
SummersBliss
@SummersBliss
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Posted by lnana04
Aww, you sound like me when it comes to my Virgo sister and her ex Taurus friend. You find yourself spending just as much time trying to figure out what's going on as the Virgo does lol. My sister always gives me the latest updates.
Seems lije he's attempting to get the ball in his court so she can chase and he can regain some control. IF he's adamant about moving on, his actions are not a reflection of what he really wants to do, trust that. He would've ended it before he fooled around again. If she makes him feel insecure in any way he'll pull these stunts so she's on the recieving end.
Posted by lnana04
Seems lije he's attempting to get the ball in his court so she can chase and he can regain some control. IF he's adamant about moving on, his actions are not a reflection of what he really wants to do, trust that. He would've ended it before he fooled around again. If she makes him feel insecure in any way he'll pull these stunts so she's on the recieving end.
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by lnana04
Seems lije he's attempting to get the ball in his court so she can chase and he can regain some control. IF he's adamant about moving on, his actions are not a reflection of what he really wants to do, trust that. He would've ended it before he fooled around again. If she makes him feel insecure in any way he'll pull these stunts so she's on the recieving end.
This resonates with me. Looking back on my more insecure years, I acted like this.click to expand

Posted by lnana04
Ugh, I hate when the games start. She must not be budging, so he's going to chase and harrass until she gives in then he's going to flip the switch again smh. Right now he is in a position he doesn't want to be in but only if he handled the situation in a mature manner at the start.

Posted by hexum
So you would eat dinner with your date, then screw her a couple times...and THEN your insecurity would pop up? I mean if he had something to say about it, shouldn't he have brought it up during dinner...or certainly PRIOR to sleeping with her TWICE? Sounds like a player - not an insecurity issue. Now he wants to be "friends" and "no hard feelings" and make her feel better by having sex again? He knows what he is doing.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I wait on the whole sex thing, but most younger people don't nowadays. It sounds to me like he likes her, hence the talk about long-term potential, and the severe jealousy. If he was just a player and didn't have feelings, I doubt he'd even care about Jarred and his smooches.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by hexum
So you would eat dinner with your date, then screw her a couple times...and THEN your insecurity would pop up? I mean if he had something to say about it, shouldn't he have brought it up during dinner...or certainly PRIOR to sleeping with her TWICE? Sounds like a player - not an insecurity issue. Now he wants to be "friends" and "no hard feelings" and make her feel better by having sex again? He knows what he is doing.
I wait on the whole sex thing, but most younger people don't nowadays. It sounds to me like he likes her, hence the talk about long-term potential, and the severe jealousy. If he was just a player and didn't have feelings, I doubt he'd even care about Jarred and his smooches.click to expand


Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
The suggestion of a break just sounds like he overplayed his hand to me. Probably was *extremely* jealous of the chemistry, and went too far in his attempt to control. Leo Moons have been known to be a bit overdramatic too. This much early on though - definitely some deep insecurity, and probably too much for a Virgo to handle in the long run.

hen you gained cool points.
Posted by leomoondoucheratPosted by SummersBliss
@Leomoon Terrible, hopefully you are a much sweeter Leo Moon Lol
@Inana04 yes I love Virgos, Taurus folks too. Will do 🙂
i was horrible to my virgo taurus moon gf lol!
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Posted by SummersBliss
She texted me an hour ago saying he showed up at the bowling alley


Posted by SummersBliss
Oh she basically told him to stop the madness. He was a controlling jealous jerk, whose insecurities push him away from all good things. She done nothing to him to contribute to his immature behavoir
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Posted by SummersBliss
Shes not the type to be easily budged. She is very stubborn herself (lol). Shes simply giving him what he says he wanted. He called about three times. One more message;
"Just come by. We can talk. I'll make something you like, or I can by go by there after I finish what I am doing."
Then he texted "I guess you must be busy with Jarred."
Jarred lives about 3 hours away with his wife he should drop that.

Posted by jeane
am i the only person who thinks this was blown way out of proportion?

Posted by lnana04
Do you all think she should still give him another chance?

Posted by lnana04
It sounds like she may have a lot of friends. What would ease him in the future?


Posted by leomoondoucheratPosted by puhleezePosted by SummersBliss
Shes not the type to be easily budged. She is very stubborn herself (lol). Shes simply giving him what he says he wanted. He called about three times. One more message;
"Just come by. We can talk. I'll make something you like, or I can by go by there after I finish what I am doing."
Then he texted "I guess you must be busy with Jarred."
Jarred lives about 3 hours away with his wife he should drop that.
what? jarred is married? how would his wife feel if she saw her husband hugging and kissing his female friend?
is jarred a scorpio? there's nothing worse than being air kissed by a smarmy scorpio dude. definitely grounds for break up.click to expand

Posted by leomoondoucheratPosted by puhleezePosted by SummersBliss
Shes not the type to be easily budged. She is very stubborn herself (lol). Shes simply giving him what he says he wanted. He called about three times. One more message;
"Just come by. We can talk. I'll make something you like, or I can by go by there after I finish what I am doing."
Then he texted "I guess you must be busy with Jarred."
Jarred lives about 3 hours away with his wife he should drop that.
what? jarred is married? how would his wife feel if she saw her husband hugging and kissing his female friend?
is jarred a scorpio? there's nothing worse than being air kissed by a smarmy scorpio dude. definitely grounds for break up.click to expand

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Her, and I went out one evening our waiter was a guy. He was quite charming, and sweet to both myself, and my sister. Before we left he asked for her number.
It been about two months since then. Generally every so often my sister texts or calls "checking in" she seemed really happy to have met ol' Taurus.
Until...Last night. My sister texted me last night both upset, and furious. I ended up calling her. [ It was to damn much to read] but this is perfect because now I can paste! I hope all of this fits.
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