Working with another Scorpio woman again

There are some differences to this situation two different companies same location, I've known her for a couple decades, she's 9 years older than me and she's married.

I hope not to have worries about her getting angry and trying to get me in trouble at work being two different companies and hopefully there should be no feelings getting in the way I've never worked with her or spent a lot of time together we will be working a lot together.

The first day I seen the Scorpio moodiness she was in one of those moods, the next time we worked together I started giving her eye contact she started changing. I swear its not my imagination but you Scorpios male or female can sense another water sign, with me any Scorpio I know lets their guard down around me. My ex boss did it, the Scorpio I worked with does it, the one I mentioned seeing the Aries guy she started to do it and I've noticed the Scorpio that I'm currently working with doing it.

I noticed it yesterday when I worked with her soon as her co worker left their office she got all quiet around me from what I have observed so far this current Scorpio is acting almost the same as the one I worked with before. I don't know if this is a good or bad situation I know I will have to watch what I say. I will be keeping my distance keep chatting to a bare minimum I'm already getting that look from her that she wants to talk that can't happen.

There are other traits I've noticed about her the control freak nature she's trying it on me already lol, I also find it funny she's rubbed people the wrong way and they don't like her.

I will get along with her just fine I just don't want a repeat of last time I don't have feelings for her but I know she's going to let her guard down she already feels comfortable around me as she's known me for a few years.

In the last week I'm seeing an older version of the one I worked with before exact same traits it will be interesting if I start seeing the other side of her that she doesn't show anybody else. As I said above I want to avoid any emotions we work together and that's it I don't want her to get that comfortable with me where I say something and she gets hurt feelings. I really don't need to repeat that again you Scorpio's get comfortable around a person your feelings become hyper sensitive.

God damn! She just got there and you're already writing books about her?

Just don't be shady or try to bone her n maybe she won't fuck you up.

:p

I don't want a relationship with her she's 48 years old has grown children. As for my job It's not new I returned to a job I previously had but I never worked with her that much I will be now. I was 19 when I met her she was 28 she's a good looking girl back then she still looks pretty good for nearly being 50. She's been with the same guy since high school he's a Pisces guy.

All I want to avoid is her getting to comfortable around me women do that it happens every time I have more female friends than guy friends. The guy she works with is air sign not sure which one he can talk your ear off I think he's a Libra man.

Posted by Forren
Agree with femmefatale, focus on your job and stop allowing your mind to think about her. Your post reeks of subtle narcissism and its hard to read through it. You want to avoid getting comfortable around her? Then stop giving her eye contact while making an imaginary note to yourself that you have calming affect on them. Don't assume things. I'm telling you this for your benefit, not because im following the train above this post to bash you

He's saying they get too comfortable around him, not the other way around.

But yeah, his posts reek of subtle narcissism? 😆

Posted by Stihl46

All I want to avoid is her getting to comfortable around me women do that it happens every time I have more female friends than guy friends. The guy she works with is air sign not sure which one he can talk your ear off I think he's a Libra man.

Don't fret...she's got you figured out, no doubt. Try to grasp that paranoid narcissism crap, reign it in, and you'll be ok.

I think you should change your line of work (if that's not what you're doing right now) and go into research on behavioral patterns.

You're spending way too much time analyzing work colleagues, might as well make it into an experiment and get some money from it.

Now I know why his name is stihl. He's stihl talking about the same things over and over and over... 😛

I'm going to be keeping my distance from this Scorpio letting them get comfortable around you is never a good idea there is no turning back once that happens. She can treat me like she does with her other co workers its already started her feeling comfortable around me, phuck! Like I've said she's known me for years its not like two strangers meeting each other. She seems to be really happy I'm working with her she smiles a lot and I make her laugh.

I don't need anymore work place drama I've already been through enough of it with the first Scorpio I don't need the second Scorpio doing the same thing. I remember when I first met her she had some ripping fights with her man (pisces) I think of what I seen 19 years ago it is how the other Scorpio in my life is like heated emotionally charged fights.

It will be interesting working with another Scorpio again it might make her feel more at ease that I'm working with her, the reason why I'm working with her again is a year long project that involves operational changes. She's feeling really anxious about the changes I can see the Scorpio I don't like change trait coming out of her she's a typical Scorpio she fears losing control.

Posted by Stihl46
I'm going to be keeping my distance from this Scorpio letting them get comfortable around you is never a good idea there is no turning back once that happens..

No turning back from what? What is it that you want exactly?

You do know that all your tools are not in the shed, right? Or are crazy people oblivious to that about themselves?

Posted by Stihl46
I'm going to be keeping my distance from this Scorpio ... She's feeling really anxious about the changes I can see the Scorpio I don't like change trait coming out of her she's a typical Scorpio she fears losing control.

Congratulations on the new job...

I'm sure you'll be happily keeping your inner peace by watching it all from a big big distance.

Also let astrology have some words on alternative these. Like whether and why she is feeling anxious. I mean her birth chart is not only made by her Sun sign. And fear can come from other placements. For instance Saturn in Pisces. Or being born in the year of rabbit (1963, 1975, 1987 etc.). Besides we can misunderstand gesture and facial expression of people. After all we are not perfect ourselves.

Cherish to the fresh breeze, the night sky on the balcony and good wine.

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by Stihl46
I'm going to be keeping my distance from this Scorpio letting them get comfortable around you is never a good idea there is no turning back once that happens..

No turning back from what? What is it that you want exactly?

You do know that all your tools are not in the shed, right? Or are crazy people oblivious to that about themselves?

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Terrible baby,

he wrote clearly that it is not a good idea to let xyz feel comfortable around himself. He wrote because nobody can turn the circumstances back to where it was before. That is he would not be able to get back to when she was feeling uneasy with him.

Am I a lazy thinker? Or a sugar-coater? Cause I see nothing sick in what he wrote.
He'd had a hard time before. Now he tries to make failures to lessons learned. Do you have any problem with it?

What it boils down to --

Posted by Stihl46

I don't need anymore work place drama I've already been through enough of it with the first Scorpio I don't need the second Scorpio doing the same thing.

... is that she isn't doing anything. There probably is no body language, no moods or intense stares that in any way relate to him at least. It's all in his head. Dude's got an unhealthy obsession with a Zodiac sign. Zodiophilia loll. I mean what's his history with this woman exactly aside from that he knows her since before? He didn't really disclose or maybe I'm having a hard time navigating through his delusional nonsense.

"I dont want her getting too comfy around me to offset the chances of her putting my dick in her mouth.
Them gals just can't keep their shit together around me, I can't even help it. I don't want drama".

Yet his cognitive skills are those of an autistic virgin.

"cognitive skills"

ok, I see your point.

Whatever battle he's been fighting I wish for him to come out of it and be able to be proud of himself for the rest of his life.


"autistic virgin"

and they write chapters on Sagittarius judgmental attitude.


"Zodiophilia"
We have lots of this on dxp. Every board has a few burned after read guests.
We can only hope that they move on one day. For their own sake.
It's a mix of venting and trying to understand. Anyhow exhausting of intellect cause heart does not know how to heal itself.

Yes exhausting the intellectual capacity for heart matters is autistic. Virgin or not.

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Posted by Stihl46
I don't need anymore work place drama I've already been through enough of it with the first Scorpio I don't need the second Scorpio doing the same thing.

It takes 2 to make a drama happen, 1 to create it and 1 to encourage it. Which are you?

That being said, I'm betting that Stihl creates 5 more threads about this Scorpio woman. That's 5 more threads.

Anyone wanna bet against me?

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i see your 5 and i raise you one more.

Posted by Stihl46
I don't want a relationship with her she's 48 years old has grown children. As for my job It's not new I returned to a job I previously had but I never worked with her that much I will be now. I was 19 when I met her she was 28 she's a good looking girl back then she still looks pretty good for nearly being 50. She's been with the same guy since high school he's a Pisces guy.

All I want to avoid is her getting to comfortable around me women do that it happens every time I have more female friends than guy friends. The guy she works with is air sign not sure which one he can talk your ear off I think he's a Libra man.

I wouldn't worry. She probably sees you studying her, and will be ready to deal with you when the time comes.

I will extend my hugs to Stihl... Stihl it's ok darling. Scorpio are not all bad. You have to know that.

Get well soon.. You can do it.