boxcarmirnta
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Just need some clarity on this weird Taurus behavior..
The thing that really struck me was how he was afraid to look at me until we got comfortable... Maybe from the shame he felt for hurting me? I don't know.. But i caught him staring at me when i was gazing off into space.. Then he quickly averted his eyes.............
Posted by Gobby
Sorry but all this is unnecessary drama. I would have checked out of the whole affair ages ago. Fuck the unanswered questions...
I did check out, months ago, i assumed we were just friends.... Which is why i was surprised by his actions.... It doesn't feel like drama to me.. Just very bizarre behavior.
Posted by GobbyPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by Gobby
Sorry but all this is unnecessary drama. I would have checked out of the whole affair ages ago. Fuck the unanswered questions...
I did check out, months ago, i assumed we were just friends.... Which is why i was surprised by his actions.... It doesn't feel like drama to me.. Just very bizarre behavior.
It's really not worth entertaining the whys. You could get a dozen plausible answers here but still be far from the actual truth...
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yup i will get plausible answers thats exactly what i'm looking for...any of them could be the truth. Who's to say? I would like input, and a dialog, so that i can put it to bed. For good.
He was probably staring to see if he could see the 10+ age difference and how he missed it before. Maybe he collects women's pictures. Did you ask him any of these questions because how would we know?
Posted by DonnaLibra
He was probably staring to see if he could see the 10+ age difference and how he missed it before. Maybe he collects women's pictures. Did you ask him any of these questions because how would we know?
the whole point of this site is to ask this kinda shit... We all do it.. So yea if yr not gonna help.. Get lost... Like. I said already.. HE KNEW I WAS MUCH OLDER THAN HIM.
sorry, I have no idea what to say to this
What was the questionable shit he did that made you cut things off the first time?
"He is younger than me, (10+years) I never told him my actual age.. Bc i felt it might make things weird. ..so not much contact til December."
Don't get so fucking defensive, fellow "Piscean". As I quoted you from above (your words, not mine). THEN you added more sentences to indicate he saw you on TINDER and saw your age (He KNEW my age); okay, we are talking about PAST and PRESENT.
PAST: Since you didn't inform him of your "true age" at the beginning "bc I felt it might make things weird...so not much contact til December" THAT was your FIRST mistake (always be honest because, well, the truth will EVENTUALLY come out). Think about this. He tells his friends and family all about you, yeah, they ask your age and he says, "She's my age too".
PRESENT: Then BOOM! After the miscommunication y'all had months go by and he finds out from the "Horse's mouth" how old you are. When he saw you he thought to himself, "Shit! What do I tell my friends/family now? She's 10+years older than me (we Pisceans do NOT look our age; I am PROUD to say I am 53 years old; when I meet guys I tell them my AGE from the get go!); am I ready to date a woman that is 10+years older than me? Why didn't she tell me her true age? Why didn't I ASK her for her age and guessed she was 'my age', and should I tell her I just want to be friends so I don't hurt her feelings? I wanted to have sex (you "made out instead"); now that I know her true age I just want to be friends, etc, etc, etc, etc." Dudette, you don't know WHAT he was thinking to himself.
I dated a Taurean (John); came over for pizza; he'd look at me as I was watching tv (and on the corner of my eye I saw him doing this; as I thought it was "cute"); I just smiled as he was looking at me while I watched tv. You were more comfy to look at him while he was looking at you and he turned back without locking eyes at you. This NANO second tells me he is enamored at your beauty, but CANNOT proceed with this other than being 'your friend'; (THIS time you heard it from the horse's mouth) because you are 10+ years older than he is.
Picture: You mentioned you were both PLAYERS. I know Saggy men collect pictures to brag on FB/phone to their male pals about "this woman/look at this woman" etc. You make that decision as to putting this Taurean in this category, too, or tell yourself: 1) he wants to masturbate while looking at my pic 2) he wants to well, show his friends what a "friend" looks like 3) He likes to have my pic because he can place that in his "memory book" Being a quick Piscean (that I am); when he asked you for a pic of yourself I would have said, "Well, since you're on TINDER, grab your phone and take any pics of me that I already posted"
Your questions: a) Why the desperate need to see me? (see above)
b) Why was it so important? (see above)
c) Why the need to get answers from me? (because he's confused from the GET now that he knows your "true" age)
d) Why ask for my picture (I already answered that one)
e) What was the point of any of this? (he saw a FAMILIAR face on Tinder; and said, "Hey! I know this girl!)
f) If he didn't care, why did't he just keep swiping? (see e).
MORALE OF THE STORY: Be HONEST with men from the get go; in order for you to avoid posting here on DXP about a younger man.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Don't get so fucking defensive, fellow "Piscean". As I quoted you from above (your words, not mine). THEN you added more sentences to indicate he saw you on TINDER and saw your age (He KNEW my age); okay, we are talking about PAST and PRESENT.
PAST: Since you didn't inform him of your "true age" at the beginning "bc I felt it might make things weird...so not much contact til December" THAT was your FIRST mistake (always be honest because, well, the truth will EVENTUALLY come out). Think about this. He tells his friends and family all about you, yeah, they ask your age and he says, "She's my age too".
PRESENT: Then BOOM! After the miscommunication y'all had months go by and he finds out from the "Horse's mouth" how old you are. When he saw you he thought to himself, "Shit! What do I tell my friends/family now? She's 10+years older than me (we Pisceans do NOT look our age; I am PROUD to say I am 53 years old; when I meet guys I tell them my AGE from the get go!); am I ready to date a woman that is 10+years older than me? Why didn't she tell me her true age? Why didn't I ASK her for her age and guessed she was 'my age', and should I tell her I just want to be friends so I don't hurt her feelings? I wanted to have sex (you "made out instead"); now that I know her true age I just want to be friends, etc, etc, etc, etc." Dudette, you don't know WHAT he was thinking to himself.
I dated a Taurean (John); came over for pizza; he'd look at me as I was watching tv (and on the corner of my eye I saw him doing this; as I thought it was "cute"); I just smiled as he was looking at me while I watched tv. You were more comfy to look at him while he was looking at you and he turned back without locking eyes at you. This NANO second tells me he is enamored at your beauty, but CANNOT proceed with this other than being 'your friend'; (THIS time you heard it from the horse's mouth) because you are 10+ years older than he is.
Picture: You mentioned you were both PLAYERS. I know Saggy men collect pictures to brag on FB/phone to their male pals about "this woman/look at this woman" etc. You make that decision as to putting this Taurean in this category, too, or tell yourself: 1) he wants to masturbate while looking at my pic 2) he wants to well, show his friends what a "friend" looks like 3) He likes to have my pic because he can place that in his "memory book" Being a quick Piscean (that I am); when he asked you for a pic of yourself I would have said, "Well, since you're on TINDER, grab your phone and take any pics of me that I already posted"
Your questions: a) Why the desperate need to see me? (see above)
b) Why was it so important? (see above)
c) Why the need to get answers from me? (because he's confused from the GET now that he knows your "true" age)
d) Why ask for my picture (I already answered that one)
e) What was the point of any of this? (he saw a FAMILIAR face on Tinder; and said, "Hey! I know this girl!)
f) If he didn't care, why did't he just keep swiping? (see e).
MORALE OF THE STORY: Be HONEST with men from the get go; in order for you to avoid posting here on DXP about a younger man.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
We are curious creatures. I ask questions all the time that my friends or s.o will look at me and say "who asks that? Or thats a weird question?" .if we belive some th ing is being withheld we wa t to know the answeres, and usually we already know them.
We are detectives, everything you stated about him coming over, might be just him collecting more information and getting answeres. Point blank
The reason he hasn't contracted you is, maybe he didn't like your answers or he pondered it and he still isn't sure or he has finally made up his mind and he doesnt see it going further.
Id ask hin tho, we like people to straight up ask us. And at least rhen you wint have the what ifs .
Btw him saying "were just friends having fun" ...take that at face value.
We are detectives, everything you stated about him coming over, might be just him collecting more information and getting answeres. Point blank
The reason he hasn't contracted you is, maybe he didn't like your answers or he pondered it and he still isn't sure or he has finally made up his mind and he doesnt see it going further.
Id ask hin tho, we like people to straight up ask us. And at least rhen you wint have the what ifs .
Btw him saying "were just friends having fun" ...take that at face value.
Posted by EvatheDiva52
"He is younger than me, (10+years) I never told him my actual age.. Bc i felt it might make things weird. ..so not much contact til December."
Don't get so fucking defensive, fellow "Piscean". As I quoted you from above (your words, not mine). THEN you added more sentences to indicate he saw you on TINDER and saw your age (He KNEW my age); okay, we are talking about PAST and PRESENT.
PAST: Since you didn't inform him of your "true age" at the beginning "bc I felt it might make things weird...so not much contact til December" THAT was your FIRST mistake (always be honest because, well, the truth will EVENTUALLY come out). Think about this. He tells his friends and family all about you, yeah, they ask your age and he says, "She's my age too".
PRESENT: Then BOOM! After the miscommunication y'all had months go by and he finds out from the "Horse's mouth" how old you are. When he saw you he thought to himself, "Shit! What do I tell my friends/family now? She's 10+years older than me (we Pisceans do NOT look our age; I am PROUD to say I am 53 years old; when I meet guys I tell them my AGE from the get go!); am I ready to date a woman that is 10+years older than me? Why didn't she tell me her true age? Why didn't I ASK her for her age and guessed she was 'my age', and should I tell her I just want to be friends so I don't hurt her feelings? I wanted to have sex (you "made out instead"); now that I know her true age I just want to be friends, etc, etc, etc, etc." Dudette, you don't know WHAT he was thinking to himself.
I dated a Taurean (John); came over for pizza; he'd look at me as I was watching tv (and on the corner of my eye I saw him doing this; as I thought it was "cute"); I just smiled as he was looking at me while I watched tv. You were more comfy to look at him while he was looking at you and he turned back without locking eyes at you. This NANO second tells me he is enamored at your beauty, but CANNOT proceed with this other than being 'your friend'; (THIS time you heard it from the horse's mouth) because you are 10+ years older than he is.
Picture: You mentioned you were both PLAYERS. I know Saggy men collect pictures to brag on FB/phone to their male pals about "this woman/look at this woman" etc. You make that decision as to putting this Taurean in this category, too, or tell yourself: 1) he wants to masturbate while looking at my pic 2) he wants to well, show his friends what a "friend" looks like 3) He likes to have my pic because he can place that in his "memory book" Being a quick Piscean (that I am); when he asked you for a pic of yourself I would have said, "Well, since you're on TINDER, grab your phone and take any pics of me that I already posted"
Your questions: a) Why the desperate need to see me? (see above)
b) Why was it so important? (see above)
c) Why the need to get answers from me? (because he's confused from the GET now that he knows your "true" age)
d) Why ask for my picture (I already answered that one)
e) What was the point of any of this? (he saw a FAMILIAR face on Tinder; and said, "Hey! I know this girl!)
f) If he didn't care, why did't he just keep swiping? (see e).
MORALE OF THE STORY: Be HONEST with men from the get go; in order for you to avoid posting here on DXP about a younger man.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
thanks hon.. Good answers.. Will take them all into consideration.... I do not look my age that is true. He did know i was much older we talked about it many times, but not my exact age yes... I guess the reality was a tad overwhelming for him. I still don't think its that big of a gap.. Especially the older we get.. He has other pics of me he can jerk off to, he doesn't need another .. Baahaha
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
I think @boots1313 is probably right that he wasn’t sure of his feelings so wanted to meet up to try and get things straight in his mind.
I think the picture request is fairly innocuous, we’re visual, like beauty, like to be reminded of people we care for.
How long has it been since you were in contact?
I think you’re right to just take things as they come. Are you still interested in a relationship with him?
its been more than a week...i assumed we'd continue talking bc he came on so strong AGAIN but now it feels he just did that to get what he wanted and now could care less.. Last thing he said to me was just some blase comment about something i was excited about that supposedly he was too, that i assumed he'd WANT to talk about... But nope. I thought perhaps that would be the last i heard from him... You just never know do you? Relationship :not sure at this point... I told him the hot and cold treatment was def not working for me and he didnt react to that .I'm not sure he's really capable?
Posted by LadyNeptune
What was the questionable shit he did that made you cut things off the first time?
he had an insane temper fit and exploded in anger. He has apologized and has never done anything like it again.. He brought it up when we saw eachother and said sorry and that wasnt HIM.
Honestly itd be cool to just be friends... He doesn't seem ready/capable for anything else and i have no desire to get fucked around. He *said* we were friends... I'd like him to act like it.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Honestly itd be cool to just be friends... He doesn't seem ready/capable for anything else and i have no desire to get fucked around. He *said* we were friends... I'd like him to act like it.
I think you're right when you say he isnt capable...
I hate to say it and its superficial and really shouldn't matter but the age thing prob really threw him off. 10 years for a man is a kind of a big deal. A few years sure nbd...10 years...that can definitely make a difference
Posted by Boots1313Posted by boxcarmirnta
Honestly itd be cool to just be friends... He doesn't seem ready/capable for anything else and i have no desire to get fucked around. He *said* we were friends... I'd like him to act like it.
I think you're right when you say he isnt capable...
I hate to say it and its superficial and really shouldn't matter but the age thing prob really threw him off. 10 years for a man is a kind of a big deal. A few years sure nbd...10 years...that can definitely make a differenceclick to expand
yea, you may be right.. I know he doesn't open up to many people and he always thanks me when he can talk about stuff that matters to him, which i think is really sweet. He's not super social. Typical taurus ya know? Our talks are always so in depth which i love, and will miss. So hopefully we can continue as friends.
It seems like your age is an issue for him. Maybe he wanted to come over to see if he could be comfortable with you now knowing this information. Doesn’t seem like he was.
Posted by PurplePassion38Posted by boxcarmirnta
Honestly itd be cool to just be friends... He doesn't seem ready/capable for anything else and i have no desire to get fucked around. He *said* we were friends... I'd like him to act like it.
Men tend to lie about their desire to remain friends after the relationship ends. It's annoying because Pisces are sincere about that shit. Its disappointing. But some people just can't remain friends after things end.click to expand
true... We are super sincere about that shit. I just thought we'd always been friends so it would continue.. But.. I dunno.. We'll see..
Posted by pinkbird03
It seems like your age is an issue for him. Maybe he wanted to come over to see if he could be comfortable with you now knowing this information. Doesn’t seem like he was.
yea.. That is probably correct. Sucks.. But if he can't see past that despite our connection and fun we have together, well.... There's nothing i can do about it :/
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by pinkbird03
It seems like your age is an issue for him. Maybe he wanted to come over to see if he could be comfortable with you now knowing this information. Doesn’t seem like he was.
yea.. That is probably correct. Sucks.. But if he can't see past that despite our connection and fun we have together, well.... There's nothing i can do about it :/click to expand
Yea, unfortunately. Everyone has their own dealbreakers. I won’t date a guy with a kid even tho he’d be an amazing boyfriend. You just gotta find someone who likes everything about you and you will 🙂
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by pinkbird03
It seems like your age is an issue for him. Maybe he wanted to come over to see if he could be comfortable with you now knowing this information. Doesn’t seem like he was.
yea.. That is probably correct. Sucks.. But if he can't see past that despite our connection and fun we have together, well.... There's nothing i can do about it :/
Yea, unfortunately. Everyone has their own dealbreakers. I won’t date a guy with a kid even tho he’d be an amazing boyfriend. You just gotta find someone who likes everything about you and you will 🙂click to expand
i feel this so hard... I don't wanna date someone with a kid either.. (eek going to hell) thanks though.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Forgot to add, if he was just after ‘what he wanted’ he surely would have pushed for sex too but you say he didn’t.
my never ending feeling is that he will always come back.. Ive never felt any different and he always has... So ill just wait and see... When i tell him i don't like what he does (hot/cold treatment) he doesnt say anything about it... So not sure what I'd even say.... What i meant by getting his needs met was getting the info he wanted from me and not following through and hanging out more.. Think he's still waiting for the right person.. Guess its not me. :/ thank you.
Posted by Berzerker
I dont know, i like to have all 100% of information about people close to me, details can make aaaall difference, also why dont tell him your age lmao, like if boys dont like older women
i dunno i guess i thought it would ruin things.. And well.. It did. I date younger dudes all the time.. Never had a complaint. :/
Posted by --JESUS--
Tell him you have good life insurance, sweeten the pot for him.
bahahhaaaaa!
Posted by Berzerker
@boxcarmirnta this hole drams looks like he just wants to see how honest you was to him, well you failed the test, because maybe he wanted something more from you, taurus wants to feel exclusive, special to the person, o would say that is a very "tribalist" sign, but maybe you can still fix things being clear as water with him, just make sure you want him f o r r e a l
i def feel that... For REAL. I have made it clear since then that i would not lie to him.. And i always be his friend.. Something like that.. I do want him.. I just don't wanna put my heart out there and have it get stomped on. He always said he's an old man. I never felt an age difference at all. Wish he would man up though..
Posted by --JESUS--Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by --JESUS--
Tell him you have good life insurance, sweeten the pot for him.
bahahhaaaaa!
Sorry, I have nothing else productive to add. I've heard earth signs are gold diggers thoughclick to expand
he's def more the type to get his own life insurance way before me..... He very much wants to make his own money.
Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by pinkbird03Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by pinkbird03
It seems like your age is an issue for him. Maybe he wanted to come over to see if he could be comfortable with you now knowing this information. Doesn’t seem like he was.
yea.. That is probably correct. Sucks.. But if he can't see past that despite our connection and fun we have together, well.... There's nothing i can do about it :/
Yea, unfortunately. Everyone has their own dealbreakers. I won’t date a guy with a kid even tho he’d be an amazing boyfriend. You just gotta find someone who likes everything about you and you will 🙂
i feel this so hard... I don't wanna date someone with a kid either.. (eek going to hell) thanks though.click to expand
Lol don’t feel bad. It’s not our job to take on a mother role, deal with ex drama, and all the other baggage. Especially if you don’t have kids yourself. If I had kids, I’d probably be more understanding. But i don’t and it’s a next ➡️
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by pinkbird03Posted by boxcarmirntaPosted by pinkbird03
It seems like your age is an issue for him. Maybe he wanted to come over to see if he could be comfortable with you now knowing this information. Doesn’t seem like he was.
yea.. That is probably correct. Sucks.. But if he can't see past that despite our connection and fun we have together, well.... There's nothing i can do about it :/
Yea, unfortunately. Everyone has their own dealbreakers. I won’t date a guy with a kid even tho he’d be an amazing boyfriend. You just gotta find someone who likes everything about you and you will 🙂
i feel this so hard... I don't wanna date someone with a kid either.. (eek going to hell) thanks though.
Lol don’t feel bad. It’s not our job to take on a mother role, deal with ex drama, and all the other baggage. Especially if you don’t have kids yourself. If I had kids, I’d probably be more understanding. But i don’t and it’s a next ➡️click to expand
agreed..glad i'm not the only one..🙂
Posted by HankJWimbleton
Be careful who you get your advice from, a lot of fanatic users here tend to speak poorly of Taurus. (And when I mean poorly, I mean unrealistically derivative)
i trust most of the taurus posters on here...theyre usually spot on.
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My questions are: why the desperate need to see me? Why was it so important? Why the need to get answers from me? He couldve just kept swiping after seeing me on tinder.. if it was such a big deal... He didn't need to include me in his discovery.
Why ask for my picture? What was the point of any of this?!?! Ive never had a man demand anything from me.. If he didn't care, why didn't he just keep swiping? I'm not hung up, ive just never experienced anything like this before and it is BAFFLING... Feel free to ask questions.. thanks! I appreciate all help.