We starting out with a ‘typical’ Scorpio/Cancer relationship. We met and instantly felt a connection. He was talking about us moving in together after knowing each other for maybe a couple weeks. Everything seemed ‘fairy tale-like’ ,we both had the same interests/goals for the future and he loved how nurturing and selfless I was, but after a couple months of perfection things started to become hot and cold. A lot of the things he complained about felt to me were things he expected me to know about him. After a couple hot and cold weeks he broke up with me on Mother’s Day. > We spoke sparingly a couple days after the break up but after 5-6days we agreed we didn’t want anyone else but each other a got back together. The following month was a little tough (I blame Mercury in Retrograde lol) but we gave each other a couple days of no communication, and after that we were AMAZING. For the next month we were back to planning on moving in together and by mid Aug we were set to move in together. A week before we got the keys he ended it saying that “I was giving him enough physical affection and that maybe he just expected so much out of the person he is with because I was the only source of love he had because he was all alone without family. And that even though I did nothing wrong and was one of the kindest and most caring people he’s ever met that he just couldn’t do it anymore.” Of course I was hurt ,but by the next night we were in each other arms again even more passionately that when we had been dating. Since then he’s be very ‘inconsistent’ with what he says he wants and what he does. Recently this weekend when I started to pull back with my communication and he started to blow up my phone with saying he wanted to hangout and how he missed me. We had a blast and were together the whole weekend, but then last night he told me he was scared that he wasn’t good enough to be with me because he has a lot of mental issues from his past and that he doesn’t want me to get my hopes up for the future. I don’t know if this is a test to see how loyal I am or if he just likes that I have that nurturing quality that he lost when his mom past. He’s always expressed how people abandon him but at the same time he says he pushes people away because he is so “f***ed up in the head.”
