Moon in Scorpio reaction

I have been long time lurker but recently an incident happened which made me sign up to get some input from the guys/gals here that had similar experience.

I met a guy through a mutual friend, I know he liked me for a while before he asked me out and although he wasn't my type I went out with him. We had an incredible time and sparks were flying everywhere, we dated for a few weeks and had very deep and intense connection. Everything was fine until one day I went out of town to see relatives and I didn't text him the whole day (but he also didn't text me). The next day he just sent me one word message to which I didn't reply until the next day (but he did made my friend call me probably to check why I didn't answer him). Anyway since then things went horribly wrong, he stopped texting me and only answered my message after three days, then we would text back and forth but only if I texted him first. I apologized for whatever I did and told him we can talk and work out whatever it was bothering and asked to see him three days in a row. He would reply but not see me. Since I stopped initiating the texting and he hadn't messaged me either.

Few days later we went to the birthday party of a mutual friend, he came said hi and hugged me and then stood few feet away talking to other people. I went to talk to him an hour later and he lashed out at me in front of everyone, yelled "Don't talk to me or contact me ever again". I just picked up my coat and left.I know he was quite drunk but still I have never seen anyone react like that. I am incredibly confused because he was the most loving and caring person and he liked me so much, asked me to be exclusive etc then everything changed in one day after I didn't answer his text.

He is Taurus Sun, Moon in Scorpio in the 4th house conjunct Pluto(I read this makes the moon more intense), and Cancer Ascendant.

Is this how a person with a Scorpio moon would react if they feel slighted (literally over nothing)?

I forgot to add, he didn't give me any reason but was telling our mutual friend that I was playing games and being shady, which is not true.

Well if that might help i have moon in scorpio and i have this weird tendency to obsess over people when i like them. And if i feel that they do not reciprocate or like me as much as i do yes i feel disrespected and cut them off and yes i feel like they re playing games with me. Call me paranoïd. That move asking a friend if you are on the phone is typical, he probably wanted to check if there were actual reasons to not replying or if you are just kind of ignoring him of do not want to talk at that moment. It is like i am insecure and afraid of getting hurt. However, if that person makes sur genuine efforts and i feel like they are "true" with me then i might let them try again. He sounds a bit more radical than me though, i would not do that if i knew you were busy or out of Town or needed space.

Thank you VirgoSquirrel. I outright told him that I'd hate to lose him over a misunderstanding and that we can talk it out whatever it is(I'm a Sagittarius so as honest as they come), I tried to see him after that but he was so mean to me, he kept messaging with me but he wouldn't see and after I stopped trying to see him because he wouldn't budge the birthday lash out happened.

Do you guys ever try to contact or to reach out to the person after an incident like that?

Is the lashing out an attempt to burn all bridges or just bottled up anger?

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I have been long time lurker but recently an incident happened which made me sign up to get some input from the guys/gals here that had similar experience.

I met a guy through a mutual friend, I know he liked me for a while before he asked me out and although he wasn't my type I went out with him. We had an incredible time and sparks were flying everywhere, we dated for a few weeks and had very deep and intense connection. Everything was fine until one day I went out of town to see relatives and I didn't text him the whole day (but he also didn't text me). The next day he just sent me one word message to which I didn't reply until the next day (but he did made my friend call me probably to check why I didn't answer him). Anyway since then things went horribly wrong, he stopped texting me and only answered my message after three days, then we would text back and forth but only if I texted him first. I apologized for whatever I did and told him we can talk and work out whatever it was bothering and asked to see him three days in a row. He would reply but not see me. Since I stopped initiating the texting and he hadn't messaged me either.

Few days later we went to the birthday party of a mutual friend, he came said hi and hugged me and then stood few feet away talking to other people. I went to talk to him an hour later and he lashed out at me in front of everyone, yelled "Don't talk to me or contact me ever again". I just picked up my coat and left.I know he was quite drunk but still I have never seen anyone react like that. I am incredibly confused because he was the most loving and caring person and he liked me so much, asked me to be exclusive etc then everything changed in one day after I didn't answer his text.

He is Taurus Sun, Moon in Scorpio in the 4th house conjunct Pluto(I read this makes the moon more intense), and Cancer Ascendant.

Is this how a person with a Scorpio moon would react if they feel slighted (literally over nothing)?

Sounds like something my Scorpio Moon (Gemini Sun) ex would do. Actually, she did do some of that to me.

I'd be careful about excusing that behavior. Just because someone feels like acting shitty doesn't mean they have to. Maybe his planetary configurations explain it, but that still wouldn't justify it.

One other thing: People with Sun-Moon oppositions can also be quite moody. Again, could make him feel like acting that way, but that doesn't doesn't mean he should.

And he was drunk at the party, which didn't help. If you're interested in someone and you find that his drunk nature is mean and vindictive, run. That's who he really is. Let him be someone else's project.

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Thank you VirgoSquirrel. I outright told him that I'd hate to lose him over a misunderstanding and that we can talk it out whatever it is(I'm a Sagittarius so as honest as they come), I tried to see him after that but he was so mean to me, he kept messaging with me but he wouldn't see and after I stopped trying to see him because he wouldn't budge the birthday lash out happened.

Do you guys ever try to contact or to reach out to the person after an incident like that?

Is the lashing out an attempt to burn all bridges or just bottled up anger?

Well it depends... I did burn bridges in the past, some i regretted, some not. I would act impulsively then i need time to think about the whole situation. If i feel like i overreacted i would contact you back but not before at least a month, until i miss you so much it is unbearable so give him space. It never actually happenned to me to burn bridges for this kind of reason and not come back, but a lot later.

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Well if that might help i have moon in scorpio and i have this weird tendency to obsess over people when i like them. And if i feel that they do not reciprocate or like me as much as i do yes i feel disrespected and cut them off and yes i feel like they re playing games with me. Call me paranoïd. That move asking a friend if you are on the phone is typical, he probably wanted to check if there were actual reasons to not replying or if you are just kind of ignoring him of do not want to talk at that moment. It is like i am insecure and afraid of getting hurt. However, if that person makes sur genuine efforts and i feel like they are "true" with me then i might let them try again. He sounds a bit more radical than me though, i would not do that if i knew you were busy or out of Town or needed space.

One of the Leo guys friends had been contacting me out of the blue and asking me what I've been up to after our fallout. Could that be him trying to spy? He also added my niece on Instagram, something he never did with me. Why would you want to do that after things are done?

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As i said i really tend to obsess over someone when i have feelings, and social media stalking is something i do when i am obsessing over that person and need to hear from them and see what they are up to. About the friend he may be just genuinely Nice to you. I am way too secretive to ask a friend to do that, unless its an extremely close person like a lifetime best friend kind of relationship.

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Thank you VirgoSquirrel. I outright told him that I'd hate to lose him over a misunderstanding and that we can talk it out whatever it is(I'm a Sagittarius so as honest as they come), I tried to see him after that but he was so mean to me, he kept messaging with me but he wouldn't see and after I stopped trying to see him because he wouldn't budge the birthday lash out happened.

Do you guys ever try to contact or to reach out to the person after an incident like that?

Is the lashing out an attempt to burn all bridges or just bottled up anger?

Scorpio moons is the most complicated and hardest moon placement to have.

Had the same problems with a Leo Sun, Scorpio moon guy. Everything would go well then he'd pull away out of nowhere and I knew it was because I wouldn't respond or chase after him like other girls. Sorry, I may want you but I'm not going to chase like other thirsty females. He went off on me two months ago all because I brought up some issues, mind you I wasn't even yelling just talking calmly, he took it the wrong way and went off on me. Said some horrible things. It's not the first time though. He's done that before back in June when I broke things off because he had doubts about me. When I tried to get him back he went off on me telling me cruel things that devastated me, I went NC for 2 months before I reached out to settle things and move on. We bumped into each other in person a few weeks later and told me his true feelings, we made an attempt again but I doubted him and then he pulled away again. Ignored me a few more weeks then came back.

One thing I noticed about Scorpio moonies is that they deal with intense negative emotions. Because Leo is a fire sign that was in contradiction to his sunny disposition so he battles with very intense negative and positive emotions. I could feel like those negative emotions overwhelmed him because he doesn't know how to deal with them. I feel like he needs to come to terms on his own and become self-aware so he can learn to manage them. This is an everlasting battle though.

I don't know if he lashed out to completely burn bridges but I know that the Leo would usually always come back or we'd go back together. I don't think he will this time since I finally told him everything how I felt about him and the situation and I don't think he can cope with that.

With your guy I'd say give him time and space. Then try and send a sweet text telling him that you care for him and that if he ever needs you that you will be there for him. That should be enough to get through. I'd also advice you to do research on Scorpio males, that will give you insight on how they behave, re-act, and feel.

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Hey Aqua beauty, thank you so much for your input. You pinned it down so well, I wouldn't chase him as much as he wanted, I am more cool and calculated( Moon in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio). But I did let him know that I want him in my life and that we should take things slow and get to know each other, and that I want things to work out.

Instead of bombarding him with messages or big statements I was always there for him, bought him his favorite food and cooked for him. Now that I read your experience and what other people are saying looks like this is a typical pattern that plays out with them, whatever they feel, rage, overwhelming negativity or hurt that they project on you, they have to be left alone to work that out.

For someone with Capricorn moon it's like watching a toddler tantrum.

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So I've been friends with this Scorpio for about a year and he has saved me from myself numerous times (from a drug overdose, encouraged me to go to rehab). I am a Pisces/aries cusp with a sag rising. I like this guy a whole hell of a lot and when we are together it's like this harmonious connection that I have never felt with anyone before. We ended up hooking up and then I went to rehab. When I came back I thought I was over him because he made it clear he wasn't looking for anything. A few months later we started hanging out again, talking every once in a while etc. And gradually started hooking up again. The connection and intimacy that we had in bed was unimaginable. But he acted hot and cold. We would be having great conversation and then all of a sudden it stopped. He would text me if I initiated but would, again, pull away. I have told him a few times that I really really like him, but he says he is just rolling with the punches and has mutual feelings. The other day I visited him at work and he was all over me. I also experienced the infamous Scorpio glare. Well a couple days after that he hung out with me and my friend. I ended up talking to him in the car. I let him know that I really really like him but if he only wants something physical to let me know so I can move on. He said that he has mutual feelings for me and is going with the punches (I let him know that I am not trying to get him to commit so soon but I am hopeful). He said relationship wise if it moves in that direction he isn't opposed to it. And that night ended great. I didn't hook up with him and left him wanting way more kisses. But since then it's more hot and cold games. Ignoring me, barely chatting with me, just tonight I asked if he had plans and he opened my snap and didn't respond. Is he stringing me along? Did I scare him off? Should I move on or be patient? I don't want to ruin this if it's something good but I also need to know when to walk away for the sake of my hearts safety.

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Yeah this guy sounds like the old me

I also dealt with the constant battle of inner negative emotions with a positive outlook, it's not fun at all

And yes we like to burn bridges, it makes us feel free cause it makes us believe we're self reliant and can be at peace with ourselves

Edit: that inner clash definitely finds its way out into the outer world and we project it onto others

At what age did you manage to come to terms with your inner self and work towards progression?

At around age 25 I started to have moments where things would just make sense, sometimes I would sink into deep sadness just thinking of the bad things I had done.

It's funny tho cause at around age 24 I took mushrooms and I foresaw my rebirth, but at the time I took it lightly

It's tough to say if it's over tho cause every month or so I reach new spiritual rebirth. It's painful but the strength I gain after is amazing.

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28 for me.

And yes spiritual rebirth will happen again at different junctures in our lives.

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I forgot to add, he didn't give me any reason but was telling our mutual friend that I was playing games and being shady, which is not true.

Leave nuts as soon as you see they are nuts! End of the drama!!

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So I've been friends with this Scorpio for about a year and he has saved me from myself numerous times (from a drug overdose, encouraged me to go to rehab). I am a Pisces/aries cusp with a sag rising. I like this guy a whole hell of a lot and when we are together it's like this harmonious connection that I have never felt with anyone before. We ended up hooking up and then I went to rehab. When I came back I thought I was over him because he made it clear he wasn't looking for anything. A few months later we started hanging out again, talking every once in a while etc. And gradually started hooking up again. The connection and intimacy that we had in bed was unimaginable. But he acted hot and cold. We would be having great conversation and then all of a sudden it stopped. He would text me if I initiated but would, again, pull away. I have told him a few times that I really really like him, but he says he is just rolling with the punches and has mutual feelings. The other day I visited him at work and he was all over me. I also experienced the infamous Scorpio glare. Well a couple days after that he hung out with me and my friend. I ended up talking to him in the car. I let him know that I really really like him but if he only wants something physical to let me know so I can move on. He said that he has mutual feelings for me and is going with the punches (I let him know that I am not trying to get him to commit so soon but I am hopeful). He said relationship wise if it moves in that direction he isn't opposed to it. And that night ended great. I didn't hook up with him and left him wanting way more kisses. But since then it's more hot and cold games. Ignoring me, barely chatting with me, just tonight I asked if he had plans and he opened my snap and didn't respond. Is he stringing me along? Did I scare him off? Should I move on or be patient? I don't want to ruin this if it's something good but I also need to know when to walk away for the sake of my hearts safety.

How long has this been going on? Have never been in a relationship with a Scorpio, but my best friend has been in a very long relationship with one and my mom is a Scorpio too.

My advice would be to pull away, not on purpose or to be mean or to get back at him, just focus on yourself and your own life. Scorpios can't be pushed into anything the more you insist the more he will dig in, and they always test your boundaries to see with how much they can get away. If there weren't any fights or arguments he will come back to you.

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At around age 25 I started to have moments where things would just make sense, sometimes I would sink into deep sadness just thinking of the bad things I had done.

It's funny tho cause at around age 24 I took mushrooms and I foresaw my rebirth, but at the time I took it lightly

It's tough to say if it's over tho cause every month or so I reach new spiritual rebirth. It's painful but the strength I gain after is amazing.

When we're young we don't realize a lot of things until we hit a certain age and look back and realize what we went through was essential. I know that Scorpios are associated with the Phoenix because they continuously go through re-births and deaths (like in harry potter). I suppose your moon dealing with emotions involves with emotional rebirth, continuously.

Does it become easier for you though? or is it just a whole different feeling each and every time? When you go through this re-birth what exactly are you killing (emotionally) and what becomes a new slate?

Well yeah its emotions that die. They feel so intense that after your heart breaks you feel numb and are able to understand.

An example is if you're afraid of something or something terrible has been done to you but you don't consciously realize it.

That fear, that 6th sense is slowly drowning your heart.

Meanwhile you actually think you're gonna die, and you either panic or give in, either way it's terrifying

And as an aqua these moments force me to act divided, I try to act like a positive logical aqua but inside I'm feeling pain.

So right when you think it's over and you're gonna succumb to something terrible, you look to the sky and you find the door, you see the light.

Once it's over you feel grateful and your heart feels like it's run a marathon, you feel wiser and calmer.

It's similar every time but you're more great full each time and that's where the power lies

There will always be pain, but there will also be learning

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Is the lash out and yelling a reaction of an unevolved Scorpio moon? From what I can read it's not easy being in your shoes but do you realize when you have hurt other people or lost them over paranoia and how long does it typically take? Do you ever apologize ?

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So I've been friends with this Scorpio for about a year and he has saved me from myself numerous times (from a drug overdose, encouraged me to go to rehab). I am a Pisces/aries cusp with a sag rising. I like this guy a whole hell of a lot and when we are together it's like this harmonious connection that I have never felt with anyone before. We ended up hooking up and then I went to rehab. When I came back I thought I was over him because he made it clear he wasn't looking for anything. A few months later we started hanging out again, talking every once in a while etc. And gradually started hooking up again. The connection and intimacy that we had in bed was unimaginable. But he acted hot and cold. We would be having great conversation and then all of a sudden it stopped. He would text me if I initiated but would, again, pull away. I have told him a few times that I really really like him, but he says he is just rolling with the punches and has mutual feelings. The other day I visited him at work and he was all over me. I also experienced the infamous Scorpio glare. Well a couple days after that he hung out with me and my friend. I ended up talking to him in the car. I let him know that I really really like him but if he only wants something physical to let me know so I can move on. He said that he has mutual feelings for me and is going with the punches (I let him know that I am not trying to get him to commit so soon but I am hopeful). He said relationship wise if it moves in that direction he isn't opposed to it. And that night ended great. I didn't hook up with him and left him wanting way more kisses. But since then it's more hot and cold games. Ignoring me, barely chatting with me, just tonight I asked if he had plans and he opened my snap and didn't respond. Is he stringing me along? Did I scare him off? Should I move on or be patient? I don't want to ruin this if it's something good but I also need to know when to walk away for the sake of my hearts safety.

How long has this been going on? Have never been in a relationship with a Scorpio, but my best friend has been in a very long relationship with one and my mom is a Scorpio too.

My advice would be to pull away, not on purpose or to be mean or to get back at him, just focus on yourself and your own life. Scorpios can't be pushed into anything the more you insist the more he will dig in, and they always test your boundaries to see with how much they can get away. If there weren't any fights or arguments he will come back to you.

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Thank you! We've been friends for over a year, hooked up in August, and just recently started hooking up again in February. But it's been different this time. Almost like when we are together we are bf/gf

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Thank you VirgoSquirrel. I outright told him that I'd hate to lose him over a misunderstanding and that we can talk it out whatever it is(I'm a Sagittarius so as honest as they come), I tried to see him after that but he was so mean to me, he kept messaging with me but he wouldn't see and after I stopped trying to see him because he wouldn't budge the birthday lash out happened.

Do you guys ever try to contact or to reach out to the person after an incident like that?

Is the lashing out an attempt to burn all bridges or just bottled up anger?

Sorry sag, but a Taurus is not for you and you are not for a Taurus... You should not have ignored his message... You people are too flighty..

Do not chase him. I do not condone his behaviour as he has showed you up in front of others, but just move on...

These two signs will not go the distance. If you were keen on him as you say you were, why ignore his message. Lesson learned sag. Don't be rude enough to ignore the message of someone you like. He would not have done that to you.

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Actually the reason I didn't reply immediately was that I am going through a very difficult time, I moved to the states 6 months ago and since then had bouts of depression and sadness to the point I will burst into tears if someone talks to me. It was one of those days, I reached the very next day. I expected some compassion but obviously I didn't get any from him.

About the compatibility, there is so much more than sun signs, one of the longest relationships in my life was with a Taurus.

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Yeah this guy sounds like the old me

I also dealt with the constant battle of inner negative emotions with a positive outlook, it's not fun at all

And yes we like to burn bridges, it makes us feel free cause it makes us believe we're self reliant and can be at peace with ourselves

Edit: that inner clash definitely finds its way out into the outer world and we project it onto others

At what age did you manage to come to terms with your inner self and work towards progression?

At around age 25 I started to have moments where things would just make sense, sometimes I would sink into deep sadness just thinking of the bad things I had done.

It's funny tho cause at around age 24 I took mushrooms and I foresaw my rebirth, but at the time I took it lightly

It's tough to say if it's over tho cause every month or so I reach new spiritual rebirth. It's painful but the strength I gain after is amazing.

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I've had times where my ego and emotions overtook me, times where when I look back on I feel so disgusted and guilty of my behaviour.. I still have a lot of changing and learning to do though. Managing myself. The only people who can really help scorpio moons are themselves, that's IF they truly want to and are motivated to. Otherwise we are stubborn and don't change for people. Everyone matures at their own time. Scorpio moons can be pretty self-absorbed too.

This is why I'm afraid of getting involved with other scorpio moons when it comes to romantic affairs. Since I understand them so well (I've had two really close scorpio moon best friends in my life), I feel like looking at them is like looking at a mirror of myself and I'm afraid it will only bring bad experiences and reactions when we clash somehow. Although two scorpio moons, in a positive union, is a deep connection. Maybe I'm just not ready for that deep connection right now.

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At around age 25 I started to have moments where things would just make sense, sometimes I would sink into deep sadness just thinking of the bad things I had done.

It's funny tho cause at around age 24 I took mushrooms and I foresaw my rebirth, but at the time I took it lightly

It's tough to say if it's over tho cause every month or so I reach new spiritual rebirth. It's painful but the strength I gain after is amazing.

When we're young we don't realize a lot of things until we hit a certain age and look back and realize what we went through was essential. I know that Scorpios are associated with the Phoenix because they continuously go through re-births and deaths (like in harry potter). I suppose your moon dealing with emotions involves with emotional rebirth, continuously.

Does it become easier for you though? or is it just a whole different feeling each and every time? When you go through this re-birth what exactly are you killing (emotionally) and what becomes a new slate?

Well yeah its emotions that die. They feel so intense that after your heart breaks you feel numb and are able to understand.

An example is if you're afraid of something or something terrible has been done to you but you don't consciously realize it.

That fear, that 6th sense is slowly drowning your heart.

Meanwhile you actually think you're gonna die, and you either panic or give in, either way it's terrifying

And as an aqua these moments force me to act divided, I try to act like a positive logical aqua but inside I'm feeling pain.

So right when you think it's over and you're gonna succumb to something terrible, you look to the sky and you find the door, you see the light.

Once it's over you feel grateful and your heart feels like it's run a marathon, you feel wiser and calmer.

It's similar every time but you're more great full each time and that's where the power lies

There will always be pain, but there will also be learning

Is the lash out and yelling a reaction of an unevolved Scorpio moon? From what I can read it's not easy being in your shoes but do you realize when you have hurt other people or lost them over paranoia and how long does it typically take? Do you ever apologize ?

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Oh trust me, they know very well when they hurt someone, because behind the emotional reaction is an action with a purpose: to hurt the person back as much as they feel they've been hurt. It depends on how much the person matters to them when it comes to apologizing. If they don't care, their egos and pride won't let them apologize. But if they truly cared, they will admit their faults.

Let him be for now and see if he contacts you first. Address him on first time the messaging miscommunication happened too (if you haven't already) because he might be hung up on that and all the little things that added up to make him feel upset towards you. You've already told him you're willing to talk it out so the ball is pretty much in his court now

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Thank you VirgoSquirrel. I outright told him that I'd hate to lose him over a misunderstanding and that we can talk it out whatever it is(I'm a Sagittarius so as honest as they come), I tried to see him after that but he was so mean to me, he kept messaging with me but he wouldn't see and after I stopped trying to see him because he wouldn't budge the birthday lash out happened.

Do you guys ever try to contact or to reach out to the person after an incident like that?

Is the lashing out an attempt to burn all bridges or just bottled up anger?

Sorry sag, but a Taurus is not for you and you are not for a Taurus... You should not have ignored his message... You people are too flighty..

Do not chase him. I do not condone his behaviour as he has showed you up in front of others, but just move on...

These two signs will not go the distance. If you were keen on him as you say you were, why ignore his message. Lesson learned sag. Don't be rude enough to ignore the message of someone you like. He would not have done that to you.

Actually the reason I didn't reply immediately was that I am going through a very difficult time, I moved to the states 6 months ago and since then had bouts of depression and sadness to the point I will burst into tears if someone talks to me. It was one of those days, I reached the very next day. I expected some compassion but obviously I didn't get any from him.

About the compatibility, there is so much more than sun signs, one of the longest relationships in my life was with a Taurus.

Then I suggest you leave the Taurus and dating alone in general for a while until you get yourself together... Taurus is not good with people projecting their emotions onto them... We understand compassion but we are not emotional. We deal with our emotions in a way that stops us from projecting them on to others and affecting others...

I hope you get well soon. But perhaps a relationship is not what you want right now...

U may have had a long relationship with a Taurus but it did not last... these two are not the best signs to be with and Taurus looks for everlasting love...

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Do you guys bottle everything up? I've read in an article that Taurus won't bring an issue up again but will always remember it

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I have been long time lurker but recently an incident happened which made me sign up to get some input from the guys/gals here that had similar experience.

I met a guy through a mutual friend, I know he liked me for a while before he asked me out and although he wasn't my type I went out with him. We had an incredible time and sparks were flying everywhere, we dated for a few weeks and had very deep and intense connection. Everything was fine until one day I went out of town to see relatives and I didn't text him the whole day (but he also didn't text me). The next day HE JUST SENT ME ONE WORD MESSAGE TO WHICH I DIDN'T REPLY UNTIL THE NEXT DAY(but he did made my friend call me probably to check why I didn't answer him). Anyway since then things went horribly wrong, he stopped texting me and only answered my message after three days, then we would text back and forth but only if I texted him first. I apologized for whatever I did and told him we can talk and work out whatever it was bothering and asked to see him three days in a row. He would reply but not see me. Since I stopped initiating the texting and he hadn't messaged me either.

Few days later we went to the birthday party of a mutual friend, he came said hi and hugged me and then stood few feet away talking to other people. I went to talk to him an hour later and he lashed out at me in front of everyone, yelled "Don't talk to me or contact me ever again". I just picked up my coat and left.I know he was quite drunk but still I have never seen anyone react like that. I am incredibly confused because he was the most loving and caring person and he liked me so much, asked me to be exclusive etc then everything changed in one day after I didn't answer his text.

He is Taurus Sun, Moon in Scorpio in the 4th house conjunct Pluto(I read this makes the moon more intense), and Cancer Ascendant.

Is this how a person with a Scorpio moon would react if they feel slighted (literally over nothing)?

Why did you not respond to his message until the next day? U saw it so why did you not respond to it? Yep, "game playing"...

Taurus don't do "mind games".... you are playing with the wrong person.

Scorp moons are vengeful but not half as bad as a leo moon....!!!

I suggest you leave him alone unless you want some more "humiliation"...

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Wait, leo moons are worse than scorpio moons? How?? I would think leo moons have a more brighter disposition, less intense/vengeful and emotions coming and going fast

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Thank you VirgoSquirrel. I outright told him that I'd hate to lose him over a misunderstanding and that we can talk it out whatever it is(I'm a Sagittarius so as honest as they come), I tried to see him after that but he was so mean to me, he kept messaging with me but he wouldn't see and after I stopped trying to see him because he wouldn't budge the birthday lash out happened.

Do you guys ever try to contact or to reach out to the person after an incident like that?

Is the lashing out an attempt to burn all bridges or just bottled up anger?

Sorry sag, but a Taurus is not for you and you are not for a Taurus... You should not have ignored his message... You people are too flighty..

Do not chase him. I do not condone his behaviour as he has showed you up in front of others, but just move on...

These two signs will not go the distance. If you were keen on him as you say you were, why ignore his message. Lesson learned sag. Don't be rude enough to ignore the message of someone you like. He would not have done that to you.

Actually the reason I didn't reply immediately was that I am going through a very difficult time, I moved to the states 6 months ago and since then had bouts of depression and sadness to the point I will burst into tears if someone talks to me. It was one of those days, I reached the very next day. I expected some compassion but obviously I didn't get any from him.

About the compatibility, there is so much more than sun signs, one of the longest relationships in my life was with a Taurus.

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Moon sign compatibility is so much more important. The sun signs are okay as long as they don't have a really bad aspect to it