What went through Scorpios head?

I’m not sure why I still care.. but I’m having a bit of a hard time getting over him ugh! Maybe if I knew how he feels about me I can get some closure because he basically blocked me after this.

The final showdown went something like this (yes we broke up via text):

Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

Him: “Who still uses gifs at 40?”

...and then rambled on with lots of other low blows like why I still wear certain outfits (uh coz I have a cute body and I’m not your mother!), shop at certain stores (what’s wrong with Fashion Nova?) and basically tried to humiliate me and make me feel less than. Things I just wouldn’t have said!

So I retaliated. Told him how he let down an entire sign because his sex was trash (it really was). How he was a liar; manipulated me just to bed me. And lastly (as if the first thing wasn’t bad enough) how he was so insecure that he felt the need to dress in expensive threads which is why he was talkin shit about where I shopped.

After everything was said and done I felt so foolish and reached back out to apologize. It was like we were two high schoolers I swear. Never meant for things to go that far. But they did.

Would you ever forgive me if you were a Scorpio or have you blacked my name out forever?

Why would you want him to forgive you considering all said above and trash sex?

Posted by Gemitati

Why would you want him to forgive you considering all said above and trash sex?

Trust me I ask myself this every day

I guess it’s because I never felt so emotionally connected with someone.. but above all I just got to keep reminding myself that it was all a lie!

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Posted by Gemitati

Why would you want him to forgive you considering all said above and trash sex?

Trust me I ask myself this every day

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I understand. I am boiling in my own shit at my age for years. BUT only because Scorpio never ever failed to be the most amazing man I’ve ever known.

Any of this shit would be given to me - he would be let go...without regrets.

I am just wired this way...I can live forever until I am given crap.

You’ve got some...think about THAT and maybe you’ll be free.❤️

Idk why you are wasting energy over this dude if the sex was bad. Plenty of other d icks in the sea

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Posted by Gemitati

Why would you want him to forgive you considering all said above and trash sex?

Trust me I ask myself this every day

I understand. I am boiling in my own shit at my age for years. BUT only because Scorpio never ever failed to be the most amazing man I’ve ever known.

Any of this shit would be given to me - he would be let go...without regrets.

I am just wired this way...I can live forever until I am given crap.

You’ve got some...think about THAT and maybe you’ll be free.❤️

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Thanks Gem let me find out your decent afterall haha❤️

Posted by LadyNeptune

Idk why you are wasting energy over this dude if the sex was bad. Plenty of other d icks in the sea

He must’ve mind fucked me real good to have me seriously thinking if I could’ve lived without good sex 😂😩

Posted by DefineTruth

If a man like me blocks you, it's permanent.

Deacribe ‘man like you’...

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Idk why you are wasting energy over this dude if the sex was bad. Plenty of other d icks in the sea

He must’ve mind fucked me real good to have me seriously thinking if I could’ve lived without good sex 😂😩

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I am probably the only one who can understand this.

When you saying bad sex...does it mean everything else with Scorpio has more power than sex? So sex really doesn’t matter? Or it’s really bad? Can’t inagune it’s bad...what is it really?

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Posted by DefineTruth

If a man like me blocks you, it's permanent.

Deacribe ‘man like you’...

Someone who doesn't put up too long with bullshit from supposedly mature adults.

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But there weren’t much bullshit she gave him...what wouldn’t you put up with? As a man like you?

Posted by ScorpioTruth

Ouch!!!!

I don’t know the whole back story.. moon sign matters too. I have a cancer moon which makes me ultra sensitive. I have to admit that from the way you talked to him, you seemed very cold and dismissive which probably made him lose any type of hope that the two of you can work it out. Scorpios are similar to Capricorn’s in the way that if we feel like it’s done-done, we will ice someone out in an effort to get over them.

It sounds like he also said some pretty mean things though. I don’t know if the two of you could bounce back from this, after the way the two of you seem to have lost respect and consideration for each other.

I’ve had one person talk to me this way (he was a cancer sun with Scorpio moon) I actually liked him a LOT.. but the more that we like someone, the deeper their words cut. So I’ll be honest, I never gave that guy a second chance even though I liked him a lot.. because from the things he said to me showed me that he did not care or respect me so I had to act accordingly and keep it moving. He did come back and apologize and blamed it on his childhood issues.. I accepted his apology but couldn’t trust him after that.

True indeed, I’m crazy to even still be thinking about him after that. I said these things knowingly to “stick a fork” in it and be done as they say. But I’m telling you something about y’all Scorpios makes it hard to completely break away jeezus!

I’m sure he said those things as a way to be done with me too. It was just an unhealthy connection. I keep reminiscing about all the good times when really I just need to remember the cold hard facts.

Even though he blocked me I did email him one last time just to apologize and to let him know I’d forgiven it all. Just didn’t want to harbor bad energy. That and I’ve heard Scorpios are revengeful so didn’t want him to retailate in some way. He’s someone who’s also very resentful (told me he hates his only sister and barely talks to her because of some family drama from back in the day) and I doubt it if he’ll ever reach back out. He just has issues and I saw the red flags but ignored a lot of them. I’ve come to accept that a lot of this is my own fault too. Either that or I’ve just had some real shitty luck with love...

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Ouch!!!!

I don’t know the whole back story.. moon sign matters too. I have a cancer moon which makes me ultra sensitive. I have to admit that from the way you talked to him, you seemed very cold and dismissive which probably made him lose any type of hope that the two of you can work it out. Scorpios are similar to Capricorn’s in the way that if we feel like it’s done-done, we will ice someone out in an effort to get over them.

It sounds like he also said some pretty mean things though. I don’t know if the two of you could bounce back from this, after the way the two of you seem to have lost respect and consideration for each other.

I’ve had one person talk to me this way (he was a cancer sun with Scorpio moon) I actually liked him a LOT.. but the more that we like someone, the deeper their words cut. So I’ll be honest, I never gave that guy a second chance even though I liked him a lot.. because from the things he said to me showed me that he did not care or respect me so I had to act accordingly and keep it moving. He did come back and apologize and blamed it on his childhood issues.. I accepted his apology but couldn’t trust him after that.

True indeed, I’m crazy to even still be thinking about him after that. I said these things knowingly to “stick a fork” in it and be done as they say. But I’m telling you something about y’all Scorpios makes it hard to completely break away jeezus!

I’m sure he said those things as a way to be done with me too. It was just an unhealthy connection. I keep reminiscing about all the good times when really I just need to remember the cold hard facts.

Even though he blocked me I did email him one last time just to apologize and to let him know I’d forgiven it all. Just didn’t want to harbor bad energy. That and I’ve heard Scorpios are revengeful so didn’t want him to retailate in some way. He’s someone who’s also very resentful (told me he hates his only sister and barely talks to her because of some family drama from back in the day) and I doubt it if he’ll ever reach back out. He just has issues and I saw the red flags but ignored a lot of them. I’ve come to accept that a lot of this is my own fault too. Either that or I’ve just had some real shitty luck with love...

I understand.. I was with my sons dad (cap) for 10 years and still in love with him.. we are still best friends. It’s tough. Cap and scorp can be a very good match if we can both reach a point where we feel safe enough to let our walls down. The only reason I left my sons dad was because he cheated and I feel that no matter how much you love someone, once the trust is gone it’s a wrap.

What is the backstory with you and your scorp? What were the “red flags”? Was he abusive or controlling? Did you suspect he was cheating? Was it just because you argued a lot and didn’t get along much?

Just trying to get a feel for why the two of you split up to begin with. Was it mutual or did one of you leave?

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I left after he went cold on me one too many times. That and the cheating, verbal abuse, mind games, lies and manipulation... yeah I think that’s everything lol. I wrote about it in my opening topic. I just fell fast and hard for this one. Thought he was “the one”... 😔

I should’ve known if it’s too good to be true, then it probably is.

And like arachnid already mentioned, after I put the puzzle pieces together, I realized I was dealing with a narcissist.

Posted by Cappadonna

I’m not sure why I still care.. but I’m having a bit of a hard time getting over him ugh! Maybe if I knew how he feels about me I can get some closure because he basically blocked me after this.

The final showdown went something like this (yes we broke up via text):

Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

Him: “Who still uses gifs at 40?”

...and then rambled on with lots of other low blows like why I still wear certain outfits (uh coz I have a cute body and I’m not your mother!), shop at certain stores (what’s wrong with Fashion Nova?) and basically tried to humiliate me and make me feel less than. Things I just wouldn’t have said!

So I retaliated. Told him how he let down an entire sign because his sex was trash (it really was). How he was a liar; manipulated me just to bed me. And lastly (as if the first thing wasn’t bad enough) how he was so insecure that he felt the need to dress in expensive threads which is why he was talkin shit about where I shopped.

After everything was said and done I felt so foolish and reached back out to apologize. It was like we were two high schoolers I swear. Never meant for things to go that far. But they did.

Would you ever forgive me if you were a Scorpio or have you blacked my name out forever?

the final showdown was a bit pretentious on both sides thou

you: Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

this message seems superficial, which your subsequent actions proved.... when you reacted nasty to his nastyness, later apologized... I mean, scorpios are good at seeing throu the BS..

he was nasty, so you reacted the same way, after doing the: "good luck love" text (which reeks from hurtful feelings on your part, and was proved by your subsequent actions)

seems very messy, and not only on his side, I am sorry to say

if you want to say good luck love, stick with it..... if it was ment as a heavy sarcasm, it backfired....

he is an idiot and you dont really love him (hopefully), just maybe an ego thing or anger that this twat didnt understand or appreciated what you 2 could have together

PS. when he asked "who is sending gifs in their 40" you should have answered "who is blocking people in their 40"

dont worry, calm down and dont engage in other slamming match with him, be nice 🙂

Edit: I dont really think he is a twat and narcis, as I dont really think you are a drama queen ... its not the end with him, I just think you both have to calm down a bit and dont act on your emotions so quick

I would leave him alone for now, he will be back, just dont react nasty, if you get nasty... have a drink instead 🙂 and let the things unfold, dont accelerate them and provoke them to happen

Edit 2: the "good luck hon" type of messages are only valid, if you really mean them.... like not reacting at all afterwards to anything, just blocking them out without making it "public"

so no, its not over between you two 🙂

Why did Charlie Brown keep trying to kick that ball?

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Posted by Cappadonna

I’m not sure why I still care.. but I’m having a bit of a hard time getting over him ugh! Maybe if I knew how he feels about me I can get some closure because he basically blocked me after this.

The final showdown went something like this (yes we broke up via text):

Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

Him: “Who still uses gifs at 40?”

...and then rambled on with lots of other low blows like why I still wear certain outfits (uh coz I have a cute body and I’m not your mother!), shop at certain stores (what’s wrong with Fashion Nova?) and basically tried to humiliate me and make me feel less than. Things I just wouldn’t have said!

So I retaliated. Told him how he let down an entire sign because his sex was trash (it really was). How he was a liar; manipulated me just to bed me. And lastly (as if the first thing wasn’t bad enough) how he was so insecure that he felt the need to dress in expensive threads which is why he was talkin shit about where I shopped.

After everything was said and done I felt so foolish and reached back out to apologize. It was like we were two high schoolers I swear. Never meant for things to go that far. But they did.

Would you ever forgive me if you were a Scorpio or have you blacked my name out forever?

the final showdown was a bit pretentious on both sides thou

you: Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

this message seems superficial, which your subsequent actions proved.... when you reacted nasty to his nastyness, later apologized... I mean, scorpios are good at seeing throu the BS..

he was nasty, so you reacted the same way, after doing the: "good luck love" text (which reeks from hurtful feelings on your part, and was proved by your subsequent actions)

seems very messy, and not only on his side, I am sorry to say

if you want to say good luck love, stick with it..... if it was ment as a heavy sarcasm, it backfired....

he is an idiot and you dont really love him (hopefully), just maybe an ego thing or anger that this twat didnt understand or appreciated what you 2 could have together

PS. when he asked "who is sending gifs in their 40" you should have answered "who is blocking people in their 40"

dont worry, calm down and dont engage in other slamming match with him, be nice 🙂

Edit: I dont really think he is a twat and narcis, as I dont really think you are a drama queen ... its not the end with him, I just think you both have to calm down a bit and dont act on your emotions so quick

I would leave him alone for now, he will be back, just dont react nasty, if you get nasty... have a drink instead 🙂 and let the things unfold, dont accelerate them and provoke them to happen

Edit 2: the "good luck hon" type of messages are only valid, if you really mean them.... like not reacting at all afterwards to anything, just blocking them out without making it "public"

so no, its not over between you two 🙂

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Thanks I felt the love from this message! I’m not going to reach back out though. I’ve apologized. If he wants to apologize he can make contact. I don’t have him blocked but I just don’t see a future with him. Things definitely got too messy! I wanted to remain cordial but I do have to admit that I think this is an ego thing. You struck a chord when you said that.

But like @ScorpioTruth said once the trust is broken, it’s broken. And I actually did mean goodbye in the sense that for me the relationship was over at that point, but I didn’t think he’d act so immature and insult me the way he did because I was basically ending it. Sometimes I hate my Libra moon, always has me second guessing myself and wanting to find balance even after in the aftermath, oy!

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I’m not sure why I still care.. but I’m having a bit of a hard time getting over him ugh! Maybe if I knew how he feels about me I can get some closure because he basically blocked me after this.

The final showdown went something like this (yes we broke up via text):

Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

Him: “Who still uses gifs at 40?”

...and then rambled on with lots of other low blows like why I still wear certain outfits (uh coz I have a cute body and I’m not your mother!), shop at certain stores (what’s wrong with Fashion Nova?) and basically tried to humiliate me and make me feel less than. Things I just wouldn’t have said!

So I retaliated. Told him how he let down an entire sign because his sex was trash (it really was). How he was a liar; manipulated me just to bed me. And lastly (as if the first thing wasn’t bad enough) how he was so insecure that he felt the need to dress in expensive threads which is why he was talkin shit about where I shopped.

After everything was said and done I felt so foolish and reached back out to apologize. It was like we were two high schoolers I swear. Never meant for things to go that far. But they did.

Would you ever forgive me if you were a Scorpio or have you blacked my name out forever?

What are your placements and his?

I unblocked a cap lady yesterday😂she was blocked for a month after we had a fight,i also dont know does she love me or not

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What made you block/unblock her? If she loves you, you’ll know it when we start picking up the check haha 🤑

He’s Scorpio Sun, Mars & Asc, Sag Moon & Venus, Merc in Libra and Lilith in Taurus and I read somewhere on dxp that people with their Lilith in Taurus are kinda gross like perverse and I think he has that vibe somewhere underneath it all. Like when we had sex I just had this uneasy feeling.

I’m Cap Sun, Mars & Asc, Libra Moon, Scorp Venus, Merc in Sag and Lilith in Leo

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Why did Charlie Brown keep trying to kick that ball?

He must think I’m stupid 😂

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Posted by Cappadonna

I’m not sure why I still care.. but I’m having a bit of a hard time getting over him ugh! Maybe if I knew how he feels about me I can get some closure because he basically blocked me after this.

The final showdown went something like this (yes we broke up via text):

Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

Him: “Who still uses gifs at 40?”

...and then rambled on with lots of other low blows like why I still wear certain outfits (uh coz I have a cute body and I’m not your mother!), shop at certain stores (what’s wrong with Fashion Nova?) and basically tried to humiliate me and make me feel less than. Things I just wouldn’t have said!

So I retaliated. Told him how he let down an entire sign because his sex was trash (it really was). How he was a liar; manipulated me just to bed me. And lastly (as if the first thing wasn’t bad enough) how he was so insecure that he felt the need to dress in expensive threads which is why he was talkin shit about where I shopped.

After everything was said and done I felt so foolish and reached back out to apologize. It was like we were two high schoolers I swear. Never meant for things to go that far. But they did.

Would you ever forgive me if you were a Scorpio or have you blacked my name out forever?

the final showdown was a bit pretentious on both sides thou

you: Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

this message seems superficial, which your subsequent actions proved.... when you reacted nasty to his nastyness, later apologized... I mean, scorpios are good at seeing throu the BS..

he was nasty, so you reacted the same way, after doing the: "good luck love" text (which reeks from hurtful feelings on your part, and was proved by your subsequent actions)

seems very messy, and not only on his side, I am sorry to say

if you want to say good luck love, stick with it..... if it was ment as a heavy sarcasm, it backfired....

he is an idiot and you dont really love him (hopefully), just maybe an ego thing or anger that this twat didnt understand or appreciated what you 2 could have together

PS. when he asked "who is sending gifs in their 40" you should have answered "who is blocking people in their 40"

dont worry, calm down and dont engage in other slamming match with him, be nice 🙂

Edit: I dont really think he is a twat and narcis, as I dont really think you are a drama queen ... its not the end with him, I just think you both have to calm down a bit and dont act on your emotions so quick

I would leave him alone for now, he will be back, just dont react nasty, if you get nasty... have a drink instead 🙂 and let the things unfold, dont accelerate them and provoke them to happen

Edit 2: the "good luck hon" type of messages are only valid, if you really mean them.... like not reacting at all afterwards to anything, just blocking them out without making it "public"

so no, its not over between you two 🙂

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So Venus retrograde brought him back y’all. 😂 He reached out to me today. Didn’t directly apologize but rather brushed it under the rug. Said he was “just seeing my message” mmm hmm yeah right lol. I’m not going backwards with this one either, but why does it feel good to my soul that he DID reach back out? I needed the closure, there I got it. Namaste 🙏💕

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I’m not sure why I still care.. but I’m having a bit of a hard time getting over him ugh! Maybe if I knew how he feels about me I can get some closure because he basically blocked me after this.

The final showdown went something like this (yes we broke up via text):

Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

Him: “Who still uses gifs at 40?”

...and then rambled on with lots of other low blows like why I still wear certain outfits (uh coz I have a cute body and I’m not your mother!), shop at certain stores (what’s wrong with Fashion Nova?) and basically tried to humiliate me and make me feel less than. Things I just wouldn’t have said!

So I retaliated. Told him how he let down an entire sign because his sex was trash (it really was). How he was a liar; manipulated me just to bed me. And lastly (as if the first thing wasn’t bad enough) how he was so insecure that he felt the need to dress in expensive threads which is why he was talkin shit about where I shopped.

After everything was said and done I felt so foolish and reached back out to apologize. It was like we were two high schoolers I swear. Never meant for things to go that far. But they did.

Would you ever forgive me if you were a Scorpio or have you blacked my name out forever?

the final showdown was a bit pretentious on both sides thou

you: Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

this message seems superficial, which your subsequent actions proved.... when you reacted nasty to his nastyness, later apologized... I mean, scorpios are good at seeing throu the BS..

he was nasty, so you reacted the same way, after doing the: "good luck love" text (which reeks from hurtful feelings on your part, and was proved by your subsequent actions)

seems very messy, and not only on his side, I am sorry to say

if you want to say good luck love, stick with it..... if it was ment as a heavy sarcasm, it backfired....

he is an idiot and you dont really love him (hopefully), just maybe an ego thing or anger that this twat didnt understand or appreciated what you 2 could have together

PS. when he asked "who is sending gifs in their 40" you should have answered "who is blocking people in their 40"

dont worry, calm down and dont engage in other slamming match with him, be nice 🙂

Edit: I dont really think he is a twat and narcis, as I dont really think you are a drama queen ... its not the end with him, I just think you both have to calm down a bit and dont act on your emotions so quick

I would leave him alone for now, he will be back, just dont react nasty, if you get nasty... have a drink instead 🙂 and let the things unfold, dont accelerate them and provoke them to happen

Edit 2: the "good luck hon" type of messages are only valid, if you really mean them.... like not reacting at all afterwards to anything, just blocking them out without making it "public"

so no, its not over between you two 🙂

So Venus retrograde brought him back y’all. 😂 He reached out to me today. Didn’t directly apologize but rather brushed it under the rug. Said he was “just seeing my message” mmm hmm yeah right lol. I’m not going backwards with this one either, but why does it feel good to my soul that he DID reach back out? I needed the closure, there I got it. Namaste 🙏💕

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Lol, you just wanted to be able to shut the door in his face?

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I’m not sure why I still care.. but I’m having a bit of a hard time getting over him ugh! Maybe if I knew how he feels about me I can get some closure because he basically blocked me after this.

The final showdown went something like this (yes we broke up via text):

Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

Him: “Who still uses gifs at 40?”

...and then rambled on with lots of other low blows like why I still wear certain outfits (uh coz I have a cute body and I’m not your mother!), shop at certain stores (what’s wrong with Fashion Nova?) and basically tried to humiliate me and make me feel less than. Things I just wouldn’t have said!

So I retaliated. Told him how he let down an entire sign because his sex was trash (it really was). How he was a liar; manipulated me just to bed me. And lastly (as if the first thing wasn’t bad enough) how he was so insecure that he felt the need to dress in expensive threads which is why he was talkin shit about where I shopped.

After everything was said and done I felt so foolish and reached back out to apologize. It was like we were two high schoolers I swear. Never meant for things to go that far. But they did.

Would you ever forgive me if you were a Scorpio or have you blacked my name out forever?

the final showdown was a bit pretentious on both sides thou

you: Me: “Good Luck with everything love, enjoy!”

*inserts gif of a girl walking through a door blowing a kiss 💋

this message seems superficial, which your subsequent actions proved.... when you reacted nasty to his nastyness, later apologized... I mean, scorpios are good at seeing throu the BS..

he was nasty, so you reacted the same way, after doing the: "good luck love" text (which reeks from hurtful feelings on your part, and was proved by your subsequent actions)

seems very messy, and not only on his side, I am sorry to say

if you want to say good luck love, stick with it..... if it was ment as a heavy sarcasm, it backfired....

he is an idiot and you dont really love him (hopefully), just maybe an ego thing or anger that this twat didnt understand or appreciated what you 2 could have together

PS. when he asked "who is sending gifs in their 40" you should have answered "who is blocking people in their 40"

dont worry, calm down and dont engage in other slamming match with him, be nice 🙂

Edit: I dont really think he is a twat and narcis, as I dont really think you are a drama queen ... its not the end with him, I just think you both have to calm down a bit and dont act on your emotions so quick

I would leave him alone for now, he will be back, just dont react nasty, if you get nasty... have a drink instead 🙂 and let the things unfold, dont accelerate them and provoke them to happen

Edit 2: the "good luck hon" type of messages are only valid, if you really mean them.... like not reacting at all afterwards to anything, just blocking them out without making it "public"

so no, its not over between you two 🙂

So Venus retrograde brought him back y’all. 😂 He reached out to me today. Didn’t directly apologize but rather brushed it under the rug. Said he was “just seeing my message” mmm hmm yeah right lol. I’m not going backwards with this one either, but why does it feel good to my soul that he DID reach back out? I needed the closure, there I got it. Namaste 🙏💕

Lol, you just wanted to be able to shut the door in his face?

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Nah it’s always cracked for him lol. He knows. But he didn’t make any major moves or say anything affirmative. I mentioned that I wouldn’t mind sitting down one day just to talk about everything and he said “We sure can.” Left it there.

Even though he’s broken I still secretly love this man. If there was ever a chance that he changed I’d take him back in a heartbeat. He’s 43 so I doubt he’ll change his spots tho and I’m not getting any younger so moving right along 😉