Scorpio and control

ok so scorpio women. i know scorpios love a power struggle. i dont really get it. i think it turns them on. how do you feel once a guy takes complete control? this girl was intent on testing my worth so i allowed it for a while because i really like her. she took it too far though. now im in a position of complete dominance.

in the art of war it says that if your opponent is showing weakness or his ranks appear to be thin, you must assume that he has an abundance of strength and or is hiding his numbers. it also says that an opponent who boasts and is over eager to fight then it can be assumed that he is weak at his core.
if you put yourself in an unbeatable position then wait for your opponent to make a fatal error you can capitalize with minimal casualties.

she should have known that i was just letting her test me. what a huge miscalculation on her part. thinking i was being manipulative. i called for a truce but she didnt accept so i took action. so now that i pretty much own this girl what should i do with her? ive got her right where i want her. i guess thats probably right where she wants to be though huh?

yeah. i am way out of my league. thats exactly how its supposed to seem. see you gotta use ur brain man. i also already own an xbox. thanks for the wisdom.

see virgo. what u just did there is the exact same reaction she had.

hu?bris-excessive pride or self-confidence; arrogance.

foolish scorpio pride. it will be your downfall.

i mean u just proved my point.

i didnt even have to own u. U JUST OWNED URSELF LOLOLOL

no jack. you can use the principals in every day seduction.

(Sigh, the lenghts I'll go for a laugh:p)

Oh here comes an Indian telling us how an ancient Chinese test has nothing to do with relationships. I suppose in her next post she'll just mention the Kama Sutra "off-handedly". I mean, it just makes sense, no? He is asking for suggestions of what to do with a woman he has in complete control. It has nothing to do with the fact that that ancient text is of Indian origin. No, not at all.


I'm on to your game sb, and frankly, I find your regionalism appalling.

"[Yum, you're bored right about now, right?]"

Possibly.


I'm also a bit obsessive when it comes to such things. I hid one of those posts, for example, because I forgot to add italics after I cntl-peed it. And in the edit before that, I decided I wanted to exchange chauvinism for regionalism, because I liked the sound of it better. The sad thing is, if there was an edit button on this forum I probably would've edited ir some more. Humor is a harsh mistress.

In short, yes I am bored.

*If there were.


Drats.

I read neither.

Seen some illustrations, though.

Leonardo DiCaprio aside - because I don't know him personally - none of the Scorps I've ever known were into power struggles. They are into power - personal power, magnetism, and the aura of attraction - and they understand the ultimate power... SEX! In fact, they seem helplessly fascinated by the two Opposing Drives: libido, the life/sex drive; and Thanatos, the death drive -- and their opposing means of expression, pleasure versus pain...

Maybe their obsession with the two opposing forces makes them unstable??

I think you see power struggles in insecure Scorps - analogous to any of the nutty things Virgos do when they're uncertain. For example, Virgos tend to plan things to the nth degree to eliminate uncertainty, and therefore worry. Maybe a Scorp who's not sure how they feel about you, or how you feel about them, would resort to power games to alleviate the nervous energy...

Or, maybe they're all just nucking futz!!

But I do agree that trying to apply Sun Tzu's The Art of War to dating makes no sense... in fact, it's a bit scary! But then again, I'm a peace-loving Earth Dude... as in: All I want is peace & quiet, so give me a piece & I'll be quiet!

I see a relationship as a partnership.

Yes! An army of one is a great slogan, but I haven't seen one win a war!

So you could see your family as an army and use some those principles in order solidify your family structure.

Exactly. Semper fi, do or die... together!

Crabtank, why would you want to be in a relationship where you have to use "The Art of War" as a guidebook?

All you'll get is...well...war. How fun!

Yeah, he's so in control of that relationship that he has to post it on a message board for reassurance.

Nice try clown.

owned.

crabtank,
we are self sacrificing. remember that and beware.