Arizonatea
@Arizonatea
7 Years
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Posted by wildflower
He was IN a relationship for 7 years, he was committed to that person and emotionally attached, hes not ready for you. You're expecting too much from him if you've only been dating a month.
What was the deciding factor for you guys to be dating again? Does he ask you? Does he take you out on dates? What differs than your friendship—
You've known him for 12 years but that means nothing.
Also ghosting happens when its been a month or more of no contact, Im over people saying they were "ghosted" and its been a couple of days, get real. Not everyone wants to talk to someone 24/7. Let it build. But you're pushing, pushing, pushing. I would've ran from you too honestly. I think he's being upfront by letting you know you're moving too fast, thats simply what it is, YOU are moving too fast. HE's not there yet.


Posted by Arizonatea
he was never married. we are only 26 years old. He was simply in a long term relationship.

Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by Victorious
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.click to expand

Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by ArizonateaPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by justagirl
Sooo y'all having twins soon?
Troll right? Scorp and Geminis don't have good sex.
says who?
sex with him is the only time I ever orgasm during actual intercourse.
Nah.
Bad sex. Very bad sex. The worst ever.
Zero chemistry
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Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by Victorious
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
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Posted by Arizonatea
I am dating a scorpio and I am a gemini and he keeps telling me we are moving too fast when we are hardly moving at all! He's very cautious because he got out of a 7 year relationship 3 years ago and now he's terrified to love again! How can I go about this without freaking him out? We've known each other for 12 years as friends.
He does that hot and cold thing where he will ghost me, then come back with oodles of apologies and put me back on cloud 9, only to ghost me again.
I'm confused on if I should be patient with him for a great reward, or if I should just cut him off because of the inconsistency.
Posted by justagirl
Sooo y'all having twins soon?

Posted by ArizonateaPosted by VictoriousPosted by ArizonateaPosted by Victorious
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
I dont know how because everything I do seems to be interpreted as moving too fast and he backs off from my actions before I can even know what I did wrong! For example I love talking about the future and I was discussing us taking trips together and that made him feel like we were moving too fast.
How am I supposed to know that!
How long have you been dating?
we've been dating for a month recently. years ago we dated in these short bursts and then would fall out passionately then reunite. its an ongoing thing...click to expand
Posted by perperunaPosted by ArizonateaPosted by Mr_Pinchy
I think he's a bit of a wuss. Ye bro, shit happened. 3 years ago. Time to move on.
Or if he isn't a wuss, you're just there so he empties his ballsack from time to time and hides behind this story to mask it all infront of you, so you get onto to him that you're there just to alleviate his physical needs.
It's nice if a cumdumpster has a shoulder to cry onto after sex.
we have mindblowing sex but now he wants to be abstinent because he's a troubled soul who is seeking God and feels sex has become a distraction. So we aren't even physically intimate anymore.
Seems like some sort of mental issue. And not that into youclick to expand
Posted by DonnaLibra
So the sex between my Scorpio dad and Taurus bio mom must have been off the hook and that's why he can't get over her. Wow! You learn so much from these forums.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by perperunaPosted by ArizonateaPosted by Mr_Pinchy
I think he's a bit of a wuss. Ye bro, shit happened. 3 years ago. Time to move on.
Or if he isn't a wuss, you're just there so he empties his ballsack from time to time and hides behind this story to mask it all infront of you, so you get onto to him that you're there just to alleviate his physical needs.
It's nice if a cumdumpster has a shoulder to cry onto after sex.
we have mindblowing sex but now he wants to be abstinent because he's a troubled soul who is seeking God and feels sex has become a distraction. So we aren't even physically intimate anymore.
Seems like some sort of mental issue. And not that into you
i got confused at mind blowing sex and wanting to be a monk /no sex /abstinence.
is he religious?? cause it sounds like he feels guilty for feeling good sexually and god help him, for sinning.
or he's reallly troubled. which btw religion can do that to you at times. all that guilt.
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Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Cut him off.
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by wildflowerPosted by DonnaLibra
So the sex between my Scorpio dad and Taurus bio mom must have been off the hook and that's why he can't get over her. Wow! You learn so much from these forums.
ya that taurus scorpio connection, nothing like it.... I feel bad for your dad, Im scared that will be me in 40yrs, still in love with my ex lol
Why do you want to wait? Go to your Taurus. Make it work. Believe in your love for him and his love for you.
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Posted by DonnaLibra
Posted by justagirl
Sooo y'all having twins soon?
Troll right? Scorp and Geminis don't have good sex.
says who?
sex with him is the only time I ever orgasm during actual intercourse.
Nah.
Bad sex. Very bad sex. The worst ever.
Zero chemistry
How many times you had it?
I didn't know that! My Dad is a Scorpio and my step mom is a Gemini. She never wanted sex with him so now I know why.click to expand

Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by Victorious
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
By mature you mean sleeping with a married guy? Or cheating on a partner? Or being used as a cheap sex toy by someone who you think loves you?
You want this woman to continue this life? Or change her ways?
Bad sex? Idgaf about sex.
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Posted by ArizonateaPosted by Mr_Pinchy
I think he's a bit of a wuss. Ye bro, shit happened. 3 years ago. Time to move on.
Or if he isn't a wuss, you're just there so he empties his ballsack from time to time and hides behind this story to mask it all infront of you, so you get onto to him that you're there just to alleviate his physical needs.
It's nice if a cumdumpster has a shoulder to cry onto after sex.
we have mindblowing sex but now he wants to be abstinent because he's a troubled soul who is seeking God and feels sex has become a distraction. So we aren't even physically intimate anymore.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by perperunaPosted by ArizonateaPosted by Mr_Pinchy
I think he's a bit of a wuss. Ye bro, shit happened. 3 years ago. Time to move on.
Or if he isn't a wuss, you're just there so he empties his ballsack from time to time and hides behind this story to mask it all infront of you, so you get onto to him that you're there just to alleviate his physical needs.
It's nice if a cumdumpster has a shoulder to cry onto after sex.
we have mindblowing sex but now he wants to be abstinent because he's a troubled soul who is seeking God and feels sex has become a distraction. So we aren't even physically intimate anymore.
Seems like some sort of mental issue. And not that into you
i got confused at mind blowing sex and wanting to be a monk /no sex /abstinence.
is he religious?? cause it sounds like he feels guilty for feeling good sexually and god help him, for sinning.
or he's reallly troubled. which btw religion can do that to you at times. all that guilt.
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Posted by wildflowerPosted by lisabethur8Posted by perperunaPosted by ArizonateaPosted by Mr_Pinchy
I think he's a bit of a wuss. Ye bro, shit happened. 3 years ago. Time to move on.
Or if he isn't a wuss, you're just there so he empties his ballsack from time to time and hides behind this story to mask it all infront of you, so you get onto to him that you're there just to alleviate his physical needs.
It's nice if a cumdumpster has a shoulder to cry onto after sex.
we have mindblowing sex but now he wants to be abstinent because he's a troubled soul who is seeking God and feels sex has become a distraction. So we aren't even physically intimate anymore.
Seems like some sort of mental issue. And not that into you
i got confused at mind blowing sex and wanting to be a monk /no sex /abstinence.
is he religious?? cause it sounds like he feels guilty for feeling good sexually and god help him, for sinning.
or he's reallly troubled. which btw religion can do that to you at times. all that guilt.
It sounds confusing but its really not if you think about it...
he msged her on fb, they reconnected, she thinks its dating but he's just saying hi
maybe he misses her a little
they hook up, they do not hook up
I don't think he wants more than fwb right now but in her head, they are dating, but they're really not because at this point he doesn't even want the benefits. Its only been a month, the first month is when it comes heavy IF the person is interested
plus the cheating on both parts is a recipe for a doomed relationship
Now if you want to go the religious route, I have remained abstinent for spiritual reasons before and they were mostly for myself to be in a better place emotionally, Im telling you, the guy is hooked on the ex still. Even if he cheated on her, the time/energy/resources/love/whatever was invested into that relationship. Scorps, we really are that intense, like incredibly intense, I think if you don't know how we feel about you its because we aren't sure of you yetclick to expand

Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by Victorious
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
By mature you mean sleeping with a married guy? Or cheating on a partner? Or being used as a cheap sex toy by someone who you think loves you?
You want this woman to continue this life? Or change her ways?
Bad sex? Idgaf about sex.
Last sentence...your problem! And answer to all your questions!
Yeah I guess. I am what you can xall a frigit woman.click to expand

Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by Victorious
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
By mature you mean sleeping with a married guy? Or cheating on a partner? Or being used as a cheap sex toy by someone who you think loves you?
You want this woman to continue this life? Or change her ways?
Bad sex? Idgaf about sex.
Last sentence...your problem! And answer to all your questions!
Yeah I guess. I am what you can xall a frigit woman.
You sure type tons of shit about relationships bein frigid woman.
Maybe you need to get out of HERE and find some man who will wake you up and make you want his dick like if your life depended on IT!
Ugh!
Who said I never desired someone like that? But I got self control. Or maybe not around him.
Anyways I got nothing to offer a man as a woman.
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Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by Victorious
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
By mature you mean sleeping with a married guy? Or cheating on a partner? Or being used as a cheap sex toy by someone who you think loves you?
You want this woman to continue this life? Or change her ways?
Bad sex? Idgaf about sex.
Last sentence...your problem! And answer to all your questions!
Yeah I guess. I am what you can xall a frigit woman.
You sure type tons of shit about relationships bein frigid woman.
Maybe you need to get out of HERE and find some man who will wake you up and make you want his dick like if your life depended on IT!
Ugh!
Who said I never desired someone like that? But I got self control. Or maybe not around him.
Anyways I got nothing to offer a man as a woman.
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Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by GemitatiPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by Victorious
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
By mature you mean sleeping with a married guy? Or cheating on a partner? Or being used as a cheap sex toy by someone who you think loves you?
You want this woman to continue this life? Or change her ways?
Bad sex? Idgaf about sex.
Last sentence...your problem! And answer to all your questions!
Yeah I guess. I am what you can xall a frigit woman.
You sure type tons of shit about relationships bein frigid woman.
Maybe you need to get out of HERE and find some man who will wake you up and make you want his dick like if your life depended on IT!
Ugh!
Who said I never desired someone like that? But I got self control. Or maybe not around him.
Anyways I got nothing to offer a man as a woman.
Your top portion is contradictory to the bottom 100% .
You need to stop living HERE in Dxp! You confused af!
It’s sad.
Lol
I'm not looking for a guy. I'm focusing on my career rn.click to expand

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