Why Scorpio, Why?! How do I fix this?!

Greetings Everyone,

To summarize my scorpio roommate has been through a breakup in the last 7 months, it was a toxic terrible relationship...

she has turned into a full blown alcoholic to the point of getting drunk and injuring herself and ruining our apartment.

I found out this morning that she ate all of my yogurts overnight, and has left piles of garbage festering in our kitchen

We have a friendship beyond just roomies, ive tried being there for her every step of the way, this morning i texted her to ask if shes upset with me and have recieved nothing back

how do i get through to her or do i cut this friendship entirely and just move out and abandon her?

i dont want to go that route but my limits have been crossed and disrespected

please scorpios, can you lend me your insight?

lol its the principle that upsets me, she also has been drinking all of my beer for the past 2 weeks, anytime i buy it, the next morning i find the case empty in the corner. its the continuous lack of respect for boundaries or care that is upsetting me.

last month we moved out of a temporary apartment due to construction...i ended up going back to clean up her room and organize the garbage from her or our landlord wouldnt give our deposit back...and shes just okay with doing nothing and feeding off of others like a host. this has gone on for months...and its continous

I'm not scorpio but do whatever you need to do to stop enabling her to continue to suck on your blood - no one eats my food and I don't clean up after them and make excuses for them being a dick-squat - why would you need to be the one to move ? wouldn't she just follow you anyway ?

Are both of your names on the lease? Have you ever broken a lease? You'll need her to sign and release you. You can't just 'leave'.

Posted by DeadInside

Posted by tctaap

I'm not scorpio but do whatever you need to do to stop enabling her to continue to suck on your blood - no one eats my food and I don't clean up after them and make excuses for them being a dick-squat - why would you need to be the one to move ? wouldn't she just follow you anyway ?

taurus lol

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yeah yeah lol - no one fuccs with me either not just my food though

exactly...she expects me to understand her behavior and give sympathy i think...shes skipping work and all, last week she didnt have gas money to go on a date...its a spiral

i want to be able to be a good friend but you are all right, this is far too much and i havent even mentioned all of it, far from it actually.

we're both on the lease , theres another one of us that lives on the lease also. if i go to my landlord, is she gonna hurt me in my sleep? im actually only halfway joking

Posted by Arachnophobia

Oh no she ate all your yogurt.

😂 gimi back the got damit yougurt

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Fuggin yogurt junkies everywhere these days, leaving them empty pottles all over the playgrounds where children play in bare feet.

hahaha...you guys this is serious!! ....they're siggies icelandic yogurts!!

please scorpios, can you lend me your insight?

why would you ask her if she is upset with you, when you are upset? and she is clearly upset! not with you though.

i asked her that as a neutral way of opening the door to conversation, she did respond way later and made it all about her...saying "im going through stuff, i love you, your my best etc..." she pours her heart and soul out when she knows she messed up, im not afraid to stand up to her, her and i have had wicked fights but she got on a plane today to go to spain with her mom for a week...she uses everyone in her life. thats why her boyfriend left her, for the same reasons shes treating me....im not naive i know what shes doing. im just trying to figure out how to handle it. i have a heart so to go to my landlord about this and realizing the possible consequences of her having no where to go may be logical but im gonna have trouble sleeping at night with that decision

Posted by MoonyEYES88



please scorpios, can you lend me your insight?

why would you ask her if she is upset with you, when you are upset? and she is clearly upset! not with you though.

i asked her that as a neutral way of opening the door to conversation, she did respond way later and made it all about her...saying "im going through stuff, i love you, your my best etc..." she pours her heart and soul out when she knows she messed up, im not afraid to stand up to her, her and i have had wicked fights but she got on a plane today to go to spain with her mom for a week...she uses everyone in her life. thats why her boyfriend left her, for the same reasons shes treating me....im not naive i know what shes doing. im just trying to figure out how to handle it. i have a heart so to go to my landlord about this and realizing the possible consequences of her having no where to go may be logical but im gonna have trouble sleeping at night with that decision

She has no trouble sleeping at night while she leaches off all the people she can - believe me, she will find somewhere to go; people like that always do

You could also look at it from a different perspective. You are enabling her to maintain her life style and be miserable. If you ditch her, then perhaps she has no recourse but to stand on her own two feet and learn how to cope on her own. It's a tough love thing is what I'm trying to say.

Tell her now to stay in Spain. Tell her not to come back. She is not contributing so this must end so that you can get your life back together. Yes, love yourself for once because you have been too busy taking care of everyone else. FFS, who paid for the trip to Spain? Open those eyes man!!!

Posted by Arachnophobia

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Posted by Arachnophobia

Oh no she ate all your yogurt.

I laughed my fucking ass off.

Yogurt is no laughing matter.

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Isn’t everyone missing the main issue here?

...She drank all the beers