do taurus men call back after an argument??

hi everyone...i just got into an argument with my taurus guy...he thought he did nothing wrong but i felt like he did something wrong...do they ever come back after a fight?? its been 10 days and i havent heard from him...this is not like him...i would hear from him 3 times a day plus i would see him often....he told me that he really likes me and that he sees a future with me and that im gorgeous and a sweetheart...but now hes being so stubborn...do u think he'll ever come around?? im a libra if that helps

jeez, almost 2 weeks? what the hell really happened? no, it's not like a taurus to stay mad that long unless u really piss them off... and it's hard to get them to that point.

i've had disagreements, and minor arguments, with taureans before but they're often over it quickly. mostly, in my case, they don't even get that upset. i've only seen my bestie (a taurus) get really ticked off when there is utter disrespect involved.

u gotta give more details and be honest if u want a legit answer. ur being too vague and it seems like ur hiding details to cover up what u may have knowingly inflicted. just an observation, not stating a fact.

Posted by ninjamu
it's hard to get them to that point.

(a taurus) get really ticked off when there is utter disrespect involved.

That is correct, it takes a long time for me to get upset, but once I do, it's over. Typically that is because it has been an issue for a long, long time. Also, disrespect is a no no! I will cut some one from my life immediately if I feel disrespected. In that case, there is no room for negotiation. I don't hate them or wish them any ill will; however, they can no longer be a part of my life, because I won't trust nor respect them - in which case, why would I associate with them?

To ninjamu's point, perhaps there is more to this story. No judgements here, just wanting to give you a valid/accurate response based on the facts. There are always 2 sides to every story...

thanks for ur comments...i was with my taurus guy for 6 months...we would speak about 3 times a day and see each other...he told me that he really liked me and that he saw a future with me (that i would be the woman he would want to marry)...one day i found out on facebook that his long distance best friend (who happens to be a girl) is spending the weekend with him and his parents at their house...i got really hurt, angry and jealous bc i felt like he was being sneaky about it since he didnt tell me and i found out on facebook...i told him how i felt about it and he thought that he did nothing wrong and that shes a really good friend of his....he was like i dont have to tell u every detail....he told me that she had a lot going on thats why he invited her to spend the weekend with him and his family...he got mad at me bc he thought that i didnt trust him...its not that i dont trust him, i just dont trust her...i know the girl and shes a big flirt...anyway i was upset for 4 days and on the 5th day, I decided to call him to apologize...i realized that i may have OVERREACTED and that i was sorry...when i said that, he wasnt so nice...he had an attitude...and he was like "i dont like how u acted...i can do what i want, when i want....shes just a friend of mine." after him telling me that, he made it seem like i was a control freak (which im not)...all i did was tell him how i felt about this girl spending the weekend thats all...anyway how can someone tell u that they really really like you and that they see a future with u, then stop talking to u?? i dont get itt!! was he saying bs?? i felt like he lead me on. 😢

I can't speak for any other Taurus folks, but I don't forsake my friends for a piece of a $ $ /man. I'm not saying that he necessarily shouldn't have told you, and I understand you feeling a bit put out by it from finding out on Facebook, but to his point, unless I am living with someone, I don't feel I have to answer to anyone either. I'll respect them and everything, but I have my own life, and I live it. Additionally, I agree too, that individuals shouldn't HAVE to tell each other everything, if that's what each person mutually wants, then fantastic, but I don't think it's a necessity. I have things in my life that are private that I share with no one, even those closest to me. If and when the time comes and a person wants to share, they will, from my experience. I understand you not trusting his female friend, but at the end of the day, that's his friend. I have a lot of male friends and 75% of their women don't like me. They've all said catty comments to the men such as, "I can't believe you guys haven't slept together," "She's attractive, why doesn't she have her own man so she doesn't have to talk to you," "I don't feel comfortable with your friendship with her. I know you've known her a long time, but I'm not comfortable with you having a close friend that is a woman." The lists goes on. Here's the thing ---I respect ALL of my male friends and their relationships. I don't call them at inappropriate times of the day/night, or all the time. If we are all going somewhere, I'M the one who encourages them to bring their significant other; oftentimes they don't want to - that's their relationship and their business, not mine. I've traveled with some of my male friends while they've been in relationships. I've stayed at their homes, etc, but I haven't crossed any inappropriate lines with them, and to that point, as I always express to them, "We are JUST friends for a reason!" I love my male friends to death, but there isn't ONE of them I would EVER want to be in a relationship with. You can take that ish to the bank and cash it!
Good luck with your man.

Incidentally, since he's a guy, if you came at him in a way that he feels was disrespectful or insulted his manhood, that may be a part of it too. I'm not a guy, and I don't know exactly what was said, but that could very well be a factor too.

ok so do u think he'll ever contact me again?! i mean i did say that i was sorry...i read somewhere that it takes a while for a taurus to come back to someone that they really liked...hes so stubborn

I would say that he'll likely cool down, and also, whatever he may be going through as well may be a factor too, since he said there was a lot going on with him. Yes, we can be extremely stubborn, but if we like/want something, we will get over it!

USC had good advice for ya.. I'd like to add though..

-Put a taurus in a spot where he chooses between you and a long time friend, and your setting yourself up to lose..

-A Taurus loves a strong secure woman. If he's done nothing to warrant it, and your flipping out about a friend just because the friend is female, your showing yourself to be the opposite...

-The thought of telling you about it may not have even crossed his mind. A: Like USC said, he doesn't have to tell you everything.. B: He may have felt the loyalty and/or the security in the relationship was strong that it was just a given that it wouldn't be a problem.. Flipping out about it would make him maybe reevaluate your insecurity's in the relationship, and what he must do to keep you happy...



Things to think about.....

Posted by TaurGuy



-Put a taurus in a spot where he chooses between you and a long time friend, and your setting yourself up to lose..

-A Taurus loves a strong secure woman. If he's done nothing to warrant it, and your flipping out about a friend just because the friend is female, your showing yourself to be the opposite...

Absofrigginglutely! Taurus are fiercely loyal to their friends, and given a choice - 99% of the time they are going with their friends. Now, with this caveat - we try to be fair about stuff, so if the friend was disrespecting the love interest we will put the friend in check too! It works both ways.

Im a Taurus and sometimes when we get angry we like to sulk to get attention. But almost all the time, I will give in to love as it is THE MOST IMPORTANT THING for a Taurus to have.

Good thing is, he had made his point. And left to calm, bulls completely cool down after a heated argument or quarrel and will almost always totally forgive (too generously) if he really likes you.

give him bit of time, then see if he calls. if not, then send subtle SMS or calls but dont go panic mode and send more than 1 in a day.

Hello I was coming for some help because I was just sort of kind of in a relationship with a taurus male.
We were all cool with eachother and then out of nowhere he just slams it in my face that he just wants to be FRIENDS like wow really out of nowhere?
I don't understand why he did that to me if he was supposed to be liking me a lot I'm confused.... Help from any tauruses would be
Appreciated or from taurus males PLEASE ! 😢

I think it depends on the scope of your relationship and how serious it is. Six months is a long time and there must have been something else besides this blowup to trigger such cold apathy. As another poster noted, the pressure builds for a long while with a Taurus, before they blow up. He's been noticing your behavior or scrutinizing your relationship. Maybe having his best friend stay with him is a much needed stress relief. I think not telling you about his best friends staying over was purposeful, a calculated and passive way of saying, "hey, I am doing this because you will blow up like this". Gives him an out as well as retaliate because something in the relationship is irritating him. Maybe it is the security that TaurGuy alludes to.

Now if you guys have a healthy open and serious relationship, I agree, he should have told you about it first. However it is his best friend and most Taurus', myself included have best friends of the opposite sex. That's just nature. He sees in her a strong part of what he desires from a partner. That's why they are best friends...But, I have a feeling there is something else to the story especially since he has disappeared for a while now. Hope this helps.

Posted by Friction
I think it depends on the scope of your relationship and how serious it is. Six months is a long time and there must have been something else besides this blowup to trigger such cold apathy. As another poster noted, the pressure builds for a long while with a Taurus, before they blow up. He's been noticing your behavior or scrutinizing your relationship. Maybe having his best friend stay with him is a much needed stress relief. I think not telling you about his best friends staying over was purposeful, a calculated and passive way of saying, "hey, I am doing this because you will blow up like this". Gives him an out as well as retaliate because something in the relationship is irritating him. Maybe it is the security that TaurGuy alludes to.

Now if you guys have a healthy open and serious relationship, I agree, he should have told you about it first. However it is his best friend and most Taurus', myself included have best friends of the opposite sex. That's just nature. He sees in her a strong part of what he desires from a partner. That's why they are best friends...But, I have a feeling there is something else to the story especially since he has disappeared for a while now. Hope this helps.

+1

I also agree with 69virgo....There is much more to this, he invited her over for a reason, somewhere along the way he changed his mind about you most likely b/c of this girl, knowing that you would see FB he decided to take the easy coward way out by passively dumping you online , your reaction gave him an easy out.

Your reaction was not wrong, if he say he love you and will marry you but invites a girl "friend" to spend the weekend without at least letting you know, including you by asking you meet her and come over and hang out then his intentions with this woman is more than friendship.

from my experience, taurus men are super sensitive and take things personally. and they are stubborn. dont expect him to reach out to you. if you want to make amends, pick up the phone.

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Posted by Friction
I think it depends on the scope of your relationship and how serious it is. Six months is a long time and there must have been something else besides this blowup to trigger such cold apathy. As another poster noted, the pressure builds for a long while with a Taurus, before they blow up. He's been noticing your behavior or scrutinizing your relationship. Maybe having his best friend stay with him is a much needed stress relief. I think not telling you about his best friends staying over was purposeful, a calculated and passive way of saying, "hey, I am doing this because you will blow up like this". Gives him an out as well as retaliate because something in the relationship is irritating him. Maybe it is the security that TaurGuy alludes to.

Now if you guys have a healthy open and serious relationship, I agree, he should have told you about it first. However it is his best friend and most Taurus', myself included have best friends of the opposite sex. That's just nature. He sees in her a strong part of what he desires from a partner. That's why they are best friends...But, I have a feeling there is something else to the story especially since he has disappeared for a while now. Hope this helps.

+1

I also agree with 69virgo....There is much more to this, he invited her over for a reason, somewhere along the way he changed his mind about you most likely b/c of this girl, knowing that you would see FB he decided to take the easy coward way out by passively dumping you online , your reaction gave him an easy out.

Your reaction was not wrong, if he say he love you and will marry you but invites a girl "friend" to spend the weekend without at least letting you know, including you by asking you meet her and come over and hang out then his intentions with this woman is more than friendship.

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I soooooooo agree with this!

Hi 69! My favorite Virgo...What's up shuga

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69 unhide this...I read it already BEFORE you hid it LOL!

Posted by 69virgo
Damn that! She shouldn't call this loser! Hi dreamer..😉

They DO try and make it your fault! At least the Taurus I know. Mad sensitive and takes everything to heart. I didnt read the backstory so maybe calling him isnt a good idea??

LOL@Okay you get a pass on 2nd best...Wifey always comes first *shaking fist* and don't you forget it LOL

awww proud uncle, I'll make an exception, I remember seeing a post from you about her...I wish her the best I know she'll do fine, you raised her well.

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Posted by tiki33
awww proud uncle, I'll make an exception, I remember seeing a post from you about her...I wish her the best I know she'll do fine, you raised her well.

She is a tough cookie...I told her she better not lose any cases,as much junk as talk to me.😉 I told her,she's gonna stay in chambers tho..lmao..🙂 she got this lil virgo dude wrapped around her fingers too..😉 I told her,she can't replace me...lmao..

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LMAO! Oh how sweet, she'll do just fine as a lawyer for sure.

Hello,I am in need of help as well with my Taurus Friend. Just recently, last Saturday, my Taurus friend and i Talk through Texts all day everyday and visit eachother from time to time. He is such a great friend to me that i can talk to him with just about anything that is on my mind. Whether it be nonsense or if i need to vent to him and vice versa.He always has good advise and always cheers me up. in the beginning, he would always want to visit me and talk nonsense and how eachothers day went. he would always tell me that i don't need make up and he enjoys my company. i enjoyed his. he would also say he didn't know what it was about me but he enjoys being around me. We have been friends for 2 1/2 years. well, im not sure if we are ever going to be friends again... 😢 which tares me up inside. Well, it all started with a personal question that my Taurus friend asked me which i had no problem answering it. it was more of a confidential question(seizure). we were going back and forth for a while and it got to the point where he would jokes about it by giving me examples on what would happen if i had a seizure in front of him and how he would explain to the paramedics what happen. i knew he was just trying to cheer me up but i couldn't cheer up. i really dont like talking about my past seizures because it brings me down and i get sensitive.

So while we were texting back and forth, I think when i had asked him who told him, he didn't care to share who did and that it wasnt a big deal on who told him. i had said oh ok, i thought our friendship was more than that where you can be able to tell me who told you. i guess i thought wrong. I was already at a vulnerable stage just by discussing my seizure. i see now as im writing this, i shouldn't have said that. At that moment that is what i felt. so he wanted to change the subject and i was ok to change the subject too but we were texting so much i was answering every text and trying to respond to them all that he was doing the same and he started getting upset. when we were about to change the subject, he responded to a text and said ok my bad. how about you hang out with your boy and you can tell him all about it. peace. i was trying to ask him why he was ending it and if he was serious... he was.
im so hurt that he decided to end it. i would understand if i was cursing and disrepecting him then i would understand why he is ending our friendship. will he ever call me again?

sorry, Last saturday is when my Taurus friend called it quits.

You did not do anything wrong. As a cancer it will cause you emotional damage to try to wait and figure it out. Move on. Love does not look like this. Let him go and when he comes back...and he will...let him figure out why you won't respond. Just go away. Don't even wait. Live. Bide your time. He will come back...and then make him explain himself and pose a correction.

*propose no pose

Cancergrl82 I think he'll come back around. You said absolutely nothing wrong, and I'm sure it's a very sensitive subject. Before trying to change the subject he should have apologized imho.

@Lola7515: I understand how you feel completely. My aries (whom I'm starting to get over) has a female bestie, and I simply don't really care too much for females. I have very few female friends; I feel females can be sneaky, gossipy, and always jealous of the next woman. Anyway, my aries has slept with his "so-called" female best friend like a month before he an I started talking. They were trying out "talking" as more than friends. Going on dates an everything. Anyway, while he and I were discussing a relationship between us he had the audacity to inform me that she may call his phone sometimes, and they may hang from time to time because they have been friends since childhood. Sorry to say but at that very moment he knocked himself down my list of suitors. I love him, but he loss major brownie points right there. HECK NO! He and I have known one another since childhood too, and I would be okay had they never went there, but he tried to pass it off like it would never happen again because they realized they are better off as friends. All that b.s fell on deaf ears. All I know is once he slept with her she became an "Ex" in my book. She's no longer just a female friend. I say all this to tell you to be careful and don't change your standards just because you love this man that much. Sometimes it hurts but you have to be willing to be a woman, your own woman, and if he loves you then not talking to you for 2 weeks would be killing him just as much as it's killing you. Seeing as though he hasn't reached out even once, if I were you I wouldn't budge. You've already apologized. My brother is a Taurus and he does this to girls all the time, especially the ones he really truly likes. He feels the need to test the ones he really likes. The Taurus I'm into now test me from time to time, and I was already his girl before. We've known each other for 3 yrs now and he's still testing me. Lol. Like recently he went a day w/o talking to me to see if I would get mad or call him. Unfortunately I was doing the same thing to him because im always calling him.lol. So when we finally talked the next day we both laughed. He will even get off the phone with me to see if I will ask why he wants to call me back. I told him 3 yrs ago the games don't work on me, but then again its 3 yrs later and I still get butterflies like I did when I first met him so maybe they do.lol. Anyway, my point is don't bow down. You've done your part. Now if you want to say hi, go ahead. But

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But don't apologize anymore. He needs to calm down and think about things from your point of view. If he cant do that, then this wont be your first blow out session with him. You need to be sweet with a Taurus but still stand your ground or like the bull he is, he will trample right over you.

Also one more point I'd like to add, this whole thing makes me question just how serious your Taurus was about you or the relationship from jump because my ex whom is a Taurus that im talking to now, he and I stayed friends throughout our break-up once I was able to get over the whole thing, but when he got into a relationship not only did he cut me off, he cut ALL females off. Especially the ones that made his girlfriend uncomfortable. He admitted that he still liked me, but she was insecure about me in particular so in an effort to respect the relationship and her feelings he cut contact completely. Even though it hurt, I had no choice but to understand. My brother whom is also a Taurus has cut girls off for his girlfriend if he really loves her. I don't care who she is, or how long she's been around if he really truly loves his girl and she's everything he desires he will cut off the presidents wife if he had too just to please her. They love just "that" hard, but it takes time to get a Taurus to fall. They are suckers for love, but you must be patient or they will be suspicious of your intentions. That's why I created a post asking if im too sweet for my Taurus because I don't want to overwhelm him by being too mushy too soon in the game even though we've already dated in the past I honestly feel one of the reason we didn't last was because everything was very rushed. This girl that has a hold on your Taurus, sorry to say but your attitude might have pushed him further into her arms. When my Taurus and I broke up we were working on being back together, but I noticed he started talking to some girl on fb, and I blew up and cursed him out. They didn't become official right away, but they eventually did, and I felt if I were a little more focused on us instead of him and her, then she wouldn't have ever got him. So think about that too.