Scorpio and Virgo Dilemma (Page 4)

Ya that's true sometimes you can't be too patient, then they'll procrastinate on making a decision. 😛

CapAngel:

Interesting that u mentioned Jenna Jameson -- just read her book about a month ago. Nothing too terribly outrageous, but a FUN leisure read. Yep, somehow I knew deep down that my "one-time initiating" wouldn't get me too far, but since that's what he asked for, and I DID eventually provide -- what the heck? Crap, I gotta keep inititating? LOL!

Just an FYI - thought being pregnant would make me feel less in the mood -- not so, especially this past month!

So,

Hey you! Looks like I've been missing a lot - especially about Jenna🙂 I'm preparing to move - so I've been busy. I've accepted a new job in another state so I haven't been on the boards much. So how is our Mommie and baby and poppie? Hope all is well. My maternal instinct has kicked in with you, I hope you don't mind all of my nurturing advice. I just needed to reconnect. I see there is another Sweet-P on the boards. She seems cool.

Sweet Pea

SweetPea:

Sounds like a interesting opportunity,to move to a new state. Adventure..Love it. Feeling really grounded with baby in belly - we've bought furniture and painted room in our house -- so, yeah, alot grounded! Funny, Virgos like grounded, right? HaHa. It's amazing to think i'll be someone's mom! Yikes! Scorpio man and I are doing ok in alot of ways...he's been supportive, offered to sign up for birth classes and we took a tour of maternity ward..He listens to tummy alot at night...Ok, so when does the Scorpio shoe drop? LOL!
Still nothing in the sex dept. since we've gotten back from Florida...my resolve is thinning, although, I'm not thinning! It's funny, now that I did initiate, albeit only once, I feel even dumber bringing up this issue with him. Good Luck with your new position!

I think if you initiate a couple times and really mean it (meaning not do it cause he wants you to) then he'll come around. You gotta show him u want him by just simply initiating or seducing him, otherwise, why wait for him to start it. He's not gonna like initiating all the time, he wants to feel wanted and desired so much by you that you can't take it anymore and jump his bones. So if you want it, don't be afraid to go after it. You can just seduce him, kiss him, and rub your hands it over his d--k while his pants are still on, that should be enough to get his engines roaring. Easy to do if you're already kissing and embracing, touch him in the right areas and that's probably all you need to do, or does he want you to do more than that?

At least your Scorpio isn't trying to convince you to take it up the bumhole, this is his new idea and I'm telling him if you want to do that to me, then you're gonna have to deal with it when I stick something up your hole. He isn't liking that at all! lol He hasn't had sex in over a year so he's dying with frustration and thinking of threesomes and all types of kinky stuff (I'm down but don't want 3somes to be a habit). I don't know if I can do anal, it grosses me out. I will fight to protect my butt hole lol, but maybe I'll do it once (to shut him up) and then put a lock on it and hope he never desires it again. I rather initiate, lets swap lol j/k

"If we were in Paris I would've grabbed her by the waist and kissed her, but..."

So,

You sound happy - good for baby! Don't let CapAngel give you any ideas. Especially on the backside of things🙂Keep working at it. You have much to look forward to. Thanks for the kind words. Groundedness - I love it too - but, sometimes you have to do what's best. I love adventure too! I'm very excited, but torn. I know your due soon, but when babygirl arrives, please let us know how she, you and poppie are...

Sweet Pea

Lady M,

but...

Sweet Pea

CapAngel:

You guys are cracking me up! I would "swap" -- The anal thing doesn't completely gross me out (odd, for a Virgo huh?) but yes, the PRIDE virgo thing with my particular issue is much larger to me..so, yeah, I'd trade places! LOL!

He told me earlier this week that having something to drink makes it easier for him to initiate with me -- he was trying to explain why the last couple of times we had sex he felt "free" to initiate because of a couple of drinks, which help to loosen him up -- otherwise he's feeling "unwanted" and is afraid to make the move..Wow, my Scorpman afraid? Is that uncharacteristic of this sign or what? We're alot more alike lately than we are different. Not giving up!