast.
There may or may not be some truth to the negative description depending on the person involved. Problem is no one is objective. We are simply not built to be anything but subjective. Perspective is filtered through feelings and any meaning we've attached to our experiences.
When someone starts off any reflection of "what went wrong" focusing on the other person I already know the ego is at play. At the end of the day it doesn't matter why he/she did whatever they did because we have no control over that person choosing to change that behaviour. So why write pages and pages of whatever "wrong" they did? If one really wants to know what went wrong in an effort to make a change, focus on yourself. What you could have done differently---and let's be real there is always something that you could have done differently. You didn't. Figure out why.
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Posted by stopbeingdelusionalPosted by aNEWdayNow I know why I have been so grumpy.
I snapped at my 60 year old coworker today. Basically could be my parent. And he's a Pisces male. (I've concluded I don't like Pisces men. I liked them when I was young and they were young and naive lol. Sweet young boys lol)
Anywayyy I did this in front of my team and couldn't stop myself!! Eye rolling and everything after! He's getting under my skin and I couldn't take it anymore.
Checked the Scorpio horoscope after and for today and tommorw it's basically saying be careful of extreme comments that will be difficult to retract.
Ughhh
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Posted by stopbeingdelusionalSo t know if it's ok, but it's kinda funny lol
Is it abnormal that I send nasty emails to my exes and then block them right afterwards so that they don't get a chance to talk back... just because I feel their energy and I hate it??

Posted by exo
i had the hard realization this year that sometimes it's necessary and okay to step backwards in order to successfully move forward. to clear up and close the loose ends, and finish the book.
maybe it's my capness that hates backtracking and rehashing old memories/experiences, but someone from my past keeps attempting to move into my present. and now i need to finally address it.
to be continued...

Posted by TheLadyScorpio+++
How strange, when men do not get what they want from us Stinger women.
We are then somehow villainized.
They declare us as evil beings, who have only brought wrath and sorrow into their lives.
Just because we did not give them what they want, just because we did not succumb to their manipulations, just because we could actually think for ourselves.
We are declared - delusional, insane, cold, manipulative, deceiving etc. Even when we have clearly stated our stance and reinforced it as well.
The recent threads had me flipping through the pages of my past in my mind, this trend seems to occur over and over again.
Perspective is such a cruel fickle mistress.
How glad am I to be with my decent and stable Virgent, no more insanity in my life.

Posted by exoAll 2016.
i had the hard realization this year that sometimes it's necessary and okay to step backwards in order to successfully move forward. to clear up and close the loose ends, and finish the book.
maybe it's my capness that hates backtracking and rehashing old memories/experiences, but someone from my past keeps attempting to move into my present. and now i need to finally address it.
to be continued...

Posted by exo
i had the hard realization this year that sometimes it's necessary and okay to step backwards in order to successfully move forward. to clear up and close the loose ends, and finish the book.
maybe it's my capness that hates backtracking and rehashing old memories/experiences, but someone from my past keeps attempting to move into my present. and now i need to finally address it.
to be continued...


Posted by PeanutButterandEllyAgreed.
WHAT THE FUCK 2016.
Make.
It.
Stop.


Posted by aNEWdayPosted by TheLadyScorpio+++
How strange, when men do not get what they want from us Stinger women.
We are then somehow villainized.
They declare us as evil beings, who have only brought wrath and sorrow into their lives.
Just because we did not give them what they want, just because we did not succumb to their manipulations, just because we could actually think for ourselves.
We are declared - delusional, insane, cold, manipulative, deceiving etc. Even when we have clearly stated our stance and reinforced it as well.
The recent threads had me flipping through the pages of my past in my mind, this trend seems to occur over and over again.
Perspective is such a cruel fickle mistress.
How glad am I to be with my decent and stable Virgent, no more insanity in my life.
How dare we see what you are up to and make a run for the exit.
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Posted by PhoenixRisingHaha, I'm a nut.
Any Given Wednesday.....
Sun: *I can't wait to create a private world just for us*
Moon: *Why isn't he talking?...He told me this story already....I'm bored....is he getting a grey hair?...Huh, is he still telling that story?*
Mercury: *Why did he say it like that....What is he hiding?...Why is he smiling? What is he hiding!?*
Venus: *Tomorrow? Slow your roll pa'tna. Let's just enjoy breakfast. Geeze*
Mars: *I like the colour of his tie. That will be perfect for later*



Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by aNEWdayPosted by TheLadyScorpio+++
How strange, when men do not get what they want from us Stinger women.
We are then somehow villainized.
They declare us as evil beings, who have only brought wrath and sorrow into their lives.
Just because we did not give them what they want, just because we did not succumb to their manipulations, just because we could actually think for ourselves.
We are declared - delusional, insane, cold, manipulative, deceiving etc. Even when we have clearly stated our stance and reinforced it as well.
The recent threads had me flipping through the pages of my past in my mind, this trend seems to occur over and over again.
Perspective is such a cruel fickle mistress.
How glad am I to be with my decent and stable Virgent, no more insanity in my life.
How dare we see what you are up to and make a run for the exit.
Hmmm?
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Posted by yupvirgo
Does it count if I'm a Scorpio dominant and have a crush on Joni Mitchell?![]()


Posted by PhoenixRisingπPosted by yupvirgo
Does it count if I'm a Scorpio dominant and have a crush on Joni Mitchell?![]()
Sadly, no. You have Leo bits in your chart. That cancels out everything.
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Posted by AndalusiaPosted by PhoenixRisingπPosted by yupvirgo
Does it count if I'm a Scorpio dominant and have a crush on Joni Mitchell?![]()
Sadly, no. You have Leo bits in your chart. That cancels out everything.
..... but wait........ *I* have Leo bits.... what does that mean for me? π π±click to expand


Posted by PhoenixRisingI would never intentionally betray you, PR. It saddens me that I have :/Posted by AndalusiaPosted by PhoenixRisingπPosted by yupvirgo
Does it count if I'm a Scorpio dominant and have a crush on Joni Mitchell?![]()
Sadly, no. You have Leo bits in your chart. That cancels out everything.
..... but wait........ *I* have Leo bits.... what does that mean for me? π π±
It means I've been betrayed!...π’
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Posted by yupvirgoPosted by PhoenixRisingBut why?Posted by yupvirgo
Does it count if I'm a Scorpio dominant and have a crush on Joni Mitchell?![]()
Sadly, no. You have Leo bits in your chart. That cancels out everything.
How come it cancels out everything?![]()
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Posted by AndalusiaPosted by PhoenixRisingI would never intentionally betray you, PR. It saddens me that I have :/Posted by AndalusiaPosted by PhoenixRisingπPosted by yupvirgo
Does it count if I'm a Scorpio dominant and have a crush on Joni Mitchell?![]()
Sadly, no. You have Leo bits in your chart. That cancels out everything.
..... but wait........ *I* have Leo bits.... what does that mean for me? π π±
It means I've been betrayed!...π’
I'm still gonna sip tea at your make-shift* altar though π
*Make-shift only because I lack the ability to execute the design.
Us with the Leo bits love being worshipped, but we what we love more is finding people stronger than us to pay tribute to ourselves. Probably why we gravitate towards Scorps and Caps.click to expand
tea time! 
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Thanks new moon in Scorpio.




Posted by HareOmg that's Dostoiveski's quote about his wife! AwwwwwwwPosted by UnwordingMy guess is the Virgo...but won't say anything and let the Scorpio take credit ?
@Hare
Ok, so I'm heading to my parents house on Friday for a belated birthday party for my dad, at which I plan on replacing one of my mom's carefully handpicked portraits, of us kids, with this:![]()
It's kind of become a tradition, since we've been asking her to take them down forever, so in the past we've either messed up the chronological order of her display (cause VIRGO!) or hid them throughout the house hoping that she'll never find them again but she always did. -__-
So this will be a first, and I'm dying to know who will spot it first.
Scorpio Merc. vs Virgo Merc.
Game on! π
I'll keep you posted, as I'm sure you're dying to know. lol
@Damnata
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Posted by HareI'll never understand the DXP vs Real Life debate. In the end we're all people posting here, even if we might be different in real life. Still people...and probably some strategic bots.Posted by DamnataDXP crossing over into real life with inspirational quotes.Posted by HareOmg that's Dostoiveski's quote about his wife! AwwwwwwwPosted by UnwordingMy guess is the Virgo...but won't say anything and let the Scorpio take credit ?
@Hare
Ok, so I'm heading to my parents house on Friday for a belated birthday party for my dad, at which I plan on replacing one of my mom's carefully handpicked portraits, of us kids, with this:![]()
It's kind of become a tradition, since we've been asking her to take them down forever, so in the past we've either messed up the chronological order of her display (cause VIRGO!) or hid them throughout the house hoping that she'll never find them again but she always did. -__-
So this will be a first, and I'm dying to know who will spot it first.
Scorpio Merc. vs Virgo Merc.
Game on! π
I'll keep you posted, as I'm sure you're dying to know. lol
@Damnata
And yeah, it would probably go the way Rabbit said. I have no problem letting the other person take credit if I know it would make them happy to winnnn. I'll just smirk to myself.
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Posted by HareYou're not strategic enough. Sry to disappoint, wannabe bot.Posted by DamnataPosted by HareI'll never understand the DXP vs Real Life debate. In the end we're all people posting here, even if we might be different in real life. Still people...and probably some strategic bots.Posted by DamnataDXP crossing over into real life with inspirational quotes.Posted by HareOmg that's Dostoiveski's quote about his wife! AwwwwwwwPosted by UnwordingMy guess is the Virgo...but won't say anything and let the Scorpio take credit ?
@Hare
Ok, so I'm heading to my parents house on Friday for a belated birthday party for my dad, at which I plan on replacing one of my mom's carefully handpicked portraits, of us kids, with this:![]()
It's kind of become a tradition, since we've been asking her to take them down forever, so in the past we've either messed up the chronological order of her display (cause VIRGO!) or hid them throughout the house hoping that she'll never find them again but she always did. -__-
So this will be a first, and I'm dying to know who will spot it first.
Scorpio Merc. vs Virgo Merc.
Game on! π
I'll keep you posted, as I'm sure you're dying to know. lol
@Damnata
And yeah, it would probably go the way Rabbit said. I have no problem letting the other person take credit if I know it would make them happy to winnnn. I'll just smirk to myself.
DXP ready to cross over into my life in...I think 9 days time. Time to check my calendar.
I'm one of those bots.
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Posted by HareWell you improved your accuracy percentage so well done there.Posted by DamnataHence why I left out strategic.Posted by HareYou're not strategic enough. Sry to disappoint, wannabe bot.Posted by DamnataPosted by HareI'll never understand the DXP vs Real Life debate. In the end we're all people posting here, even if we might be different in real life. Still people...and probably some strategic bots.Posted by DamnataDXP crossing over into real life with inspirational quotes.Posted by HareOmg that's Dostoiveski's quote about his wife! AwwwwwwwPosted by UnwordingMy guess is the Virgo...but won't say anything and let the Scorpio take credit ?
@Hare
Ok, so I'm heading to my parents house on Friday for a belated birthday party for my dad, at which I plan on replacing one of my mom's carefully handpicked portraits, of us kids, with this:![]()
It's kind of become a tradition, since we've been asking her to take them down forever, so in the past we've either messed up the chronological order of her display (cause VIRGO!) or hid them throughout the house hoping that she'll never find them again but she always did. -__-
So this will be a first, and I'm dying to know who will spot it first.
Scorpio Merc. vs Virgo Merc.
Game on! π
I'll keep you posted, as I'm sure you're dying to know. lol
@Damnata
And yeah, it would probably go the way Rabbit said. I have no problem letting the other person take credit if I know it would make them happy to winnnn. I'll just smirk to myself.
DXP ready to cross over into my life in...I think 9 days time. Time to check my calendar.
I'm one of those bots.
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Posted by -elle-i got mine at target.. then of course i saw a georgous grey one at khols... almost took the other one back and got it instead. but i stayed with the 1st one! My scarf and hat i got at old navy π i got a new sweater today too! i need to stop shopping i have SOOOOO many items of clothing that they dont fit in my closet anymore...
@justagirl
I can't find a new peacoat to save my life π
Have enough panties and bras to last four years though.....just in case trump wins and I decide to stay π

Posted by -elle-what about this?
@justagirl
I can't find a new peacoat to save my life π
Have enough panties and bras to last four years though.....just in case trump wins and I decide to stay π

Posted by Damnatapart 2 of DXP cross over will be :Posted by HareI'll never understand the DXP vs Real Life debate. In the end we're all people posting here, even if we might be different in real life. Still people...and probably some strategic bots.Posted by DamnataDXP crossing over into real life with inspirational quotes.Posted by HareOmg that's Dostoiveski's quote about his wife! AwwwwwwwPosted by UnwordingMy guess is the Virgo...but won't say anything and let the Scorpio take credit ?
@Hare
Ok, so I'm heading to my parents house on Friday for a belated birthday party for my dad, at which I plan on replacing one of my mom's carefully handpicked portraits, of us kids, with this:![]()
It's kind of become a tradition, since we've been asking her to take them down forever, so in the past we've either messed up the chronological order of her display (cause VIRGO!) or hid them throughout the house hoping that she'll never find them again but she always did. -__-
So this will be a first, and I'm dying to know who will spot it first.
Scorpio Merc. vs Virgo Merc.
Game on! π
I'll keep you posted, as I'm sure you're dying to know. lol
@Damnata
And yeah, it would probably go the way Rabbit said. I have no problem letting the other person take credit if I know it would make them happy to winnnn. I'll just smirk to myself.
DXP ready to cross over into my life in...I think 9 days time. Time to check my calendar.
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Posted by -elle-Posted by justagirlI was just at kohls and they don't have coats....so weird. You would think we would because winter.Posted by -elle-i got mine at target.. then of course i saw a georgous grey one at khols... almost took the other one back and got it instead. but i stayed with the 1st one! My scarf and hat i got at old navy π i got a new sweater today too! i need to stop shopping i have SOOOOO many items of clothing that they dont fit in my closet anymore...
@justagirl
I can't find a new peacoat to save my life π
Have enough panties and bras to last four years though.....just in case trump wins and I decide to stay π
lol @ the panties and bras!
I have to keep looking!
Vacations are always my excuse for a new wardrobe for the year π
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Posted by -elle-they have em π it's where i got my red wool calvin one lolPosted by justagirlYes! Like that!Posted by -elle-what about this?
@justagirl
I can't find a new peacoat to save my life π
Have enough panties and bras to last four years though.....just in case trump wins and I decide to stay π
i have a simliar one but it's so heavy i didnt want to bring it lol its pure wool.
http://www.express.com/clothing/women/red-double-breasted-peacoat/pro/08943214/cat2410006?CID=3158&SearchID=Goo_PLA_D&product_id=98092567&adpos=1o3&creative=77454139364&device=c&matchtype=&network=g&gclid=CKf6jLW7i9ACFUtNfgod9cYPIg
It's too late for any shipping though....I procrastinated because of work being so busy.
I might check out macys.
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Posted by -elle-We have water and electricity and shops here too -.-
@justagirl
I can't find a new peacoat to save my life π
Have enough panties and bras to last four years though.....just in case trump wins and I decide to stay π

Posted by Damnataohhh goody, so we can shower and stuff? no water can and bath bucket? πPosted by -elle-We have water and electricity and shops here too -.-
@justagirl
I can't find a new peacoat to save my life π
Have enough panties and bras to last four years though.....just in case trump wins and I decide to stay πclick to expand

Posted by justagirl-.-Posted by Damnataohhh goody, so we can shower and stuff? no water can and bath bucket? πPosted by -elle-We have water and electricity and shops here too -.-
@justagirl
I can't find a new peacoat to save my life π
Have enough panties and bras to last four years though.....just in case trump wins and I decide to stay πclick to expand


Posted by PeanutButterandElly
The thought of relationships is starting to make me feel sick...

Posted by PhoenixRisingIt just doesn't interest me. It's like my heart doesn't want to mend and move on and would rather stay as is. I feel like if I step ahead I might step on glassPosted by PeanutButterandElly
The thought of relationships is starting to make me feel sick...
I can relate to this. It passes with every changing moon...
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Posted by aNEWdayPosted by PhoenixRisingIt just doesn't interest me. It's like my heart doesn't want to mend and move on and would rather stay as is. I feel like if I step ahead I might step on glassPosted by PeanutButterandElly
The thought of relationships is starting to make me feel sick...
I can relate to this. It passes with every changing moon...
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The ego is a fragile beast.
There may or may not be some truth to the negative description depending on the person involved. Problem is no one is objective. We are simply not built to be anything but subjective. Perspective is filtered through feelings and any meaning we've attached to our experiences.
When someone starts off any reflection of "what went wrong" focusing on the other person I already know the ego is at play. At the end of the day it doesn't matter why he/she did whatever they did because we have no control over that person choosing to change that behaviour. So why write pages and pages of whatever "wrong" they did? If one really wants to know what went wrong in an effort to make a change, focus on yourself. What you could have done differently---and let's be real there is always something that you could have done differently. You didn't. Figure out why.