A married Scorpio woman loves a single Taurus man

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I'm in love with a Taurus man, but I cannot love him because I'm married with a kid. My husband is a Virgo,and he's difficult to live with, through these married 6 years, he's hurt me emotionally constantly and my love for him has long gone. I would get divorced if I didn't have my young kid. At least, for now, it's difficult to decide weather or not it would be actually better for my kid to live in a split family while there are always fights in the broken family ?

I haven't known the Taurus man long so I won't make impulsive decisions, maybe one day, because my feelings for him is so strong and I have read all the posts I can find about relationship with Taurus.

I know I'm in an emotional affair now with him, I'm trying not to get deeper, I don't want to hurt my husband, my kid, and especially him. He's single, he deserves a single lady who can be there fully for him, cares for him daily, makes a big family for him, carries his babies. I can never give him anything while I'm still married. And if I get divorced, I'm really scared what aftermath will come along, how it will impact my kid ?

All I can do now is try my best to take care of my family, and wish all my best for the Taurus man. All of them deserve the best of all, I don't want to hurt any of them. I don't know how to tell my husband that I want to divorce. (For my own best, not for the Taurus.) And I don't know how to explain to my kid who is only a preschooler. And I don't know how to tell the Taurus to give me more time as I don't even know what to tell my husband and kid...I know all I say to the Taurus man will be empty words...

So I have reduced a lot of my contacts with him, I have hidden so much of my feelings for him. I feel hurt. Love happened but at a wrong time...

He says we will always be friends. He has said he loves me as well. He told me he wants a family with me. I think I have understood more about Taurus man and I believe he means what he said.

We haven't seen each other for weeks although we live in the same city, we talk to each other almost everyday, nothing intense, I want to keep this space as I believe he wants to too. I don't know, somehow I feel kind of lost...

I look forward to hear any comments.
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follow your heart. life is too short to do anything less. your kids will understand. they will actually be happier knowing that their mum is happy.. they can sense if their parents r no longer in love with each other. thats not the example u wanna give to ur kids...life is passion ! you scorpio know that too well... though in saying that

scorpio and taurus,.. i don't know...the magic doesn't seem to last...
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Do other polar planets square off or just lotta love or dislikes for us couples. Hm.


I think we take the 1st place ?
The sad part is we know there's people like this but we think they're just jokes and make believe. If this is a troll I'd be suprised and wrong in my assessment. ?
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Lol..um... I'm not sure if it's trolling..was just a feeling. I didn't strike off the possibility that this might be true.
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Posted by saweetz1988
follow your heart. life is too short to do anything less. your kids will understand. they will actually be happier knowing that their mum is happy.. they can sense if their parents r no longer in love with each other. thats not the example u wanna give to ur kids...life is passion ! you scorpio know that too well... though in saying that

scorpio and taurus,.. i don't know...the magic doesn't seem to last...
Thank you. I am a very typical Scorpio, however, here is the thing, I'm emotionally cheating on my husband, so how can I commit to this Taurus man while I'm lying to my husband/myself/the Taurus man ?

I don't even have faith in myself.

So I'm kind of holding back and thinking "Remaining friends, and maybe someday when I get divorced, I'll start a real relationship with him."
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I don't know if I should post on the Scorpio forum ? But I need Taurus's comments here.

I've been controlling my actions by not reaching out for him emotionally.

But it's tough.

I hope people don't judge me too much, please understand that my feelings aroused for this Taurus man, BUT I have been trying my best since I realized I was in an emotional affair with him, and I have cut a lot of contact with him, this surprised myself because usually as a Scorpio, I would go irrational. But I have thought about the aftermath very carefully, and I did decide that I should stop talking with this Taurus man, because I respect my husband, I respect myself and I respect this Taurus, most importantly, I love my child.

With all that being said, I have all those hidden feelings/emotions stuck in my chest, I cannot find a way out. So I have this "plan" in my mind: I'll raise my child with my husband until he's bigger, I don't know when, but I just feel like it's not right to give up on the family just because.

Being in a loveless/sexless marriage is very frustrating.

The last two conversation I had with the Taurus man was about having a baby together. So here comes my questions:

1. He has been asking for a baby from me just because he thinks I'm a good mother from the photos of me and my child. He asked for it when we only knew each other for couple WEEKs, is it genuine ? I mean is he just a weirdo ? What do Taurus men think of babies ? He's single, never had kids, but he's got baby fever since he's in his 30's.

2. I told him to find a single girl and start a family, he simply said "I just want you." Again, is it genuine ? I kind of think that he's dating someone, but Zodiac says otherwise...

3. He shows so much less interests in ME than the "baby". Again, this is very weird. When a man wants a baby from a woman, it should be the woman the first thing he wants, right ? Or he's just selfish ?

4. Now, when I was kind of being manipulative by saying "I will risk everything to have your baby someday.", ironically, he changed his words, he started pulling back by saying "it's scary part, you should run away from me before it's too late." But when I asked him if he was serious with these words, he said no and still wants a baby from me.

I know I'm stupid enough to think of having a baby with him someday when I'm still married, but I'm a astrology person, I read all the posts I could find about Taurus & Scorpio, I just feel the relationship between us could be beyond science & the whole universe.

5. He has told me that he would have me moved in into his house once I got pregnant, and he would support me 150% . How trustworthy a Taurus man's words can be ? Again, Zodiac really is positive with it. However, we don't know each other much.

I'm ashamed to write the above, however, I really needed to let it out of my chest.

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Posted by ScorpioMe
I don't know if I should post on the Scorpio forum ? But I need Taurus's comments here.

I've been controlling my actions by not reaching out for him emotionally.

But it's tough.

I hope people don't judge me too much, please understand that my feelings aroused for this Taurus man, BUT I have been trying my best since I realized I was in an emotional affair with him, and I have cut a lot of contact with him, this surprised myself because usually as a Scorpio, I would go irrational. But I have thought about the aftermath very carefully, and I did decide that I should stop talking with this Taurus man, because I respect my husband, I respect myself and I respect this Taurus, most importantly, I love my child.

With all that being said, I have all those hidden feelings/emotions stuck in my chest, I cannot find a way out. So I have this "plan" in my mind: I'll raise my child with my husband until he's bigger, I don't know when, but I just feel like it's not right to give up on the family just because.

Being in a loveless/sexless marriage is very frustrating.

The last two conversation I had with the Taurus man was about having a baby together. So here comes my questions:

1. He has been asking for a baby from me just because he thinks I'm a good mother from the photos of me and my child. He asked for it when we only knew each other for couple WEEKs, is it genuine ? I mean is he just a weirdo ? What do Taurus men think of babies ? He's single, never had kids, but he's got baby fever since he's in his 30's.

2. I told him to find a single girl and start a family, he simply said "I just want you." Again, is it genuine ? I kind of think that he's dating someone, but Zodiac says otherwise...

3. He shows so much less interests in ME than the "baby". Again, this is very weird. When a man wants a baby from a woman, it should be the woman the first thing he wants, right ? Or he's just selfish ?

4. Now, when I was kind of being manipulative by saying "I will risk everything to have your baby someday.", ironically, he changed his words, he started pulling back by saying "it's scary part, you should run away from me before it's too late." But when I asked him if he was serious with these words, he said no and still wants a baby from me.

I know I'm stupid enough to think of having a baby with him someday when I'm still married, but I'm a astrology person, I read all the posts I could find about Taurus & Scorpio, I just feel the relationship between us could be beyond science & the whole universe.

5. He has told me that he would have me moved in into his house once I got pregnant, and he would support me 150% . How trustworthy a Taurus man's words can be ? Again, Zodiac really is positive with it. However, we don't know each other much.

I'm ashamed to write the above, however, I really needed to let it out of my chest.


Have you asked him where you stand with him? Does he want a long haul relationship with you, as in marriage or does he just want to have sex?

Would he accept you if you divorce?

Is his Venus in Cancer? Maybe he is just interested in having a super-baby. Are there other signs that he is interested in you, like getting to know you. Somehow I only feel his baby fever, not his sincerity about you.

Sorry to sound pessimistic, but this is the vibe I got from the telling signs.
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Not sure whether it'd help, but maybe it can shed some light on the Taurus psyche?

Your Taurus is giving vague signals. He says he wants you, but from other things sounds like he wants you for the baby.

Have you checked out more info on him, eg his life style , routine, past relationships?

Scorps and Taurus are said to have the strongest connection out of all the opposite sign. I feel you really should have more talk with him on what he meant and where he'd like to take things.
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Posted by ScorpioMe
Today, I received his messages, he decided to stop, by just being friends. He said he respects me and doesn't want to do any harm to me or my family.

I feel bittersweet.

But I do believe that's the best thing for us right now.

I remain my best wishes for him forever, I really hope he will have a happy family soon.

He's been the most special person in my life, I will always love him. He brings me peacefulness by making this decision.
I'm glad he made that decision for both of you! Or it will be very hard for you to make it. For your kid, I am glad he stopped.

It's kinda sad to know your Virgo husband isn't good to you. You must be very attractive if the Taurus guy likes you. Your Virgo should appreciate you more. Is he like very perfectionistic and picky? Hypochondriac? Why doesn't he treat you well anymore?

Maybe you should work on your current situation. Virgo and Scorpio are also very well-matched.

Hope things turn out better for you in time.

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You mentioned having a Virgo husband so I'm going to pitch in.

It seems that this Taurus has wedged himself into your heart, in a matter of time. Which means your heart has made up its mind about your husband. Besides, your already emotionally cheating on him as you said, and it's been so many years of a bad relationship with him, why stay?

I know it's not that black and white, but I can only assume that you've tried to make it work and it hasn't. If you feel as though you've tried EVERYTHING with the Virgo, go through with the divorce.

It's gonna hurt him, no matter what he's shown you in the past or how much he says that it doesn't.
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I hope you are a troll.

If not, I give you about 2 more months before you spread em because you really don't give two shits about your husband. And you love someone after a few weeks? Ha....

You effectively have given your child a job, which duties include keeping a marriage together. No child should be assigned a job. Their only job is to be a child. Instead, you have put your child right in the mild of an adult situation, even if you never meant to, you still did.

On a side note, I swear the world is just becoming more and more morally corrupt with putrid morons that cheat left and right.
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I hope you are a troll.

If not, I give you about 2 more months before you spread em because you really don't give two shits about your husband. And you love someone after a few weeks? Ha....

You effectively have given your child a job, which duties include keeping a marriage together. No child should be assigned a job. Their only job is to be a child. Instead, you have put your child right in the mild of an adult situation, even if you never meant to, you still did.

On a side note, I swear the world is just becoming more and more morally corrupt with putrid morons that cheat left and right.
Go fuck yourself
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