WTF is wrong with this Scorpio guy?!? (Page 2)

Soo after Friday he took 3 days to message me again. He messaged me first thing Tuesday morning at 6 am asking how my long weekend was. I responded an hour or so later. Long story short, he asked me to come "hang" Wednesday night (last night) i said yes. He didn't message me all day yesterday and then at night liked a post on Facebook i posted about missing someone. He then posted on Facebook about going to a club this weekend which he is banned from - after my friend posting on my wall that we are going. What is his deal?! He is actually trying to fk with my head badly. Showing he is keen and asks me over then goes silent and doesn't say anything all day but has the nerve to "like" something. I'm honestly about to give up, if he messages me again i'm gonna just have to be like look sorry but i'm not interested anymore coz this is ridiculous. These mixed signals are beyond me.

He is probably doing this to many girls at the same time so he can't even keep a track of when he called who.

As women, we need to stop responding to these kinds of men. This kind of behaviour is not acceptable.

Posted by Ariesgal92
Yes I totally agree with you! I don't think he is insecure, immature yes - probably just wanted an ego boost. Or maybe i gave off the impression that i wasn't satisfied who knows lol. Yeah i'm not 100% sure how i will play this. He doesn't deserve my time of day i know this and he won't get it. Are they really stalkerish?? Oh crap :/ but if he just used me and i stop showing interest he will surely just forget about me and stop pursuing right?

oh he could go on pursuing you forever. for the sex. guys are not like girls. they don't go 'oh beggarblanket.. I think I'm falling for her. but I'm not sure.. sex with her is so good, should I tell her about it ? what would she think? I wonder if she loves me.. '

Their brain works like this -'these are the girls that had sex with me before. they all love me. let me contact them randomly to see which one I could get tomorrow/on the weekend'

or 'I'm tired of chasing girls. I need a gf for a while.' then picks a girl he likes and pursues her properly. Takes her out to dates. Gets jealous of her. Calls her his gf. Intoduces her to friends and family as gf.

Posted by Ariesgal92

He is actually trying to fk with my head badly.

It's the affect mirrors have...

Question is, does it have that intricate wood scroll around it or is it just one of those bare sharp edged mirrors...

@beggarsblanket yes i don't doubt he is doing this to other women too but he very well knows he was meant to see me. If he thinks of me at 6 am to message me, it means something to say the least. He liked my post and even if he forgot all day, he would of remembered at that moment. I highly doubt he would try pursue me forever though. He will give up soon i think. I just don't understand why he shows interest and then kind of backs off. If he wants to use me, not sure why he just doesn't go through with it each time. Probably to mess with my head so i don't know he's using me.

@LetitB you are actually really negative towards me and i'm not sure why. You've said some things in this forum that i totally agree with and i love your brutal honesty but i do feel as if you are mocking me. I understand what your trying to say is that im doing this to myself and yes i guess i am partially. But what i want to understand is what this guy is actually trying to achieve here?

My advice: with men, always assume the worst 😛

I mean, of course he likes you. You are one of the girls (maybe the only girl for now?) he is sleeping with. I'm just saying with guys, it's pretty much obvious whether he 'likes likes' you or just you know, likes you(and pursues other girls at the same time because he isn't in love with any one of you)

Hahahah yes i do always assume the worst because usually it is!! I've only slept with him once. He messaged me this morning "hows your day babe" and we are exchanging a few messages now. If he asks to see me again im gonna have to say no and just cut ties with him because this is way too much of a head fk. And if he really isnt using me and wants to know me then he can prove it, coz im not sleeping with him again.

Be careful don't get obsessed with this guy 🙂 we've all been there 😛

Hahaha i'll try!! It's still early days, if i cut him off soon i should be ok 🙂

I finally told him that i think hes using me and i won't allow it. He said i got the wrong impression and he took me on a date and wanted to keep doing so because he likes me.I told him i don't trust him. He asked me what i wanted from seeing him? He Said i wanted more than sex. I said i didnt know and i was just going with the flow but it all escalated rather quickly and i just didnt wonna be used. He said hes not using me and doesnt plan on. I asked him what he wanted then. He said he just came out of a fucked up relationship and hes still straightening his head out, so hes not rushing into anything but whatever happens happens and he likes me alot. I said im not looking for a realionship but also not looking to get used either. He said he doesnt wonna be used either. I said i dont use guys etc. He asked me why i slept with him then and said i cant make all of this his fault etc. I said im not trying to put the blame on you and i think everything became misinterpreted etc. He said hes so confused, i asked why. And he hasnt replied. This was all yesterday. I am honestly don't know if he's just in defense guy mode and is talking crap to get me to like him/sleep with him or if he genuinally likes me 😢 any scorps out there know?? Would they just say stuff like that to get in your pants?

Yes. Please use condoms.

Thx