Secret Attractions.......... (Page 2)

yall no the age old cliche' "BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER"

mental note - Cows after a couple of drinks turn into heavenly gods.. got it

or.. "Dont bother, i'm not drunk yet"

And I have grown up to think that sometimes if you want to be treated like a lady date an ugly guy....

Take Janet Jackson and Jermaine DePree.....That brother is ugly I am sorry...comparied to Eldebarge, and that other guy her dancer or something, and both of them was fine and treated her like crap she get an ugly guy and she is happy as a damn lark.

lmao @ damn lark

Juicy you never heard that before

no, i know i live under a rock

-flatlined- at that lol

Yall have a nice weekend...I am on my way home to change in to something a little more sexy and prevailing and go the Fish Market and eat more seafood and listen to a band, and get drunk.....

I hope no ugly guy look good to me once I get drunk...

EG don't hate.....LOL

gotta go

Peace and Much Luv have a good weekend.

lol be safe!

em-gem but didn't she cheat on p-diddy?

"My love dont cost a thing" i needed to go for a walk after that video... How full of shit was she?!

I agree..I got a song for everything too.

agreed with you both.

Are any of you Scorps out there guilty of finding someone "attractive" when the rest of the world would say that person is not. Have you been with someone your peers would think "beneath you"? I know I find beauty in almost everyone. If they have a gentle soul and a kind heart, I can find almost anyone attractive.

when i first met this bull i didn't think he was my type at all. decided to see him a second time coz the conversation was great; i thought we could be friends. but the more time i spent with him, the more i found about him to like - his views, opinions, how to reacts to things, how he is towards me, etc.

i can remember the exact moment when i looked at him one day and it struck me ... i remember thinking, 'wow, this guy is really handsome, it's too bad he's not my boyfriend'. that was the moment his inside was showing itself to me on the outside and i was appreciating his 'beauty'. i've been looking at him differently since then, and i find him to be gorgeous, sexy and vereee manly.

Think of Julia Roberts. She's a scorpio. Didn't she marry Lyle Lovitts the ugliest man in music? That proves the scorpio theory right there!

Ugly man do have a chance!!!!

man=men

Yeah wonder what the fuck she sees in him..obviously something there..maybe sense of humour..

When I got together with my currant boyfriend he told me that I sold myself short in the past. He said that I had low self esteem because of the men that I dated in the past. (Not that he is a prize as I'll describe later.) But he knew of some of my ex's. And no, they were not what the majority would call attractive. But, they treated me like a princess. I was the best thing they ever had. I know that sounds conceited, but it's true. Not that I went out with total dogs, but they didn't catch the eye of every woman passing. They all but bowed at my feet.
My friend came into town a few months ago and met my current boyfriend for the first time. She said he's not the kind of man she pictured me with. I asked her to elaborate. She said that I am a beautiful woman and she pictured me with someone taller and had more of a pretty boy look to him. I was not offended but puzzled. Just because I am attractive, why would I only date attractive men? I find the more attractive the man, the more I have to please him. Because they expect more. I dated one "uber hottie" and all he did was talk about how his ex's spent all their money on him. Well I am no sugarmama so I dumped him pretty damned quick.

Anyway, I was just curious about how other scorps perceived "attractive people".

Its difficult to describe the kind of attraction..its just there..can't put it into words..But its mostly someone others wouldn't deem attractive..

Now I can't help but come to the conclusion that after reading the above comments by JP, some smart ass will shoot with the "so if you find attraction where no others would, surely you want to be worshipped and that is the main reason for doing so"..

But no..that isn't the case..

" I find the more attractive the man, the more I have to please him. Because they expect more. "

juwanapla,

are you saying you date unattractive men so you can treat them less than anyone else?

"surely you want to be worshipped and that is the main reason for doing so"."

I was wondering if itz related to some sort of inferiority complex ? Astrology says that no other woman wud have such high opinon of herself but it actually can be a reacion to perceived negative self-worth. Just guessing...

Not really...I wouldn't say inferiority complex at all..Thats why I had to make that comment before you came along with your theory...

That doesn't go to say we don't find the hotties attractive we do, but we just don't find them attractive as a person..Oooh its difficult to explain..its definitely not inferiority..

I know a scorp girl who was completely in love with a guy based on his looks. she stalked him... dunno how close they ever got realistically though... i think very casual acquaintences.

Inferiority? No. Negative self-worth? No.

I have never dated a person to make me feel better about myself. I'm not shallow. I know it kind of came off that way. I am just saying that I have been with a few men that are more like a Jack Black than a Brad Pitt. The Jack Blacks are more appreciative of women than the Brad Pitts. They seem to value what they have more than the main stream hotties.

MM catches the drift!

"scorp girl who was completely in love with a guy based on his looks. she stalked him"

Oh man, I would spit on such a woman..lack of self respect..

"Oh man, I would spit on such a woman..lack of self respect.."

well that's kind of harsh. i guess "stalk" is a kind of a loaded word... it wasn't like she was calling and hanging up a billion times a day or masturbating with a stolen pair of his gym socks. she drove by his dorm apartment occasionally and became friends with his roommates so she could invite herself over. check his AIM away messages and profile constantly to see what he was doing... stuff like that. she was obviously obsessed as scorps seem to get occasionally.

Yeah but to sink to that level over a guy!

love and lust make people do silly things, i guess

Soundz like an investment scenario where conservative scorpio females would not put their money on risky stocks. And turn-around champions as U r supposed to be , what would U anywayz do with a Winner.

hahaha leave it to gaurav to make it sound like a business transaction

which isn't a bad thing, considering the state of love and marriage these days

what would U anywayz do with a Winner.

what does that mean?

"Yeah but to sink to that level over a guy!"

Girls do that ..and Scorpio females are no exception. They learn very fast though and come out relatively unscathed.

BTW Doctor ..Did U watch Babel ?

"what would U anywayz do with a Winner.

what does that mean? "

Winner is some entity doing exceedingly well in all departments. U might also go for somebody whoz not selling well on the bourses but has potential which U may unlock. Good investment strategy.

yeah, like buying low priced stock and keeping them till they mature and you're filthy rich

"hahaha leave it to gaurav to make it sound like a business transaction"

hehe ...much of our character gets reflected there.

Girls may do that all the time. I had one friend that would get obsessed with all her boyfriends then be devastated when they broke up with her. It was hard to get her to understand men are not worth it.

OK GA, I got it.

"It was hard to get her to understand men are not worth it"

Worth is like wealth which U either inherit or create...U dont get it as donation.

"Worth is like wealth which U either inherit or create...U dont get it as donation."

No shit! It take alot of energy to convince someone with low self esteem self-worth.

" take alot of energy to convince someone with low self esteem self-worth."

Indeed...and if it can be helped then its nothing less than a wonder.

So GA, what kind of woman are you attracted to?

"So GA, what kind of woman are you attracted to? "

A researcher perhaps...who understands mathematics.

Bloody hell!..this thing has been down all day..

Hi all

"BTW Doctor ..Did U watch Babel ?"

That was the movie I forgot the name of!..thank you G..no I haven't seen it..Going to see it Tuesday..Either Blood Diamond or this..

Go n watch Babel...Caprio can wait.

"Go n watch Babel...Caprio can wait."

Ooooh I love it when you get all authoritative on me..