N_leo
@N_leo
7 Years
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Should i fix it between us or leave it?
my scorp is exactly the same way, there are some things that he does that i dont like or some things i would like him to do that require like no freaking sacrifice at all and i repeat myself everyday and he just doesnt care because he says in his opinion those arent important things and there are other stuff that matter much more even tho what i ask is so simple and takes him seconds but he still doesnt care he says thats the way he is and i have to deal with it
and tbh i had to choose between arguing with him all the time or just actually deal with it and i chose to deal with it because i dont have the energy to fight all the time, and that is definitely not healthy at all, even tho he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it.
with time i just didnt care anymore im just like "whatever thats how he is" u cant force them to be something they re not because then they would be doing those things because you asked them to and not because they genuinely wanted to do them and its not the same thing.
but it depends on what it is that he is doing that is making you unhappy tho
and tbh i had to choose between arguing with him all the time or just actually deal with it and i chose to deal with it because i dont have the energy to fight all the time, and that is definitely not healthy at all, even tho he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it.
with time i just didnt care anymore im just like "whatever thats how he is" u cant force them to be something they re not because then they would be doing those things because you asked them to and not because they genuinely wanted to do them and its not the same thing.
but it depends on what it is that he is doing that is making you unhappy tho
Yes, had this too. I think Scorpios have a big problem apologising and they want to make it seem like you are the one who is wrong, so they can maintain control. They knows what’s going on but it’s their instinct to manipulate, and whereas some sign might manipulate but still have your interests at heart, Scorpio seems to be more selfish. This is very difficult for a fire sign to get used to, maybe this is the water effect. It makes us feel crap, secrets and mistrust, games played.. and maybe he is seeing someone else, but obviously accusing you is the best form of defence. Who knows, just saying.
I learnt from my Scorpio too, this just repeats, like you can have a fallout, say why, try and talk about it, but they seem to not want to listen if they might be the ones in the wrong, so they never change and the fallout happens again and again. So I think you have to ask yourself if you are happy to repeat this cycle, time after time.. for who knows how long? Years? Where does it end? And my question has always been with my Scorpio, where does it end? Does it even move forward? Because there is no progress, there isn’t any change, where is the future?
I feel down right now, every couple of weeks, it’s like are we broken up, and Scorpios seem to want to only see each other once a week? That’s not enough for a fire sign?
My advice is, if it’s getting you down, wasting you energy, then think about if where you will be in two years time, will you be better or worse if you stay with this guy. And don’t make excuses for his actions, he isn’t doing that for you.
I learnt from my Scorpio too, this just repeats, like you can have a fallout, say why, try and talk about it, but they seem to not want to listen if they might be the ones in the wrong, so they never change and the fallout happens again and again. So I think you have to ask yourself if you are happy to repeat this cycle, time after time.. for who knows how long? Years? Where does it end? And my question has always been with my Scorpio, where does it end? Does it even move forward? Because there is no progress, there isn’t any change, where is the future?
I feel down right now, every couple of weeks, it’s like are we broken up, and Scorpios seem to want to only see each other once a week? That’s not enough for a fire sign?
My advice is, if it’s getting you down, wasting you energy, then think about if where you will be in two years time, will you be better or worse if you stay with this guy. And don’t make excuses for his actions, he isn’t doing that for you.
@N_leo and @imascorpio10
what are the things what you have to deal with? what you would like to change in your man/in his behaviour?
I am just curious how serious the things where sacrificing is needed are
about where to live? what house to buy? how many children to have? how to split up the bills?
(sorry girls if you already said it in other threads, I dont remember the backstory)
what are the things what you have to deal with? what you would like to change in your man/in his behaviour?
I am just curious how serious the things where sacrificing is needed are
about where to live? what house to buy? how many children to have? how to split up the bills?
(sorry girls if you already said it in other threads, I dont remember the backstory)
Posted by Pandora101
@N_leo and @imascorpio10
what are the things what you have to deal with? what you would like to change in your man/in his behaviour?
I am just curious how serious the things where sacrificing is needed are
about where to live? what house to buy? how many children to have? how to split up the bills?
(sorry girls if you already said it in other threads, I dont remember the backstory)
we are pretty much on the same page on everything, we want the same amount of children we want to live in the same place and when we disagree sometimes one of us just has to do the sacrifice to please the other one thats how it works.
but we havent come to the living together part and having children so that is not an issue yet. What i keep asking is for him to be more romantic because i am a hopeless romantic and he is not at all, or simply a nice word now and then or a compliment takes him a few seconds and he just doestn do it he prefers to think to himself that i look for example good instead of saying it to me which would make me so happy. and when i talk to him about it he says "i dont need to say i love you everyday or that you look beautiful, because i already think about it all day, saying it doesnt make it realer" even tho that is a simple gesture that would make me happier but whatever i gave up on that lmao. another thing is him not hanging out with my family as much as i would like. Beside that we dont really have any other problems
Posted by imascorpio10
he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it
You sound entitled.
Also weren’t you just asking about the cancer in your class and whether he would cheat on his gf with you?
Just dump this guy. No need to talk shit about him to make your ego feel better about cutting him lose.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10
he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it
You sound entitled.
Also weren’t you just asking about the cancer in your class and whether he would cheat on his gf with you?
Just dump this guy. No need to talk shit about him to make your ego feel better about cutting him lose.
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damn tbh u are starting to get on my nerves. that was not what i meant. i am dating a scorpio guy and all i ask him is for him to be more romantic with me, tell me more often that he loves me, tell me im beautiful and all that kind of shit he literally never tells me those things im not asking for much so obviously he is supposed to do it bc its not even a fucking sacrifice, those things are needed in a relationship
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10
he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it
You sound entitled.
Also weren’t you just asking about the cancer in your class and whether he would cheat on his gf with you?
Just dump this guy. No need to talk shit about him to make your ego feel better about cutting him lose.
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im not gonna cut him lose neither do i want to do that jesus im just saying there are things he is obligated to do bc they are needed in a relationship, mind your own business i was helping the girl
Posted by imascorpio10Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10
he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it
You sound entitled.
Also weren’t you just asking about the cancer in your class and whether he would cheat on his gf with you?
Just dump this guy. No need to talk shit about him to make your ego feel better about cutting him lose.
damn tbh u are starting to get on my nerves. that was not what i meant. i am dating a scorpio guy and all i ask him is for him to be more romantic with me, tell me more often that he loves me, tell me im beautiful and all that kind of shit he literally never tells me those things im not asking for much so obviously he is supposed to do it bc its not even a fucking sacrifice, those things are needed in a relationshipclick to expand
You beg your man to tell you he loves you and thinks your beautiful? Ewww, so cringe.
Posted by imascorpio10Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10
he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it
You sound entitled.
Also weren’t you just asking about the cancer in your class and whether he would cheat on his gf with you?
Just dump this guy. No need to talk shit about him to make your ego feel better about cutting him lose.
im not gonna cut him lose neither do i want to do that jesus im just saying there are things he is obligated to do bc they are needed in a relationship, mind your own business i was helping the girlclick to expand
You posted your buisness in a public forum. Good luck trying to control people’s opinions.
Maybe you could beg me to ‘mind my buisness’ like you beg your boyfriend to give you compliments. It could be fun!
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10
he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it
You sound entitled.
Also weren’t you just asking about the cancer in your class and whether he would cheat on his gf with you?
Just dump this guy. No need to talk shit about him to make your ego feel better about cutting him lose.
im not gonna cut him lose neither do i want to do that jesus im just saying there are things he is obligated to do bc they are needed in a relationship, mind your own business i was helping the girl
You posted your buisness in a public forum. Good luck trying to control people’s opinions.
Maybe you could beg me to ‘mind my buisness’ like you beg your boyfriend to give you compliments. It could be fun!click to expand
are you proud of yourself for being an annoying ass person?
Posted by imascorpio10Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10
he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it
You sound entitled.
Also weren’t you just asking about the cancer in your class and whether he would cheat on his gf with you?
Just dump this guy. No need to talk shit about him to make your ego feel better about cutting him lose.
im not gonna cut him lose neither do i want to do that jesus im just saying there are things he is obligated to do bc they are needed in a relationship, mind your own business i was helping the girl
You posted your buisness in a public forum. Good luck trying to control people’s opinions.
Maybe you could beg me to ‘mind my buisness’ like you beg your boyfriend to give you compliments. It could be fun!
are you proud of yourself for being an annoying ass person?click to expand
Your mad cause I’m pointing out the obvious. Stay mad.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by imascorpio10
he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it
You sound entitled.
Also weren’t you just asking about the cancer in your class and whether he would cheat on his gf with you?
Just dump this guy. No need to talk shit about him to make your ego feel better about cutting him lose.
im not gonna cut him lose neither do i want to do that jesus im just saying there are things he is obligated to do bc they are needed in a relationship, mind your own business i was helping the girl
You posted your buisness in a public forum. Good luck trying to control people’s opinions.
Maybe you could beg me to ‘mind my buisness’ like you beg your boyfriend to give you compliments. It could be fun!
are you proud of yourself for being an annoying ass person?
Your mad cause I’m pointing out the obvious. Stay mad.click to expand
no you're just childish, i couldnt care less about ur opinion
You see at the begging he was sooooo crazy about me ... he wants to see me every day and talk to me all the time and he says sweet stuff... and all what he keeps saying is how lucky he is to have someone as beautiful and pretty and kind as i’m ... and that he would walk proudly with me to show me off anywhere we go .. then he suddenly got cold and i dont have any problem with that ... but then .. he started to compare me with other girls... and when i say .. why r u doing this ? I’m different than ur friends than the girls u know whats wrong with that? And he goes like why r u mad am just asking why dont u dress up -in a certain way- and it is mostly criticism about my outfits my style and stuff like that ... which is making me feel like am not enough like am not satisfying him u know especially that he doesnt even kiss me that much just a goodbye quick kiss ... which made me so sad and inscure ... and i didnt want him to know but after a while because he kept repeating this ... and it pisses me off because i dont like his style but i didmt care !! Because i love him !... so i stood up for myself amd confronted jim with that i dont like this ... so what he did is that thought am silly and its stupid to get mad over this and that am chocking hom that am not satisfied ...
Posted by Pandora101
@N_leo and @imascorpio10
what are the things what you have to deal with? what you would like to change in your man/in his behaviour?
I am just curious how serious the things where sacrificing is needed are
about where to live? what house to buy? how many children to have? how to split up the bills?
(sorry girls if you already said it in other threads, I dont remember the backstory)
ned it all back to me and just bashed out and turned into a hurtful humen being ... that he actually said ... lsn chilll !!! I didnt say i dont love u or i dont want u i just need time to think.. and if i dont want you i will tell u that dont worry ... so i was shocked and i was like what !! Andd u want me to wait till u decied tthat u want me or not and act normal till then !!!— This is unfair !! ... he was like this is what i have if u dont want u can go away if u want again i said i love u i just dont know what i want from u yet...https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?and% 20id=11620857">Posted by N_leo
You see at the begging he was sooooo crazy about me ... he wants to see me every day and talk to me all the time and he says sweet stuff... and all what he keeps saying is how lucky he is to have someone as beautiful and pretty and kind as i’m ... and that he would walk proudly with me to show me off anywhere we go .. then he suddenly got cold and i dont have any problem with that ... but then .. he started to compare me with other girls... and when i say .. why r u doing this ? I’m different than ur friends than the girls u know whats wrong with that? And he goes like why r u mad am just asking why dont u dress up -in a certain way- and it is mostly criticism about my outfits my style and stuff like that ... which is making me feel like am not enough like am not satisfying him u know especially that he doesnt even kiss me that much just a goodbye quick kiss ... which made me so sad and inscure ... and i didnt want him to know but after a while because he kept repeating this ... and it pisses me off because i dont like his style but i didmt care !! Because i love him !... so i stood up for myself amd confronted jim with that i dont like this ... so what he did is that thought am silly and its stupid to get mad over this and that am chocking him that am not satisfied ... and conplaining ! ... this is so stressful .. i can not no why he doesnt simply accept that he is hurting me and stop what he is doing since he loves me and what i ask for isn’t impossible or hard !!!!
Posted by imascorpio10
my scorp is exactly the same way, there are some things that he does that i dont like or some things i would like him to do that require like no freaking sacrifice at all and i repeat myself everyday and he just doesnt care because he says in his opinion those arent important things and there are other stuff that matter much more even tho what i ask is so simple and takes him seconds but he still doesnt care he says thats the way he is and i have to deal with it
and tbh i had to choose between arguing with him all the time or just actually deal with it and i chose to deal with it because i dont have the energy to fight all the time, and that is definitely not healthy at all, even tho he is the one that is supposed to do the sacrifice and do what i ask him i am the one that is the dealing with him not doing it.
with time i just didnt care anymore im just like "whatever thats how he is" u cant force them to be something they re not because then they would be doing those things because you asked them to and not because they genuinely wanted to do them and its not the same thing.
but it depends on what it is that he is doing that is making you unhappy thoclick to expand
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