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He was IN a relationship for 7 years, he was committed to that person and emotionally attached, hes not ready for you. You're expecting too much from him if you've only been dating a month.
What was the deciding factor for you guys to be dating again? Does he ask you? Does he take you out on dates? What differs than your friendship—
You've known him for 12 years but that means nothing.
Also ghosting happens when its been a month or more of no contact, Im over people saying they were "ghosted" and its been a couple of days, get real. Not everyone wants to talk to someone 24/7. Let it build. But you're pushing, pushing, pushing. I would've ran from you too honestly. I think he's being upfront by letting you know you're moving too fast, thats simply what it is, YOU are moving too fast. HE's not there yet.
yeah he came out of the woodwork and messaged me on facebook and told me to call him so we could meet up and reconnect again because "I should know what it is between us".
This thread makes me laugh.
He is withholding sex, ASSHOLE!
He used you as a booty call, all he wants from you is sex, ASSHOLE!
Told you, he's damned if he does, and damned if he doesn't.
he was never married. we are only 26 years old. He was simply in a long term relationship.
So let me get this straight, you have been friends since you were 14. On and off from 14 to 16, and then he was with someone from 16 to 23. Then started dating at 26.
LOL K.
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
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Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Sooo y'all having twins soon?
Troll right? Scorp and Geminis don't have good sex.
says who?
sex with him is the only time I ever orgasm during actual intercourse.
Nah.
Bad sex. Very bad sex. The worst ever.
Zero chemistry
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How many times you had it?
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
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Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
I am dating a scorpio and I am a gemini and he keeps telling me we are moving too fast when we are hardly moving at all! He's very cautious because he got out of a 7 year relationship 3 years ago and now he's terrified to love again! How can I go about this without freaking him out? We've known each other for 12 years as friends.
He does that hot and cold thing where he will ghost me, then come back with oodles of apologies and put me back on cloud 9, only to ghost me again.
I'm confused on if I should be patient with him for a great reward, or if I should just cut him off because of the inconsistency.
What sign is his ex girlfriend? Scorpio men pine over an ex forever. It's sickening. My Dad still isn't over my bio mother and it's been 40 years since they were together. My bio mom is a Taurus.
Sooo y'all having twins soon?
Troll right? Scorp and Geminis don't have good sex.
says who?
sex with him is the only time I ever orgasm during actual intercourse.
Nah.
Bad sex. Very bad sex. The worst ever.
Zero chemistry
How many times you had it?
I didn't know that! My Dad is a Scorpio and my step mom is a Gemini. She never wanted sex with him so now I know why.
So the sex between my Scorpio dad and Taurus bio mom must have been off the hook and that's why he can't get over her. Wow! You learn so much from these forums.
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
I dont know how because everything I do seems to be interpreted as moving too fast and he backs off from my actions before I can even know what I did wrong! For example I love talking about the future and I was discussing us taking trips together and that made him feel like we were moving too fast.
How am I supposed to know that!
How long have you been dating?
we've been dating for a month recently. years ago we dated in these short bursts and then would fall out passionately then reunite. its an ongoing thing...
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IMO that would be too fast for me.
I think he's a bit of a wuss. Ye bro, shit happened. 3 years ago. Time to move on.
Or if he isn't a wuss, you're just there so he empties his ballsack from time to time and hides behind this story to mask it all infront of you, so you get onto to him that you're there just to alleviate his physical needs.
It's nice if a cumdumpster has a shoulder to cry onto after sex.
we have mindblowing sex but now he wants to be abstinent because he's a troubled soul who is seeking God and feels sex has become a distraction. So we aren't even physically intimate anymore.
Seems like some sort of mental issue. And not that into you
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i got confused at mind blowing sex and wanting to be a monk /no sex /abstinence.
is he religious?? cause it sounds like he feels guilty for feeling good sexually and god help him, for sinning.
or he's reallly troubled. which btw religion can do that to you at times. all that guilt.
So the sex between my Scorpio dad and Taurus bio mom must have been off the hook and that's why he can't get over her. Wow! You learn so much from these forums.
ya that taurus scorpio connection, nothing like it.... I feel bad for your dad, Im scared that will be me in 40yrs, still in love with my ex lol
I think he's a bit of a wuss. Ye bro, shit happened. 3 years ago. Time to move on.
Or if he isn't a wuss, you're just there so he empties his ballsack from time to time and hides behind this story to mask it all infront of you, so you get onto to him that you're there just to alleviate his physical needs.
It's nice if a cumdumpster has a shoulder to cry onto after sex.
we have mindblowing sex but now he wants to be abstinent because he's a troubled soul who is seeking God and feels sex has become a distraction. So we aren't even physically intimate anymore.
Seems like some sort of mental issue. And not that into you
i got confused at mind blowing sex and wanting to be a monk /no sex /abstinence.
is he religious?? cause it sounds like he feels guilty for feeling good sexually and god help him, for sinning.
or he's reallly troubled. which btw religion can do that to you at times. all that guilt.
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It sounds confusing but its really not if you think about it...
he msged her on fb, they reconnected, she thinks its dating but he's just saying hi
maybe he misses her a little
they hook up, they do not hook up
I don't think he wants more than fwb right now but in her head, they are dating, but they're really not because at this point he doesn't even want the benefits. Its only been a month, the first month is when it comes heavy IF the person is interested
plus the cheating on both parts is a recipe for a doomed relationship
Now if you want to go the religious route, I have remained abstinent for spiritual reasons before and they were mostly for myself to be in a better place emotionally, Im telling you, the guy is hooked on the ex still. Even if he cheated on her, the time/energy/resources/love/whatever was invested into that relationship. Scorps, we really are that intense, like incredibly intense, I think if you don't know how we feel about you its because we aren't sure of you yet
Cut him off.
Do what Squishy_Marshmallow said!!!! I was dating a Scorpio guy a few months back and he ghosted me although he does reach out I have not seen him in months, My sister Gem stay his friend and save yourself true heartache.
So the sex between my Scorpio dad and Taurus bio mom must have been off the hook and that's why he can't get over her. Wow! You learn so much from these forums.
ya that taurus scorpio connection, nothing like it.... I feel bad for your dad, Im scared that will be me in 40yrs, still in love with my ex lol
Why do you want to wait? Go to your Taurus. Make it work. Believe in your love for him and his love for you.
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yea I wish but no can do, he's with someone else now.
Sooo y'all having twins soon?
Troll right? Scorp and Geminis don't have good sex.
says who?
sex with him is the only time I ever orgasm during actual intercourse.
Nah.
Bad sex. Very bad sex. The worst ever.
Zero chemistry
How many times you had it?
I didn't know that! My Dad is a Scorpio and my step mom is a Gemini. She never wanted sex with him so now I know why.
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Women go frigid and it’s not men fault sometimes’
Sometimes it IS! But not always...
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
By mature you mean sleeping with a married guy? Or cheating on a partner? Or being used as a cheap sex toy by someone who you think loves you?
You want this woman to continue this life? Or change her ways?
Bad sex? Idgaf about sex.
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Last sentence...your problem! And answer to all your questions!
You two are living in each other's pasts by being together, one which you muddied the potential for a trusting and strong relationship in the now present future by cheating on your past partners together. He is regretting his ex, who you remind him of no doubt. If it was love, he would be prudent. Scorpios don't waste time when we are confident in our choices and have a satisfied, content mind. From what I've read about you two, you are not meant to be and are both equally to blame for it. It sounds like you're both afraid of moving on to things and people that will help you grow.
I think he's a bit of a wuss. Ye bro, shit happened. 3 years ago. Time to move on.
Or if he isn't a wuss, you're just there so he empties his ballsack from time to time and hides behind this story to mask it all infront of you, so you get onto to him that you're there just to alleviate his physical needs.
It's nice if a cumdumpster has a shoulder to cry onto after sex.
we have mindblowing sex but now he wants to be abstinent because he's a troubled soul who is seeking God and feels sex has become a distraction. So we aren't even physically intimate anymore.
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Hand him over to God
The guy needs to be alone
I think he's a bit of a wuss. Ye bro, shit happened. 3 years ago. Time to move on.
Or if he isn't a wuss, you're just there so he empties his ballsack from time to time and hides behind this story to mask it all infront of you, so you get onto to him that you're there just to alleviate his physical needs.
It's nice if a cumdumpster has a shoulder to cry onto after sex.
we have mindblowing sex but now he wants to be abstinent because he's a troubled soul who is seeking God and feels sex has become a distraction. So we aren't even physically intimate anymore.
Seems like some sort of mental issue. And not that into you
i got confused at mind blowing sex and wanting to be a monk /no sex /abstinence.
is he religious?? cause it sounds like he feels guilty for feeling good sexually and god help him, for sinning.
or he's reallly troubled. which btw religion can do that to you at times. all that guilt.
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he comes from a religious background and wants to ideally live that life style but he keeps failing at it and regretting it, then binging on religion again, then falling out, then feeling guilty. rinse and repeat.
I think he's a bit of a wuss. Ye bro, shit happened. 3 years ago. Time to move on.
Or if he isn't a wuss, you're just there so he empties his ballsack from time to time and hides behind this story to mask it all infront of you, so you get onto to him that you're there just to alleviate his physical needs.
It's nice if a cumdumpster has a shoulder to cry onto after sex.
we have mindblowing sex but now he wants to be abstinent because he's a troubled soul who is seeking God and feels sex has become a distraction. So we aren't even physically intimate anymore.
Seems like some sort of mental issue. And not that into you
i got confused at mind blowing sex and wanting to be a monk /no sex /abstinence.
is he religious?? cause it sounds like he feels guilty for feeling good sexually and god help him, for sinning.
or he's reallly troubled. which btw religion can do that to you at times. all that guilt.
It sounds confusing but its really not if you think about it...
he msged her on fb, they reconnected, she thinks its dating but he's just saying hi
maybe he misses her a little
they hook up, they do not hook up
I don't think he wants more than fwb right now but in her head, they are dating, but they're really not because at this point he doesn't even want the benefits. Its only been a month, the first month is when it comes heavy IF the person is interested
plus the cheating on both parts is a recipe for a doomed relationship
Now if you want to go the religious route, I have remained abstinent for spiritual reasons before and they were mostly for myself to be in a better place emotionally, Im telling you, the guy is hooked on the ex still. Even if he cheated on her, the time/energy/resources/love/whatever was invested into that relationship. Scorps, we really are that intense, like incredibly intense, I think if you don't know how we feel about you its because we aren't sure of you yet
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No.
We are dating.
I literally flat out asked him two weeks into us linking up again.
"So are we exclusively dating now?"
"Duh" was his reply, as if I was supposed to know. After he ghosts me he comes back around and is amazed by me, he always says "I don't know why you put up with my shit, what do you see in me?" or "I thought you would've stopped fucking with me after the shit I've been on." etc etc.
and by the way
he's back. but I'm going to play things differently and step back and be a friend for now.
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
By mature you mean sleeping with a married guy? Or cheating on a partner? Or being used as a cheap sex toy by someone who you think loves you?
You want this woman to continue this life? Or change her ways?
Bad sex? Idgaf about sex.
Last sentence...your problem! And answer to all your questions!
Yeah I guess. I am what you can xall a frigit woman.
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You sure type tons of shit about relationships bein frigid woman.
Maybe you need to get out of HERE and find some man who will wake you up and make you want his dick like if your life depended on IT!
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
By mature you mean sleeping with a married guy? Or cheating on a partner? Or being used as a cheap sex toy by someone who you think loves you?
You want this woman to continue this life? Or change her ways?
Bad sex? Idgaf about sex.
Last sentence...your problem! And answer to all your questions!
Yeah I guess. I am what you can xall a frigit woman.
You sure type tons of shit about relationships bein frigid woman.
Maybe you need to get out of HERE and find some man who will wake you up and make you want his dick like if your life depended on IT!
Ugh!
Who said I never desired someone like that? But I got self control. Or maybe not around him.
Anyways I got nothing to offer a man as a woman.
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Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
By mature you mean sleeping with a married guy? Or cheating on a partner? Or being used as a cheap sex toy by someone who you think loves you?
You want this woman to continue this life? Or change her ways?
Bad sex? Idgaf about sex.
Last sentence...your problem! And answer to all your questions!
Yeah I guess. I am what you can xall a frigit woman.
You sure type tons of shit about relationships bein frigid woman.
Maybe you need to get out of HERE and find some man who will wake you up and make you want his dick like if your life depended on IT!
Ugh!
Who said I never desired someone like that? But I got self control. Or maybe not around him.
Anyways I got nothing to offer a man as a woman.
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Your top portion is contradictory to the bottom 100% .
You need to stop living HERE in Dxp! You confused af!
It’s sad.
Maybe stop moving so fast with him?
He literally said that.
You know very well what he's doing.
OP, Listen to me and cut him off.
Tell him aliens kidnapped you.
Let me ask you before I jump on you...how many scorpios have you been with?
Three guys. Two are Scorps. Now what?
I can write and give it to you, he won't trust her ever. She cheated on her bf. It's game over. All that hair pulling? My scorp ex used to do it when my college senior guys used to rag me or annoy me. I wasn't messing around and I went with how I was behaving.. But I was getting attention and I wasn't streetsmart enough to know what it was. So it used to mindfuck him a lot even tho he knew I wasn't messing around. They are jealous already.
This guy won't commit to her. Even if they do, it will be too messy for a stable relationship. She has to change her ways and move on.
Do you have any mature experience? And you can write and give it to me but better don’t waste your time!
She cheated on her bf with HIM! It’s a different type of cheating for a Scorpio!
But you can keep arguing. You will know nothing anyway! Until this story ends.
And why about bad sex with your Scorpios?
By mature you mean sleeping with a married guy? Or cheating on a partner? Or being used as a cheap sex toy by someone who you think loves you?
You want this woman to continue this life? Or change her ways?
Bad sex? Idgaf about sex.
Last sentence...your problem! And answer to all your questions!
Yeah I guess. I am what you can xall a frigit woman.
You sure type tons of shit about relationships bein frigid woman.
Maybe you need to get out of HERE and find some man who will wake you up and make you want his dick like if your life depended on IT!
Ugh!
Who said I never desired someone like that? But I got self control. Or maybe not around him.
Anyways I got nothing to offer a man as a woman.
Your top portion is contradictory to the bottom 100% .
You need to stop living HERE in Dxp! You confused af!
It’s sad.
Lol
I'm not looking for a guy. I'm focusing on my career rn.
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What career? Dxp poster?
So I told him I was now going to start dating other men and he suddenly came over and spent the night with me kissing me and cuddling me and talking all night. He made remarks like "oh you gonna have your little hoes now" and "you're gonna find somebody else" talking about how he wanted me to wait for him.
Then he went home this morning and actually called me in the afternoon, not like him, and talked to me about his plans to set up an interview for a new job. He said he will call me after he sets it up and tell me how it goes.
Is he changing because I said I'm dating other men now or playing games?
if a scorp wants you, they'll pursue. Not as aggressively as the fire signs, but he will. If he doesn't, it's pretty clear he doesn't see a future with you, harsh but true
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he's in the reserves and he's stationed in our hometown so he never really leaves.