...Ego is how you see yourself compared to how others see you.....
And then...
...If a person's selfishness is not linked to another person, he or she will abandon them...if it is linked, then the person will take care of them....
Yes, I have a hard time letting go of anything, lol
sb- you seemed to be going on an idea of selfishness that is somehow dictated by your feelings surrounding the action in question- which is totally legit...
db- I identify with where you are coming from...as in- I view selfishness as an act that literally promotes the self in any way shape or form- regardless of how the person views the action- as in- there is no unselfish act...because if you do something as "selfless" as giving a homeless person a dollar- you do in fact recieve a "good feeling" from that action- therefore you get something in return even though the act was out of the goodness of your heart- still- you produced, in yourself, a happy emotion by giving hobo a buck.
BUT- I really do like how sb sees it...and I can admit that there can be a bad feeling around certain "selfish" acts...yet I feel that in that case you and db are not talking about the same thing...see?
but here it comes down to personal definitions of the word itself, if you each have a different set of conditions for what constitutes a selfish act than you cannot really fairly debate at all-
it has been shown (scientific fact) that people who wear pinky rings are liable to have more of an ego than the average person...the statistics don't lie...
i have a scorpio younger sister and i love her to death. she is so incredibly funny, and domineering and humble at the same time. i dont know how that works but she is amazing.
only thing is, i worry for her outlook on life. she has a problem wi
I Know you like to find loyalty and truth in someone. Do you though, try to mess with someones heart and maybe make them want you when you are only playing a game? I've heard all over the boards that you mean what you say. Do you really? Or will you mess
...so the best thing would be to communicate, but he doesn't seem to get it. He texts me & leaves messages yesterday, but I need the day away. I visit old friends who knew guy who died, felt good to talk to people who understand.
soooooooooooo tired. Went fishing all weekend with my scorp, ugh, he kept me up last nite & i am a ZOMBIE at work...need 20 coffees, but i just wanna nap outside in the grass...but YAY, I caught TWO fish & my hunny got 15 & oh ya, just here to say
I'm Leutenant General Haffo of the "Shark Attack" garnison and hereby asking for alliance treat with Scorpio garnison. I'm hereby asking immidiate joint allied attack on several neighboring countries (boards) without any hesitation.
To anyone with kids of any age, here's some advice. Bill Gates (Scorpio) recently gave a speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation
I thought the guy was perfect! haha .. lol no but i'm having a problem & other peoples opinions would help alot. Ok so me and the scorp have been doing fine up until the last week. He's a work a holic and thats fine, This week & the first week of June ar
what is it with you and -_- the pork?