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Posted by halalbaePosted by lisabethur8They just want to know that the other person is wanted so they can aim and shoot their shot too. Its called social proof, they dont want people nobody wants. They want high value people of interest.Posted by halalbaei'm beginning to understand deeply why women do like the taken ones.lol
Some women love a taken man. Magnified if hes legally married
Trying to deal with a single man is too high risk lol might as well just date the ones that other women have vetted as relationship material?
not that they want to take away the man of course, but a single man who has been alone for many years, is a big red flag to them. they dont even want to get close anymore lol
a man who is taken gives off a good amount of phermones, that he is wanted and desired. And if he is wanted and desired, the women go...hmmm there is something wonderful about him that other women desire too! there is unconscious or subconsciousness that women can tell a taken man is special. (most taken men are good men thats why they are taken)
ever hear the saying that alot of women get upset about? "If only he weren't married OR gay"
or, "the good ones are always taken or gay!!"
single men are not desired for some reason.
edit they seem kind of creepy to alot of women .....distant and alone and overall creepy. lol
than someone who is loved and cared for and taken.
i mean do you ever hear...
"I want that SINGLE lonely man over there!! grrr growllll" there should be a saying for that right?
I dont know why men even ask if you have a boyfriend because they dont care either way. I always say yes and they keep talking regardless. Usually followed with ''So you cant have friends? Can I be your friend?''
A friend told me its for filing purposes, that it comes handy down the line. I still dont understand why this type of data capturing is done, but hes a Virgo so there might not be any sense to his love for collecting any kind of dataclick to expand
i have no idea of it's the other way around.
i mean single women .....
they dont often get alot of dates or men wanting them too?
Posted by vixen14Doesn’t matter first or last.Posted by MelsAnd ... there it is... I knew it wasn’t his first time.Posted by MetatronYes you are right.Posted by MelsToo late. You both definitely already did that.
But I assured him that I will never compromise his family.
You made a mistake. Chemistry can be so intense it obliterates what you thought were your morals, at least in the moment. It happens to people every day, but you have to put your self in the other woman's shoes and not pursue it for the sake of his family, and him, if you care about him. He's not doing the right thing for the people he cares about most and can't see that now for whatever reason. If you feel you're his soulmate, love him by helping him do that. He'll probably come back around to you when he gets the itch again, his relationship gets stale/boring, and it'll be much harder to resist him now bc you miss him and you've already gone there and had that experience. See other men, do whatever you need to, to get your mind off of this man, however partial it is.
You just have to decide at some point what kind of person you want to be. Your actions so far are those of the typical self-centered homewrecker. Not having done this exact thing, I'm certain that I've damaged another marriage by my indiscretion before so no judgment from me, but to stay in it will just do more damage to all involved, and these things seldom seem to work out in the sidechick's favor.
I would think the hardest part for you would be learning to forgive yourself once you get enough space, and the chemistry fades enough for you to take a sober look at this. That's just me though. Some people pursue things like this so far, learn to push their guilt and conscience aside for their own necessity/survival along that path, and become something/someone else entirely....If he has children though especially, consider that you could really be hurting them if you pursue this....
I’ve never done the homewrecker whore thing in my life. I’ve always had respectable relationships. It was never my intention to hurt anyone. He pursued me for a while. We only went on for two dates and intimate once. The first date initiation was solely Friendly in my end. It evolved into something more during the date.
Hell I thought I was single and we can fill a void in each other’s lives for the time being.
He’s done this before. 4 times before me in a 22 year marriage. He said he lacks intimacy and passion in his life.
I gave him that in our two dates. The second date was so intense. He wanted more. He told me the day after. Then the third day I noticed the changes in his text and I confronted him. That was when he told me that he thinks I’m in love with him already. That he doesn’t want to hurt me and string me along.
I didn’t beg or say much after that. I gave him his space. Understood. Sad.
It’s been 4 weeks now. I didn’t know that 1 time affair was going to hurt like this.
A live and learn experience. I finally know about myself that I can’t sleep with someone and not have feelings. Note to self.
Thank you so much for your guidance. His image still haunts me. Will be for a while. We all deserve love. The right way.
Thank you.click to expand
There’s no delusions over here. I already mentioned that I knew clearly what I was doing before ‘the deed’.
I didn’t ask in the forum whether he will leave his wife.
If you read the post I clearly stated that he will never leave his wife. We had that cleared before the affair.
Anyway. It’s done. I’m not crying over spilt milk that I have created myself.
Just wanted some guidance. That’s all.
Nobody is perfect in this world. I certainly am not. And the ‘DELUSIONAL’ ones do think they are perfect.
People make mistakes. I am graciously accepting mine and taking responsibility of any repercussions that might follow.
Not all Pisceans are delusional. I’m an Aquarian moon. I can cut shit out if I want to. Trust me.
Posted by halalbaeI believe it goes both ways. Married. Single. Happily or lonely coupled. Doesn’t matter.Posted by lisabethur8Life is like swimming in a lake full of man-leeches for us lol, its difficult to avoid male suitors on most daysPosted by halalbaePosted by lisabethur8They just want to know that the other person is wanted so they can aim and shoot their shot too. Its called social proof, they dont want people nobody wants. They want high value people of interest.Posted by halalbaei'm beginning to understand deeply why women do like the taken ones.lol
Some women love a taken man. Magnified if hes legally married
Trying to deal with a single man is too high risk lol might as well just date the ones that other women have vetted as relationship material?
not that they want to take away the man of course, but a single man who has been alone for many years, is a big red flag to them. they dont even want to get close anymore lol
a man who is taken gives off a good amount of phermones, that he is wanted and desired. And if he is wanted and desired, the women go...hmmm there is something wonderful about him that other women desire too! there is unconscious or subconsciousness that women can tell a taken man is special. (most taken men are good men thats why they are taken)
ever hear the saying that alot of women get upset about? "If only he weren't married OR gay"
or, "the good ones are always taken or gay!!"
single men are not desired for some reason.
edit they seem kind of creepy to alot of women .....distant and alone and overall creepy. lol
than someone who is loved and cared for and taken.
i mean do you ever hear...
"I want that SINGLE lonely man over there!! grrr growllll" there should be a saying for that right?
I dont know why men even ask if you have a boyfriend because they dont care either way. I always say yes and they keep talking regardless. Usually followed with ''So you cant have friends? Can I be your friend?''
A friend told me its for filing purposes, that it comes handy down the line. I still dont understand why this type of data capturing is done, but hes a Virgo so there might not be any sense to his love for collecting any kind of data
i have no idea of it's the other way around.
i mean single women .....
they dont often get alot of dates or men wanting them too?
Every single woman I know at some point has gone through lengths to remain single and unbothered while there was at least 1 man who followed, intruded and pestered her with unsolicited attention
So I dont think women have this problemclick to expand
Loyalty is hard to find these days. Not that it doesn’t exist I’m sure it does. There will always be temptation. It depends on the person. Which is why divorce rates are through the roof.
What is upsetting for me off are people who always blames the woman for being the homewrecker whore. People should see the man as equally at fault. There’s never a balance or equality.
Look at this message thread.
I never said I wasn’t at fault. I fully admit and felt awful for being the side chick. Hell it was one time fling. One night. I got shat on and bulldozered by so many. A few comments stated equally at fault but all others projected their disgust to the woman. Most of the disgusted commenters are women.
Regardless. I’m not justifying anything or playing the victim. I just feel that there should be equality amongst both sides. That’s all.
Posted by MelsIt doesn’t work like this on here.Posted by halalbaeI believe it goes both ways. Married. Single. Happily or lonely coupled. Doesn’t matter.Posted by lisabethur8Life is like swimming in a lake full of man-leeches for us lol, its difficult to avoid male suitors on most daysPosted by halalbaePosted by lisabethur8They just want to know that the other person is wanted so they can aim and shoot their shot too. Its called social proof, they dont want people nobody wants. They want high value people of interest.Posted by halalbaei'm beginning to understand deeply why women do like the taken ones.lol
Some women love a taken man. Magnified if hes legally married
Trying to deal with a single man is too high risk lol might as well just date the ones that other women have vetted as relationship material?
not that they want to take away the man of course, but a single man who has been alone for many years, is a big red flag to them. they dont even want to get close anymore lol
a man who is taken gives off a good amount of phermones, that he is wanted and desired. And if he is wanted and desired, the women go...hmmm there is something wonderful about him that other women desire too! there is unconscious or subconsciousness that women can tell a taken man is special. (most taken men are good men thats why they are taken)
ever hear the saying that alot of women get upset about? "If only he weren't married OR gay"
or, "the good ones are always taken or gay!!"
single men are not desired for some reason.
edit they seem kind of creepy to alot of women .....distant and alone and overall creepy. lol
than someone who is loved and cared for and taken.
i mean do you ever hear...
"I want that SINGLE lonely man over there!! grrr growllll" there should be a saying for that right?
I dont know why men even ask if you have a boyfriend because they dont care either way. I always say yes and they keep talking regardless. Usually followed with ''So you cant have friends? Can I be your friend?''
A friend told me its for filing purposes, that it comes handy down the line. I still dont understand why this type of data capturing is done, but hes a Virgo so there might not be any sense to his love for collecting any kind of data
i have no idea of it's the other way around.
i mean single women .....
they dont often get alot of dates or men wanting them too?
Every single woman I know at some point has gone through lengths to remain single and unbothered while there was at least 1 man who followed, intruded and pestered her with unsolicited attention
So I dont think women have this problem
Loyalty is hard to find these days. Not that it doesn’t exist I’m sure it does. There will always be temptation. It depends on the person. Which is why divorce rates are through the roof.
What is upsetting for me off are people who always blames the woman for being the homewrecker whore. People should see the man as equally at fault. There’s never a balance or equality.
Look at this message thread.
I never said I wasn’t at fault. I fully admit and felt awful for being the side chick. Hell it was one time fling. One night. I got shat on and bulldozered by so many. A few comments stated equally at fault but all others projected their disgust to the woman. Most of the disgusted commenters are women.
Regardless. I’m not justifying anything or playing the victim. I just feel that there should be equality amongst both sides. That’s all.
click to expand
You made a post - you get shitted on!
Men don’t usually post stuff like that.
When I said if he never asked I wouldn’t ever made a move...no one heard me!
And telling me ‘think of his wife’ was the dumbest thing I’ve heard. Like she is my responsibility!!!
Enjoy the haters! They are just jealous bunch...
Posted by vixen14It’s already been cut off. What I feel right now is residual feelings and just wanted some clarity.Posted by MelsLol @ calling ME moron. Yet here you are... asking questions about a married man. If you can cut it off as you say, you wouldn’t have fallen so easily into thinking there was a special connection...nor post on DXP expecting to get yes answers.Posted by vixen14Doesn’t matter first or last.Posted by MelsAnd ... there it is... I knew it wasn’t his first time.Posted by MetatronYes you are right.Posted by MelsToo late. You both definitely already did that.
But I assured him that I will never compromise his family.
You made a mistake. Chemistry can be so intense it obliterates what you thought were your morals, at least in the moment. It happens to people every day, but you have to put your self in the other woman's shoes and not pursue it for the sake of his family, and him, if you care about him. He's not doing the right thing for the people he cares about most and can't see that now for whatever reason. If you feel you're his soulmate, love him by helping him do that. He'll probably come back around to you when he gets the itch again, his relationship gets stale/boring, and it'll be much harder to resist him now bc you miss him and you've already gone there and had that experience. See other men, do whatever you need to, to get your mind off of this man, however partial it is.
You just have to decide at some point what kind of person you want to be. Your actions so far are those of the typical self-centered homewrecker. Not having done this exact thing, I'm certain that I've damaged another marriage by my indiscretion before so no judgment from me, but to stay in it will just do more damage to all involved, and these things seldom seem to work out in the sidechick's favor.
I would think the hardest part for you would be learning to forgive yourself once you get enough space, and the chemistry fades enough for you to take a sober look at this. That's just me though. Some people pursue things like this so far, learn to push their guilt and conscience aside for their own necessity/survival along that path, and become something/someone else entirely....If he has children though especially, consider that you could really be hurting them if you pursue this....
I’ve never done the homewrecker whore thing in my life. I’ve always had respectable relationships. It was never my intention to hurt anyone. He pursued me for a while. We only went on for two dates and intimate once. The first date initiation was solely Friendly in my end. It evolved into something more during the date.
Hell I thought I was single and we can fill a void in each other’s lives for the time being.
He’s done this before. 4 times before me in a 22 year marriage. He said he lacks intimacy and passion in his life.
I gave him that in our two dates. The second date was so intense. He wanted more. He told me the day after. Then the third day I noticed the changes in his text and I confronted him. That was when he told me that he thinks I’m in love with him already. That he doesn’t want to hurt me and string me along.
I didn’t beg or say much after that. I gave him his space. Understood. Sad.
It’s been 4 weeks now. I didn’t know that 1 time affair was going to hurt like this.
A live and learn experience. I finally know about myself that I can’t sleep with someone and not have feelings. Note to self.
Thank you so much for your guidance. His image still haunts me. Will be for a while. We all deserve love. The right way.
Thank you.
There’s no delusions over here. I already mentioned that I knew clearly what I was doing before ‘the deed’.
I didn’t ask in the forum whether he will leave his wife.
If you read the post I clearly stated that he will never leave his wife. We had that cleared before the affair.
Anyway. It’s done. I’m not crying over spilt milk that I have created myself.
Just wanted some guidance. That’s all.
Nobody is perfect in this world. I certainly am not. And the ‘DELUSIONAL’ ones do think they are perfect.
People make mistakes. I am graciously accepting mine and taking responsibility of any repercussions that might follow.
Not all Pisceans are delusional. I’m an Aquarian moon. I can cut shit out if I want to. Trust me.click to expand
He asked for friendship and I have denied that.
Don’t know about you but at least I admit to having feelings.
Not posting to invite ‘yes’ answers.
I’m sorry you can’t read properly and don’t understand the thread.
Take care Vixen14. Nobody called you a moron.
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I (age 50): Sun Cancer; Moon Aries; Mercury Leo; Venus Gemini; Mars Gemini; Jupiter Cancer
I'm recently divorced from an abusive relationshi
To prove a point that self-pity is blinding.
Even though you, Gemitati, write that you also tried to fill a void (quote on qoute) by sleeping with someone else’s husband and cheating on your own, - you still come across as pretty vacuous. 😉
What’s vacuous?
And I wasn’t feeling a void! I am in love with him as of NOW! It is pure adultery.
And I am not asking anyone’s opinion. Specially people who doesn’t know what Love IS. Otherwise they would just silently chew their boogers and post gifs...