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Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gob_ShiteNope.Posted by LadyNeptune
Hey!
My five year-old niece was surfing on my PC, clicked on one of my tabs and accidentally saw this. She was so traumatised...
For Christ's sake... change your offensive avi!
Don't let your five year old niece surf the web. This site is 18 and up. I'm not gonna be penalized for your neglect.
Okay, so she doesn't have a sense of humour...
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It flew right over her head.
Posted by SofiaV87
Yea so u will have to communicate to him that u need more sex & that you're ok with Blow js but that u have your needs as well .. I see he's a scorpio with a Pisces moon & likes to over cuddle .. you're an Aries with an Aries Venus, don't know how this will work but u never know , let us know what happens !
Edit: & your mars is in Scorpio ?! Ok it's done , move on lol
Exactly
Can his moon in Pisces and mars in Libra even keep up with her sexy placements ?
Doubt it
Posted by MyStarsShineYea I doubt it too & this is coming from a Pisces moon & libra mars .. her Aries Venus & Scorpio mars combined will swallow him whole hahahahPosted by SofiaV87
Yea so u will have to communicate to him that u need more sex & that you're ok with Blow js but that u have your needs as well .. I see he's a scorpio with a Pisces moon & likes to over cuddle .. you're an Aries with an Aries Venus, don't know how this will work but u never know , let us know what happens !
Edit: & your mars is in Scorpio ?! Ok it's done , move on lol
Exactly
Can his moon in Pisces and mars in Libra even keep up with her sexy placements ?
Doubt it
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Posted by SofiaV87Haha truePosted by MyStarsShineYea I doubt it too & this is coming from a Pisces moon & libra mars .. her Aries Venus & Scorpio mars combined will swallow him whole hahahahPosted by SofiaV87
Yea so u will have to communicate to him that u need more sex & that you're ok with Blow js but that u have your needs as well .. I see he's a scorpio with a Pisces moon & likes to over cuddle .. you're an Aries with an Aries Venus, don't know how this will work but u never know , let us know what happens !
Edit: & your mars is in Scorpio ?! Ok it's done , move on lol
Exactly
Can his moon in Pisces and mars in Libra even keep up with her sexy placements ?
Doubt it
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I have Venus Scorp and Mars Taurus and have suffered from the same problem .....
Posted by ScorpioTruthIf foreplay IS sex to you then surely if you're not in the mood, then you're not in the mood for foreplay either? So what's the problem here really? I'm sure I already explained this like 3 times by now.. how many more ways can i put it?Posted by enfant_terribleThe thing is, foreplay to me is a part of the act itself. It IS sex. Not some dreaded chore that you have to do beforehand. If you feel that it's a chore I'm sure that reflects in your performance. In that case, I wouldn't want it anyway.Posted by LadyNeptune
Thing is I can be turned on and super wet...doesn't mean I'm ready for penetration. If you spend the time prior to fucking the whole experience is much much MUCH better for us and its far more likely we're gonna cum. At least 15 mins foreplay is what I, personally, require.
Agree with that
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Posted by ScorpioTruthLol exactly which is why I suggested she doesn't wait for him & starts the engines herself instead & hopefully he'll take over. You guys got into talking about foreplay to a girl who's has enough cuddling and my logic is out of place? Lol
Considering the OP specifically said she wants more than just kisses and cuddles, my guess would be "being in the mood" is not an issue for her, or even for myself or the other ladies.
You started this dialogue by saying she should just sit on his dick after sucking it.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeProbably because you don't actually have a "head"Posted by LadyNeptuneI actually do not enjoy getting head.
69 is your friend. That way you both can share in the sore jawclick to expand
Posted by Infinite8I think she would be if she had some hot sexy chemistry with the right guy?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SofiaV87
Yea so u will have to communicate to him that u need more sex & that you're ok with Blow js but that u have your needs as well .. I see he's a scorpio with a Pisces moon & likes to over cuddle .. you're an Aries with an Aries Venus, don't know how this will work but u never know , let us know what happens !
Edit: & your mars is in Scorpio ?! Ok it's done , move on lol
Exactly
Can his moon in Pisces and mars in Libra even keep up with her sexy placements ?
Doubt it
? From what op has expressed, she doesn't seem very sexy. She seems insecure. That is the loudest energy that comes off.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeThe only 'insecurity' issue that should arise is if you were feeling..."Not so fresh" down there.....
I don't know, I get insecure and then not enjoy it. I haven't let him go down on me like that yet.
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Posted by Infinite8Nope not every time. Sometimes I'm so revved up that I want him inside me as soon as I see him. No time to tear off our clothes.Posted by LadyNeptune?Hmm... every single time?Posted by enfant_terribleThing is I can be turned on and super wet...doesn't mean I'm ready for penetration. If you spend the time prior to fucking the whole experience is much much MUCH better for us and its far more likely we're gonna cum. At least 15 mins foreplay is what I, personally, require.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by enfant_terriblePosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by enfant_terribleBecause women like foreplay too, FYI.
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.
I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?
Foreplay = greasing up your special lady when she's 'not in the mood'.
Foreplay sounds so forced. Like something husbands had to learn in the 1950's so that their rigid wives would stop faking headaches. When she's in the mood she's jumping you before you can even rock a full erection. Women aren't that different from men ime.
When she's not in the mood however, she needs foreplay. Emphasis on *needs*, not *wants*. So why bother someone for sex if that particular day it feels like a chore to them for whatever reason?
Hence my aversion to what's traditionally considered foreplay.
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But mostly I need him to put in the prep work.
Posted by MontgomeryJoking about small children and sex isn't my kind of humor.Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gob_ShiteNope.Posted by LadyNeptune
Hey!
My five year-old niece was surfing on my PC, clicked on one of my tabs and accidentally saw this. She was so traumatised...
For Christ's sake... change your offensive avi!
Don't let your five year old niece surf the web. This site is 18 and up. I'm not gonna be penalized for your neglect.
Okay, so she doesn't have a sense of humour...
It flew right over her head.
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI am pretty sure "head" means the act of one's head between the legs in order to give oral. Not the penis head, you penis head. ๐Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeProbably because you don't actually have a "head"Posted by LadyNeptuneI actually do not enjoy getting head.
69 is your friend. That way you both can share in the sore jawclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneThen by all means-- stop.Posted by MontgomeryJoking about small children and sex isn't my kind of humor.Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gob_ShiteNope.
Hey!
My five year-old niece was surfing on my PC, clicked on one of my tabs and accidentally saw this. She was so traumatised...
For Christ's sake... change your offensive avi!
Don't let your five year old niece surf the web. This site is 18 and up. I'm not gonna be penalized for your neglect.
Okay, so she doesn't have a sense of humour...
It flew right over her head.
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Posted by tiziani
Tell him.
Too easy.
Back to the topic.... I can't see a Scorpio MAN NOT f--- ing you into oblivion. They're too strategic... too meticulous not to know and give you what you desire! I'm so confused... Had it been me.... I'd treetrunk him good and not answer my phone for him anymore. He's lost his mind trying to cuddle.... adults want to smash and MAYBE cuddle afterwards! I'm so mad I don't know to do....
Posted by Infinite8I've made it clear I lose interest and want to keep going. He says my constant horniness is frustrating, but how can you blame me when he goes so hard and then stops to cuddle. But you're right I should speak up more, but I don't think I'm going to continue with him, it's just not fun anymore.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeWell... you sound like a Cancer to me. I just have a hard time believing an Aries would put up with this behavior, have the patience for it, NOT SPEAK UP, not push for their way AAAAANNNND be with someone that isn't that great in bed or isn't interested in you enough to be good in bed.Posted by Infinite8Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeWhat?!?? Pffff....Posted by enfant_terribleYes...quite literally actually.
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.
I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?
Oh but hilarious right? WRONG. It's actually very annoying because I already don't really like cuddling that much. And yes yes yes we have talked about it, and I usually push him off of me and sit far away until he wants to be sexual again, but he cuddles way too much. For even a cancer.
To me, his behavior screams that he's not that into you. Most Scorpio men are like hungry wolves when into you ?
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Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AprilFoolsUHoeOk I have the perfect solution for you.Posted by Infinite8Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeWhat?!?? Pffff....Posted by enfant_terribleYes...quite literally actually.
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.
I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?
Oh but hilarious right? WRONG. It's actually very annoying because I already don't really like cuddling that much. And yes yes yes we have talked about it, and I usually push him off of me and sit far away until he wants to be sexual again, but he cuddles way too much. For even a cancer.
You need to bring a vibrator into bed with you. When he takes his selfish ass breaks (despite you asking him to continue) you whip out the vibe lay back and get your O. It'll send a pretty clear message that its not all about him.click to expand
Genius and hilarious. This would actually be really funny to do, but I'll save it's for the next guy or girl who is like this, I'm no longer interested, I've lost all attraction and am bored of him.
Posted by Infinite8We've talked a bit about our likes and rules. He just insists on cuddling throughout all the time and I really actually don't like cuddling. I hate it, in fact because of him, i dislike it more than I already did, and i find it to be annoying and uncomfortable. I like my space. There is a time and place for cuddling, and foreplay isn't one of them, not for me. He doesn't seem to care, but usually if I get annoyed he will start choking me or something, and then pull me forcing me to cuddle with him and I'm like whatever until I push him away, but it's very annoying.Posted by PiscoxoIf it's a big deal, it's not going to work.
I don't know what to tell you other than just tell the guy what you want. Do you want penetration? Tell him. Do you like it rough or hard? Tell him. Do you want it slow or soft? Tell him. Just talk? I don't get the point of making it into such a big deal.
Should never feel awkward in the bedroom.
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Posted by SofiaV87โ hey I can be cute and romantic. Just not physically. I've never been much into the cuddling thing unless it's watching movies with my best friends. I will easily write someone a song and serenade them with it, and be cute and romantic and in love deeply, but I draw my line at cuddling while getting it on. It turns me OFF.
Yea so u will have to communicate to him that u need more sex & that you're ok with Blow js but that u have your needs as well .. I see he's a scorpio with a Pisces moon & likes to over cuddle .. you're an Aries with an Aries Venus, don't know how this will work but u never know , let us know what happens !
Edit: & your mars is in Scorpio ?! Ok it's done , move on lol
Posted by MyStarsShineThose Scorpio eyes he has, and the temper and power he has does, for a good four seconds each. And then it disappears. I think he gets the cue though because every time I say "oh you're such a Scorpio" he will get a little more violent and rough with me and I like it! And then it goes away again. Almost like to show that he CAN but he'd rather just....cuddle...Posted by SofiaV87
Yea so u will have to communicate to him that u need more sex & that you're ok with Blow js but that u have your needs as well .. I see he's a scorpio with a Pisces moon & likes to over cuddle .. you're an Aries with an Aries Venus, don't know how this will work but u never know , let us know what happens !
Edit: & your mars is in Scorpio ?! Ok it's done , move on lol
Exactly
Can his moon in Pisces and mars in Libra even keep up with her sexy placements ?
Doubt it
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Posted by DistilledHe always looks me in the eyes, sometimes even while kissing. It's a bit different than I'm used to but it's cute.Posted by PhoenixRisingLook him in the eyes.Posted by tiziani
Tell him.
Too easy.
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Posted by Infinite8Being eaten out is honestly the one thing I feel a little uncomfortable with, but I asl have reasons for that from past things that are no ones business. If I wasn't confident I wouldn't have tried sticking things up his booty or penis hole only to get a good talk to about it after. I'm fine with everything else, I just really really don't prefer to have oral done on me, it makes me uneasy.Posted by MyStarsShineWell, wouldn't sexy chemistry have the same affect on all of us IF with the right person?Posted by Infinite8I think she would be if she had some hot sexy chemistry with the right guy?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SofiaV87
Yea so u will have to communicate to him that u need more sex & that you're ok with Blow js but that u have your needs as well .. I see he's a scorpio with a Pisces moon & likes to over cuddle .. you're an Aries with an Aries Venus, don't know how this will work but u never know , let us know what happens !
Edit: & your mars is in Scorpio ?! Ok it's done , move on lol
Exactly
Can his moon in Pisces and mars in Libra even keep up with her sexy placements ?
Doubt it
? From what op has expressed, she doesn't seem very sexy. She seems insecure. That is the loudest energy that comes off.
I guess my point is that, her placements alone are not affecting her to be sexy. She doesn't exude it on her own. She is still very dependent on the other person and rethinking a lot. She doesn't seem confident to me.
To me, a sexy person is someone that IS...., but I think you are describing it differently. Are you saying that those placements "are in need" of extreme sexiness rather than BEING sexy? Because, there I could see your point.
My way of defining sexy is as an energy one has within and is able to exude it naturally. By exuding it... it makes the other person feel sexual towards the sexy person. It is not an energy in need, it is an energy that GIVES.
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Posted by Infinite8I think she is innately *sexual* but the thing you are talking about comes with age. I was very insecure as a younger woman and hid my sexuality, but with time and meeting a couple of guys that brought that out in me, and age, i became sexual and confident.....๐Posted by MyStarsShineWell, wouldn't sexy chemistry have the same affect on all of us IF with the right person?Posted by Infinite8I think she would be if she had some hot sexy chemistry with the right guy?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SofiaV87
Yea so u will have to communicate to him that u need more sex & that you're ok with Blow js but that u have your needs as well .. I see he's a scorpio with a Pisces moon & likes to over cuddle .. you're an Aries with an Aries Venus, don't know how this will work but u never know , let us know what happens !
Edit: & your mars is in Scorpio ?! Ok it's done , move on lol
Exactly
Can his moon in Pisces and mars in Libra even keep up with her sexy placements ?
Doubt it
? From what op has expressed, she doesn't seem very sexy. She seems insecure. That is the loudest energy that comes off.
I guess my point is that, her placements alone are not affecting her to be sexy. She doesn't exude it on her own. She is still very dependent on the other person and rethinking a lot. She doesn't seem confident to me.
To me, a sexy person is someone that IS...., but I think you are describing it differently. Are you saying that those placements "are in need" of extreme sexiness rather than BEING sexy? Because, there I could see your point.
My way of defining sexy is as an energy one has within and is able to exude it naturally. By exuding it... it makes the other person feel sexual towards the sexy person. It is not an energy in need, it is an energy that GIVES.
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I started to exude the sexual energy that was always there, but had somewhat laid dormant
In some sense, *i came out* and never went back in ๐
x
I need this problem in my life.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Okay.
So he's still very yummy, and gets REALLY intense just by looking at me, but I've always hated giving blowjobs but I found it fun to do with him, and once he realised I give good blow jobs, that's all he ever wants. I guess he was never really into them before and would get bored, so maybe this is new to him or some bullshit, but it's really boring for me, because I don't want to sit there and suck dick for hours, or really for more than ten mins, and then---here we go again, if I stop, guess what he does? CUDDLES. Isn't that nice.
Especially lately I've been a bit upset and would like to "let loose" get off a bit but I can't because either all we are doing is kissing, cuddling, or I'm sucking dick, and It's boring. But he still turns me on, should I just say bye to him and hi to the shower head (LOL) and just move on sexually elsewhere, air is there a way to talk about this that will actually make a difference? He's not an asshole I just don't think he realises that I'm B O R E D. He knows I'm not very cuddly and we joke about it a lot but C'MON get tf off me with those feels.
lmao hahaha!! my kind of thread lol...ah man, too funny. on a serious note, i love cuddle too ๐
Posted by Infinite8Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeWhat?!?? Pffff....Posted by enfant_terribleYes...quite literally actually.
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.
I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?
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lmao
Posted by -Roman-
The fuck?! So you don't give head or pay any digit dues unless she's dripping enough to slug ? across the floor?
Sounds like a boring ass Neanderthal sex life
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by enfant_terriblePosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by enfant_terribleBecause women like foreplay too, FYI.
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.
I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?
Foreplay = greasing up your special lady when she's 'not in the mood'.
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ah man, the thread that keeps on giving..too funny. I was in a dark mood this morning til I got to work and read this whole thread, thx ppl lol
Maybe he has issues with staying hard.
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeit's a very intimate act. unless you are really really attracted to the person, u wouldn't want it from himPosted by LadyNeptuneI don't know, I get insecure and then not enjoy it. I haven't let him go down on me like that yet.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoewhys that??Posted by LadyNeptuneI actually do not enjoy getting head.
69 is your friend. That way you both can share in the sore jawclick to expand
you have already decided to walk away so do him a favor and make it very clear to him that his stubborn focuses on what he likes/knows in the bedroom is what kills the attraction from you, the woman. it's a deal breaker. he can learn from this experience for the next one
Bite his dick next time, maybe that'll work
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoePosted by LadyNeptuneIt's just such a private thing, so personal. And it doesn't even feel that great (at least the few times i have let people go down on me) not my thing.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeWhy are you feeling insecure??Posted by LadyNeptuneI don't know, I get insecure and then not enjoy it. I haven't let him go down on me like that yet.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoewhys that??Posted by LadyNeptuneI actually do not enjoy getting head.
69 is your friend. That way you both can share in the sore jawclick to expand
You've been messing around with amateurs I tell you!
AMATEURS!!!
Find a level 3 lesbian to hook up with.
Make sure she knows in advance you just want use her for sex.
Posted by enfant_terribleAnd this is why Leos get a bad rap in terms of the bedroom performance.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by enfant_terriblePosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by enfant_terribleBecause women like foreplay too, FYI.
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.
I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?
Foreplay = greasing up your special lady when she's 'not in the mood'.
Foreplay sounds so forced. Like something husbands had to learn in the 1950's so that their rigid wives would stop faking headaches. When she's in the mood she's jumping you before you can even rock a full erection. Women aren't that different from men ime.
When she's not in the mood however, she needs foreplay. Emphasis on *needs*, not *wants*. So why bother someone for sex if that particular day it feels like a chore to them for whatever reason?
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women always need foreplay even when they say they don't.........
even if they are ready to rip off your clothes.....holding out and teasing her
will make her climax that much stronger.
A lot of men don't even know what to do in terms of foreplay though and for how long......
This is, however, the worst comment I've seen.
I feel bad for straight women sometimes. It must be really dismal out there.
Men still think sex is all about them.......( stops and ends with their orgasm)
Posted by LadyNeptuneHint- Your Avatar isn't of sex, dear.Posted by MontgomeryJoking about small children and sex isn't my kind of humor.Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gob_ShiteNope.Posted by LadyNeptune
Hey!
My five year-old niece was surfing on my PC, clicked on one of my tabs and accidentally saw this. She was so traumatised...
For Christ's sake... change your offensive avi!
Don't let your five year old niece surf the web. This site is 18 and up. I'm not gonna be penalized for your neglect.
Okay, so she doesn't have a sense of humour...
It flew right over her head.
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamOkay but how is it offensive...?Posted by LadyNeptuneHint- Your Avatar isn't of sex, dear.Posted by MontgomeryJoking about small children and sex isn't my kind of humor.Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gob_ShiteNope.Posted by LadyNeptune
Hey!
My five year-old niece was surfing on my PC, clicked on one of my tabs and accidentally saw this. She was so traumatised...
For Christ's sake... change your offensive avi!
Don't let your five year old niece surf the web. This site is 18 and up. I'm not gonna be penalized for your neglect.
Okay, so she doesn't have a sense of humour...
It flew right over her head.
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Still not getting.
Maybe dude is a closeted homosexual?
Posted by LadyNeptuneDry sarcasm, dear.Posted by rockyroadicecreamOkay but how is it offensive...?Posted by LadyNeptuneHint- Your Avatar isn't of sex, dear.Posted by MontgomeryJoking about small children and sex isn't my kind of humor.Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gob_ShiteNope.Posted by LadyNeptune
Hey!
My five year-old niece was surfing on my PC, clicked on one of my tabs and accidentally saw this. She was so traumatised...
For Christ's sake... change your offensive avi!
Don't let your five year old niece surf the web. This site is 18 and up. I'm not gonna be penalized for your neglect.
Okay, so she doesn't have a sense of humour...
It flew right over her head.
Still not getting.click to expand
You have this sexy pic posted, he builds it up as omg a 5 year old saw that pic, but then he refers to your avatar instead.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamWow went way WAY over my head ?Posted by LadyNeptuneDry sarcasm, dear.Posted by rockyroadicecreamOkay but how is it offensive...?Posted by LadyNeptuneHint- Your Avatar isn't of sex, dear.Posted by MontgomeryJoking about small children and sex isn't my kind of humor.Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by Gob_ShiteNope.Posted by LadyNeptune
Hey!
My five year-old niece was surfing on my PC, clicked on one of my tabs and accidentally saw this. She was so traumatised...
For Christ's sake... change your offensive avi!
Don't let your five year old niece surf the web. This site is 18 and up. I'm not gonna be penalized for your neglect.
Okay, so she doesn't have a sense of humour...
It flew right over her head.
Still not getting.
You have this sexy pic posted, he builds it up as omg a 5 year old saw that pic, but then he refers to your avatar instead.click to expand
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
women always need foreplay even when they say they don't.........
even if they are ready to rip off your clothes.....holding out and teasing her
will make her climax that much stronger.
Or make her fall asleep. But please tell me more since you know *all* women .
Next time I'm about to get raped I'll make sure to tell her she actually needs foreplay.
Lol, lesbians. The only breed of people more obnoctiously all-knowing than men ?
Posted by enfant_terribleI think you meant obnoxious *Posted by Adreamuponwaking
women always need foreplay even when they say they don't.........
even if they are ready to rip off your clothes.....holding out and teasing her
will make her climax that much stronger.
Or make her fall asleep. But please tell me more since you know *all* women .
Next time I'm about to get raped I'll make sure to tell her she actually needs foreplay.
Lol, lesbians. The only breed of people more obnoctiously all-knowing than men ?
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and like I said...........if I were a guy
I would listen to heterosexual women who actually know things about their body and sexual response and queer women who have sex with other women over a heterosexual guy any day.......
I mean it's just common sense.
But to be fair it's not your fault men are lied to every day about sex. Women lie to men. Men lie to other men. No wonder why so many women are unsatisfied.
I just read an article on men's health in my anthro class on 6 reasons why women fake their orgasms.......
only one was true.
The other 5 including she's insecure or she's trying to manipulate you were lies.
Which was immediately confirmed by the four other girls in my group who all had boyfriends or husbands.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by Adreamuponwaking
women always need foreplay even when they say they don't.........
even if they are ready to rip off your clothes.....holding out and teasing her
will make her climax that much stronger.
Or make her fall asleep. But please tell me more since you know *all* women .
Next time I'm about to get raped I'll make sure to tell her she actually needs foreplay.
Lol, lesbians. The only breed of people more obnoctiously all-knowing than men ?
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Here's something for you to read...if you care........
an article entitled " Why Lesbians have more orgasms than Straight Women?"
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-third-wave/201602/why-do-lesbians-have-more-orgasms-straight-women
...........
if you're not going to bother reading it.....I'll just tell you the answer.....
The answer........
the amount of Foreplay.
*gasp*
Posted by iCloud9I am actually going to either call him or when I see him again in person tell him that I'm not interested in physical relationships with him anymore, and maybe ask him to go in a stroll and just enjoy our friendship. Definatley am done with the sexy stuff w/ him. It was fun the first few times, at least I now have higher expectations ๐Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeit's a very intimate act. unless you are really really attracted to the person, u wouldn't want it from himPosted by LadyNeptuneI don't know, I get insecure and then not enjoy it. I haven't let him go down on me like that yet.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoewhys that??Posted by LadyNeptuneI actually do not enjoy getting head.
69 is your friend. That way you both can share in the sore jaw
you have already decided to walk away so do him a favor and make it very clear to him that his stubborn focuses on what he likes/knows in the bedroom is what kills the attraction from you, the woman. it's a deal breaker. he can learn from this experience for the next one
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Posted by Infinite8He definatley doesn't have my libido. I'm always horny and interested in having sex, he's generally not. I'm the second girl he's gotten with, and the only girl he's gotten with that he wasn't in a relationship with, he had a lot of sex with his ex, but he explained to me before we ever had a thought of getting physical that he would talk to girls about FWB and then when it got there, he would "disappoint" them because he lost the horniness and interest, but he hasn't with me and will make moves and such, so I kNow we are on different levels, and he's also a bit more intimate in a different way, i just like to bang and go hard, he likes to cuddle and snooze together. It's not a bad thing I suppose for some people, but it's not something I enjoy whatsoever.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeYeah, it could be a number of things. You would honestly have to talk to him to really find out.Posted by Infinite8I've made it clear I lose interest and want to keep going. He says my constant horniness is frustrating, but how can you blame me when he goes so hard and then stops to cuddle. But you're right I should speak up more, but I don't think I'm going to continue with him, it's just not fun anymore.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeWell... you sound like a Cancer to me. I just have a hard time believing an Aries would put up with this behavior, have the patience for it, NOT SPEAK UP, not push for their way AAAAANNNND be with someone that isn't that great in bed or isn't interested in you enough to be good in bed.Posted by Infinite8Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeWhat?!?? Pffff....Posted by enfant_terribleYes...quite literally actually.
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.
I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?
Oh but hilarious right? WRONG. It's actually very annoying because I already don't really like cuddling that much. And yes yes yes we have talked about it, and I usually push him off of me and sit far away until he wants to be sexual again, but he cuddles way too much. For even a cancer.
To me, his behavior screams that he's not that into you. Most Scorpio men are like hungry wolves when into you ?
He might not have the same libido as you OR it might just work different for him.
For you it seems like it is on a physical level? But for him he might need more stimulants : feel desire, feel that he can't have you but wants you, feel emotionally connected.
So, you are simple and should be with someone as simple as you with same libido as you.
He should be with someone more complex, and then he might have same libido as you.
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Posted by Infinite8I started giving them to him when I was enjoying it, and I enjoy giving them, I still do, but it became something that is more like...expected now, and he wants that and then after he just wants to cuddle, or kiss. ill try to direct him to what I want and he will start, like tease me or something and then just stop and cuddle again and then at that point I just step away and focus on other things than him.Posted by AprilFoolsUHoeI didn't mean confidence in what you can perform. I meant confidence within yourself.Posted by Infinite8Being eaten out is honestly the one thing I feel a little uncomfortable with, but I asl have reasons for that from past things that are no ones business. If I wasn't confident I wouldn't have tried sticking things up his booty or penis hole only to get a good talk to about it after. I'm fine with everything else, I just really really don't prefer to have oral done on me, it makes me uneasy.Posted by MyStarsShineWell, wouldn't sexy chemistry have the same affect on all of us IF with the right person?Posted by Infinite8I think she would be if she had some hot sexy chemistry with the right guy?Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SofiaV87
Yea so u will have to communicate to him that u need more sex & that you're ok with Blow js but that u have your needs as well .. I see he's a scorpio with a Pisces moon & likes to over cuddle .. you're an Aries with an Aries Venus, don't know how this will work but u never know , let us know what happens !
Edit: & your mars is in Scorpio ?! Ok it's done , move on lol
Exactly
Can his moon in Pisces and mars in Libra even keep up with her sexy placements ?
Doubt it
? From what op has expressed, she doesn't seem very sexy. She seems insecure. That is the loudest energy that comes off.
I guess my point is that, her placements alone are not affecting her to be sexy. She doesn't exude it on her own. She is still very dependent on the other person and rethinking a lot. She doesn't seem confident to me.
To me, a sexy person is someone that IS...., but I think you are describing it differently. Are you saying that those placements "are in need" of extreme sexiness rather than BEING sexy? Because, there I could see your point.
My way of defining sexy is as an energy one has within and is able to exude it naturally. By exuding it... it makes the other person feel sexual towards the sexy person. It is not an energy in need, it is an energy that GIVES.
Inner confidence is sexy to me.
You are right, you should never do something you don't feel comfortable doing. I'm still wondering why you gave him all those blowjobs when there wasn't much pleasure for you to do it... to me, that energy is off.
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Posted by Scorpio84Pisces moon. Mine is Aquarius.
Can you tell me his moon? out of curiosity
Posted by AdreamuponwakingIsn't lesbian sex basically just foreplay? lol Realistically speaking......
if you're not going to bother reading it.....I'll just tell you the answer.....
The answer........
the amount of Foreplay.
*gasp*
Omg I am furious for you
Scorpios! thank you for the help and laughs. Good thread, but it's done, I talked to him about it this morning and let him know that I like him, I like he's cute, he turns me on, but we are done with this, and maybe one day we can start up, but I don't want to be "with benefits" and just be buds. We are still buddies ๐ still going to hang out and go grab food together and such, but noooooo more sexy stuff. Or touching me period. Thanks for the help, you sexy creatures.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by AdreamuponwakingIsn't lesbian sex basically just foreplay? lol Realistically speaking......
if you're not going to bother reading it.....I'll just tell you the answer.....
The answer........
the amount of Foreplay.
*gasp*
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Heteronormative is the term that describes your thinking.
For you and what mainstream society says is that sex only happens when penis inserts vagina and also sex ends when penis ejaculates.
Nothing to do with a women's orgasm whatsoever...again that's why a lot of straight women and bisexual women are upset.
A woman who I was interested in..who actually has sex with men gave me a similar critique thinking that my thinking was similar to yours at the time
Moreover, this is a point that I've also heard and read recently a lot in both some books written by sex educators and also in person at some workshops taught by these sex educators.
E.g- According to one of the leading sex therapist who by the way is a straight married male.....
foreplay involves all activity in which you aren't and shouldn't be touching the vulva.
Most men fail to realize as he advocates the penis is pretty incompatible with a women's arousal cycle.
Many women can't and don't climax through vaginal penetration unless they are on top because they can control depth speed pressure and MOST importantly stimulation to her vulva /their outer clitoral network.
Regardless of that ...he advocates as most people who know what they are doing when having sex with a woman....is 15-20 minutes of foreplay....then what he describes as coreplay in which you proceed to manually and orally stimulate the vulva and the g spot until she orgasms at least once which can be an additional 15-30 minutes.
Then and only then do you consider putting your penis in her vagina.
Again she has to climax at leat once first though!
The optimum way I just described also ensures that vaginal penetration feels the best for her..and which she can climax again regardless of position unlike before...
as after one orgasm, the g spot descends and peneteration, in general, subsequenlt feels "waaaaaaaaaaaay better" or "sooooooooooooooo good" to quote the girl I was recently interested in.
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