I am a Gem female b. June 10 in a volatile year long relationship with a Scorpio male, b. Nov 1. He has said "I'm done" to me over 117 times in the one year we have been seeing each other. This last time, I think it might be for good but I'm not sure. The first 3 months were amazing but then he sreadily became more and more controlling and mean. The last straw was he told me I had to delete all my social media, Facebook, Messenger, Instagram, even Pinterest and I said no. Facebook especially was a huge problem for him as if he literally did not want me to speak to any people on this earth besides hom, male or female. I had already let him delete 200 people from my account, all males. Even very good friends of mine. He gets super mean when he's angry and rages and punches walls and breaks things. He always breaks up via text, real mean "F***k off, go away, we're done" etc but I know he must has feelings for me or I wouldn't affect him so dramatically and he wouldn't have gotten back together 117 tines.. The last text between us was from me and I said: "It's like I can't win with you. You just want everything your way. You refuse to accept it any other way. I tried really just so hard to accommodate your demands because I'm super flexible but I always gave in to your demands and you don't give back or even acknowledge. You just keep punishing and punishing. You just like punishing me. It's very sad it ended up this way. I will always remember how it was in the beginning. That was the sweetest times of my life. Like up there with becoming a mom. I'm not fishing for anything from you. Just telling you you were the sweetest lover I have ever had by far. And that I loved being wit you." 4 days and he hasn't responded. Should I reach out to him yet? I'm sorry but to me asking to delete me social media, especially when he is ALWAYS on Facebook was just cruel. I don't even have on-gay guy friends to talk to on there anymore. Why would my social media be so abhorrent to him?
