TAURUS EX

Hi, i just need an opinion about this . My taurus ex contacted me after 9 months of ghosting , i asked him what the deal is , he just replied , " hi im sorry , i am currently going through a lot right now and i just wanna say im sorry for what i've done . I hope you can forgive me . " I said that what is done is done . That i forgive him and everything . 2 weeks after he is now inviting me to his band rehearsals and to grab a drink . I was wondering what is going on ? What is his motive ? Im a pisces BTW . Thanks

he keeps on updating me about his whereabouts as well

HEs genuinely sorry and wants to see you again. It aint rocket science.

just an update , we met yesterday and grabbed a few drinks. Before i left he kissed me goodbye on the lips . Isnt it too fast ? I mean after 9 months he would kiss me ?

Posted by gloomyrose

just an update , we met yesterday and grabbed a few drinks. Before i left he kissed me goodbye on the lips . Isnt it too fast ? I mean after 9 months he would kiss me ?

let him smashhhh

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just an update , we met yesterday and grabbed a few drinks. Before i left he kissed me goodbye on the lips . Isnt it too fast ? I mean after 9 months he would kiss me ?

let him smashhhh

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LMFAO. Tbh Taurus men are can swing either way, sounds like this is genuine. But also Taurus's have a hard time letting go and stay or come back to things that should really be left alone for both parties sake. Please list down the rest of his aspects because I am quite curious

Did you ask him what he’s going through where he couldn’t pick up the phone for 9months!

Sorry fellow Pisces. This shit is unacceptable. People don’t ghost on you for close to a year if they care or respect you, let alone someone in a relationship with you. Honestly I think your a fall back for him. His found new pussy to fuck and ditched you without even a word. Shitty af. Now that that relationship fell through he calls up old faithful gives a bs excuse and gets it in.

Don’t be old faithful.

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Did you ask him what he’s going through where he couldn’t pick up the phone for 9months!

Sorry fellow Pisces. This shit is unacceptable. People don’t ghost on you for close to a year if they care or respect you, let alone someone in a relationship with you. Honestly I think your a fall back for him. His found new pussy to fuck and ditched you without even a word. Shitty af. Now that that relationship fell through he calls up old faithful gives a bs excuse and gets it in.

Don’t be old faithful.

If U listen to this n u aint gettin dick fo lifee.

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Did you ask him what he’s going through where he couldn’t pick up the phone for 9months!

Sorry fellow Pisces. This shit is unacceptable. People don’t ghost on you for close to a year if they care or respect you, let alone someone in a relationship with you. Honestly I think your a fall back for him. His found new pussy to fuck and ditched you without even a word. Shitty af. Now that that relationship fell through he calls up old faithful gives a bs excuse and gets it in.

Don’t be old faithful.

THAT WHOLE ENTIRE PART!!!! thats most likely what happened lolz

At least make him work for it....

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Did you ask him what he’s going through where he couldn’t pick up the phone for 9months!

Sorry fellow Pisces. This shit is unacceptable. People don’t ghost on you for close to a year if they care or respect you, let alone someone in a relationship with you. Honestly I think your a fall back for him. His found new pussy to fuck and ditched you without even a word. Shitty af. Now that that relationship fell through he calls up old faithful gives a bs excuse and gets it in.

Don’t be old faithful.

If U listen to this n u aint gettin dick fo lifee.

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Then explain how I got it twice last night and once this morning. AND he ate the pussy. AND he made me breakfast. 💅

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Did you ask him what he’s going through where he couldn’t pick up the phone for 9months!

Sorry fellow Pisces. This shit is unacceptable. People don’t ghost on you for close to a year if they care or respect you, let alone someone in a relationship with you. Honestly I think your a fall back for him. His found new pussy to fuck and ditched you without even a word. Shitty af. Now that that relationship fell through he calls up old faithful gives a bs excuse and gets it in.

Don’t be old faithful.

THAT WHOLE ENTIRE PART!!!! thats most likely what happened lolz

At least make him work for it....

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Fuck no. I’d lose this number for life.

Maybe if I was feeling particularly petty I’d agree to meet up and then ghost him. And when he asks why id be all SO SORRY I WAS DEALING WITH STUFFS.

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Did you ask him what he’s going through where he couldn’t pick up the phone for 9months!

Sorry fellow Pisces. This shit is unacceptable. People don’t ghost on you for close to a year if they care or respect you, let alone someone in a relationship with you. Honestly I think your a fall back for him. His found new pussy to fuck and ditched you without even a word. Shitty af. Now that that relationship fell through he calls up old faithful gives a bs excuse and gets it in.

Don’t be old faithful.

If U listen to this n u aint gettin dick fo lifee.

Then explain how I got it twice last night and once this morning. AND he ate the pussy. AND he made me breakfast. 💅

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Cuz he didnt follow ur advice?

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Did you ask him what he’s going through where he couldn’t pick up the phone for 9months!

Sorry fellow Pisces. This shit is unacceptable. People don’t ghost on you for close to a year if they care or respect you, let alone someone in a relationship with you. Honestly I think your a fall back for him. His found new pussy to fuck and ditched you without even a word. Shitty af. Now that that relationship fell through he calls up old faithful gives a bs excuse and gets it in.

Don’t be old faithful.

If U listen to this n u aint gettin dick fo lifee.

Then explain how I got it twice last night and once this morning. AND he ate the pussy. AND he made me breakfast. 💅

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😂😂😂.

Posted by gloomyrose

Hi, i just need an opinion about this . My taurus ex contacted me after 9 months of ghosting , i asked him what the deal is , he just replied , " hi im sorry , i am currently going through a lot right now and i just wanna say im sorry for what i've done . I hope you can forgive me . " I said that what is done is done . That i forgive him and everything . 2 weeks after he is now inviting me to his band rehearsals and to grab a drink . I was wondering what is going on ? What is his motive ? Im a pisces BTW . Thanks

You actually met up up with someone who ghosted you? Lawddd

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Did you ask him what he’s going through where he couldn’t pick up the phone for 9months!

Sorry fellow Pisces. This shit is unacceptable. People don’t ghost on you for close to a year if they care or respect you, let alone someone in a relationship with you. Honestly I think your a fall back for him. His found new pussy to fuck and ditched you without even a word. Shitty af. Now that that relationship fell through he calls up old faithful gives a bs excuse and gets it in.

Don’t be old faithful.

You always make it make sense. End thread.

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Did you ask him what he’s going through where he couldn’t pick up the phone for 9months!

Sorry fellow Pisces. This shit is unacceptable. People don’t ghost on you for close to a year if they care or respect you, let alone someone in a relationship with you. Honestly I think your a fall back for him. His found new pussy to fuck and ditched you without even a word. Shitty af. Now that that relationship fell through he calls up old faithful gives a bs excuse and gets it in.

Don’t be old faithful.

You always make it make sense. End thread.

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Don’t be a doormat is kinda universal advice tbf 😅

And what happened before the ghosting?

If I ghost somebody, it can be either hurt emotions and I cant communicate at all, or I am not interested at all... so I give a benefit of the doubt to people who ghosts, its 50/50

I can ghost for 6 - 8 months easily until my heart unfrozes from a real or percieved hurt 🙂

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And what happened before the ghosting?

If I ghost somebody, it can be either hurt emotions and I cant communicate at all, or I am not interested at all... so I give a benefit of the doubt to people who ghosts, its 50/50

I can ghost for 6 - 8 months easily until my heart unfrozes from a real or percieved hurt 🙂

usual . we dated then poof he dropped from the face of the earth .

i have another taurus man with the same shit . disappeared from the face of the earth and he saw me after 3 months , then he's back to being clingy asf. my god . Taurus man gives me headaches .

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And what happened before the ghosting?

If I ghost somebody, it can be either hurt emotions and I cant communicate at all, or I am not interested at all... so I give a benefit of the doubt to people who ghosts, its 50/50

I can ghost for 6 - 8 months easily until my heart unfrozes from a real or percieved hurt 🙂

usual . we dated then poof he dropped from the face of the earth .

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"usual . we dated then poof he dropped from the face of the earth"

for how long have you dated? how was the last interaction? have you had sex? were you exclusive (or how it is called)?

So do not take them both seriously ? Treat this all as a fling ?

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And what happened before the ghosting?

If I ghost somebody, it can be either hurt emotions and I cant communicate at all, or I am not interested at all... so I give a benefit of the doubt to people who ghosts, its 50/50

I can ghost for 6 - 8 months easily until my heart unfrozes from a real or percieved hurt 🙂

usual . we dated then poof he dropped from the face of the earth .

"usual . we dated then poof he dropped from the face of the earth"

for how long have you dated? how was the last interaction? have you had sex? were you exclusive (or how it is called)?

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dated for 3 mos , we had sex yes . dating (or so i think)

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Did you ask him what he’s going through where he couldn’t pick up the phone for 9months!

Sorry fellow Pisces. This shit is unacceptable. People don’t ghost on you for close to a year if they care or respect you, let alone someone in a relationship with you. Honestly I think your a fall back for him. His found new pussy to fuck and ditched you without even a word. Shitty af. Now that that relationship fell through he calls up old faithful gives a bs excuse and gets it in.

Don’t be old faithful.

You always make it make sense. End thread.

Don’t be a doormat is kinda universal advice tbf 😅

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Yea but you just have a way of putting things. No sugar coating. People in DXP generally tip toe around the obvious.

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So do not take them both seriously ? Treat this all as a fling ?

Yes

Leave them be. Move on. Don’t be someone’s stand by girl. Get some self esteem.

sooooooooooooo should i run ? HAHAHAHAHA he replies to me . like after an hour or after 30 minutes , like "hey its my break . " Hey im so busy right now. i cant even eat or stand or smoke . " he would reply one lines when i ask him something . he even told me that by september he wouldnt be available since he would go to the province and visit his relatives . he even told me that he has plans on going somewhere to pursue his freediving hobby . Yeah. I should run . got me all fucked up. 😄

Trust your gut. You can either trust what he is saying is true, or not. Tauruses usually shoot it straight but there are liars in every sun sign. Taureans are known to go with what is familiar so you need to have a serious talk at some point about his disappearance. Don't nag or yell but simply tell him how it made you feel. Tell him you will not be some doormat, standby chick and that if he decides he wants you, it's not an option to ghost like that. Communication is key for any lasting relationship so I'd start there. He does sound genuine but watch his actions--that should tell you everything. Is he being dodgey or super open? Is he aloof or communicative? Does he seem to be hiding anything? Just keep your intuition at the forefront until you truly know you can trust his intentions. I wish you the best tho! It sounds like a good turn for you guys! I assume y'all are in your twenties?

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Trust your gut. You can either trust what he is saying is true, or not. Tauruses usually shoot it straight but there are liars in every sun sign. Taureans are known to go with what is familiar so you need to have a serious talk at some point about his disappearance. Don't nag or yell but simply tell him how it made you feel. Tell him you will not be some doormat, standby chick and that if he decides he wants you, it's not an option to ghost like that. Communication is key for any lasting relationship so I'd start there. He does sound genuine but watch his actions--that should tell you everything. Is he being dodgey or super open? Is he aloof or communicative? Does he seem to be hiding anything? Just keep your intuition at the forefront until you truly know you can trust his intentions. I wish you the best tho! It sounds like a good turn for you guys! I assume y'all are in your twenties?

i have dealt with another taurus and he was courting me like crazy . dude is clingy asf . the taurus man in question , we met last sunday . we had a few drinks . he paid the bill . he was holding my purse and everything . he was touching me on my arm (biting me even. i dont know if its because he is quite tipsy or what . ) I even joked him stating that " dont you dare disappear on me again . 😄 " and i got no reply . he would rest his hand on my legs , he would hold my hands , he was the one who even initiated the kiss during that night . He is like so mysterious and all that shit . I was just puzzled that he was so Warm and Friendly and all in person but when im chatting him he was like so detached . I even know his future plans . like what i mentioned above , he mentioned that he will visit his relatives by september . im puzzled by all this . BTW , im 25 and he is 30 .

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Lol never this. You should want to be with someone willing to do the work to ensure HAPPY longevity but if that doesnt happen and they gotta replace you every so often like the latest iPhone then just lol... what is you doing baby

running rn 😄

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he would rest his hand on my legs , he would hold my hands , he was the one who even initiated the kiss during that night . He is like so mysterious and all that shit . I was just puzzled that he was so Warm and Friendly and all in person but when im chatting him he was like so detached .

very common for bulls....its a sign characterized by physicality/sensuality in some regards; your presence is everything....we communicate a lot through touch....lots of posts on here about the different experience in person, bulls that hate or suck at texting, don't do LDR, etc....if you want to get to know a taurus, best thing to do is plant your self on their couch IMO....work towards regularly being around them physically....

Now im confused and a lot paranoid . SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT 😢

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Trust your gut. You can either trust what he is saying is true, or not. Tauruses usually shoot it straight but there are liars in every sun sign. Taureans are known to go with what is familiar so you need to have a serious talk at some point about his disappearance. Don't nag or yell but simply tell him how it made you feel. Tell him you will not be some doormat, standby chick and that if he decides he wants you, it's not an option to ghost like that. Communication is key for any lasting relationship so I'd start there. He does sound genuine but watch his actions--that should tell you everything. Is he being dodgey or super open? Is he aloof or communicative? Does he seem to be hiding anything? Just keep your intuition at the forefront until you truly know you can trust his intentions. I wish you the best tho! It sounds like a good turn for you guys! I assume y'all are in your twenties?

i have dealt with another taurus and he was courting me like crazy . dude is clingy asf . the taurus man in question , we met last sunday . we had a few drinks . he paid the bill . he was holding my purse and everything . he was touching me on my arm (biting me even. i dont know if its because he is quite tipsy or what . ) I even joked him stating that " dont you dare disappear on me again . 😄 " and i got no reply . he would rest his hand on my legs , he would hold my hands , he was the one who even initiated the kiss during that night . He is like so mysterious and all that shit . I was just puzzled that he was so Warm and Friendly and all in person but when im chatting him he was like so detached . I even know his future plans . like what i mentioned above , he mentioned that he will visit his relatives by september . im puzzled by all this . BTW , im 25 and he is 30 .

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The inconsistency is a red flag and him not saying anything when you said that about ghosting. It makes me think he's still keeping his options open. The other Taurus' actions very much match what it says it seems. If anything, I'd go on another date with that Taurus and say forget the ghosty one. If I'm really into someone, they know lol. It doesnt turn off haha.

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he would rest his hand on my legs , he would hold my hands , he was the one who even initiated the kiss during that night . He is like so mysterious and all that shit . I was just puzzled that he was so Warm and Friendly and all in person but when im chatting him he was like so detached .

very common for bulls....its a sign characterized by physicality/sensuality in some regards; your presence is everything....we communicate a lot through touch....lots of posts on here about the different experience in person, bulls that hate or suck at texting, don't do LDR, etc....if you want to get to know a taurus, best thing to do is plant your self on their couch IMO....work towards regularly being around them physically....

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Very good advice.

JUST LET HIM SMASHHH

update : i have been civil with him and now he is acting so distant, one word replies , he is not even checking my messages on messenger . but he has been posting everyday on IG . Now im backing away .

so the dick has a gf now . what a surprise .

Posted by gloomyrose

so the dick has a gf now . what a surprise .

This sucks.

Forget about him and move on

He's a just a maker

9 months in this day and age! How does someone even disappear like that? lol

Posted by Sag898

9 months in this day and age! How does someone even disappear like that? lol

I've had it happen to me, but we weren't anything serious...

If we were boyfriend or girlfriend I don't know how someone could just poof

Posted by gloomyrose

just an update , we met yesterday and grabbed a few drinks. Before i left he kissed me goodbye on the lips . Isnt it too fast ? I mean after 9 months he would kiss me ?

Find another guy.

Posted by Toti

A desperate woman will believe anything.

He ghosted you. In 9 months he couldn't spare ten seconds to text you.

Don't be a Pisces. Be smart.

sorry not desperate . Not even for him . I guess my inner pisces is just taking over . 😢