SCORPIOS why are you so........!!!!!!!!? (Page 2)

Who apparently doesn't like Virgos..

Hello u!🙂Feeling better with your cold?

"Im still waiting for my Virgo "nurse" to arrive"

lol..hope u feel better soon🙂

"how about you? you werent feeling too well lately if I remember well.."

Actually, I'm feeling great today! Long bank holiday weekend over here which means no work on Monday! All we need now is for it to stop raining😛

no plans yet, but i'm sure I'll find plenty of things to amuse myself with..🙂

"will it envolve two people?"

I wish😢

"you were dating a scorpio right?"
Yes i was, but we are just friends now. I've learnt my lessons to stay clear of trouble😛😛

So you have Venus in Leo,Mars in Scorpio..looks like your naughty nurse is one lucky girl!!lol

i meant your virgo nurse. OOps sorry!

Sounds like you two are a great match!🙂 I do get on with Scorps very well though. In general i get on great with water signs, my past relationships apart from one virgo, the rest were all water signs. I've been told I'll match well with fire sign too but haven't met one yet and definitely like to try..Just got to stay clear with the emotional unavailable ones.. lol

"But oh god is she a shopping freak! is that one of the things that come with the Venus in Libra package"

Yep,I'm afraid..I get carried away when i go shopping. Someone should really be in charge of my credit cards.

I definitely think two Virgos can work very well together, especially if you have moon, venus,mars..that match well.

Shaka doesnt waste time.

"A fire sign I'd recommend all Virgirls is Aries"

A good friend of mine is Aries, she can be VERY difficult sometimes but to the people who knows her well she is a sweetie really.

"good thing is, she does seem to know what she wants most of the time so I dont have to fall asleep when going shopping with her hehe.."

Me too, I always know what i want and where i can find them before i hit the shops so for me it's in and out job done😛 efficiency is the key, I hate wondering for hours in one place...

"I have spent some time comparing our charts and something nice I found: her moon is EXACTLY (by 0.2 degrees) conjunct my Venus, which is a common aspect in couples, also my ascendant is almost exactly conjunct her Venus and there's a couple more of real good aspects"

Sounds like someone is in Looovve!!🙂

u too Shaka! enjoy the pampering..lol😛

For goodness sake he is a scorp!!! NO SCORP who is truly interested only text never calls and only sees her for booty calls. Sorry... He isn't serious about her, bottom line!

"When I state to a guy I really like you and I don't want us play games, then why the h@ll would he not say to himself, "dang, she's really is starting to like me. Mabye I should stop"

The answer? No he's not going to stop because he is hoping that since I like him, maybe I'll sleep with him."

If he really wanted to sleep with you, he would've told you what you wanted to hear. Don't get mad at a man who isn't willing to lie to you. He may only be guilty of not knowing how much you cared about him.

That's rich coming from someone who says all virgos are cheap and anal neat freaks just because you had a bit of bad experiences with them. There are bad ones in every sign and stop taking it so personally and just chill.

In reference to your comment Abb the irony is I have not had a bad experience with virgos, but I can be a little brutally honest (oops thats the scorpio slipping out gain)Bad, Bad, Bad scorp!..a better way to have said it would be neat and practical...But pls forgive my bluntness! LOL

I agree with all the above...but believe it or not we don't like hurting people, but if they don't get the hints..we can appear to be mean...ie., perfect example would be my sharp analysis of Virgos, but I also know many Virgos that are kind and considerate and have hearts of Gold, which is why he still keeps in touch!

sorry to say this but Queen scorpio is right, a scorpio would want to know how many times you breathe in a day......lol, he is not interested, what a shame because they can be very nice when they are into you.....

"In reference to your comment Abb the irony is I have not had a bad experience with virgos, but I can be a little brutally honest"

Yes I have experienced the brutal honesty with my Scorp friends many times now..lol I'm like that myself sometimes, must be my leo moon.

""For goodness sake he is a scorp!!! NO SCORP who is truly interested only text never calls and only sees her for booty calls. Sorry... He isn't serious about her, bottom line!""


Insert "man" wherever you see "Scorp".

My EX (thank God) daughter-in-law had this job in a grocery store in the deli .... the first time she stuck her hand in the meat slicer, we all freaked out, rushed her to the hospital and felt so sorry for her.


By the 5th time she did it .... we blew her off and went out to a restaurant to enjoy a nice dinner.

She sulked and pouted about the house .. how insensitive we were for not rushing to her with pity. There was no awareness in her that she needed to get a grip and STOP putting her fucking fingers on the meat slicer .... her only awareness was that we didn't feel sorry for her.


Question: How can you pity a fool?


If a person who couldn't swim kept jumping in the water over their head .. how many times would you go to their rescue before you finally decided ... if you're that stupid, then drown.

""Question: How can you pity a fool?""


Ask Mr. T

Sounds like your ex-daughter-in-law could have that disorder where ppl hurt themselves to get attention. forget what it's called, it's on the tip of my tongue.

"Ask Mr. T"


lol

***...scorpio and virgo is the worst combination ever...especially when the man is scorpio and the woman is virgo. It just NEVER works out. Scorpio gets attracted by the seemingly cold challenge that is virgo and then discovers the coldness is no illusion at all (sorry to all virgo girls out there)***




worst combination? YESSS
mom-scorpio..dad- virgo

she fights all the time. my mom likes to fight..sensitive n emotional to the core.COMPULSIVE LIAR.always irrational..cries n doesnt discuss things.arrogant.selfish. rude.aggressive.jealous.she loves drama n argument...provocation..wants to win possess dominate all the time.....u name it! makes her Ugly n doesnt make her a woman. soreh ma but yah *sigh*

virgos are not into drama etc. they have manners n wud do things in a proper way.....they r rational,prefer discussing like adults etc..... they are nice people.they hv patience but they burn slow inside & will eventually explode. my dad cant stand her & so cant i. btw my dad's gona divorce her,finally....he waited cos of us

oh and virgos are not Cold....especially the GIRLS 🙂

""virgos are not into drama etc.""


LOL


...and I'm Tim Burton.

i didn't say HATE , did i?
i love my ma & w take a good care of her no matter what

i wasnt siding anyone. i was describing her as an individual who possess some of the Scorpio dark traits. the traits that hurt others especially her Virgo man....who has decided to walk out... . . in the end

NO Toro, I was commenting on the initiator of the thread. The virgo... No scorp shows a level of interest that low unless they just aren't interested in anything serious. There is really nothing to analyze, because when they really like/love you... YOU WILL KNOW regardless to what else he has going on.

Example I ran into my scorp friend at the car dealership where we both baught our cars. He was there with the wife he is separated from. I was with my daughter and her poodle. How did I know? He walked over to where I was and just spilled it out. I would have never known his wife was there. He just said:" Hey Kyli, high five (my daughter) played with the poodle and said hey, I am here trying to get my name off the car I bought for "her" (his wife) so she can get rid of it and get a new car. What are you up to? I will call you when I am out of here. Me, looking like uhhh okay. Said, okay. Like who asked why you were here and who you were with. Whatever. Then the guy I bought my car from (a gemini) who claims that we went on a date a few years back (like 11 years lol!!!) and I walked out to my car and chatted - You wouldn't believe as I turned to get in my car, the scorp was standing staring at us through a window - sick... creepy. He called later, but ahhh didn't answer. This dude can be way creepy.

So, they will stalk you call you back to back even if yo decided to be friends only if they are feeling you emotionally until they get over it. Period.

applemint .. I agree with you about the completely different temperments between Scorpio and Virgo, and how this could, and often does, cause such animosity when trying to relate. However, you are looking at this from surface reactions, and not cause.

When people respond to each other, such as your parents .. they are only doing so from the effects of the cause .. surface matter. And this is what you see, saw when growing up, because you weren't adult enough, nor aware enough about human behaviour at the time to comprehend that people react to the outside influences BECAUSE there is an inner cause, reason which effects us.

Scorpios are passionate, intense .. they REQUIRE their partners to express varying emotions as they mount.

Virgos are calm, dispassionate .. they require their partners to NOT express anything emotional that seems chaotic.

Emotions are chaos, they cannot be expressed any other way if a partner is to believe that their SO "feels" them.

For a man to remain rigid, cold .. when a woman is zinging with emotions, especially a Water Women .. this appears to women as being unfeeling, uncaring, insensitive to her being female and NEEDING to vent off, express, embrace these feelings in which has consumed her.

When the day comes that you have suffered with the cold-heart of a man to whom you HAVE to have his acknowledge that because you are woman, you FEEL so deeply and intensely that it's everything you can do to take another breath ... you will then have the ability to see from your mother's perspective = a cold, rigid, unmoving man to a womans emotions kills her soul.

"My mother was a royal pain the ass. My father was another royal pain
the ass. Together -- two pains in the asses"

lol!!

Anyway relationship takes work, I've seen plenty of couples with supposedly well matched signs that ended in disaster. I don't really believe anyone can just name any two signs to be good/bad match, no two people are the same just because they were born in the same month. It has never worked for me.

I know two twin sisters and their personalities couldn't be more different.

Exactly!🙂

I can sympathize with you though TORO, my mum is Virgo and my dad is Cancer(although most of the time they act like the other way round) and I was gladly out of the house when i was 7..lol

I think most ppl see their parents as pains in the asses. At least while you're under their roof.

My dad is a royal pain in the ass. But he is good to me. 🙂

My mom isn't so bad. Her and I are pretty close actually, compared to other mom-daughter relationships I see. She knows me better than anyone.

I'm much closer to my mom too🙂 For a virgo, she is far more emotional and affectionate than most of the water sign people i know including my dad. I can tell her anything no matter what i got myself into, she is the most non-judgemental person i know.

I'm sorry to hear that TORO😢 Your dad sounds exactly like mine, except my dad also have really bad temper... my brother and i were terrified of him when we were young. He is much better now...

Scorpios are naturally mysterious...but you are saying it in general.
All scorpios don't give you blunt answers. My bestfriend is a virgo, she and I get along, we have never had a big fight.

Yeah even though the scorp is a genuinely good person he is crazy when fixated.

""Histrionic and borderline personality disorders (bunny boilers)""

I mean the one that's called Something-something by proxy, when the pain is inflicted on another person. A child, for example.

Malingering? I'll look it up...

And what's that one where people talk about themselves in the third person plural—

Munchausen syndrome is a psychiatric disorder in which those affected fake disease, illness, or psychological trauma in order to draw attention or sympathy to themselves. It is in a class of disorders known as factitious disorders which involve "illnesses" whose symptoms are either self-induced or falsified by the patient. It is also sometimes known as hospital addiction syndrome.




That's taken from Wiki ... but, it is saying that person "fakes" an illness to get attention .. that's not really the same as phyically causing the self injury.


But, can't this disorder also be on an emotional level and not just physical? Can't a person fake the level of emotional trauma for attention?

Aha! Thanks, SIL.


""....that's not really the same as phyically causing the self injury.""

Yes, they do. People who suffer from this do inflict pain on themselves, if I recall correctly.

This is just a re-post from what I posted on the other board about my situation:

Agreed, but usually when people are not interested, then they don't continue to "entertain" the other person. If I knew a man was interested in me and I didnt feel the same way, then I wouldnt sit up and talk on the phone with him and invite him over my house and send him Valentines day messages as well as other messages telling him how "beautiful" he is. In other words, my ACTIONS would match my words and/or thoughts so that there is no confusion. The Scorpio I delt with did ALL of the above and still continues to do it, hence my confusion. Never slept with the guy and WILL NOT sleep with him especially under these circumstances. I told him when we met that I don't do casual sex and I will not compromise my morals no matter how much I like this man.

LOL...Toro....you are too silly. 🙂