hear my out and please don't judge (Page 3)

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Lol I had wondered that one yesterday Jeane!!

Honestly, we used to be middle class, that barely exist, anymore, just a small home in a good area/neighorhood, with good schools. No where near bmw, type living, believe me. Hence, financial reasons we live together, honestly, he could leave and be ok, he's a man, throw me the child support and be done, but neither of us want to disrupt our sons' life, the lil luxury (travel ball)we are able to give him, just want him to stay busy, active, and healthy. The best WE could give him.

The BMW comment relates to a another person who posted a similar story on the Taurus board a while ago.

Posted by scorpchiclooking4taurus4me
It's not for show, its FOR US, what we feel is best, for us and our son, period.

If it's not for show are you very honest and open about the nature of your relationship... or is it all quiet and hush, hush? Do you portray a couple and family unit to friends and people within your community? If you are then it's for show. If people see a cohesive family unit that is different behind closed doors then you are frontin.

How does your son feel about it? Does he know you have another man/men on the side? He's 12, not a little boy did he have any say on the matter of what's best for him or is it something that's not discussed. Cause if people start talking about how Mommy dicks around on Daddy, that's probably going to mess him up more so than separated parents...

meh

You are contradicting your own words. Seeking revenge rather trying to understand his point of view. You see happy with the arrangements you made with your "uncommitted family" what makes you think he's happy with it? Please don't base the logic side of this story out of your emotional tantrum. I can never have a peaceful understand relationship with a Scorpio sun. I don't think they can ever see things logically. You are seeking revenge for what he's done but what about what you done, you don't think he felt hurt this whole time? None of the things you are saying are making sense to my bull nature.. Some of you water signs are so complicated sometimes..... When things are so simple , they just don't see it.... If you truly love him you would understand why he has dissapeared or why he was keeping distance. You would discuss things with him and end your marriage. Plain and simple.

I have a friend who's having an affair with another bull. Long distance, trust me I feel for the bull guy. It's been years and years..... She loves the bull to bits but yet stay living together with her current boyfriend because theree are other reasons but still , she's hurting him like hell...... What makes Scorpio thing it's ok to live that way.....still a big question in my mind .... How can you say you love someone yet put them through pain.... Another question in my mind

Well, guys or gals, sorry to say, to each is own..I mean really.

The bull has a mouth, he can talk about his feelings and about moving on, and I do understand it, doesn't mean it hurts any less.

Those that are judging, you're not my god, only ONE person can judge only one, so I'm not going to entertain, YOUR opinions about my life, post all and anything you want, it's not your story, it's mine. Let you all tell it, it's to your liking, how you want to see it.

I give like nothing about your judgemental tongues, puh-lease. I live for MY life, not anyone else's, but my life, as we all do and that's the truth. Only one judge and we'll face him, when its our time. Sure will. I have faith and believe in my god. He's the only one allowed to jugde me. He and he alone.

The rest of you judging are just talkers,.just like to hear yourselves I guess it makes you feel good idk and frankly don't even care.

My man, the dickster, . I know tell me about geez. Unreal. Ppl just go SNAP, on here.

Bullets flying everywhere..lol

But some have Been helpful and keep it real.

Yes, at least I was, clooneyrs :-)

www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5Z2sEXWn5I

This is motivational chill music. Beautiful energy, this song is good for Any type of relationship.

Another bullent flying by.

Scorpchic - That is really very difficult to handle with . it kills inside.It bruised your ego really and now you want a revenge on that taurus man so he can feel how you feel? It's like drinking a poison and thinking other will get poisoned as well - bitterness will kill you. I know how it feels like being left alone without saying
goodbye - The real *goodbyes* has no word but an action. Get over it and don't be too hard to yourself.
Be strong and don't get carried away of such negative emotion - hugs for you. You will be fine soon. embrace the storm until it's over. Don't fight with it. Embrace the defeat... until you conquer it.
Remember you are a Scorpio. Rise above the storm.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5Z2sEXWn5I

Thank you M143, we are strong women in general. I appreciate your kinds words.

Yes, but he would have done the same regardless of the circumstances.

Anyone how to post a song on here? won't post when I copy and paste a link.

Clooneyyears, do you know how I can post a song, on here?

www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5Z2sEXWn5I

www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5Z2sEXWn5I

www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5Z2sEXWn5I

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Posted by jeane
you don't drive a bmw by any chance do you?

Ha ha ha. Been wondering that myself

www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5Z2sEXWn5I

www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5Z2sEXWn5I

Is somebody buying a bmw?

Fiona Apple - Get Gone (lyrics o.s.).mpg - YouTube

www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5Z2sEXWn5I

This one is equally as thick as BMW lady!

Posted by scorpchiclooking4taurus4me
Clooneyyears, do you know how I can post a song, on here?

tried it first to imgur.com - make your username and pw. upload it there first then get the htmls paste it to dxp then preview if it works.. before you hit *post*.

hope it works for you...

I doubt you are young scorp. When I was broken hearted back 7 yrs ago with Scorpio man - I kept posting
songs in my fb page.. lol.

I had 3 serious relationship with taurus bf's, 2 challenger. none of them left me broken. I learned a lesson
from my ex fiance Scorpio man - he wanted space, I was into him and afraid I might lost him -I was immature at 27. And now, no one can hurt me again. awww!

Posted by AgentP911
This one is equally as thick as BMW lady!

I missed that bmw. lol

@M143 thank you re: posting songs, on here and no, I'm not a young scrop, and yes, at 27, we are still immature, but this is how we learn and grow, thank you, for your positive feedback and I'm glad to know you are a strong woman, today and no one can hurt you again :-)

@Implusv, your post is correct, it was my 1st exp while in my living arrangement, after 17 years, but it has taught me, it's best to, stay in my lane, until my living situation changes, it also taught me, he and prolly most men, would do the very same, regardess of the circumstances. Thank you, both M143 and Implusv, for your posiive encoraging words and just keeping it real.

No it's in regards to an old post another woman had on here. She was married and having an affair with a bull. More a joke then anything directed personally towards you.

Oops forgot to quote... Above was in response to your buying a Beemer question. Love and life isn't always easy and things are never as cut and dry as outsiders looking in judge on. We all have to make hard choices at points in our life. Everyone deserves to be happy, live life in a way that makes you feel happy, be true to yourself and it will ripple out to others. And stay away from the 'revenge' stuff 😉 ....only causes pain. Cheers!

Although u think u are not affecting your son but you are. Kids are smart. He knows what is going on to an extend. You guys are just hurting urselves and extending the process longer than it has to be. Your son will still be fine even when Yall divorce. He is only concern with yall happiness and also Yall love to him. Stop hiding behind the excuse of Yall remaining married for your child sake. It's just lies to all of Yall. Co parenting can be done regardless of the living arrangements.

Again, I'm didn't post so that I could CONVIENCE, anyone what works, FOR ME, in my life & AGAIN, to each is own.

As for affecting kids, puh-lease girl, everybody got a childhood story good and bad & some worse, WAY worse.

Me thinks this one ^^^ is a bit of a cunt.

Me think y'all just get your rocks off, hearing yourselves talk so much and LOVE pointing fingers, but again to each is own, if it makes YOU feel good, then you do it.

Boy boy boy, if I let y'all tell my story, it becomes a life of it's own, it's not my story.

Posted by AgentP911
Me thinks this one ^^^ is a bit of a cunt.

Agreed.

If I were a Scorpio, I'd be ashamed to have them be part of my club. Just sayin'

This is to all the judgmental ppl who LOVE to hear themselves, TALK & judge. If you are 100% happy with who you are, you are a lot less likely to feel the need to judge others, but those that are not??_.misery LOVES company, and to form a superficial fake bond, that hold no true substance, so you, at least feel accepted and it makes YOU feel better about yourselves, to judge others. In addition, how can anyone of you judge without having the FULL FACTS, is unbeknownst to me, on top of NO ONE is perfect. How about some tolerance and unless it's something really awful, living your life and allowing others to live, theirs. Do unto others, as you'd want done to you, finally, appearances can be deceptive, you may think you know exactly what's going on and yet in reality it's quite different. Can I get an AMEN! Judging, really defines YOU, than the one you're judging. I walk only in my shoes, no one else's, but mine and we're all different. You may not want to admit the above, but we all know its #TRUTH #LIVE&LETLIVE.
And for the record, I??D be ashamed to be a part of your superficial fake?? judging?? club, all to feel good by making others feel bad. Smh.

^^^ yawn ^^^

Just because people have views and opinions that differ from your own does not mean they are judgemental.

You came here to ask about getting revenge etc and to obviously vent about your personal situation and seek answers.

It is naive to have your expectation and attitude. Nobody here personally gives a general shit about you or your situation. How can they? What they do offer is views and opinions to offer feedback. Which is what you asked for.

Frankly, if you don't like it then piss off.

I think it's possible, you all won't make it past a few mins without judging, someONE, so why not, just judge away.

So if we're not making 'judgements' on the information you provide, what exactly is it you want here and how exactly do you want it delivered by us to you?

maybe he left without saying a word because if this thread is anything to go by, who in their right mind would want to engage in any kind of serious discussion with you?