Spending NYE with my scorpio...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by babydolphin92 on Thursday, December 29, 2016 and has 17 replies.

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@babydolphin92
9 Years

Posted by NotSoInstant
Posted by babydolphin92
Posted by NotSoInstant
Posted by babydolphin92
What should I NOT do....

And what should I do??

I'm single now. No hate pls.

Who initiated this meet?

He did, after I told him I broke up with my bf.

Okie

See, I feel this Scorp likes you but you need to be loyal and faithful. Not just to him or your relationship, but as a person. The way things are, he may not trust you. You need to work on that. Mindblowing sex alone won't be enough to build a relationship. So if you regret two timing (had to mention it) that Virgo guy, tell the Scorpio and mean it. Let your actions be honorable. Be a strong woman.

All the best

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Thank you for your wisdom. I feel this is a new chapter in my life and I will lay everything out on the table then.

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@Gemitati
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Posted by babydolphin92
What should I NOT do....

And what should I do??

I'm single now. No hate pls.

Be sexy and sincere!

Don't try to impress him.

Just BE yourself. If he had already agreed to be with you on that night - that's done deal!

relax. Enjoy. He doesn't need you to go over your head! Maybe on his but...

You can make it or brake it.

Be a nervous rack and he'll be gone!

Because trust me he is nervous as well.

So! Calm down! Hug him and make him feel your heartbeat!

Happy New year kids!!!

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by babydolphin92
What should I NOT do....

And what should I do??

I'm single now. No hate pls.

Be sexy and sincere!

Don't try to impress him.

Just BE yourself. If he had already agreed to be with you on that night - that's done deal!

relax. Enjoy. He doesn't need you to go over your head! Maybe on his but...

You can make it or brake it.

Be a nervous rack and he'll be gone!

Because trust me he is nervous as well.

So! Calm down! Hug him and make him feel your heartbeat!

Happy New year kids!!!

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by babydolphin92
What should I NOT do....

And what should I do??

I'm single now. No hate pls.

Be sexy and sincere!

Don't try to impress him.

Just BE yourself. If he had already agreed to be with you on that night - that's done deal!

relax. Enjoy. He doesn't need you to go over your head! Maybe on his but...

You can make it or brake it.

Be a nervous rack and he'll be gone!

Because trust me he is nervous as well.

So! Calm down! Hug him and make him feel your heartbeat!

Happy New year kids!!!

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@babydolphin92
9 Years

Posted by bmoon8
If you need guidance on what you should and shouldn't do when you see someone, maybe you shouldn't be dating.

I'm asking for advice based on his sign, I thought I was free to do that here?

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@babydolphin92
9 Years

Posted by AgentP911
No idea on the back story here or current situation.

"Friends" for over ten years.....a few flings....currently left my relationship to prove loyalty to him. This is the first meeting after this has happened. That's probably why I'm so nervous lol. I love all the advice here though thanks guys.

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12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by babydolphin92
Posted by AgentP911
No idea on the back story here or current situation.

"Friends" for over ten years.....a few flings....currently left my relationship to prove loyalty to him. This is the first meeting after this has happened. That's probably why I'm so nervous lol. I love all the advice here though thanks guys.

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You left your current relationship to prove your loyalty to this Scorp bloke you've known for ten years, loosely as friends by your inverted commas, who you've had a few flings with (assumed fucked) already.

How does this action 'prove' loyalty?

Loyalty to who/what?

Certainly not to yourself or your ex partner.

If you didn't want to be with your now ex partner then why not just break up rather than breaking up under some guise of loyalty to a potential new bloke or fuck buddy.

If you're meeting the Scorp then I first suggest you consider what you are looking for and what you're in a position to offer.

Once you're clear with the above then stick to it. It will make things far easier for you. No worrying about bullshit, meaningless crap like 'should I bring alcohol?'

If it's you going to his place or him coming to yours then assume you'll fuck and be prepared. Condoms and reduced expectations of anything more than a continued FWB.

If it's a social party then take a bottle to be polite. Leave the condoms at home, keep your legs closed, and go home with your self respect in tact.

If the Scorp wants you then allow him to pursue you... even if it is just a fuck at least make him work for it. People often don't value freebies.