Relationships.

I'm very selective about being in relationships. In my entire life, I've only had two official girl friends. Is this a Scorpio thing? How many mates have you had?

Also, what started and ended these relationships?

For me, I've always found myself to be to nice to make moves quickly. I'm to respectful for my own good. I've actually heard girls tell me they thought I wasn't interested because I wasn't only trying to get in their pants. Excuse the fuck out of me.

Posted by Shruikan
I wasn't interested because I wasn't only trying to get in their pants.

Well you're a Scorpio, what are you doing not trying to get in their pants? 😛

Posted by Shruikan
Also, what started and ended these relationships?

For me, I've always found myself to be to nice to make moves quickly. I'm to respectful for my own good. I've actually heard girls tell me they thought I wasn't interested because I wasn't only trying to get in their pants. Excuse the fuck out of me.

My Scorp was also slow-moving when it came to sex, but I was too. We both wanted to have a solid foundation together before diving into sex.

Once we did....

Well, let's just say, I have my very own porn star at the snap of a finger 😛

Posted by Shruikan
I'm very selective about being in relationships. In my entire life, I've only had two official girl friends. Is this a Scorpio thing? How many mates have you had?

I am not a serial dater, and picky for a reason. I just don't do relationships that I don't go into relationships without connection. I also don't go on dates that makes me guess things, If a guy wants me he has to prove himself for me to take him seriously. and if he doesnt have a chance I tell him straight. not literally rude just have always been working, and studying at the same time that I value so much my time. Plus I like to take my time in getting to know somebody than jump in the sack.

I have only had 3 relationships as of yet, and Im not even sure I want one more. 😄

Posted by Shruikan
Also, what started and ended these relationships?

For me, I've always found myself to be to nice to make moves quickly. I'm to respectful for my own good. I've actually heard girls tell me they thought I wasn't interested because I wasn't only trying to get in their pants. Excuse the fuck out of me.

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That is good trait that you take time to get to know them as a person other than just getting laid.

allright i'll confess something. the other night, my husband tells me i'm kind of "crazy'. while on the drive home, I got butthurt. I thought he meant me being in the mental psych ward. I almost sniffled. Then he said, no no, not that. ugh i take it so literal sometimes. Then i pondered and thought about that. then got butthurt again. what? i'm normal okay. NORMAL. he's not convinced. to me, he's crazy himself. calls himself the devil jokingly. says, 'what if i'm actually the devil, would you still love me? think long and hard about that.' i thought, omg. no wonder we're stuck like glue.
so i suppose he needs a certain kind of "stimulation" to keep him going or else he'll get bored even though we're both actually boring people. so yeah we're both very very selective.

Posted by Fox
1 so far.
I wouldn't want to be in any more, but overall I would not want to be in more than 2.

Thanks for the reply. I feel the same way. Everyone I know had more girlfriends than me when they were much much longer... it's disconcerting.

Posted by Impulsv
I'm selective as well n only had three serious relationship. I don't date just to date

I feel the same. I've never dated just to date.

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Posted by Shruikan
Also, what started and ended these relationships?

For me, I've always found myself to be to nice to make moves quickly. I'm to respectful for my own good. I've actually heard girls tell me they thought I wasn't interested because I wasn't only trying to get in their pants. Excuse the fuck out of me.

My Scorp was also slow-moving when it came to sex, but I was too. We both wanted to have a solid foundation together before diving into sex.

Once we did....

Well, let's just say, I have my very own porn star at the snap of a finger 😛

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That's a good way to put it. I'd like a firm foundation first. It makes it more special when it happens. I don't like one night stands much

What's a relationship?

I think the only real one was in middle school/highschool
when I was a wee little scorp
After that its like a mishmash of hookups & flings...

Now that I look at things subjectively.

Posted by Rabbit
Relationships for the wrong reasons: several

Relationships for the right reasons: two

Hm..... I like that.

Posted by Shruikan
I'm very selective about being in relationships. In my entire life, I've only had two official girl friends. Is this a Scorpio thing? How many mates have you had?

I literally had two official girl friends in my life also...maybe it got sumthin to do with our moons being in taurus lol

Interesting theory. I wonder if Moon in Taurus people tend to be selective.

Anyone know anything about that?

Both of them were taurus, not sure what that means really lol just wanted to share that since we on the taurus moon thing...

Posted by Shruikan
Interesting theory. I wonder if Moon in Taurus people tend to be selective.

Anyone know anything about that?

My hubby has Moon in Libra. Combined with his Sag Mars, he'd have made a good rentboy, but he's been on dates with over 100 women, and only had a relationship with one before me.

Im the same way.

I don't date just to date.

I date when there's a general adoration for them. It's too much work to make time for someone I wasn't really that into.

Posted by Shruikan
I'm very selective about being in relationships. In my entire life, I've only had two official girl friends. Is this a Scorpio thing? How many mates have you had?

i am also very selective, 1 boyfriend. Venus in cap

Posted by KVZZMIR11
Tbh if women weren't selctive then it wouldn't feel like an accomplishment to get them.

Women CAN afford to to be ALL selective as much as they see fit because when they make the effort and make themselves available in the right way, a lot of them can have their choice of men.

So this is why men NEED to be selective.
Don't pursue a woman because she is readily available or wants you, but because you genuinely like her, think she has her act together, and she meets your critierias.

This is will shift the scales back to normal where women will have to behave to impress the man.

Obviously it sounds ridiculous in this day and age of the "White Knight."

Wow. That's excellent advice. Very true.