Scorpio Sting

So I've known this scorpio guy for about 3 years. Just recently this year he's shown real interest in me... he told my mom. It took us a while to actually start going out and spending time together. When we're together is actually really nice, we have a lot in common and time goes by so fast.

He always makes plans in advance with me. The second week when we went out, he texted me everyday, after that week the texts slowly decreased to nothing now. But he still makes plans to see me every Wednesday for lunch and he even planned a trip for us this weekend. We have not been intimiate and it seems like he's holding back with me but he has no problem in saying he sleeps around with women and hates when women are too easy.

Now on another note, last week he behaved rather weird when we had lunch on wednesday. He started to say that he enjoyed being single right now, mind you while we were walking around and he was holding my hand. And then he said he was going to go away on a trip and because he wanted to enjoy scenery take pictures and then he added he might visit some strippers. I was wtf?! I told him okay make sure you wear a condom, and ignored it.

The next day we saw each other and he mentioned how some patient was asking him out insistently but he doesnt date patients. I finally realized he was trying to get a rise out of me. So I calmly asked him... do you have a problem with us dating? And he replies, "dating, or getting to know each other? We sre just getting to know each other right?"

I couldn't say anything so I just nodded. It kind of hurt to hear that. I already know i dont want to date anyone else, yet he reminded me we are not exclusive...

So after that I told him... i just want to make sure you're still okay with this... then he panicked liked he wasnt expecting me to say sometjing like that or confront him. He said yes! Why would you even ask that, i like getting to know you and I enjoy our time together.

I then told him, i knew we were not exclusive but that if he could please refrain from telling me of when he was out with other people. His face turned pale... i kid you not... like he had seen a ghost... he asked, you don't want to know?

I said, no! I dont want to know what you're doing with other women.

I didn't realize why he had turned pale until later that day. My friend is one of his patients and that morning he had told her he had slept with someone else the day before, weird thing the day before he was with me.... do my friend didnt believe him much... now the problem is not that he slept with someone is that he deliberately told my friend this bevause he knew she was going to tell me.

So i feel like he wa trying to hurt me... and i dont understand why.

Can I talk to him about this? Can i tell him how it made me feel? Because I just want to know what possessed him to tell my friend that. What did I do to piss him off so much that he's been trying to make me jealous.

Is this normal?

What the hell.

Move on. This guy is an obvious waste of time.

Yeah. I am always trying to find an explanation for Scorpio men behavior but in this case it seems so not normal that it is disturbing to read!

He seems like a grey lizard of a Scorpio.

Those aren't good kind and you just found one and I am sorry. Don't give him more of you. Just forget him.

Save your heart was a great suggestion!

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