Scorpio stinging me because I would not take his (Page 2)

Posted by GemFiregrl1978


Is there such a thing as cursed in love?

no, i think you just wanted something different at the time

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Posted by GemFiregrl1978Ha,that explains it.You see you are wayyyyyyyy more grounded and stable than I am.I am ruled by air and fueled by fire,there is no water and absolutely no earth in my chart.It is all in the moment for me.I never think long and hard,I just do it.

Anyways,our dynamics are strange.Games,games and just games,little trust,awesome sex,when it's good it's great,when it's bad it's terrible.I am the one who is trying to salvage it.He is the one who doesn't let me let go.We go back and forth.And to be honest?I'd die inside if everything was lovely and peaceful.I need my drama😄

Ugh, you just described my worst nightmare! :-/

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Is there such a thing as cursed in love?

no, i think you just wanted something different at the time

I hope stars collide at the end and everything works out just fine.With whoever.For deeply inside?I am such a romantic and sucker for love,and I'd do anything for love🙂
I can't wait for love.LOVE LOVE LOVE.lol

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Posted by GemFiregrl1978
Hahhahaha well in that case,you and I,Mr.Enfant better not date ever!!!Even though you are from Dubrovnik and probably sexy as hell😉
I think you have a Scorp moon,don't you?For even if you are Leo,I don't see much Leo in you kiddo.

Not sure what you mean, but there sure is a lot of Leo (nerve!) in you! I'm Cancer moon so careful what you say bitch, I'm hyper sensitive! 😉

No but I can't stand mind-games. Socially Gems are fun to be around, but as comitted relationships go, I really couldn't trust one. I'm basically all Fire and Water, some Earth too. I like stability. Gems cannot offer me that in any shape or form. Mindless sex is fine however, as long as it doesen't come with any illusions about where we go from there.

What's your connection to Dubrovnik btw?

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Posted by pathfinder
oh my, jamaican love ... and a cap male, too? lol

you did the right thing, he would have clipped your wings and you'd be miserable. maybe you sensed that and it affected the sex

Yes,he was so conservative in so many ways,including sex!But so wonderful in other ways and qualities... I just think I am cursed in love.I can never get it right!

Is there such a thing as cursed in love?

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Scorpio has driven her to despair,depression and nobody knows why its a recurring theme

Ahem,Scorpio power has driven her nuts

Damn, gems get mindfucked very easily

Ahem,bottom line is : Scorpio power 😛

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Posted by pathfinder
oh my, jamaican love ... and a cap male, too? lol

you did the right thing, he would have clipped your wings and you'd be miserable. maybe you sensed that and it affected the sex

Yes,he was so conservative in so many ways,including sex!But so wonderful in other ways and qualities... I just think I am cursed in love.I can never get it right!

Is there such a thing as cursed in love?

Scorpio has driven her to despair,depression and nobody knows why its a recurring theme

Ahem,Scorpio power has driven her nuts

Damn, gems get mindfucked very easily

Ahem,bottom line is : Scorpio power 😛

No idiot.You are wrong...before Scorpio there was Aries and Cancer man.This is not about men,this is about me.

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Scorpio 1 ,gemini 0

Exactly ,Its YOUR problem .

You'r not just an idiot,but you'r THE IDIOT on this board

Posted by GemFiregrl1978

Well,look at it this way...we play mind games in order to feel safe.That's the only thing we have going on for us,really,besides just sex appeal,haha😉
Lol@Cancer moon...ah I see,every word counts just like with my Scorp.He has Cancer moon also...

Haha exactly, EVERY word counts! You sure know your Cancer moon... 😉

Hm, play mind-games in order to feel safe? C'mon don't bullshit me, gurrrl. You said yourself you NEED the drama, don't make it into a question of defense mechanisms. So basically you would stop all that if you found a guy you could feel safe with? Highly unlikely, right... 😉

Hehe so did you ask Alen what sign he was? ;D

Well,look at it this way...we play mind games in order to feel safe.That's the only thing we have going on for us,really,besides just sex appeal,haha😉

Not necessarily true- I don't play mind games to feel safe. If I play them, it's to get the other party to reveal their cards while they feel they aren't 'revealing their cards,' so to speak. I find out more, I do my research, I want to know reactions and REAL thoughts on the matter not just platonic bullshit. And that's my main attraction to Scorpios...you guys don't lay your cards out on the table initially. You play your controlling games as well, as you hate to lose any dominance, but you're capable of getting true depth (if there is any to be had) out of a person, not just their platonic bullshit. My Scorpio boyfriend and I have amazing chemistry in all areas. He doesn't tell me more than he feels I deserve to know at that time, and I've learned to be patient and wait it out...all truths are revealed eventually. So it gives me more of a challenge...being a Gemini, we need that challenge to keep our long-term interest thriving.

And I wouldn't sell myself so short, FGG, by saying the only thing we have going for us are mind games and sex appeal. That's actually what works AGAINST us, though it seems to be the attraction initially (sex appeal) and manner to control the situation (mind games). It's the dependance on those weak qualities that lead others (ESPECIALLY Scorpios) to believe we're flighty, superficial & basically a waste of time. I've brought the best out of the Scorpios in my life, and they've brought the best out of me. No time wasted on either end there.

Keep in mind, Gem girls are among the meanest in the Zodiac! While most other people choose to live in denial, a Cancer moon person will face criticism head-on! So naturally, if you called him feminine he will carry that with him (though there are worst things to be called, lol) because obviousely it must have come from somewhere. It didn't just fly out of your mouth without passing through your brain, right?
Lol with your placements you're doomed to a life in limbo....😛 I almost feel sorry for you. Actually we have more in common than I'd care to admit, I have my Venus in Cancer too, it's tough! It's like the mark of a stray cat....

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Naw,I didn't ask Alen what his sign was.He was gentle and soft-spoken,yet so rough.Hmmm,who could he have been—?Was it you?Lol,j/k

Could might as well been, Lol... "gentle yet rough" does sound very much like a fiery water person! 😉

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^^^^ Best PAngel post of 2011.

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P-"Angel" posting her life, again. 😄

That's not nice! I'm sure there are people out there that would love to do her! I think, until she opens up her mouth. But then, they should just put something in it so words can't formulate. :\

Nah, we've always looked over the arachnids. Just waited until they needed the grasp of the Gemini talons to take them far far away, from their realities. 🙂

Posted by GemFiregrl1978
Awww keep on dreaming P-gay!!

Hey,has anyone noticed how she complements certain women??On their beauty and stuff...I'd say she is lesbian.Or a gay man.

I wouldn't put any effort into finding out. So, don't.

Now you know for us it's like watching mice negotiate a maze in search of free cheese, Milady. At some point we just feel the need to rescue the rodent, yet we end up in the maze. Well, stop that dumb shit too, aight?

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Now you know for us it's like watching mice negotiate a maze in search of free cheese, Milady. At some point we just feel the need to rescue the rodent, yet we end up in the maze. Well, stop that dumb shit too, aight?

For the note, I am no insect nor mouse....

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Shit! C'mon! What is an arachnid? An insect that has evolved from a plant that can now crawl, yet lives as a nomad. Duh! 😄

WHO CARES if anyone is gay or lesbians? As a matter of fact, "gay" are the most well-kept, good looking people I've seen (And I live in NYC- The place where everyone needs to look their best) And honestly WHAT is UP with all this SCORP bashing? Don't hate. Their hot, sweet, seductive, sensitive, deep, and awesome. Well I guess I effed myself over there....pfftt that would explain all the hatred. 😛 Leave da scorpies alone buttttaaaa. Make loovvee not war. OH yea....that's what you were complaining about. -_- ::facepalm::

*they're ^^ my spelling has gone kaput ::facepalm:: sidenote* not tipsy today. >_

Posted by GemFiregrl1978
what is your moon and mars??With mine being in Leo,I never see this happening with me.

Both your moon and Mars are in Leo? 🙂

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Fuck you and fuck Scorpio men!!
It's a New Year and new opportunities. Ain't nothing gonna get me down, la la la la😄

Anyone supposed to care as to what new year has in store for you ?

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Posted by pathfinder
oh my, jamaican love ... and a cap male, too? lol

you did the right thing, he would have clipped your wings and you'd be miserable. maybe you sensed that and it affected the sex

Yes,he was so conservative in so many ways,including sex!But so wonderful in other ways and qualities...I just think I am cursed in love.I can never get it right!

Is there such a thing as cursed in love?

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Yeap,you said it,jackhole !Men treat you like a piece of bubble gum,chew and spit it out,chew and spit you out,chew and you spit out. Pretty soon you'll be back with tales of how desperately you sucked scorpionic nuts at the end .

A short snippet of your life story : Men chew and spit you out 😢
Gems are over rated .

Obtw ,you'r entitled to your delusions .idgaf you moron lol

Posted by GemFiregrl1978
You are such a cute guy.Lucky your girlfriend🙂
P.S.Geminis are not evil nor mean,we just sound this way because we are quick to say things,and sometimes words come out mean.I can't be mean,that's not me.By the way,I apreciate your votes on DXP awards.You see I haven't forgotten,nothing goes unnoticed with me

Haha are you trying to figure out IF I'm single...? 😛 I am actually. Thanks, hon 🙂 ...but I doubt my ex would consider herself lucky in the long run. We're still good friends though... so all is well that ends well.

Gems are not evil, but as you yourself put it, words do come out of your mouths. Words that can hit you like a cold shower. And cold showers I do carry with me for a long time and spawn resentment in the long run. Speaking as a Cancer moon individual. And your memory is definitely thanks to your Cancer, 'us folks' have a crystal sharp memory!

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So I heard you speak Swedish...you see I speak some Danish.Talar du Svenska—Lol.Hej🙂

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Jag talar svenska flytande! Hur kommer det sig att du kan danska? 😄 Gott nytt ?r!!

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Posted by GeminiMind
Now you know for us it's like watching mice negotiate a maze in search of free cheese, Milady. At some point we just feel the need to rescue the rodent, yet we end up in the maze. Well, stop that dumb shit too, aight?

For the note, I am no insect nor mouse....

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I said it's "LIKE" watching mice. Damn, some of you Scorps are so easy to take shit to heart without thinking, observing, or listening. Why I won't ever date another one. Too slow for this Gem, and I find myself always having to wait for them to get "It". Fuck that, there's better things to do. Oh, that was very Geminian of me, wasn't it. 😄

And for the moron that said Gemini's are overrated. Uh...... Sex with Scorpios is mos def overrated. Can't get rid of them once a Gemini hits it, and quits it. Obsessive creatures. Still haven't lifted my restraining order on the Scorp chick from years past. HaHa!

To the OP. When a Scorpio stings you, do what any human would do.... Step on it. That's what I do.

Posted by GemFiregrl1978
At Enfant:

Jeg gik i gymnasiet i Danmark, men jeg har bes??gt Sverige mange gange.Jeg har familien en Malmoe,Ystad,Goteborg,Stockholm,Vaxjoe,osv...
Du er meget s??d!!!!

Intressant! Hur kommer det sig att du har familj i Sverige? Sj?_lv bor jag i Landskrona, det ligger ganska n?_ra Malm? och cirka en timme fr?n K?penhamn. Och om du har v?_garna f?rbi s? ?_r du v?_lkommen att knacka p? min d?rr ;D
/Puss p? ljumsken! 😉

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Now you know for us it's like watching mice negotiate a maze in search of free cheese, Milady. At some point we just feel the need to rescue the rodent, yet we end up in the maze. Well, stop that dumb shit too, aight?

For the note, I am no insect nor mouse....

I said it's "LIKE" watching mice. Damn, some of you Scorps are so easy to take shit to heart without thinking, observing, or listening. Why I won't ever date another one. Too slow for this Gem, and I find myself always having to wait for them to get "It". Fuck that, there's better things to do. Oh, that was very Geminian of me, wasn't it. 😄

And for the moron that said Gemini's are overrated. Uh...... Sex with Scorpios is mos def overrated. Can't get rid of them once a Gemini hits it, and quits it. Obsessive creatures. Still haven't lifted my restraining order on the Scorp chick from years past. HaHa!

To the OP. When a Scorpio stings you, do what any human would do.... Step on it. That's what I do.

Yes,I already did,stepped all over him!!He is the one crying for my 5'10 feet blonde frame and big tits,saying he found someone else.Truly pathetic.Hahahhahahahaha.Poor guy.
STILL texting me,after he said bye 10,000 times;-p

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But you'r/were pregnant with his kid 😛

So that makes him a winner .

At the end,
Gemini 0 and scorpio 2

lol at this numbskull OP

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Now you know for us it's like watching mice negotiate a maze in search of free cheese, Milady. At some point we just feel the need to rescue the rodent, yet we end up in the maze. Well, stop that dumb shit too, aight?

For the note, I am no insect nor mouse....

I said it's "LIKE" watching mice. Damn, some of you Scorps are so easy to take shit to heart without thinking, observing, or listening. Why I won't ever date another one. Too slow for this Gem, and I find myself always having to wait for them to get "It". Fuck that, there's better things to do. Oh, that was very Geminian of me, wasn't it. 😄

And for the moron that said Gemini's are overrated. Uh...... Sex with Scorpios is mos def overrated. Can't get rid of them once a Gemini hits it, and quits it. Obsessive creatures. Still haven't lifted my restraining order on the Scorp chick from years past. HaHa!

To the OP. When a Scorpio stings you, do what any human would do.... Step on it. That's what I do.

Yes,I already did,stepped all over him!!He is the one crying for my 5'10 feet blonde frame and big tits,saying he found someone else.Truly pathetic.Hahahhahahahaha.Poor guy.
STILL texting me,after he said bye 10,000 times;-p

But you'r/were pregnant with his kid 😛

So that makes him a winner .

At the end,
Gemini 0 and scorpio 2

lol at this numbskull OP

No,I said we entertained the subject of kids.Never happened though,and never will happen with him.
You are still obsessing about my life,I see.

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No no. Memory of an elephant here. Your very last thread you started on here before you left again was that you and Scorp just found out you were having a baby, and couldn't be more than excited. Also too that it would be a Gem/Scorpio baby, someone even responded too and congratulated you. And I do remember it too because Dazed said you would end u

** and I do remember it too because Dazed said you would end up pregnant, and you foo fooed him and it was like a day or two later that you announced it on here, Scorp forum, and later that day is when you disappeared until now again. Not pointing fingers, just pointing out you said you found out you were preggo, and not just saying you guys were talking about it.

Okay. Well, as sad as this is to say, because I never want anything bad said about any baby...it's a blessing you're not pregnant. That means no offense, but just given everything before now, and now now? Maybe someday, just not today.

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Okay. Well, as sad as this is to say, because I never want anything bad said about any baby...it's a blessing you're not pregnant. That means no offense, but just given everything before now, and now now? Maybe someday, just not today.

Yeah,I agree.Thanks Ocean,you are a wise lady.
I feel bitter-sweet about the whole thing.He didn't even wish me Happy New Year.It's like Earth swallowed him.

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Well, in a way the earth probably did swallow him. I would say Gem, this stuff gets to him. He just doesn't show it all of the time. His words and actions are him paying you back. But deep down, it bothers him truly if he loves you. The whole thing is that he will keep pushing you and pushing you, so you need to do what you have to do for yourself. Even as hard as that is at times, but really you know this. How much you love him, and how much you wish it would work. Life with a Scorp is not easy. But they truly are the most loving and giving people. But someone has to put a stop to it, either for good or with the intent to stop the insanity and start the real stuff.

This Scorp, the one that has been getting me this last week (not the one with the Aqua moon) I finally gave up on this last summer. Two years of it. But the thing is, is I never really did give up. I just told myself I had to keep moving. This man seriously has put me through the wringer. Sane people would wonder why I tolerated it. That I deserve it, but as much as I want to strangle him and would love to pop him one? He's probably the only man who as ever totally accepted me. He just puts me through hell because A) he loves getting me to that point and for both crazy and selfish reasons on his end, and B) so that I can't get that close to him, because I HAD gotten that close to him before. I burned him, he in returned burned me beyond imaginable. Those are what kept me fighting and bombarding his phone with 500 texts. He just had fooled me into believing he didn't care. My heart keeps calling me back to him because he's not a monster, he'd never lay a hand on me, and he wouldn't hurt a fly if it meant something to me...and when I sat back and looked at things, remembered things, I realized how much he does care.

Hang in there Gem, just make sound decisions for yourse

** Hang in there Gem, just make sound decisions for yourself. Not fly by night, or things that will only get you through for the moment. I try to remind myself, today affects tomorrow. I do a lot of knee jerk reactions in the heat of the moment, and 9 outta 10 times they fail me. So just allow this time going into the new year to breathe for itself, and make no decisions you are not 100% certain that tomorrow you won't wish you hadn't.

I agree with you on that oceans. The fooled into not caring.