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I have her! His daughter came she let me in and helped me pack her stuff I got my clothes to I'm sure I've forgotten some bits but I don't care nothing I will miss. She's allowing me to spend the night at hers so I will pack her bits into a box etc and I will be off tomorrow!!!! Woohoo!!!!
Awesome! Be safe.
Wow...
...the women who come here seriously are depressing as fuck.
Update: I'm finally home with my baby ..woohoo the flight was ok she's a good traveler I take her with me as much as I can so she's used to it I guess.
OK so what happened? His daughter came and let me in she helped me gather the cats bits and pieces and my clothes it all went off without a hitch!!! Got the cat lastly put her in her carrier and we were off it was really simple. She let me crash at hers and I packed the cats things in a box and bobs your uncle! I was up early I got the first flight out 7 am and that was that!!!
I'm so happy I feel relaxed I will never ever leave my pet with someone again not the way I did lesson learned and I mean really really learned lol
I'm exhausted will finish off the rest later after we are settled in just wanted to let you guys know. And thank you for the guidance and help.
OK so what happened? His daughter came and let me in she helped me gather the cats bits and pieces and my clothes it all went off without a hitch!!! Got the cat lastly put her in her carrier and we were off it was really simple. She let me crash at hers and I packed the cats things in a box and bobs your uncle! I was up early I got the first flight out 7 am and that was that!!!
I'm so happy I feel relaxed I will never ever leave my pet with someone again not the way I did lesson learned and I mean really really learned lol
I'm exhausted will finish off the rest later after we are settled in just wanted to let you guys know. And thank you for the guidance and help.
Posted by Angie35scorp
Update: I'm finally home with my baby ..woohoo the flight was ok she's a good traveler I take her with me as much as I can so she's used to it I guess.
OK so what happened? His daughter came and let me in she helped me gather the cats bits and pieces and my clothes it all went off without a hitch!!! Got the cat lastly put her in her carrier and we were off it was really simple. She let me crash at hers and I packed the cats things in a box and bobs your uncle! I was up early I got the first flight out 7 am and that was that!!!
I'm so happy I feel relaxed I will never ever leave my pet with someone again not the way I did lesson learned and I mean really really learned lol
I'm exhausted will finish off the rest later after we are settled in just wanted to let you guys know. And thank you for the guidance and help.
Lordy... Glad it's done and over with.
So I don't have much else to report kitty is happy I'm happy. He called I didn't answer. He txt saying he thinks I could have forgotten a couple of items of clothing since he didn't see me go into the closet (camera). I txt back saying it's ok throw anything else I left behind away. He responded by saying he will hold onto them. I didn't respond. He then txt saying he wants to be friends. I didn't answer. He txt me saying he loves me. I didn't respond.
20 min later he sent me a picture of the items I missed. I didn't answer.
To be honest I nearly did I wanted to highlight that he said he wouldn't be back until Monday but I thought it doesn't even matter now so why bother!
I've got what is most important to me so nothing else matters.
20 min later he sent me a picture of the items I missed. I didn't answer.
To be honest I nearly did I wanted to highlight that he said he wouldn't be back until Monday but I thought it doesn't even matter now so why bother!
I've got what is most important to me so nothing else matters.
Posted by TaurusinTexasWe don't all suck...but this one certainly does.Posted by Angie35scorpI'm really sorry this is happening, I would be, beside myself if someone was playing games like this with my cat... Pisces men suck! Hang in there!Posted by TaurusinTexasThank you for responding by the way
I don't think the police will help, since you left him there and he didn't technically take him. Can you wait a bit and see if the son comes home?click to expand
Good luck
Posted by Piscis_HominisYou're so right but I haven't had the best luck with them either but I'll go easier on the generalizations. Sorry ?Posted by TaurusinTexasWe don't all suck...but this one certainly does.Posted by Angie35scorpI'm really sorry this is happening, I would be, beside myself if someone was playing games like this with my cat... Pisces men suck! Hang in there!Posted by TaurusinTexasThank you for responding by the way
I don't think the police will help, since you left him there and he didn't technically take him. Can you wait a bit and see if the son comes home?
Good luck
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Are you the one who took pet over and left the pet. Then come back to pack up your things and and move with him. you'll broke up and he detached and gave you nothing but words?
Posted by TaurusinTexasTaurus women are so apologetic. 😉 lmaoPosted by Piscis_HominisYou're so right but I haven't had the best luck with them either but I'll go easier on the generalizations. Sorry ?Posted by TaurusinTexasWe don't all suck...but this one certainly does.Posted by Angie35scorpI'm really sorry this is happening, I would be, beside myself if someone was playing games like this with my cat... Pisces men suck! Hang in there!Posted by TaurusinTexasThank you for responding by the way
I don't think the police will help, since you left him there and he didn't technically take him. Can you wait a bit and see if the son comes home?
Good luck
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Posted by tiki33+1 believe this.
Angie you could have got your things the day he broke up with you and I'm not sure why you didn't lookout for yourself but your paying the price for it. Even if by chance you both reconciled you still would have your possessions and property back.
Just seems you are not thinking straight. You move across the country for a guy you don't really know, trust him with your precious cat and other possessions and didn't think to get what's important to you out of his home the same day he callously breaks it off with you, yet you still allow this fool to keep your things weeks after the break up.
The break up meant he didn't care enough to stay so that means he doesn't care about your property. I would not be surprised if that cat has either been given away or is sitting up in a shelter. You may want to check local shelters to see if your cat has been dropped off.
Now he's holding you and your cat and other possessions hostage. I don't believe you will get anything back. He'll avoid you, he know you have to go home eventually and he seems cold enough to drag it out.
I hope I'm wrong. I hope you get your cat back. Good luck.
this is a great lesson in non attachment un/fortunately.
Glad you got your cat back and that you are free of him btw.
Posted by Montgomerysound advice. hopefully you can get her back. I hate this for anyone.Posted by P-AngelPosted by Angie35scorp
Yes he has sent me 1 video and 1 picture of the cat since I left her at his home.
This is what you said yesterday on the other thread. In fact Abby even commented also referencing it in plural, since it was stated by you in plural.Posted by Angie35scorp
When he sends me pics and videos of my cat
the pics and videos are plural .. which means more than one.
Everything she says in here, she contradicts herself.
YOU DON'T EVEN SPAY/NEUTER YOUR ANIMALS, P-gel.
You allow them to breed endlessly until there are too many for you to feed.
You piece of living shit.
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OP
The police will accompany you to collect your things-- ALL OF THEM--
when this man returns home.
Even if OP is lying through her teeth, someone else can use this info.
Call them ahead, and arrange it.
He cannot hold your things or your cat hostage.
I have accompanied friends who've had to do this.
Not a big deal-- all will be fine.
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update: SUPER HAPPY you got her back!
Posted by Angie35scorp
I'm actually worried about the abandonment point you brought up. I left him money for the cat before I left just in case he needed to get anything more for her I bought at least 2 months of food if he feeds her the way I asked him to. Even though I've been txting him to get her back and he doesn't respond is that still classed as abandonment?
okay why did you leave him money for the cat before leaving instead of just taking the cat with you? was there a reason for leaving the cat with him?
Posted by puhleezeWhen I left my cat we were together he didn't break up with me until I left his state and I was back in my own. I did ask him why he didn't say when I was with him he never answered.Posted by Angie35scorp
I'm actually worried about the abandonment point you brought up. I left him money for the cat before I left just in case he needed to get anything more for her I bought at least 2 months of food if he feeds her the way I asked him to. Even though I've been txting him to get her back and he doesn't respond is that still classed as abandonment?
okay why did you leave him money for the cat before leaving instead of just taking the cat with you? was there a reason for leaving the cat with him?
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But it's all sorted now and the moral of the story is ta key a lot more time with someone before making a life altering decision and don't leave your pet with anyone ever!!
Posted by bumboklattPosted by Angie35scorpbobs your unlce
Update: I'm finally home with my baby ..woohoo the flight was ok she's a good traveler I take her with me as much as I can so she's used to it I guess.
OK so what happened? His daughter came and let me in she helped me gather the cats bits and pieces and my clothes it all went off without a hitch!!! Got the cat lastly put her in her carrier and we were off it was really simple. She let me crash at hers and I packed the cats things in a box and bobs your uncle! I was up early I got the first flight out 7 am and that was that!!!
I'm so happy I feel relaxed I will never ever leave my pet with someone again not the way I did lesson learned and I mean really really learned lol
I'm exhausted will finish off the rest later after we are settled in just wanted to let you guys know. And thank you for the guidance and help.
you guys really say that lol
good to hear everythings ok
I think he did try to make you suffer for the breakup
Pisces hardly ever lets something go so easily
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It's been all a bit strange but I'm happy I can close the chapter...I also felt like he wanted to punish me but I will never know why so I'm not going to think about it. Put it down to being one of those things.
Posted by Angie35scorpOh I think you think I broke up with him....I didn't he finished with me ...that's why I couldn't understand why punish me. Like I said it's ok now all sorted with the help of some fab people on here!!Posted by bumboklattPosted by Angie35scorpbobs your unlce
Update: I'm finally home with my baby ..woohoo the flight was ok she's a good traveler I take her with me as much as I can so she's used to it I guess.
OK so what happened? His daughter came and let me in she helped me gather the cats bits and pieces and my clothes it all went off without a hitch!!! Got the cat lastly put her in her carrier and we were off it was really simple. She let me crash at hers and I packed the cats things in a box and bobs your uncle! I was up early I got the first flight out 7 am and that was that!!!
I'm so happy I feel relaxed I will never ever leave my pet with someone again not the way I did lesson learned and I mean really really learned lol
I'm exhausted will finish off the rest later after we are settled in just wanted to let you guys know. And thank you for the guidance and help.
you guys really say that lol
good to hear everythings ok
I think he did try to make you suffer for the breakup
Pisces hardly ever lets something go so easily
It's been all a bit strange but I'm happy I can close the chapter...I also felt like he wanted to punish me but I will never know why so I'm not going to think about it. Put it down to being one of those things.
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Posted by Angie35scorp
So I don't have much else to report kitty is happy I'm happy. He called I didn't answer. He txt saying he thinks I could have forgotten a couple of items of clothing since he didn't see me go into the closet (camera). I txt back saying it's ok throw anything else I left behind away. He responded by saying he will hold onto them. I didn't respond. He then txt saying he wants to be friends. I didn't answer. He txt me saying he loves me. I didn't respond.
20 min later he sent me a picture of the items I missed. I didn't answer.
To be honest I nearly did I wanted to highlight that he said he wouldn't be back until Monday but I thought it doesn't even matter now so why bother!
I've got what is most important to me so nothing else matters.
Wow...so he lied to be able to have that one piece of power over you...your cat.
You really dodged a bullet. Manipulation at its best...held your cat hostage to keep you in his life to deal with you when HE feels like it.
Thank God his daughter was an adult about it.
He's probably secretly pissed at his daughter for letting you in...LOL
But he'll probably never tell her...that's the best part of it all...he underestimated you.
But he'll probably never tell her...that's the best part of it all...he underestimated you.
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by Montgomerysound advice. hopefully you can get her back. I hate this for anyone.Posted by P-AngelPosted by Angie35scorp
Yes he has sent me 1 video and 1 picture of the cat since I left her at his home.
This is what you said yesterday on the other thread. In fact Abby even commented also referencing it in plural, since it was stated by you in plural.Posted by Angie35scorp
When he sends me pics and videos of my cat
the pics and videos are plural .. which means more than one.
Everything she says in here, she contradicts herself.
YOU DON'T EVEN SPAY/NEUTER YOUR ANIMALS, P-gel.
You allow them to breed endlessly until there are too many for you to feed.
You piece of living shit.
--------------------------------------------
OP
The police will accompany you to collect your things-- ALL OF THEM--
when this man returns home.
Even if OP is lying through her teeth, someone else can use this info.
Call them ahead, and arrange it.
He cannot hold your things or your cat hostage.
I have accompanied friends who've had to do this.
Not a big deal-- all will be fine.
update: SUPER HAPPY you got her back!click to expand
He has a camera in his closet to monitor... he sounds
crazy-- glad you got your kitty back though, as well.
🙂
Update: All is well with me and kitty.
He has sent txt saying he hopes kitty is well and I am also. He wants to be friends. Then he wants to start our relationship again. None of which I have responded to.
He hasn't mentioned the iPad situation trust or anything like that it's all a bit strange really sorry I can't offer further insight.
I want to keep updating this thread. When I was at my lowest point I read everything!!!!! When I couldn't make sense of anything I posted my issue on here and even though some people were just so nasty and used all of their energy to poke holes in everything I said others were soooo nice and just helpful maybe my experiences will help someone else who's trying to figure out what's going on with them.
He has sent txt saying he hopes kitty is well and I am also. He wants to be friends. Then he wants to start our relationship again. None of which I have responded to.
He hasn't mentioned the iPad situation trust or anything like that it's all a bit strange really sorry I can't offer further insight.
I want to keep updating this thread. When I was at my lowest point I read everything!!!!! When I couldn't make sense of anything I posted my issue on here and even though some people were just so nasty and used all of their energy to poke holes in everything I said others were soooo nice and just helpful maybe my experiences will help someone else who's trying to figure out what's going on with them.
Hi everyone....I'm bracing myself. I know you guys are going to give me a few choice words. So after I got my kitty back everything was fine. He pisces man txt a few times I ignored them then silly me I got manipulated back in by his stories of women hurting him etc my rescuer side emerged and I agreed to be friends. All calmed down and we passed a couple of basics how was your day etc.
Then I told him I was really down I was homesick stressed out. He sent me a message on fb messenger and I told him I wanted to avoid using that for a while. He asked why. I said it's because he was using it to communicate with the other woman. The thing is with that is that you can see when the person was last using it and when I see it the thoughts that go around in my heard are that he is speaking to that woman and it's painful. I know I'm not over it and I know it sounds silly. But it's my way to work through my feelings Anyway I didn't go into all of that with him just thought I could tell him the latter and he would understand hindsight I have no idea why I thought he would. Well I was wrong. He flipped out blocked me from fb told me every time he's nice to me I'm negative. I thought hold on I was being nice to you!! I didn't argue with him I just said I think every time I'm honest with you you have an issue. It pissed me off a little. But I am mostly pissed off that I was an idiot again. Friendship isn't the path for us.
Then I told him I was really down I was homesick stressed out. He sent me a message on fb messenger and I told him I wanted to avoid using that for a while. He asked why. I said it's because he was using it to communicate with the other woman. The thing is with that is that you can see when the person was last using it and when I see it the thoughts that go around in my heard are that he is speaking to that woman and it's painful. I know I'm not over it and I know it sounds silly. But it's my way to work through my feelings Anyway I didn't go into all of that with him just thought I could tell him the latter and he would understand hindsight I have no idea why I thought he would. Well I was wrong. He flipped out blocked me from fb told me every time he's nice to me I'm negative. I thought hold on I was being nice to you!! I didn't argue with him I just said I think every time I'm honest with you you have an issue. It pissed me off a little. But I am mostly pissed off that I was an idiot again. Friendship isn't the path for us.
In other words ...... you need more drama, so you came here with another twist to continue the fictional story.
As the stomach turns .........................
Posted by CaploveMy mum said that to actually. Funny thing is he's 53. So I guess age doesn't matter!Posted by Angie35scorpWhy would he get upset that you were being honest with him about your feelings? He sounds very immature.
Hi everyone....I'm bracing myself. I know you guys are going to give me a few choice words. So after I got my kitty back everything was fine. He pisces man txt a few times I ignored them then silly me I got manipulated back in by his stories of women hurting him etc my rescuer side emerged and I agreed to be friends. All calmed down and we passed a couple of basics how was your day etc.
Then I told him I was really down I was homesick stressed out. He sent me a message on fb messenger and I told him I wanted to avoid using that for a while. He asked why. I said it's because he was using it to communicate with the other woman. The thing is with that is that you can see when the person was last using it and when I see it the thoughts that go around in my heard are that he is speaking to that woman and it's painful. I know I'm not over it and I know it sounds silly. But it's my way to work through my feelings Anyway I didn't go into all of that with him just thought I could tell him the latter and he would understand hindsight I have no idea why I thought he would. Well I was wrong. He flipped out blocked me from fb told me every time he's nice to me I'm negative. I thought hold on I was being nice to you!! I didn't argue with him I just said I think every time I'm honest with you you have an issue. It pissed me off a little. But I am mostly pissed off that I was an idiot again. Friendship isn't the path for us.
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Posted by CaploveHe said he didn't I think he did....he won't admit it. We disagree more now we aren't together. We never argued while we were together at all ...funny isn't it.Posted by Angie35scorpOh wow. He probably feels guilty about it and it was just a reminder of his betrayal, but that's his deal not yours. It's not a criticism. You have to be able to share how you feel. Did he cheat?Posted by CaploveMy mum said that to actually. Funny thing is he's 53. So I guess age doesn't matter!Posted by Angie35scorpWhy would he get upset that you were being honest with him about your feelings? He sounds very immature.
Hi everyone....I'm bracing myself. I know you guys are going to give me a few choice words. So after I got my kitty back everything was fine. He pisces man txt a few times I ignored them then silly me I got manipulated back in by his stories of women hurting him etc my rescuer side emerged and I agreed to be friends. All calmed down and we passed a couple of basics how was your day etc.
Then I told him I was really down I was homesick stressed out. He sent me a message on fb messenger and I told him I wanted to avoid using that for a while. He asked why. I said it's because he was using it to communicate with the other woman. The thing is with that is that you can see when the person was last using it and when I see it the thoughts that go around in my heard are that he is speaking to that woman and it's painful. I know I'm not over it and I know it sounds silly. But it's my way to work through my feelings Anyway I didn't go into all of that with him just thought I could tell him the latter and he would understand hindsight I have no idea why I thought he would. Well I was wrong. He flipped out blocked me from fb told me every time he's nice to me I'm negative. I thought hold on I was being nice to you!! I didn't argue with him I just said I think every time I'm honest with you you have an issue. It pissed me off a little. But I am mostly pissed off that I was an idiot again. Friendship isn't the path for us.
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He just sent me a message saying let's just get along no more drama tut...
No we are way you past that we weren't to get her for long only 6 months but friends for longer. I think he has Insecurities. I think he is being tempted away by the other lady and he's gone. I don't need to remain his friend to be honest because I almost feel he wants me to be hanging around until he is ready to resume probably after he tries to get with the other lady to see if she's more compatible. Unfortunately for him I don't intend to wait around for him. I'm very much in love with him but I'm no one's second best! So let him go....he's gone!
Posted by P-AngelI was going to say, "just fucking stop you idiot" but I like this better lol
In other words ...... you need more drama, so you came here with another twist to continue the fictional story.
As the stomach turns .........................
YOU HAVE NOT LEARNED YOUR LESSON SO HAVE FUN!! REMEMBER YOU INVITED THIS.
Sorry about the typos lol
Yea yea ok I know lol I'm done lol just updating because I thought I should. Nothing but ignoring him and getting my life together ... not posting because I'm lost or confused this time lol just updating ...it may help someone else.
I will NOT be bothering with him anymore!!
On another note I have a Capricorn ex trying to come back, a Scorpio ex and a Leo ex wanting back in.
I think I'm going to stay away from ex's lol and just chill out alone for a while. I'm sooooooo done for a while and I never want P to have anything else to comment on again lol
I will NOT be bothering with him anymore!!
On another note I have a Capricorn ex trying to come back, a Scorpio ex and a Leo ex wanting back in.
I think I'm going to stay away from ex's lol and just chill out alone for a while. I'm sooooooo done for a while and I never want P to have anything else to comment on again lol
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