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anyway, im sorry to say but you have no personality. came into this forum asking for advice to get something postiive out of the relationship and when they told you to bang and dump, you agreed . That to me is a lain coward, though you havent acted upon it yet. I do agree that the girl shouldnt have slept around w as many guys in the first place, but its her life and really you should be worried about YOUR life and what youre going to do w it. as i said, youre the one in charge of your Karma. So if youre about to do what you just said youd do, be prepared to have some asshole do the same shit to your daughter cause he wasnt man enough to deal w emotions.
I knew he was gonna side with the scorps. lol. Hello, they dont want him to get played. Snapped him right out of his emotional pisces moment and now he's out to get her. Poor girl. lol
Poor girl— IF she is like the other Cancer girls I know in life then she just might enjoy it....
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LOL. I agree, i said "poor girl" as in she might enjoy it too much. And if he looses interest because if in fact his "obsession" with her is only "lustful desires" then she will be left in the dust or worse, only called when he wants to let off a few rounds. At her age she may not be emotionally stable enough. And judging by what he wrote on here with her history with guys so far, i fee for her. In a way i was joking but serious.
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*feel.
I mean it's not like she's purposely setting him up to make him obessesed with banging her, thats a personal issue of his.
I could see if she was prancing around his dorm in nothing but boyshorts, or grabbing his nuts under the study table, then turning down his advances, but she's simply talking to him, enjoying his company in group setting. Hell that might be why she refuses his advances to get her alone, she knows her own weakness and doesn't want the Scorp to get the best of her. Not such a dumb girl after all 😉
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She's a slut. Find yourself a good girl.

And eat some steaks man. Stop this vegetarian nonsense. Your body needs carnitine.
Fuck men up the ass with their double standards! She's a slut because she's actually had sex with someone other than Scorpio dude? As if Scorpio dude is a flaming virgin ~snort~.........Although, if he does manage to sleep with her and he's a virgin, he'll never get her out of his system. Either way, he's going to get hooked. But back to double standards......screw the double standards!
Don't talk to me like that.
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Stop with the double standard. Also, you can't make me. So there!
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I reread your OP.

She doesn' t trust you because you are untrustworty, a user and a rat fink. First you use her to get back at your "friend". With friends like you who needs enemies?

Then when she wouldn't cheat on her boyfriend with you, yo go behind her back and tell her boyfriend/your "friend" some story that gets them fighting that eventually leads to a break up. She is rightfully upset with you.

You eventualy convince her to forgive you. But she knows you can't be fully trusted so keeps you at a distance. So now you want payback for her not giving you the time of day. By using her body and dumping her.

Grow up. And so should the assholes who suggested you mistreat this girl by dicking her and dumping her.
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Posted by Reincarnation
She's a slut. Find yourself a good girl.

And eat some steaks man. Stop this vegetarian nonsense. Your body needs carnitine.
What makes her a slut? There are 3 guys mentioned in OP's post. The boyfriend, Scorpio poster, and some Taurus ex she may have texted with. We only have one confirmed sex partner and that was the Bull boyfriend. She won't give Scorp the time of day because he has admitted to shady behavior. So tell me where is the slut?
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She's a slut. Find yourself a good girl.

And eat some steaks man. Stop this vegetarian nonsense. Your body needs carnitine.
Fuck men up the ass with their double standards! She's a slut because she's actually had sex with someone other than Scorpio dude? As if Scorpio dude is a flaming virgin ~snort~.........Although, if he does manage to sleep with her and he's a virgin, he'll never get her out of his system. Either way, he's going to get hooked. But back to double standards......screw the double standards!
Don't talk to me like that.
Stop with the double standard. Also, you can't make me. So there!
That time of the month?
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Yes....but that's no excuse for having a double standard, which should be shoved up the collective ass of Man.
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So I just messaged her asking what her plans tonight were and she replies with 'sleeping'...I asked her if she wanted to chill, if she says no I'm just going to give up, no point in dragging out this unnecessarily
You know, the ladies love it when I penetrate their souls.


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You might try to exercise patience.


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Man youre 20 dont listen to half these comments. You dont want to be one of these 50 yr olds (Lord Sewel) being exposed in the news trying to relive their youth because they got married when they were 18. Get it out your system now so when you do find your wife, youll be fully prepared to settle down.
Still, treat ALL women with respect, whether they deserve it or not. Lot less regrets that way.



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Posted by LunarMaiden
I reread your OP.

She doesn' t trust you because you are untrustworty, a user and a rat fink. First you use her to get back at your "friend". With friends like you who needs enemies?

Then when she wouldn't cheat on her boyfriend with you, yo go behind her back and tell her boyfriend/your "friend" some story that gets them fighting that eventually leads to a break up. She is rightfully upset with you.

You eventualy convince her to forgive you. But she knows you can't be fully trusted so keeps you at a distance. So now you want payback for her not giving you the time of day. By using her body and dumping her.

Grow up. And so should the assholes who suggested you mistreat this girl by dicking her and dumping her.

oh boy.....painting her as the victim? please, she's a lil sl*t lol the way he described her screams sl*t, which is her right to be one if she wants to be one......Im not one to judge lol
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LOL. omigosh for the last time She is not a slut. I'm starting to think that Scorpio males should just make this world a better place and date virgins only. Because any woman that yall want that has anyone before your or after you is a slut, the only women that are untouched are virgins.
So get a woman take her v-card, and most likely she will be stuck on you and you'll be all she knows. Perfect for yall right? Think about it 😉
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I reread your OP.

She doesn' t trust you because you are untrustworty, a user and a rat fink. First you use her to get back at your "friend". With friends like you who needs enemies?

Then when she wouldn't cheat on her boyfriend with you, yo go behind her back and tell her boyfriend/your "friend" some story that gets them fighting that eventually leads to a break up. She is rightfully upset with you.

You eventualy convince her to forgive you. But she knows you can't be fully trusted so keeps you at a distance. So now you want payback for her not giving you the time of day. By using her body and dumping her.

Grow up. And so should the assholes who suggested you mistreat this girl by dicking her and dumping her.

oh boy.....painting her as the victim? please, she's a lil sl*t lol the way he described her screams sl*t, which is her right to be one if she wants to be one......Im not one to judge lol
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She's refusing to be a victim, which is why she isn't giving him her time.
His desciption of her is based on his fears and insecurity.
None of which can be trusted, because it's not based in reason.
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Posted by Lyse
LOL. omigosh for the last time She is not a slut. I'm starting to think that Scorpio males should just make this world a better place and date virgins only. Because any woman that yall want that has anyone before your or after you is a slut, the only women that are untouched are virgins.
So get a woman take her v-card, and most likely she will be stuck on you and you'll be all she knows. Perfect for yall right? Think about it 😉


I got excited just reading this....that would be perfect yes, lol but seriously....I read the OPs' post twice and she just seems like one...My intuition could be way off but all those Cancer chicks I know, im cool with ALL of them BTW, are pretty much out there......And I mean "out there"......dont blame me for being paranoid lol.....Im not a cancer basher either...I can feel someone will be upset by my words...I would date a Cancer chick, couldnt care less abt her past, as long as it stays in the past
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@nov13thscorp: Well now the same can be said about your sign tho, especially the males. I know plenty of Scorpio men that truly hold true to that loyalty card that they are famous for, BUT ONLY when they are in committed “relationships” NOT “situationships”. The only time I know them to be male whores are when they are single. They can be kicking it with you heavy see you every day and take you out often but will still mess with other women, because they are SINGLE.

Funny thing I’m learning about Scorpio men though, is they want the woman they are “interested in” to be damn near a saint no matter what HE does. She’s supposed to be saint and act like a “lady” in HIS definition of the word. If she goes on dates with other men while dating him “slut” even if she’s single. If she flirts with other men while dating him “slut”. If she gives her number out to other men while dating him “slut”. Notice none of these scenarios involve the woman actually “sleeping” with multiple men, but to the scorpio she will still be classified as a slut even if he’s doing the exact same thing, when in all actuality she’s only exercising her right to keep her options open just like him because at the end of the day neither one wants to end up looking stupid. I honestly feel there’s no such thing as “casually” dating a water sign, ESPECIALLY a Scorpio man. He can casually date you but you’re not allowed to casually date him, Right?
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@nov13thscorp: Well now the same can be said about your sign tho, especially the males. I know plenty of Scorpio men that truly hold true to that loyalty card that they are famous for, BUT ONLY when they are in committed “relationships” NOT “situationships”. The only time I know them to be male whores are when they are single. They can be kicking it with you heavy see you every day and take you out often but will still mess with other women, because they are SINGLE.

Funny thing I’m learning about Scorpio men though, is they want the woman they are “interested in” to be damn near a saint no matter what HE does. She’s supposed to be saint and act like a “lady” in HIS definition of the word. If she goes on dates with other men while dating him “slut” even if she’s single. If she flirts with other men while dating him “slut”. If she gives her number out to other men while dating him “slut”. Notice none of these scenarios involve the woman actually “sleeping” with multiple men, but to the scorpio she will still be classified as a slut even if he’s doing the exact same thing, when in all actuality she’s only exercising her right to keep her options open just like him because at the end of the day neither one wants to end up looking stupid. I honestly feel there’s no such thing as “casually” dating a water sign, ESPECIALLY a Scorpio man. He can casually date you but you’re not allowed to casually date him, Right?
U know, I told you yesterday that you could come here & visit us anytime...I'm beginning to regret it...You know us scorp males a lil too well lol you are spot on BTW
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This entire thread is disgusting. Cancers n Scorps are made for each other.


I'm convinced.

Hahahahhahaha . Why did this make me lol so hard. I actually prefer air signs like libras and aquas. Everybody else is too much for me. Not willing to put up w someone as complicated as iam lmaooo
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Well that explains why i almost always attract water.
I get alot of Gems and Saggitarians too- mostly likely due to my lively nature and grab life by the horns attitude, always up for adventure. I have fire in my chart, and Leo venus so i tend to spoil my partner if i think they are worth it.
My soft, yet sweet and stern nature attracts those water signs. They love my ability to fall and fall hard. -water moon, extremly loyal when i like/love someone too.

Then there's my sun sign, Libra i show that too the rest of the world. Nonchalant, unbothered, happy, take alot of pride in my appearance, and i can argue tooth and nail when i feel the oppenent and the topic is worthy of course 😉 lol
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down side to me is if you hurt or cross me, i disappear, and i see you its like i was never in love in the first place. I dont do it to be mean, i might actually still care im just not "in love" im in capable of acting like i care when i dont, or faking like i dont when i do. It's just silly to me.


I dont like to argue either, if an arguement gets too heated i will exit. I mean really if two people are yelling at one another, who's listening? lol.

Look at me derailing OP's thread. Sorry op.
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LOL. omigosh for the last time She is not a slut. I'm starting to think that Scorpio males should just make this world a better place and date virgins only. Because any woman that yall want that has anyone before your or after you is a slut, the only women that are untouched are virgins.
So get a woman take her v-card, and most likely she will be stuck on you and you'll be all she knows. Perfect for yall right? Think about it 😉


I got excited just reading this....that would be perfect yes, lol but seriously....I read the OPs' post twice and she just seems like one...My intuition could be way off but all those Cancer chicks I know, im cool with ALL of them BTW, are pretty much out there......And I mean "out there"......dont blame me for being paranoid lol.....Im not a cancer basher either...I can feel someone will be upset by my words...I would date a Cancer chick, couldnt care less abt her past, as long as it stays in the past
The really attractive Cancer women are attention whores from my experience.

Taurus and Pisces women tend to be more comfortable with their beauty - and seek less attention from men. Probably a Venus thing.

Just a trend I've noticed. Not trying to judge all Crabettes.
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Most of the Scorpio guys I know are anal retentive, arrogant and cheating whores.
Not judging.
I guess that makes it true for all Scorpios then.
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@nov13thscorp: Well now the same can be said about your sign tho, especially the males. I know plenty of Scorpio men that truly hold true to that loyalty card that they are famous for, BUT ONLY when they are in committed “relationships” NOT “situationships”. The only time I know them to be male whores are when they are single. They can be kicking it with you heavy see you every day and take you out often but will still mess with other women, because they are SINGLE.

Funny thing I’m learning about Scorpio men though, is they want the woman they are “interested in” to be damn near a saint no matter what HE does. She’s supposed to be saint and act like a “lady” in HIS definition of the word. If she goes on dates with other men while dating him “slut” even if she’s single. If she flirts with other men while dating him “slut”. If she gives her number out to other men while dating him “slut”. Notice none of these scenarios involve the woman actually “sleeping” with multiple men, but to the scorpio she will still be classified as a slut even if he’s doing the exact same thing, when in all actuality she’s only exercising her right to keep her options open just like him because at the end of the day neither one wants to end up looking stupid. I honestly feel there’s no such thing as “casually” dating a water sign, ESPECIALLY a Scorpio man. He can casually date you but you’re not allowed to casually date him, Right?
U know, I told you yesterday that you could come here & visit us anytime...I'm beginning to regret it...You know us scorp males a lil too well lol you are spot on BTW
I feel the same way a scorp man does: if there is a guy I am interested in, from day one, I will not date anyone else, no other guy will have my number, I don't flirt, I don't have sex with anyone. It sounds lame, but my only focus is that one guy. I am also totally a lady. I do not have eyes for anyone else. This is just who I am.
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I used to think this way....until I realized that was dumb. the dudes I had only eyes for were sowing their oats. Nah son.
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@BusyEyes, You missed my point. Scorpio’s want the person they are “kicking it with” or “casually dating” to be 100% loyal, and have eyes for no one else, HOWEVER they don’t give the same in return. It’s a double standard there, and that’s what myself and LunarMaiden have an issue with.

To be clear, I have no issues setting my sights on one guy and focusing on only him, nothing will make me happier than to give him my undivided attention. But keep in mind folks, I’m a Libra EVERYTHING must be balanced and 100/100 with me. If you give me 50 I’ll give you 50 even if I truly want to give you 100. You aren’t going to get more from me than what you put in. I won’t be played.
Once I make up my mind that a particular guy is the one I want, in my subconscious mind I tend to start seeing him as mines, and unintentionally I USED to cut other guys off for that one man. Problem with that is you are putting all your eggs in one basket while the guy of your choice still plays the field and there is no guarantee that he will choose you. He’s dating other women, most likely having sex with others and you’re loyal to him for what? Only for him to choose someone else as his woman and your left with no options to fall back on.

One thing I can agree with you on, is I WILL NOT have sex with multiple men. I choose one, and he is it for me. Period. Me and the Scorpio haven’t spoken in a week and I cant stomach the thought of having sex with anyone else. No way. I wont even let another guy go near my bedroom let alone my bed. Secondly, I will not have other guys coming over to my house.
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So what do you do? Lol you meet a guy and after the first date expect him to drop everybody he's talking to because he met you?
If people are seriously dating, this is what should happen. Seriousness is not an exclusive Scorp trait.
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This is ideal for two mature individuals who know what they want with common goals; to be with the other person exclusively.
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@nov13thscorp: Well now the same can be said about your sign tho, especially the males. I know plenty of Scorpio men that truly hold true to that loyalty card that they are famous for, BUT ONLY when they are in committed “relationships” NOT “situationships”. The only time I know them to be male whores are when they are single. They can be kicking it with you heavy see you every day and take you out often but will still mess with other women, because they are SINGLE.

Funny thing I’m learning about Scorpio men though, is they want the woman they are “interested in” to be damn near a saint no matter what HE does. She’s supposed to be saint and act like a “lady” in HIS definition of the word. If she goes on dates with other men while dating him “slut” even if she’s single. If she flirts with other men while dating him “slut”. If she gives her number out to other men while dating him “slut”. Notice none of these scenarios involve the woman actually “sleeping” with multiple men, but to the scorpio she will still be classified as a slut even if he’s doing the exact same thing, when in all actuality she’s only exercising her right to keep her options open just like him because at the end of the day neither one wants to end up looking stupid. I honestly feel there’s no such thing as “casually” dating a water sign, ESPECIALLY a Scorpio man. He can casually date you but you’re not allowed to casually date him, Right?
U know, I told you yesterday that you could come here & visit us anytime...I'm beginning to regret it...You know us scorp males a lil too well lol you are spot on BTW
I feel the same way a scorp man does: if there is a guy I am interested in, from day one, I will not date anyone else, no other guy will have my number, I don't flirt, I don't have sex with anyone. It sounds lame, but my only focus is that one guy. I am also totally a lady. I do not have eyes for anyone else. This is just who I am.
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That's me too...