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Why don't my Scorpios relatives reach out to us first?
Posted by halalbabe
Because they are too insecure and petty to reach out first. They will literally collapse and need to recover
I love cats; are you serious or being facetious?
Posted by yupvirgoo
Uhh.. just call them.
Okay I will, because one is an elder, but I still want to know why they don't call first. What is it?
Lol!! I dunno where you are getting this from...but I'm the most popular amongst my cousins n relatives. They think I'm the most warm n chilled out person.. I reach out to them n they love reaching out to me!! I hold all their secrets, I greet them well, I'm always there for them yada yada...idk what you're talking about ??
Posted by Teena
Lol!! I dunno where you are getting this from...but I'm the most popular amongst my cousins n relatives. They think I'm the most warm n chilled out person.. I reach out to them n they love reaching out to me!! I hold all their secrets, I greet them well, I'm always there for them yada yada...idk what you're talking about ??You might as well be a Gemini. That rising is strong
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I think so too sometimes..but it's definitely not strong in my chart... I guess
Posted by Teena
Lol!! I dunno where you are getting this from...but I'm the most popular amongst my cousins n relatives. They think I'm the most warm n chilled out person.. I reach out to them n they love reaching out to me!! I hold all their secrets, I greet them well, I'm always there for them yada yada...idk what you're talking about ??
Same here. Same sun and same rising too.
Posted by Teena
Lol!! I dunno where you are getting this from...but I'm the most popular amongst my cousins n relatives. They think I'm the most warm n chilled out person.. I reach out to them n they love reaching out to me!! I hold all their secrets, I greet them well, I'm always there for them yada yada...idk what you're talking about ??Same here. Same sun and same rising too.
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Haha...do you think it's our rising then?? Or maybe we have some common placements??
Or maybe. ...We scorpios are actually sweet... Phoenix Scorpios ✌✌
my aunt Jackie spread through the family that I don't love her any more because won't call. WTF!!
They want control, it's a very common Scorpion trait .. you can see it above when your Aunt tries to betray your character to the rest of the family.
that's the way they work with everyone .... just a series of guilt trips with intentions of bringing you down so that you are running to them to get their approval of you.
Maybe call the elder once in a while to check in ... but, ignore the rest.
Don't be bothered with what disgust they spread about you .... because those who matter won't listen to their bullshit and those who do listen don't matter.
Posted by Teena
Lol!! I dunno where you are getting this from...but I'm the most popular amongst my cousins n relatives. They think I'm the most warm n chilled out person.. I reach out to them n they love reaching out to me!! I hold all their secrets, I greet them well, I'm always there for them yada yada...idk what you're talking about ??Same here. Same sun and same rising too.
Haha...do you think it's our rising then?? Or maybe we have some common placements??
Or maybe. ...We scorpios are actually sweet... Phoenix Scorpios ✌✌
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Scorpios are always described as dark, deep, mysterious and quiet.....and then there is me! Chatty, giggly, sweet and the opposite of dark. I'm a freaking ray of sunshine.
It's gotta be the Gem rising.
Posted by Teena
Lol!! I dunno where you are getting this from...but I'm the most popular amongst my cousins n relatives. They think I'm the most warm n chilled out person.. I reach out to them n they love reaching out to me!! I hold all their secrets, I greet them well, I'm always there for them yada yada...idk what you're talking about ??Same here. Same sun and same rising too.
Haha...do you think it's our rising then?? Or maybe we have some common placements??
Or maybe. ...We scorpios are actually sweet... Phoenix Scorpios ✌✌
Scorpios are always described as dark, deep, mysterious and quiet.....and then there is me! Chatty, giggly, sweet and the opposite of dark. I'm a freaking ray of sunshine.
It's gotta be the Gem rising.
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Haha!! I'm exactly what you just described about yourself!!! I don't like to give all the credit to the rising tho .. I love my sun too c'mon .. Phoenix is the final stage of evolution for scorpios... I think we're there ? Please say yes? 😛
Posted by Teena
Lol!! I dunno where you are getting this from...but I'm the most popular amongst my cousins n relatives. They think I'm the most warm n chilled out person.. I reach out to them n they love reaching out to me!! I hold all their secrets, I greet them well, I'm always there for them yada yada...idk what you're talking about ??You might as well be a Gemini. That rising is strong
I think so too sometimes..but it's definitely not strong in my chart... I guess
You're my reverse astro twin when it comes to sun and rising sign. It's a good balance between seriousness and playful.
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You think so? I like it ..so be it ?
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
i am switzerland
You shoo away from our board!!!! Shoo!!
Not in my family, this is surprising! 😕
Infact, the scorpios in my family are ones who strictly and religiously follow... how should i say ...manners.
No matter how you hurt them, they will call, be there on that occasion, most selfless family members I have seen. They will reach out first, yes they do get caught up in lives but for any occasion, they will put aside whatever they're involved in and call you, or be there.. this sign is my favorite in family. And, sorry but I cannot say the same for some other signs in my family(that commitment which scorpio family peeps show)
Even my dad's bestfriend is a Scorpio, he will disappear for 6 months at a time, but when it's an occasion or birthday, he will be there..
Maybe they are going through some issues in life.. do they not call you even for occasions like anniversary or birthday?
Posted by RumiL
Not in my family, this is surprising! 😕Infact, the scorpios in my family are ones who strictly and religiously follow... how should i say ...manners.
No matter how you hurt them, they will call, be there on that occasion, most selfless family members I have seen. They will reach out first, yes they do get caught up in lives but for any occasion, they will put aside whatever they're involved in and call you, or be there.. this sign is my favorite in family.
Even my dad's bestfriend is a Scorpio, he will disappear for 6 months at a time, but when it's an occasion or birthday, he will be there..
Maybe they are going through some issues in life.. do they not call you even for occasions like anniversary or birthday?
That sounds like me ... I disappear on ppl for months too actually 😛 I feel this need to go into hibernation once in a while
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
i am switzerlandYou shoo away from our board!!!! Shoo!!
i just got gemini flashbacks from 2013
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I'm a Scorpio ?
Also I'm not Mercury dominant... I just checked 😄
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
i am switzerlandYou shoo away from our board!!!! Shoo!!
i just got gemini flashbacks from 2013
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What flashbacks tho? You had a Gemini gf?
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
i am switzerlandYou shoo away from our board!!!! Shoo!!
i just got gemini flashbacks from 2013
I'm a Scorpio ?
Also I'm not Mercury dominant... I just checked 😄
gurl you are a chatty cathy though. 😆
are you sure you are not named cathy?
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Ikr?? Sag Mercury ?
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
i am switzerlandYou shoo away from our board!!!! Shoo!!
i just got gemini flashbacks from 2013
I'm a Scorpio ?
Also I'm not Mercury dominant... I just checked 😄
gurl you are a chatty cathy though. 😆
are you sure you are not named cathy?
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There
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
i am switzerlandYou shoo away from our board!!!! Shoo!!
i just got gemini flashbacks from 2013
I'm a Scorpio ?
Also I'm not Mercury dominant... I just checked 😄
gurl you are a chatty cathy though. 😆
are you sure you are not named cathy?
?
Ikr?? Sag Mercury ?
ok sag merc
i need ro lie down
i am dizzy now
shhh teena shhhh
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You came to our board n are asking me to shush?? Why do you shush me all the time?No samosas given!! Go sleep ?
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Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
i am switzerlandYou shoo away from our board!!!! Shoo!!
i just got gemini flashbacks from 2013
I'm a Scorpio ?
Also I'm not Mercury dominant... I just checked 😄
gurl you are a chatty cathy though. 😆
are you sure you are not named cathy?
?
Ikr?? Sag Mercury ?
ok sag merc
i need ro lie down
i am dizzy now
shhh teena shhhh
You came to our board n are asking me to shush?? Why do you shush me all the time?No samosas given!! Go sleep ?
bye
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Bye?
Maybe their communicator is not working.
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
i am switzerland
No, you are not. Switzerland is a Virgin, your Leonine parts would not be able to withstand the isolation. 😆
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
i am switzerlandNo, you are not. Switzerland is a Virgin, your Leonine parts would not be able to withstand the isolation. 😆
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@Switzerland is a Virgin?
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Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
i am switzerlandNo, you are not. Switzerland is a Virgin, your Leonine parts would not be able to withstand the isolation. 😆
@Switzerland is a Virgin?
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As pristine and pure as one. 😆
What the hell @TheLadyScorpio? Me virgin? I had an affair with Italy, Germany and France, and now i have to deal with their kids in my territory... Virgin is something i am not for sure...
Relax... TLS was talking about star signs...
What the hell @TheLadyScorpio? Me virgin? I had an affair with Italy, Germany and France, and now i have to deal with their kids in my territory... Virgin is something i am not for sure...
Relax... TLS was talking about star signs...
@Switzerland, you should have just told me that you were cheating on me.
What horrible tastes you had .... Non, I cannot believe.
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Look at what you have started, @Secret. I told you Switzerland was a Virgin. You should have kept it at that.
What the hell @TheLadyScorpio? Me virgin? I had an affair with Italy, Germany and France, and now i have to deal with their kids in my territory... Virgin is something i am not for sure...
Relax... TLS was talking about star signs...
@Switzerland, you should have just told me that you were cheating on me.
What horrible tastes you had .... Non, I cannot believe.
Mama mia!! Che cosa sta succedendo qui? So Switzerland you had sex with France first— Porca miseria!
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@TheLadyScorpio this isn't looking good... 😐
What the hell @TheLadyScorpio? Me virgin? I had an affair with Italy, Germany and France, and now i have to deal with their kids in my territory... Virgin is something i am not for sure...
Relax... TLS was talking about star signs...
@Switzerland, you should have just told me that you were cheating on me.
What horrible tastes you had .... Non, I cannot believe.
Look at what you have started, @Secret. I told you Switzerland was a Virgin. You should have kept it at that.
Mama mia!! Che cosa sta succedendo qui? So Switzerland you had sex with France first— Porca miseria!
@TheLadyScorpio this isn't looking good... 😐
Ich bin Politiker, das heißt, ich bin ein Betrüger und Lügner ... und wenn ich kleinen Kindern keine Küsschen gebe, klaue ich ihnen ihre Bonbons.
@France and @Italy, you are both imbeciles.
I was the first and the best.
@Switzerland knows it.
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This is all your fault, @Secret. Never stoke the fire if you are not aware of the consequences.
What the hell @TheLadyScorpio? Me virgin? I had an affair with Italy, Germany and France, and now i have to deal with their kids in my territory... Virgin is something i am not for sure...
Relax... TLS was talking about star signs...
@Switzerland, you should have just told me that you were cheating on me.
What horrible tastes you had .... Non, I cannot believe.
Look at what you have started, @Secret. I told you Switzerland was a Virgin. You should have kept it at that.
Mama mia!! Che cosa sta succedendo qui? So Switzerland you had sex with France first— Porca miseria!
@TheLadyScorpio this isn't looking good... 😐
Ich bin Politiker, das heißt, ich bin ein Betrüger und Lügner ... und wenn ich kleinen Kindern keine Küsschen gebe, klaue ich ihnen ihre Bonbons.
@France and @Italy, you are both imbeciles.
I was the first and the best.
@Switzerland knows it.
This is all your fault, @Secret. Never stoke the fire if you are not aware of the consequences.
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Oh no... I was hoping Germany wouldn't see this... Butter.
Posted by Teena
Lol!! I dunno where you are getting this from...but I'm the most popular amongst my cousins n relatives. They think I'm the most warm n chilled out person.. I reach out to them n they love reaching out to me!! I hold all their secrets, I greet them well, I'm always there for them yada yada...idk what you're talking about ??You might as well be a Gemini. That rising is strong
I think so too sometimes..but it's definitely not strong in my chart... I guess
I asked why don't MY relatives reach out to US.... I wanted insight from a Scorpio's objective - it appears everyone else understood this very clearly. 🙂
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@Hamburgers - Are you in any way related to @Cheeseburger ? 😆
Posted by Secret
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What the hell @TheLadyScorpio? Me virgin? I had an affair with Italy, Germany and France, and now i have to deal with their kids in my territory... Virgin is something i am not for sure...
Relax... TLS was talking about star signs...
@Switzerland, you should have just told me that you were cheating on me.
What horrible tastes you had .... Non, I cannot believe.
Look at what you have started, @Secret. I told you Switzerland was a Virgin. You should have kept it at that.
Mama mia!! Che cosa sta succedendo qui? So Switzerland you had sex with France first— Porca miseria!
@TheLadyScorpio this isn't looking good... 😐
Ich bin Politiker, das heißt, ich bin ein Betrüger und Lügner ... und wenn ich kleinen Kindern keine Küsschen gebe, klaue ich ihnen ihre Bonbons.
@France and @Italy, you are both imbeciles.
I was the first and the best.
@Switzerland knows it.
This is all your fault, @Secret. Never stoke the fire if you are not aware of the consequences.
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You guys are hilarious
Posted by Teena
Lol!! I dunno where you are getting this from...but I'm the most popular amongst my cousins n relatives. They think I'm the most warm n chilled out person.. I reach out to them n they love reaching out to me!! I hold all their secrets, I greet them well, I'm always there for them yada yada...idk what you're talking about ??You might as well be a Gemini. That rising is strong
I think so too sometimes..but it's definitely not strong in my chart... I guess
I asked why don't MY relatives reach out to US.... I wanted insight from a Scorpio's objective - it appears everyone else understood this very clearly. 🙂
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Well, we can't definitely talk about *your* relatives now. .can we? We all can only give how we, as Scorpios, deal with things .
But wait, you're not OP...what are you talking about? ?
Posted by halalbabe
Because they are too insecure and petty to reach out first. They will literally collapse and need to recover
Or maybe they have life)
Posted by RumiL
Not in my family, this is surprising! 😕Infact, the scorpios in my family are ones who strictly and religiously follow... how should i say ...manners.
No matter how you hurt them, they will call, be there on that occasion, most selfless family members I have seen. They will reach out first, yes they do get caught up in lives but for any occasion, they will put aside whatever they're involved in and call you, or be there.. this sign is my favorite in family.
Even my dad's bestfriend is a Scorpio, he will disappear for 6 months at a time, but when it's an occasion or birthday, he will be there..
Maybe they are going through some issues in life.. do they not call you even for occasions like anniversary or birthday?
That sounds like me ... I disappear on ppl for months too actually 😛 I feel this need to go into hibernation once in a while
I dissapeared this year
N reach out now cuz I feel I have the energy to n want to
But freinds know this n we pick up we're we left off
None of us is petty
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That's right!! I somehow got awesome people around me(touchwood) .They always were understanding.The ones who usually choke me, also still want me after this period of hibernation .This never changed any equation with anyone. We pick exactly where we left too. I think it depends on how we make them feel ..or show how important they are or something. Otherwise I don't see any reason for them to stick around. I dunno if I would..So I really appreciate them..all of them.
Posted by Gem_from_Venus
So, do those of you who consider reaching out beneath you feel ok about losing family members who tire of always reaching out? Do you just not care if that happens?I prob wouldn't notice that people stop reaching out in the first place...
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Lol!! I'm not about not reaching out..but I wouldn't notice if people don't reach out too.
Posted by Dreamyboy
@Teena @Deedee86 are you both 3rd decan scorpios by any chance? Just wondering they are the more social butterflies of the group. I noticed a difference in the way each decan acts, but maybe it's just coincidental and doesn't matter.
I'm a 2nd decan scorpio. I read there's a difference in the way each decan acts too. But I didn't feel it matters much somehow.
Posted by Dreamyboy
@Teena @Deedee86 are you both 3rd decan scorpios by any chance? Just wondering they are the more social butterflies of the group. I noticed a difference in the way each decan acts, but maybe it's just coincidental and doesn't matter.I'm a 2nd decan scorpio. I read there's a difference in the way each decan acts too. But I didn't feel it matters much somehow.
Thanks, didn't think it mattered much, perhaps just coincidence. The scorpios I know are extremely different from eachother. Ones a quiet hermit, ones a social butterfly, ones a classy elegant girl, and another is very odd but in a good way... list goes onnnnn
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Or maybe I really didn't read much about the decans to start with. I couldn't relate much with what I read..so I didn't bother to read more. The ones I came across are boring.Dead 😛 I mentioned this on some other thread.
Posted by Dreamyboy
@Teena @Deedee86 are you both 3rd decan scorpios by any chance? Just wondering they are the more social butterflies of the group. I noticed a difference in the way each decan acts, but maybe it's just coincidental and doesn't matter.I'm a 2nd decan scorpio. I read there's a difference in the way each decan acts too. But I didn't feel it matters much somehow.
Thanks, didn't think it mattered much, perhaps just coincidence. The scorpios I know are extremely different from eachother. Ones a quiet hermit, ones a social butterfly, ones a classy elegant girl, and another is very odd but in a good way... list goes onnnnn
Or maybe I really didn't read much about the decans to start with. I couldn't relate much with what I read..so I didn't bother to read more. The ones I came across are boring.Dead 😛 I mentioned this on some other thread.
The second decan I personally know is very family oriented, classy, comes off as sophisticated, and very much into musical art. Idk how well you define to that, but food for thought. Also a home body.
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I'm an extroverted introvert..pretty much. I'm family oriented yeah but I also make a lot of friends. I can't help but make friends really.But ofcourse, family is always my top priority. Even with all the chirpy energy I have, my family n friends think I'm very classy n sophisticated. I get that a lot actually (suchha brag, Aren't I? 😛) I'm not into musical art really tho. I'm a homebody yeah...but with those many friends, it's not possible n it gets overwhelming.That's the reason I go into hibernation basically. Even right now, I just disappeared on a few n so got time for dxp honestly. ?
Posted by Dreamyboy
@Teena @Deedee86 are you both 3rd decan scorpios by any chance? Just wondering they are the more social butterflies of the group. I noticed a difference in the way each decan acts, but maybe it's just coincidental and doesn't matter.
As a matter of fact, I am.
my aunt Jackie spread through the family that I don't love her any more because won't call. WTF!!
They want control, it's a very common Scorpion trait .. you can see it above when your Aunt tries to betray your character to the rest of the family.
that's the way they work with everyone .... just a series of guilt trips with intentions of bringing you down so that you are running to them to get their approval of you.
Maybe call the elder once in a while to check in ... but, ignore the rest.
Don't be bothered with what disgust they spread about you .... because those who matter won't listen to their bullshit and those who do listen don't matter.
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spreading bad rumours?
that would sound like the shadow/dark side of scorpio. :/
cause scorpios don't really do that in my experience.
Posted by Dreamyboy
@Teena @Deedee86 are you both 3rd decan scorpios by any chance? Just wondering they are the more social butterflies of the group. I noticed a difference in the way each decan acts, but maybe it's just coincidental and doesn't matter.I'm a 2nd decan scorpio. I read there's a difference in the way each decan acts too. But I didn't feel it matters much somehow.
Thanks, didn't think it mattered much, perhaps just coincidence. The scorpios I know are extremely different from eachother. Ones a quiet hermit, ones a social butterfly, ones a classy elegant girl, and another is very odd but in a good way... list goes onnnnn
Or maybe I really didn't read much about the decans to start with. I couldn't relate much with what I read..so I didn't bother to read more. The ones I came across are boring.Dead 😛 I mentioned this on some other thread.
The second decan I personally know is very family oriented, classy, comes off as sophisticated, and very much into musical art. Idk how well you define to that, but food for thought. Also a home body.
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i don't think you can pin point in my opinion what decan is similar to who.
because 2nd decan I've seen are professional athlete, and some celebrities end up in show business.
3rd decan in my personal experience are homebodies. rather stay home.
Posted by Hare
I have several family members that do this. None of them are Scorpio.What they are, however, is independent and have busy lives. They have little time to seek the approval or validation from other family members to make them feel whole or like their lives have meaning.
lol this explains it better. 😛
all in bold. yup!! 😄
Posted by EnochtheWise
Honestly, it will sound cold maybe, but I just don't have time for all that reaching out. For me, it has nothing to do with pride or control, or any of that....I just suck at keeping up with people if they aren't someone I see regularly. I don't live near family and I'm very focused on my immediate circle, but the folks on the periphery, though I care about them, I just can't keep up with them. Life is too short.Uncles, aunts, nephew, nieces, cousins....how many of these people are there? I can't do it. Its hard enough keeping up with parents, siblings, friends I currently spend time with, etc. Everybody needs so much time...Its exhausting. I'll answer the phone if they call, or reply to a text, but I am not going to sit there and go through a list of 30 relatives every month and call them to have a shallow awkward convo., and I can't do it on the holidays either. If I grew up in the same house as you, you already know what's up. I'm living my life like you are. We know each other inside and out, I love you and there's not much else to say.
Holy sheete...Its as if I wrote this myself....these are my exact thoughts on the matter..well put
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I have 3 Scorpio relatives and unless we call them they don't call us. When we call, they are loving, warm, and sweet. But if we don't call, they have nothing to do with us. Finally, I stopped! Then my aunt Jackie spread through the family that I don't love her any more because won't call. WTF!!