Phaedra, Scorpios, and Paralysis (Page 2)

If I'm hurt, I wouldn't say one word to him. I've had people go from barking in my face to crying and pleading on bended knees. I will not react/respond. My

do you think they went from one extreme to the next based on your behavior? I ask because most people start off nice and apologetic until they are met with a brick wall. then how they really feel comes out to play.

First they love you then call you a bitch.

the kicker for me is, they hold your responsible for their shifting erratic emotions.

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Posted by DMV
Apollo tried talking to Phaedra

I just can't believe people with these names exist in the 21st century.

This isn't greek mythology anymore.

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I knew a guy name Aries.

He was not an aries.

I just caught a recent episode to analyze these two in light of this thread. It looks a lot like they are both being fake with ulterior motives. That would seem to be the Scorpio aim on a reality show - give enough to entertain, stay employed, but keep your personal life as personal as possible. Scorpios are strategic. I'm sure, more so than anyone, they are sitting on the set scripting everything they're going to reveal or portray before the cameras start rolling.

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do you think they went from one extreme to the next based on your behavior? I ask because most people start off nice and apologetic until they are met with a brick wall. then how they really feel comes out to play.

First they love you then call you a bitch.

the kicker for me is, they hold your responsible for their shifting erratic emotions.

Hell ya. It's like watching the transformation between Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde then Dr. Jekyll again. Thing is, if it was sincere, it shouldn't shift so quickly. It shifted because their bullsh*t wasn't working and the person wanted to get any reaction out of me. Sincerity is not about the other person and what they will/won't do for you.

Also, I am very cold when I am hurt. I know this. I don't care.

Regarding Pha and Apollo, he had the chance to get his sh*t together. Not too many people can come out of jail, meet and catch the heart of an accomplished woman that is paid and will be your vessel for 2 beautiful children. He pissed that away all on his own. Take her out of the equation, he demonstrated he wasn't serious about making a better life for himself. Period. Why should he get the chance to be with her again?

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I just caught a recent episode to analyze these two in light of this thread. It looks a lot like they are both being fake with ulterior motives. That would seem to be the Scorpio aim on a reality show - give enough to entertain, stay employed, but keep your personal life as personal as possible. Scorpios are strategic. I'm sure, more so than anyone, they are sitting on the set scripting everything they're going to reveal or portray before the cameras start rolling.

that jail stint is very real tho.

Also, I am very cold when I am hurt. I know this. I don't care.

le sigh. i feel the same way. the cynical side of me stands guard with something sarcastic to say. I actually dont like this part of myself after the fact. While im in the mode, i want nothing but tears from the other person. Its like this different nasty person is waiting with a catalog of stfu coming.

im trying to see things from a different perspective. I want to be able to really forgive and not just put something on the back burner for the sake of a groups' happiness.

all in all, i want to be taken just as serious as i take other people.

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that jail stint is very real tho.

lol.

It will probably be good for him. Give him a chance to reflect and grow, realize what is important in life. I've had a couple Scorp friends get out of jail recently. Really turned them into family men.

According to what I just saw, she won't be bringing the kids to see him in jail. That's a little rough IMO. Seems like that will hurt the kids more than anything. And when someone is already in jail, I think karma is already hitting them hard enough. Human/family contact means so much more to someone locked up....

i was clearly mistaken but he could've swore he was a taurus he looks like a bull

it was clear all along that she was tsking care of him i mean he hasn't done a single project without phaedra somehow included ( RHOA, The Workout Tape , Funeral Home) . Talking about he a personal trainer please you are a criminal and messy at that . Phaedra loves that roughneck appeal apollo has don't be fooled by that southern bell bullshit she loves a thug period . point.blank . Water always trys to manipulate but water is transparent you can see right through them

Posted by DualNaturedII
Phaedra loves that roughneck appeal apollo has don't be fooled by that southern bell bullshit she loves a thug period . point.blank .

Looks that way. Not a very practical choice. The kids suffer....

I saw Apollo in the mall a few months ago. He walked right passed me and looked at me....he looks much better in person.

I didn't see the recent episode, but I can tell Phaedra is embarrassed by it all. She is sooo private though, in ways I'm shocked she's still on the show.

He acts like a typical Scorpio, reminds me so much of my sisters ex. "Those" type stay in jail...NEVER learn their lesson.

Darn Scorps and Tauruses...he was doing his crimes with a Taurus woman. She's the one that got caught, and that's how he got caught.

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Darn Scorps and Tauruses...he was doing his crimes with a Taurus woman. She's the one that got caught, and that's how he got caught.

LOL!

On Apollo's looks. Handsome guy. I sorta get it. But I guess if I saw that guy I would just think he's a handsome dude. Is he really that good looking to women? Or is it the whole celebrity thing? His physique is solid, though he's lost some size since he first got out (to be expected). But he has that helium voice....And what's going on with the eyebrows? They are like ethereal - in between worlds, out of focus. They need to make a decision on whether they are in or they are out....

Posted by DualNaturedII
Phaedra loves that roughneck appeal apollo has don't be fooled by that southern bell bullshit she loves a thug period . point.blank

If she ever got with a Cappy, hes going to have to a reformed thug.

I love a reformed thug 2.

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Darn Scorps and Tauruses...he was doing his crimes with a Taurus woman. She's the one that got caught, and that's how he got caught.

cause they both love money. You ever see how excited Kandi and Pha get when theyre talking about money?!

LOL!

Is he really that good looking to women? Or is it the whole celebrity thing? His physique is solid, though he's lost some size since he first got out (to be expected). But he has that helium voice....And what's going on with the eyebrows? They are like ethereal - in between worlds, out of focus.



sneaks into the scene. Is that you, Leo Moon? Yeah i can smell it from here. Hahaha.

@ the whole discussion. Thugs will be living the "thug life" regardless no?. And everybody else involved in their lives will be living the "tough life". JustSaying. LOL

Posted by DMV

all in all, i want to be taken just as serious as i take other people.

Hmmm. I like the way you stated this.

Posted by DMV

le sigh. i feel the same way. the cynical side of me stands guard with something sarcastic to say....While im in the mode, i want nothing but tears from the other person. Its like this different nasty person is waiting with a catalog of stfu coming.

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So is this about anger/revenge?

Posted by DualNaturedII
please you are a criminal and messy at that .

Right!

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Phaedra loves that roughneck appeal apollo has don't be fooled by that southern bell bullshit she loves a thug period . point.blank .

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😆. You're not lying.

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Posted by Damnata

Posted by DMV
Apollo tried talking to Phaedra

I just can't believe people with these names exist in the 21st century.

This isn't greek mythology anymore.

I knew a guy name Aries.

He was not an aries.

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lol @ "he was not an aries"

Poor soul.

I know a chick named "Justice"

Still, Phaedra and Apollo? I should've legally changed my name to Persephone

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by DMV

do you think they went from one extreme to the next based on your behavior? I ask because most people start off nice and apologetic until they are met with a brick wall. then how they really feel comes out to play.

First they love you then call you a bitch.

the kicker for me is, they hold your responsible for their shifting erratic emotions.

Hell ya. It's like watching the transformation between Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde then Dr. Jekyll again. Thing is, if it was sincere, it shouldn't shift so quickly. It shifted because their bullsh*t wasn't working and the person wanted to get any reaction out of me. Sincerity is not about the other person and what they will/won't do for you.

Also, I am very cold when I am hurt. I know this. I don't care.

Regarding Pha and Apollo, he had the chance to get his sh*t together. Not too many people can come out of jail, meet and catch the heart of an accomplished woman that is paid and will be your vessel for 2 beautiful children. He pissed that away all on his own. Take her out of the equation, he demonstrated he wasn't serious about making a better life for himself. Period. Why should he get the chance to be with her again?

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And the way he HUMILIATED her with the whole "Kenya Moore" syndrome on national television after she spoiled him! I never trusted him, always doing or saying something shady at an event.

Posted by DualNaturedII
it was clear all along that she was tsking care of him i mean he hasn't done a single project without phaedra somehow included ( RHOA, The Workout Tape , Funeral Home) . Talking about he a personal trainer please you are a criminal and messy at that . Phaedra loves that roughneck appeal apollo has don't be fooled by that southern bell bullshit she loves a thug period . point.blank . Water always trys to manipulate but water is transparent you can see right through them

I think this divorce is gonna change her I don't think she'll date down again not after what he did to her, all the humiliation. That southern woman likes to be treated well and care about their reputation and take pride and joy her family.

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Posted by lnana04


Darn Scorps and Tauruses...he was doing his crimes with a Taurus woman. She's the one that got caught, and that's how he got caught.

cause they both love money. You ever see how excited Kandi and Pha get when theyre talking about money?!

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Not just money, the only truly smart ones on the show not getting by on looks/modeling or loudmouthing others. They'll be no foreclosures for those two ladies..lol.

LOL I love phaedra...despite all the sketchiness I have to say she has the best verbal comebacks on that show. She's slick with her mouth and an educated woman. Respect

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Posted by DMV

all in all, i want to be taken just as serious as i take other people.

Hmmm. I like the way you stated this.

Posted by DMV

le sigh. i feel the same way. the cynical side of me stands guard with something sarcastic to say....While im in the mode, i want nothing but tears from the other person. Its like this different nasty person is waiting with a catalog of stfu coming.

So is this about anger/revenge?

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reciprocity

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Posted by DualNaturedII
Phaedra loves that roughneck appeal apollo has don't be fooled by that southern bell bullshit she loves a thug period . point.blank

If she ever got with a Cappy, hes going to have to a reformed thug.

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At some point you have to realize that the two worlds just don't connect. A thug is a thug. You simply will not fit in the world I am trying to create, even if you put on a nice suit. He would have to be reformed and putting down some serious legit roots before he even says boo to me.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by lnana04

Darn Scorps and Tauruses...he was doing his crimes with a Taurus woman. She's the one that got caught, and that's how he got caught.

LOL!

On Apollo's looks. Handsome guy. I sorta get it. But I guess if I saw that guy I would just think he's a handsome dude. Is he really that good looking to women? Or is it the whole celebrity thing? His physique is solid, though he's lost some size since he first got out (to be expected). But he has that helium voice....And what's going on with the eyebrows? They are like ethereal - in between worlds, out of focus. They need to make a decision on whether they are in or they are out....

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He looks better in person, but still not my type. He is very handsome, but he's not a guy I would look twice at, especially not if I heard him talk.

I actually think Todd is slightly more attractive than Apollo...going by how they look on television. I've never seen Todd in person.

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Posted by lnana04


Darn Scorps and Tauruses...he was doing his crimes with a Taurus woman. She's the one that got caught, and that's how he got caught.

cause they both love money. You ever see how excited Kandi and Pha get when theyre talking about money?!

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Yeah they do...remember how upset Kandi was when Kim(Taurus) profited off of that song and didn't pay her lol, and speaking of Kandi(Taurus) she is surrounded by scorps. Her mom, her best friend Carmen, AND her assistant/manager don juan are all Scorpios. Not to mention her ex that was killed.