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scorpchiclooking4taurus4me
@scorpchiclooking4taurus4me
10 Years

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Honestly, we used to be middle class, that barely exist, anymore, just a small home in a good area/neighorhood, with good schools. No where near bmw, type living, believe me. Hence, financial reasons we live together, honestly, he could leave and be ok, he's a man, throw me the child support and be done, but neither of us want to disrupt our sons' life, the lil luxury (travel ball)we are able to give him, just want him to stay busy, active, and healthy. The best WE could give him.
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shellshocker
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Posted by scorpchiclooking4taurus4me
It's not for show, its FOR US, what we feel is best, for us and our son, period.



If it's not for show are you very honest and open about the nature of your relationship... or is it all quiet and hush, hush? Do you portray a couple and family unit to friends and people within your community? If you are then it's for show. If people see a cohesive family unit that is different behind closed doors then you are frontin.

How does your son feel about it? Does he know you have another man/men on the side? He's 12, not a little boy did he have any say on the matter of what's best for him or is it something that's not discussed. Cause if people start talking about how Mommy dicks around on Daddy, that's probably going to mess him up more so than separated parents...

meh

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saweetz1988
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You are contradicting your own words. Seeking revenge rather trying to understand his point of view. You see happy with the arrangements you made with your "uncommitted family" what makes you think he's happy with it? Please don't base the logic side of this story out of your emotional tantrum. I can never have a peaceful understand relationship with a Scorpio sun. I don't think they can ever see things logically. You are seeking revenge for what he's done but what about what you done, you don't think he felt hurt this whole time? None of the things you are saying are making sense to my bull nature.. Some of you water signs are so complicated sometimes..... When things are so simple , they just don't see it.... If you truly love him you would understand why he has dissapeared or why he was keeping distance. You would discuss things with him and end your marriage. Plain and simple.
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saweetz1988
@saweetz1988
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I have a friend who's having an affair with another bull. Long distance, trust me I feel for the bull guy. It's been years and years..... She loves the bull to bits but yet stay living together with her current boyfriend because theree are other reasons but still , she's hurting him like hell...... What makes Scorpio thing it's ok to live that way.....still a big question in my mind .... How can you say you love someone yet put them through pain.... Another question in my mind
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M143
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Scorpchic - That is really very difficult to handle with . it kills inside.It bruised your ego really and now you want a revenge on that taurus man so he can feel how you feel? It's like drinking a poison and thinking other will get poisoned as well - bitterness will kill you. I know how it feels like being left alone without saying
goodbye - The real *goodbyes* has no word but an action. Get over it and don't be too hard to yourself.
Be strong and don't get carried away of such negative emotion - hugs for you. You will be fine soon. embrace the storm until it's over. Don't fight with it. Embrace the defeat... until you conquer it.
Remember you are a Scorpio. Rise above the storm.
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M143
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12 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by scorpchiclooking4taurus4me
Clooneyyears, do you know how I can post a song, on here?




tried it first to imgur.com - make your username and pw. upload it there first then get the htmls paste it to dxp then preview if it works.. before you hit *post*.

hope it works for you...

I doubt you are young scorp. When I was broken hearted back 7 yrs ago with Scorpio man - I kept posting
songs in my fb page.. lol.

I had 3 serious relationship with taurus bf's, 2 challenger. none of them left me broken. I learned a lesson
from my ex fiance Scorpio man - he wanted space, I was into him and afraid I might lost him -I was immature at 27. And now, no one can hurt me again. awww!

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@scorpchiclooking4taurus4me
10 Years

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@M143 thank you re: posting songs, on here and no, I'm not a young scrop, and yes, at 27, we are still immature, but this is how we learn and grow, thank you, for your positive feedback and I'm glad to know you are a strong woman, today and no one can hurt you again :-)

@Implusv, your post is correct, it was my 1st exp while in my living arrangement, after 17 years, but it has taught me, it's best to, stay in my lane, until my living situation changes, it also taught me, he and prolly most men, would do the very same, regardess of the circumstances. Thank you, both M143 and Implusv, for your posiive encoraging words and just keeping it real.
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Lovable
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11 Years

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Oops forgot to quote... Above was in response to your buying a Beemer question. Love and life isn't always easy and things are never as cut and dry as outsiders looking in judge on. We all have to make hard choices at points in our life. Everyone deserves to be happy, live life in a way that makes you feel happy, be true to yourself and it will ripple out to others. And stay away from the 'revenge' stuff 😉 ....only causes pain. Cheers!
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Honeybunniie
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11 Years

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Although u think u are not affecting your son but you are. Kids are smart. He knows what is going on to an extend. You guys are just hurting urselves and extending the process longer than it has to be. Your son will still be fine even when Yall divorce. He is only concern with yall happiness and also Yall love to him. Stop hiding behind the excuse of Yall remaining married for your child sake. It's just lies to all of Yall. Co parenting can be done regardless of the living arrangements.
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scorpchiclooking4taurus4me
@scorpchiclooking4taurus4me
10 Years

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This is to all the judgmental ppl who LOVE to hear themselves, TALK & judge. If you are 100% happy with who you are, you are a lot less likely to feel the need to judge others, but those that are not??_.misery LOVES company, and to form a superficial fake bond, that hold no true substance, so you, at least feel accepted and it makes YOU feel better about yourselves, to judge others. In addition, how can anyone of you judge without having the FULL FACTS, is unbeknownst to me, on top of NO ONE is perfect. How about some tolerance and unless it's something really awful, living your life and allowing others to live, theirs. Do unto others, as you'd want done to you, finally, appearances can be deceptive, you may think you know exactly what's going on and yet in reality it's quite different. Can I get an AMEN! Judging, really defines YOU, than the one you're judging. I walk only in my shoes, no one else's, but mine and we're all different. You may not want to admit the above, but we all know its #TRUTH #LIVE&LETLIVE.
And for the record, I??D be ashamed to be a part of your superficial fake?? judging?? club, all to feel good by making others feel bad. Smh.
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AgentP911
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^^^ yawn ^^^

Just because people have views and opinions that differ from your own does not mean they are judgemental.

You came here to ask about getting revenge etc and to obviously vent about your personal situation and seek answers.

It is naive to have your expectation and attitude. Nobody here personally gives a general shit about you or your situation. How can they? What they do offer is views and opinions to offer feedback. Which is what you asked for.

Frankly, if you don't like it then piss off.


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