boxcarmirnta
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the only reason I would do this behavior is cause you're my side bae.
Posted by AntiSocial
the only reason I would do this behavior is cause you're my side bae. F
We just started hanging out..and he just moved here soooo i have a hard time believing he has someone else.....unless it's someone from 2000 miles away..
Posted by Nevamore
How long do you him?
Not long at all...just a couple weeks or something..i don't really expect much at this point..
Posted by AntiSocial
the only reason I would do this behavior is cause you're my side bae. R
Also i don't believe in 'side' anythings..non monogamy is fine....i even made it clear to him that if he had something else that i hope it worked out...(like i said) cuz we barely know eachother and dating others is fine with me. And he said no....
Posted by boxcarmirntaMaybe your attraction is high towards him and his attraction is low towards you.Posted by AntiSocial
the only reason I would do this behavior is cause you're my side bae. R
Also i don't believe in 'side' anythings..non monogamy is fine....i even made it clear to him that if he had something else that i hope it worked out...(like i said) cuz we barely know eachother and dating others is fine with me. And he said no....click to expand
Posted by NevamorePosted by boxcarmirntaThen why jumps into the huge assumption and all so high expectation of him if you only knowing him for couple of weeks?Posted by Nevamore
How long do you him?
Not long at all...just a couple weeks or something..i don't really expect much at this point..click to expand
i don't recall having high expectations... My question why would someone be super consistent and then NOT be. That is the mystery...
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
Posted by AntiSocialPosted by boxcarmirntaMaybe your attraction is high towards him and his attraction is low towards you.Posted by AntiSocial
the only reason I would do this behavior is cause you're my side bae. R
Also i don't believe in 'side' anythings..non monogamy is fine....i even made it clear to him that if he had something else that i hope it worked out...(like i said) cuz we barely know eachother and dating others is fine with me. And he said no....click to expand
that could be but it doesnt answer my question........the sudden change......?
Posted by boxcarmirntaattraction level changes at any time, you could be unattracted to him all of the sudden too.Posted by AntiSocialPosted by boxcarmirntaMaybe your attraction is high towards him and his attraction is low towards you.Posted by AntiSocial
the only reason I would do this behavior is cause you're my side bae. R
Also i don't believe in 'side' anythings..non monogamy is fine....i even made it clear to him that if he had something else that i hope it worked out...(like i said) cuz we barely know eachother and dating others is fine with me. And he said no....
that could be but it doesnt answer my question........the sudden change......?click to expand
Posted by NevamorePosted by boxcarmirntaThen something happened to that date that you think it went great but for him is different.Posted by NevamorePosted by boxcarmirntaThen why jumps into the huge assumption and all so high expectation of him if you only knowing him for couple of weeks?Posted by Nevamore
How long do you him?
Not long at all...just a couple weeks or something..i don't really expect much at this point..
i don't recall having high expectations... My question why would someone be super consistent and then NOT be. That is the mystery...click to expand
hm wish i knew what it was...? I guess if we ever hang out again i can ask him..
Posted by AntiSocialPosted by boxcarmirntaattraction level changes at any time, you could be unattracted to him all of the sudden too.Posted by AntiSocialPosted by boxcarmirntaMaybe your attraction is high towards him and his attraction is low towards you.Posted by AntiSocial
the only reason I would do this behavior is cause you're my side bae. R
Also i don't believe in 'side' anythings..non monogamy is fine....i even made it clear to him that if he had something else that i hope it worked out...(like i said) cuz we barely know eachother and dating others is fine with me. And he said no....
that could be but it doesnt answer my question........the sudden change......?click to expand
yea i guess thats fair.....
Dating seems rather pointless then..haha
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?click to expand
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
Posted by boxcarmirntaI date a few girls in a month just to see which combination works, I would think it's helpful to know what I don't like and not like and what I can tolerate or not, so dating is dope for me.Posted by AntiSocialPosted by boxcarmirntaattraction level changes at any time, you could be unattracted to him all of the sudden too.Posted by AntiSocialPosted by boxcarmirntaMaybe your attraction is high towards him and his attraction is low towards you.Posted by AntiSocial
the only reason I would do this behavior is cause you're my side bae. R
Also i don't believe in 'side' anythings..non monogamy is fine....i even made it clear to him that if he had something else that i hope it worked out...(like i said) cuz we barely know eachother and dating others is fine with me. And he said no....
that could be but it doesnt answer my question........the sudden change......?
yea i guess thats fair.....
Dating seems rather pointless then..hahaclick to expand
Posted by boxcarmirntayou deserve better
Think this is my first post on the taurus board. Yay! Ive read you guys are loyal and consistent..which is amazing . Met this guy irl, which never happens. Got along great, made plans (around food) we both moved back to a town around the same time and are excited to check stuff out. We had two great dates and planned more. Hes just been super awesome, txting, making me feel special and needed, just really nice and genuine....but then, he flaked on our plans. Stood me up. Said he fell asleep, i didnt believe him cuz well ive dated a lot of liars and garbage as some of you know..( also assumed hes seeing other people too cuz, new in town, why not?)
I made a joke, wasnt mad or anything ...kept trying to talk to him.. But he started ignoring me. Finally i said :well dunno why you arent talking to me anymore but hope it works out for you! (trying to be nice) he responds the next day with : yea no nothing..sometimes i just don't respond....
Ok wtf?? Is this normal?? Does it sound like BS? Cuz it kinda does to me.....be nice, please. Also its his bday soon, we had plans now not so sure.....he'll prolly flake again....đ˘
Posted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.click to expand
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsi think she did via textPosted by AdreamuponwakingI get where youâre coming from but I usually give people one chance. They can be having an off day, family problems or whatever.Posted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
move on now
this guy has already struck out imhoclick to expand
the "sometimes i don't respond" line signals a no go for me.
people don't respond when they are playing games
or not that into you
if there is stuff going on he would have said...not to just excuse himself but to let her know that he is still interested
it's a respect thing.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
move on now
this guy has already struck out imhoclick to expand
already eh? No second chances? đ
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsi think she did via textPosted by AdreamuponwakingI get where youâre coming from but I usually give people one chance. They can be having an off day, family problems or whatever.Posted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
the "sometimes i don't respond" line signals a no go for me.
people don't respond when they are playing games
or not that into you
if there is stuff going on he would have said...not to just excuse himself but to let her know that he is still interested
it's a respect thing.click to expand
agreed, you're right.. He couldve very easily responded. Inconsistent, intermittent care is not cool with me.
Posted by AntiSocialPosted by boxcarmirntaI date a few girls in a month just to see which combination works, I would think it's helpful to know what I don't like and not like and what I can tolerate or not, so dating is dope for me.Posted by AntiSocialPosted by boxcarmirntaattraction level changes at any time, you could be unattracted to him all of the sudden too.Posted by AntiSocialPosted by boxcarmirntaMaybe your attraction is high towards him and his attraction is low towards you.Posted by AntiSocial
the only reason I would do this behavior is cause you're my side bae. R
Also i don't believe in 'side' anythings..non monogamy is fine....i even made it clear to him that if he had something else that i hope it worked out...(like i said) cuz we barely know eachother and dating others is fine with me. And he said no....
that could be but it doesnt answer my question........the sudden change......?
yea i guess thats fair.....
Dating seems rather pointless then..hahaclick to expand
yea i guess. I mean i date several men at a time usually. But i am consistent with all of them, i respect them all and would never ghost them unless they are insane. It takes time to actual get to know someone ......cant rule them out in a couple weeks.
Posted by boxcarmirntause your intuitionPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
already eh? No second chances? đclick to expand
the fact that your already posting on here about this dude this early in the game is a red flag.
he showed disinterest already pretty clearly
Posted by boxcarmirntafine line between being mysterious / hard to get and being a tool lolPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsi think she did via textPosted by AdreamuponwakingI get where youâre coming from but I usually give people one chance. They can be having an off day, family problems or whatever.Posted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
the "sometimes i don't respond" line signals a no go for me.
people don't respond when they are playing games
or not that into you
if there is stuff going on he would have said...not to just excuse himself but to let her know that he is still interested
it's a respect thing.
agreed, you're right.. He couldve very easily responded. Inconsistent, intermittent care is not cool with me.click to expand
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnstext message response is not the same thing as a phone convoPosted by AdreamuponwakingI do get that. Iâm just answering from a Taurus perspective where you can sometimes be ânot in the moodâ to talk with someone. Doesnât mean you donât like them or respect them.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsi think she did via textPosted by AdreamuponwakingI get where youâre coming from but I usually give people one chance. They can be having an off day, family problems or whatever.Posted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
the "sometimes i don't respond" line signals a no go for me.
people don't respond when they are playing games
or not that into you
if there is stuff going on he would have said...not to just excuse himself but to let her know that he is still interested
it's a respect thing.click to expand
plus the taureans i know are straight forward they would say don't feel like talking right now
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntause your intuitionPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
already eh? No second chances? đ
the fact that your already posting on here about this dude this early in the game is a red flag.
he showed disinterest already pretty clearlyclick to expand
yea i will..honestly, i was bored and havent been on here in a while ..i kinda missed dxp....why i dunno....thats the main reason i posted. I was curious about tauruses in general just cuz i don't have much experience.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingYah, he honestly respectfully said "sometimes he doesn't respond." People help you if they got some sort of interest, unless she said to him that she's dumb and don't understand comprehend that he just said sometimes he don't respond then she agrees to tolerate that behavior, or better yet she should just tell him I don't like it when you don't respond duhh.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsi think she did via textPosted by AdreamuponwakingI get where youâre coming from but I usually give people one chance. They can be having an off day, family problems or whatever.Posted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
the "sometimes i don't respond" line signals a no go for me.
people don't respond when they are playing games
or not that into you
if there is stuff going on he would have said...not to just excuse himself but to let her know that he is still interested
it's a respect thing.click to expand
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by AdreamuponwakingI do get that. Iâm just answering from a Taurus perspective where you can sometimes be ânot in the moodâ to talk with someone. Doesnât mean you donât like them or respect them.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsi think she did via textPosted by AdreamuponwakingI get where youâre coming from but I usually give people one chance. They can be having an off day, family problems or whatever.Posted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
the "sometimes i don't respond" line signals a no go for me.
people don't respond when they are playing games
or not that into you
if there is stuff going on he would have said...not to just excuse himself but to let her know that he is still interested
it's a respect thing.click to expand
i don't have much experience with you guys..are you moody? Do you need time alone and stuff? I know pisces do..
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaYeah, not âmoodyâ as such but yes need alone time and time to process thoughts and feelings. Thatâs why I always tell people on here not to worry about a couple of days of not hearing from a Taurus man.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by AdreamuponwakingI do get that. Iâm just answering from a Taurus perspective where you can sometimes be ânot in the moodâ to talk with someone. Doesnât mean you donât like them or respect them.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsi think she did via textPosted by AdreamuponwakingI get where youâre coming from but I usually give people one chance. They can be having an off day, family problems or whatever.Posted by boxcarmirntadisagreePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaGive it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
the "sometimes i don't respond" line signals a no go for me.
people don't respond when they are playing games
or not that into you
if there is stuff going on he would have said...not to just excuse himself but to let her know that he is still interested
it's a respect thing.
i don't have much experience with you guys..are you moody? Do you need time alone and stuff? I know pisces do..click to expand
good to know, thanks!
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Think this is my first post on the taurus board. Yay! Ive read you guys are loyal and consistent..which is amazing . Met this guy irl, which never happens. Got along great, made plans (around food) we both moved back to a town around the same time and are excited to check stuff out. We had two great dates and planned more. Hes just been super awesome, txting, making me feel special and needed, just really nice and genuine....but then, he flaked on our plans. Stood me up. Said he fell asleep, i didnt believe him cuz well ive dated a lot of liars and garbage as some of you know..( also assumed hes seeing other people too cuz, new in town, why not?)
I made a joke, wasnt mad or anything ...kept trying to talk to him.. But he started ignoring me. Finally i said :well dunno why you arent talking to me anymore but hope it works out for you! (trying to be nice) he responds the next day with : yea no nothing..sometimes i just don't respond....
Ok wtf?? Is this normal?? Does it sound like BS? Cuz it kinda does to me.....be nice, please. Also its his bday soon, we had plans now not so sure.....he'll prolly flake again....
for a minute I thought this was a post of mine from when I started dating my Taurus.
yes, they can be really flakey. they are lazy people, like to be home, comfortable, sitting position and if they don't want to do something, then they wont do it. also they sleep a lot. love there sleep.
they also aren't really good with phones. they have one track minds. they focus on what's in front of them until they are done. my boyfriend would text me and then go ghost for the rest of the day while he was working, or home and just leave me hanging in text thred he started lol I have learned to not really wait around for his texts, if its really important I have learned to just call him which he usually will answer to.
I don't know. does he know you like him? he might be wanting some type of reassurance from you that your into him. my Taurus did this with me, has no idea how much reassurance these Taurus need. they are so him there head but stone faced and hard to read.
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Think this is my first post on the taurus board. Yay! Ive read you guys are loyal and consistent..which is amazing . Met this guy irl, which never happens. Got along great, made plans (around food) we both moved back to a town around the same time and are excited to check stuff out. We had two great dates and planned more. Hes just been super awesome, txting, making me feel special and needed, just really nice and genuine....but then, he flaked on our plans. Stood me up. Said he fell asleep, i didnt believe him cuz well ive dated a lot of liars and garbage as some of you know..( also assumed hes seeing other people too cuz, new in town, why not?)
I made a joke, wasnt mad or anything ...kept trying to talk to him.. But he started ignoring me. Finally i said :well dunno why you arent talking to me anymore but hope it works out for you! (trying to be nice) he responds the next day with : yea no nothing..sometimes i just don't respond....
Ok wtf?? Is this normal?? Does it sound like BS? Cuz it kinda does to me.....be nice, please. Also its his bday soon, we had plans now not so sure.....he'll prolly flake again....
for a minute I thought this was a post of mine from when I started dating my Taurus.
yes, they can be really flakey. they are lazy people, like to be home, comfortable, sitting position and if they don't want to do something, then they wont do it. also they sleep a lot. love there sleep.
they also aren't really good with phones. they have one track minds. they focus on what's in front of them until they are done. my boyfriend would text me and then go ghost for the rest of the day while he was working, or home and just leave me hanging in text thread he started lol I have learned to not really wait around for his texts, if its really important I have learned to just call him which he usually will answer to.
I don't know. does he know you like him? he might be wanting some type of reassurance from you that your into him. my Taurus did this with me, has no idea how much reassurance these Taurus need. they are so him there head but stone faced and hard to read.
Posted by boxcarmirntaIf a taurus is into you, they won't flake. Something happened on his end, whether it be you were doing too much or something came up that he had to attend to or he's seeing others, regardless, it doesn't sound good.
Think this is my first post on the taurus board. Yay! Ive read you guys are loyal and consistent..which is amazing . Met this guy irl, which never happens. Got along great, made plans (around food) we both moved back to a town around the same time and are excited to check stuff out. We had two great dates and planned more. Hes just been super awesome, txting, making me feel special and needed, just really nice and genuine....but then, he flaked on our plans. Stood me up. Said he fell asleep, i didnt believe him cuz well ive dated a lot of liars and garbage as some of you know..( also assumed hes seeing other people too cuz, new in town, why not?)
I made a joke, wasnt mad or anything ...kept trying to talk to him.. But he started ignoring me. Finally i said :well dunno why you arent talking to me anymore but hope it works out for you! (trying to be nice) he responds the next day with : yea no nothing..sometimes i just don't respond....
Ok wtf?? Is this normal?? Does it sound like BS? Cuz it kinda does to me.....be nice, please. Also its his bday soon, we had plans now not so sure.....he'll prolly flake again....
Let's be real here, what dude would oversleep if he really liked a girl? I just don't see how that's a good thing at all. I sure as hell wouldn't over sleep if I knew I had plans with someone I really liked y'know?
I say you should stop chasing, do your own thing and move on. If he is interested, he'll reach out, but even so, proceed with caution.
my gut feeling is something happened that turned him off...possibly on one of your dates but perhaps even something beyond your control.
i was on the receiving end of some flakiness at the start but he also came back apologetic. the hot cold state didn't last long and then he was consistent going forward.
i was on the receiving end of some flakiness at the start but he also came back apologetic. the hot cold state didn't last long and then he was consistent going forward.
Posted by sagittariusxoPosted by boxcarmirnta
Think this is my first post on the taurus board. Yay! Ive read you guys are loyal and consistent..which is amazing . Met this guy irl, which never happens. Got along great, made plans (around food) we both moved back to a town around the same time and are excited to check stuff out. We had two great dates and planned more. Hes just been super awesome, txting, making me feel special and needed, just really nice and genuine....but then, he flaked on our plans. Stood me up. Said he fell asleep, i didnt believe him cuz well ive dated a lot of liars and garbage as some of you know..( also assumed hes seeing other people too cuz, new in town, why not?)
I made a joke, wasnt mad or anything ...kept trying to talk to him.. But he started ignoring me. Finally i said :well dunno why you arent talking to me anymore but hope it works out for you! (trying to be nice) he responds the next day with : yea no nothing..sometimes i just don't respond....
Ok wtf?? Is this normal?? Does it sound like BS? Cuz it kinda does to me.....be nice, please. Also its his bday soon, we had plans now not so sure.....he'll prolly flake again....
for a minute I thought this was a post of mine from when I started dating my Taurus.
yes, they can be really flakey. they are lazy people, like to be home, comfortable, sitting position and if they don't want to do something, then they wont do it. also they sleep a lot. love there sleep.
they also aren't really good with phones. they have one track minds. they focus on what's in front of them until they are done. my boyfriend would text me and then go ghost for the rest of the day while he was working, or home and just leave me hanging in text thred he started lol I have learned to not really wait around for his texts, if its really important I have learned to just call him which he usually will answer to.
I don't know. does he know you like him? he might be wanting some type of reassurance from you that your into him. my Taurus did this with me, has no idea how much reassurance these Taurus need. they are so him there head but stone faced and hard to read. click to expandclick to expand
great answer dude thanks! Well i am consistent so...i think he knows?! Ill just keep doing that .
Posted by RedbullPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
Give it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
disagree
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
I get where youâre coming from but I usually give people one chance. They can be having an off day, family problems or whatever.
i think she did via text
the "sometimes i don't respond" line signals a no go for me.
people don't respond when they are playing games
or not that into you
if there is stuff going on he would have said...not to just excuse himself but to let her know that he is still interested
it's a respect thing.
I do get that. Iâm just answering from a Taurus perspective where you can sometimes be ânot in the moodâ to talk with someone. Doesnât mean you donât like them or respect them.
i don't have much experience with you guys..are you moody? Do you need time alone and stuff? I know pisces do.. click to expand
Yeah. Moody. All Earth signs are I think. If you know Earth signs well we have our "to ourselves" moods then we have our social moods. We can be more loners than other signs though especially as adults. There is work and trying to do things and so on we need our peace and quiet...also I think what a lot of people dont get is its kind of how we pace ourselves. Too much of something...we arent the types to go the "burnout" route. A lot of it can actually be to conserve and actually for the longevity of it. So i think those are parts of the "easing off" Tauruses do. Tortoises of the zodiac. Going full speed all the time is how the rabbit loses. click to expandclick to expand
awesome good to know!
Posted by earlorg16Posted by boxcarmirnta
Think this is my first post on the taurus board. Yay! Ive read you guys are loyal and consistent..which is amazing . Met this guy irl, which never happens. Got along great, made plans (around food) we both moved back to a town around the same time and are excited to check stuff out. We had two great dates and planned more. Hes just been super awesome, txting, making me feel special and needed, just really nice and genuine....but then, he flaked on our plans. Stood me up. Said he fell asleep, i didnt believe him cuz well ive dated a lot of liars and garbage as some of you know..( also assumed hes seeing other people too cuz, new in town, why not?)
I made a joke, wasnt mad or anything ...kept trying to talk to him.. But he started ignoring me. Finally i said :well dunno why you arent talking to me anymore but hope it works out for you! (trying to be nice) he responds the next day with : yea no nothing..sometimes i just don't respond....
Ok wtf?? Is this normal?? Does it sound like BS? Cuz it kinda does to me.....be nice, please. Also its his bday soon, we had plans now not so sure.....he'll prolly flake again....
If a taurus is into you, they won't flake. Something happened on his end, whether it be you were doing too much or something came up that he had to attend to or he's seeing others, regardless, it doesn't sound good.
Let's be real here, what dude would oversleep if he really liked a girl? I just don't see how that's a good thing at all. I sure as hell wouldn't over sleep if I knew I had plans with someone I really liked y'know?
I say you should stop chasing, do your own thing and move on. If he is interested, he'll reach out, but even so, proceed with caution. click to expandclick to expand
he is writing me again now...i didnt mention he gets up reeeeeaaally early for work like ungodly early, and falls asleep very early..i assume that is what happened...
Posted by jeane
my gut feeling is something happened that turned him off...possibly on one of your dates but perhaps even something beyond your control.
i was on the receiving end of some flakiness at the start but he also came back apologetic. the hot cold state didn't last long and then he was consistent going forward.
well that sounds promising......shrug..
Posted by boxcarmirntajust play it by ear. i would remain sceptical but also willing to see how it plays out. he might be full of shit or he might be just moving at a slower pace.Posted by jeane
my gut feeling is something happened that turned him off...possibly on one of your dates but perhaps even something beyond your control.
i was on the receiving end of some flakiness at the start but he also came back apologetic. the hot cold state didn't last long and then he was consistent going forward.
well that sounds promising......shrug.. click to expandclick to expand
the whole "sometimes i don't respond" would raise an eyebrow from me but maybe you can stamp that out in time.
Posted by boxcarmirntaMoody or not, it all comes back to you feeling secure about yourself. Unless you understand that if someone shows insecurities early on the dating game is a big red flag for either one, meaning if someone lose composure if one doesn't respond asap when you want them to is a bit controlling and telling of things to come in a relationship . It's not really needing space or alone time either, more or less communicating your needs no matter what it is, but this is way too early for that, and in his shoes he doesn't know you that well it seems like.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
Give it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
disagree
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
I get where youâre coming from but I usually give people one chance. They can be having an off day, family problems or whatever.
i think she did via text
the "sometimes i don't respond" line signals a no go for me.
people don't respond when they are playing games
or not that into you
if there is stuff going on he would have said...not to just excuse himself but to let her know that he is still interested
it's a respect thing.
I do get that. Iâm just answering from a Taurus perspective where you can sometimes be ânot in the moodâ to talk with someone. Doesnât mean you donât like them or respect them.
i don't have much experience with you guys..are you moody? Do you need time alone and stuff? I know pisces do.. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeane
my gut feeling is something happened that turned him off...possibly on one of your dates but perhaps even something beyond your control.
i was on the receiving end of some flakiness at the start but he also came back apologetic. the hot cold state didn't last long and then he was consistent going forward.
well that sounds promising......shrug.. click to expand
just play it by ear. i would remain sceptical but also willing to see how it plays out. he might be full of shit or he might be just moving at a slower pace.
the whole "sometimes i don't respond" would raise an eyebrow from me but maybe you can stamp that out in time. click to expandclick to expand
agreed! Turns out its all true. And the guy's a total sweetheart..just spent his bday together...it was really nice.
Posted by AntiSocialPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Anything happen on the date that might have put him off? Did you say you'd had 700 previous boyfriends?
haha! Nope...we made plans and talked normally after..then things got weird...shrug?
Give it a few days and contact him again. He may just be trying to work out how you feel about him. However, if you get the impression after that that he is jerking you around then cut him loose.
thanks for the actual advice! I agree.
disagree
move on now
this guy has already struck out imho
I get where youâre coming from but I usually give people one chance. They can be having an off day, family problems or whatever.
i think she did via text
the "sometimes i don't respond" line signals a no go for me.
people don't respond when they are playing games
or not that into you
if there is stuff going on he would have said...not to just excuse himself but to let her know that he is still interested
it's a respect thing.
I do get that. Iâm just answering from a Taurus perspective where you can sometimes be ânot in the moodâ to talk with someone. Doesnât mean you donât like them or respect them.
i don't have much experience with you guys..are you moody? Do you need time alone and stuff? I know pisces do.. click to expand
Moody or not, it all comes back to you feeling secure about yourself. Unless you understand that if someone shows insecurities early on the dating game is a big red flag for either one, meaning if someone lose composure if one doesn't respond asap when you want them to is a bit controlling and telling of things to come in a relationship . It's not really needing space or alone time either, more or less communicating your needs no matter what it is, but this is way too early for that, and in his shoes he doesn't know you that well it seems like. click to expandclick to expand
definitely...i hear all that.. We actually just had a great time together and i understand him better now, hes the complete opposite of who i thought he was. Hes a total sweetheart. And acts just like they say taureans act ...hope it lasts!
Well...after all this he does it AGAIN. we've had endless amazing awesome fun times...seriously. hes shared so much with me..telling me he wants something serious, not just sex...making plans with me to a certain extent. Everything was going perfect. Hes so sweet and thoughtful, and REAL. We talk about everything and are totally honest. Dream like. And POOF. Havent heard from him in 3 days . After every day contact. may not ever...wtf is UP? WE EVEN TALKED ABOUT GHOSTING and how it was awful. Is he just a full on player?!?!?
@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns i need your input!
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirnta
@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns i need your input!
Iâd just chill and wait for him to come to you. 3 days is nothing, it doesnât mean he doesnât like you anymore or anything.
If youâre not happy tell him you need more communication. If he doesnât change the rest is up to you. click to expandclick to expand
IF he comes back...he goes from actually calling me several times a day...to nothing..it feels like a pretty big change. Consistency is very important to me...if he DOES come back..i will tell him its totally unacceptable to leave me hanging for days..then its up to HIM!
Posted by boxcarmirntai agree with atgr. 3 days isn't very long. it's just something you need to talk about it.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirntaIâd just chill and wait for him to come to you. 3 days is nothing, it doesnât mean he doesnât like you anymore or anything.
@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns i need your input!
If youâre not happy tell him you need more communication. If he doesnât change the rest is up to you. click to expand
IF he comes back...he goes from actually calling me several times a day...to nothing..it feels like a pretty big change. Consistency is very important to me...if he DOES come back..i will tell him its totally unacceptable to leave me hanging for days..then its up to HIM! click to expandclick to expand
but also these guys don't change quickly. if this is his pattern you have to be patient when trying to nudge him in another way. it takes a bit of time to form a new habit.
i suppose it depends how important it is to hear from him everyday at this stage is to you. is this the price of admission?
Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirnta
@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns i need your input!
Iâd just chill and wait for him to come to you. 3 days is nothing, it doesnât mean he doesnât like you anymore or anything.
If youâre not happy tell him you need more communication. If he doesnât change the rest is up to you. click to expand
IF he comes back...he goes from actually calling me several times a day...to nothing..it feels like a pretty big change. Consistency is very important to me...if he DOES come back..i will tell him its totally unacceptable to leave me hanging for days..then its up to HIM! click to expand
i agree with atgr. 3 days isn't very long. it's just something you need to talk about it.
but also these guys don't change quickly. if this is his pattern you have to be patient when trying to nudge him in another way. it takes a bit of time to form a new habit.
i suppose it depends how important it is to hear from him everyday at this stage is to you. is this the price of admission?
good to know, thank you. Every day doesnt matter to me...but having my txt just sit there hanging for 3 days..feels really weird to me. It def seems like a pattern...he just disappears......
Posted by boxcarmirntait sounds like he is dealing with something else. how much do you know about the rest of his life?Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntai agree with atgr. 3 days isn't very long. it's just something you need to talk about it.Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirnta
@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns i need your input!
Iâd just chill and wait for him to come to you. 3 days is nothing, it doesnât mean he doesnât like you anymore or anything.
If youâre not happy tell him you need more communication. If he doesnât change the rest is up to you. click to expand
IF he comes back...he goes from actually calling me several times a day...to nothing..it feels like a pretty big change. Consistency is very important to me...if he DOES come back..i will tell him its totally unacceptable to leave me hanging for days..then its up to HIM! click to expand
but also these guys don't change quickly. if this is his pattern you have to be patient when trying to nudge him in another way. it takes a bit of time to form a new habit.
i suppose it depends how important it is to hear from him everyday at this stage is to you. is this the price of admission?
click to expand
good to know, thank you. Every day doesnt matter to me...but having my txt just sit there hanging for 3 days..feels really weird to me. It def seems like a pattern...he just disappears...... click to expandclick to expand
Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirnta
@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns i need your input!
Iâd just chill and wait for him to come to you. 3 days is nothing, it doesnât mean he doesnât like you anymore or anything.
If youâre not happy tell him you need more communication. If he doesnât change the rest is up to you. click to expand
IF he comes back...he goes from actually calling me several times a day...to nothing..it feels like a pretty big change. Consistency is very important to me...if he DOES come back..i will tell him its totally unacceptable to leave me hanging for days..then its up to HIM! click to expand
i agree with atgr. 3 days isn't very long. it's just something you need to talk about it.
but also these guys don't change quickly. if this is his pattern you have to be patient when trying to nudge him in another way. it takes a bit of time to form a new habit.
i suppose it depends how important it is to hear from him everyday at this stage is to you. is this the price of admission?
click to expand
good to know, thank you. Every day doesnt matter to me...but having my txt just sit there hanging for 3 days..feels really weird to me. It def seems like a pattern...he just disappears...... click to expand
it sounds like he is dealing with something else. how much do you know about the rest of his life? click to expandclick to expand
i know a decent amount..i feel like if something was going he would tell me, but maybe not. I just feel his words and actions arent matching up. He wants to be serious with someone but acts like he's messing around.."shrug* he finally wrote me and i told him inconsistency wasnt for me....no response (shocker).
Posted by boxcarmirntadid he tell you why he didn't respond?Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntait sounds like he is dealing with something else. how much do you know about the rest of his life? click to expandPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirnta
@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns i need your input!
Iâd just chill and wait for him to come to you. 3 days is nothing, it doesnât mean he doesnât like you anymore or anything.
If youâre not happy tell him you need more communication. If he doesnât change the rest is up to you. click to expand
IF he comes back...he goes from actually calling me several times a day...to nothing..it feels like a pretty big change. Consistency is very important to me...if he DOES come back..i will tell him its totally unacceptable to leave me hanging for days..then its up to HIM! click to expand
i agree with atgr. 3 days isn't very long. it's just something you need to talk about it.
but also these guys don't change quickly. if this is his pattern you have to be patient when trying to nudge him in another way. it takes a bit of time to form a new habit.
i suppose it depends how important it is to hear from him everyday at this stage is to you. is this the price of admission?
click to expand
good to know, thank you. Every day doesnt matter to me...but having my txt just sit there hanging for 3 days..feels really weird to me. It def seems like a pattern...he just disappears...... click to expand
i know a decent amount..i feel like if something was going he would tell me, but maybe not. I just feel his words and actions arent matching up. He wants to be serious with someone but acts like he's messing around.."shrug* he finally wrote me and i told him inconsistency wasnt for me....no response (shocker). click to expandclick to expand
my best advice is to tell you how i would handle something like this with my partner.
a) i would first find out if everything ok. my first instinct would be to worry that something has happened.
b) next i would explain to him that i was worried about him.
c) he would likely explain the reason for the silence which i would listen to and accept as his perspective on the situation.
d) i would tell him that leaving me hanging after talking every day makes me feel insecure and a bit foolish.
e) ask him not to do that in future and if he needs a few days space just to shoot me a quick text and i won't worry.
f) not talk about it anymore (unless he wants to) as it's now forgotten and you can get onto more interesting matters.
the golden rule in this instance for me is always "seek first to understand then to be understood". in future if it happens again because i have listened to how he perceives the situation, i would be less likely to have the same reaction as the first time because i would be seeing it through his eyes.
obvs. you deal it with it the best way you feel but that is how i would treat this situation.
Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirnta
@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns i need your input!
Iâd just chill and wait for him to come to you. 3 days is nothing, it doesnât mean he doesnât like you anymore or anything.
If youâre not happy tell him you need more communication. If he doesnât change the rest is up to you. click to expand
IF he comes back...he goes from actually calling me several times a day...to nothing..it feels like a pretty big change. Consistency is very important to me...if he DOES come back..i will tell him its totally unacceptable to leave me hanging for days..then its up to HIM! click to expand
i agree with atgr. 3 days isn't very long. it's just something you need to talk about it.
but also these guys don't change quickly. if this is his pattern you have to be patient when trying to nudge him in another way. it takes a bit of time to form a new habit.
i suppose it depends how important it is to hear from him everyday at this stage is to you. is this the price of admission?
click to expand
good to know, thank you. Every day doesnt matter to me...but having my txt just sit there hanging for 3 days..feels really weird to me. It def seems like a pattern...he just disappears...... click to expand
it sounds like he is dealing with something else. how much do you know about the rest of his life? click to expand
i know a decent amount..i feel like if something was going he would tell me, but maybe not. I just feel his words and actions arent matching up. He wants to be serious with someone but acts like he's messing around.."shrug* he finally wrote me and i told him inconsistency wasnt for me....no response (shocker). click to expand
did he tell you why he didn't respond?
my best advice is to tell you how i would handle something like this with my partner.
a) i would first find out if everything ok. my first instinct would be to worry that something has happened.
b) next i would explain to him that i was worried about him.
c) he would likely explain the reason for the silence which i would listen to and accept as his perspective on the situation.
d) i would tell him that leaving me hanging after talking every day makes me feel insecure and a bit foolish.
e) ask him not to do that in future and if he needs a few days space just to shoot me a quick text and i won't worry.
f) not talk about it anymore (unless he wants to) as it's now forgotten and you can get onto more interesting matters.
the golden rule in this instance for me is always "seek first to understand then to be understood". in future if it happens again because i have listened to how he perceives the situation, i would be less likely to have the same reaction as the first time because i would be seeing it through his eyes.
obvs. you deal it with it the best way you feel but that is how i would treat this situation. click to expandclick to expand
wow! You obviously know this situation well ! Haha...i don't feel so alone now..i think that is all good advice. When i just start dating someone though, i do assume theyre messing around cuz i just don't know em well. Also ive worried over them ' being hurt' or something wrong only to find out theyre just inconsiderate dicks. Makes me feel stupid to even ask at this point. Reassurance is important. I guess i need to know him better. He didnt tell me why he ignored me and hasnt responded, so i assume i won't hear from him again, just like i assumed before. I don't like being in that position. I don't wanna worry i wanna know he'll always respond. Consistent communication is very important. I guess if i ever hear back from him we can talk about it. Thanks for the advice!
Posted by boxcarmirntayeah, that's fair enough. it's a jungle out there in the dating world. it's a natural reaction to go for that assumption. 9 times out of 10 you're going to be right. the problem is 1 time out of 10 you're going to be wrong.Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntadid he tell you why he didn't respond?Posted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirnta
@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns i need your input!
Iâd just chill and wait for him to come to you. 3 days is nothing, it doesnât mean he doesnât like you anymore or anything.
If youâre not happy tell him you need more communication. If he doesnât change the rest is up to you. click to expand
IF he comes back...he goes from actually calling me several times a day...to nothing..it feels like a pretty big change. Consistency is very important to me...if he DOES come back..i will tell him its totally unacceptable to leave me hanging for days..then its up to HIM! click to expand
i agree with atgr. 3 days isn't very long. it's just something you need to talk about it.
but also these guys don't change quickly. if this is his pattern you have to be patient when trying to nudge him in another way. it takes a bit of time to form a new habit.
i suppose it depends how important it is to hear from him everyday at this stage is to you. is this the price of admission?
click to expand
good to know, thank you. Every day doesnt matter to me...but having my txt just sit there hanging for 3 days..feels really weird to me. It def seems like a pattern...he just disappears...... click to expand
it sounds like he is dealing with something else. how much do you know about the rest of his life? click to expand
i know a decent amount..i feel like if something was going he would tell me, but maybe not. I just feel his words and actions arent matching up. He wants to be serious with someone but acts like he's messing around.."shrug* he finally wrote me and i told him inconsistency wasnt for me....no response (shocker). click to expand
my best advice is to tell you how i would handle something like this with my partner.
a) i would first find out if everything ok. my first instinct would be to worry that something has happened.
b) next i would explain to him that i was worried about him.
c) he would likely explain the reason for the silence which i would listen to and accept as his perspective on the situation.
d) i would tell him that leaving me hanging after talking every day makes me feel insecure and a bit foolish.
e) ask him not to do that in future and if he needs a few days space just to shoot me a quick text and i won't worry.
f) not talk about it anymore (unless he wants to) as it's now forgotten and you can get onto more interesting matters.
the golden rule in this instance for me is always "seek first to understand then to be understood". in future if it happens again because i have listened to how he perceives the situation, i would be less likely to have the same reaction as the first time because i would be seeing it through his eyes.
obvs. you deal it with it the best way you feel but that is how i would treat this situation. click to expand
wow! You obviously know this situation well ! Haha...i don't feel so alone now..i think that is all good advice. When i just start dating someone though, i do assume theyre messing around cuz i just don't know em well. Also ive worried over them ' being hurt' or something wrong only to find out theyre just inconsiderate dicks. Makes me feel stupid to even ask at this point. Reassurance is important. I guess i need to know him better. He didnt tell me why he ignored me and hasnt responded, so i assume i won't hear from him again, just like i assumed before. I don't like being in that position. I don't wanna worry i wanna know he'll always respond. Consistent communication is very important. I guess if i ever hear back from him we can talk about it. Thanks for the advice! click to expandclick to expand
it's a balancing act where you can't be stupid but you also have to give things a chance before you shut it down.
Posted by rmactavishPosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by jeanePosted by boxcarmirntaPosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by boxcarmirnta
@AnotherTaurusGuyReturns i need your input!
Iâd just chill and wait for him to come to you. 3 days is nothing, it doesnât mean he doesnât like you anymore or anything.
If youâre not happy tell him you need more communication. If he doesnât change the rest is up to you. click to expand
IF he comes back...he goes from actually calling me several times a day...to nothing..it feels like a pretty big change. Consistency is very important to me...if he DOES come back..i will tell him its totally unacceptable to leave me hanging for days..then its up to HIM! click to expand
i agree with atgr. 3 days isn't very long. it's just something you need to talk about it.
but also these guys don't change quickly. if this is his pattern you have to be patient when trying to nudge him in another way. it takes a bit of time to form a new habit.
i suppose it depends how important it is to hear from him everyday at this stage is to you. is this the price of admission?
click to expand
good to know, thank you. Every day doesnt matter to me...but having my txt just sit there hanging for 3 days..feels really weird to me. It def seems like a pattern...he just disappears...... click to expand
it sounds like he is dealing with something else. how much do you know about the rest of his life? click to expand
i know a decent amount..i feel like if something was going he would tell me, but maybe not. I just feel his words and actions arent matching up. He wants to be serious with someone but acts like he's messing around.."shrug* he finally wrote me and i told him inconsistency wasnt for me....no response (shocker). click to expand
did he tell you why he didn't respond?
my best advice is to tell you how i would handle something like this with my partner.
a) i would first find out if everything ok. my first instinct would be to worry that something has happened.
b) next i would explain to him that i was worried about him.
c) he would likely explain the reason for the silence which i would listen to and accept as his perspective on the situation.
d) i would tell him that leaving me hanging after talking every day makes me feel insecure and a bit foolish.
e) ask him not to do that in future and if he needs a few days space just to shoot me a quick text and i won't worry.
f) not talk about it anymore (unless he wants to) as it's now forgotten and you can get onto more interesting matters.
the golden rule in this instance for me is always "seek first to understand then to be understood". in future if it happens again because i have listened to how he perceives the situation, i would be less likely to have the same reaction as the first time because i would be seeing it through his eyes.
obvs. you deal it with it the best way you feel but that is how i would treat this situation. click to expand
wow! You obviously know this situation well ! Haha...i don't feel so alone now..i think that is all good advice. When i just start dating someone though, i do assume theyre messing around cuz i just don't know em well. Also ive worried over them ' being hurt' or something wrong only to find out theyre just inconsiderate dicks. Makes me feel stupid to even ask at this point. Reassurance is important. I guess i need to know him better. He didnt tell me why he ignored me and hasnt responded, so i assume i won't hear from him again, just like i assumed before. I don't like being in that position. I don't wanna worry i wanna know he'll always respond. Consistent communication is very important. I guess if i ever hear back from him we can talk about it. Thanks for the advice! click to expand
I read your whole thread and wow you're so much like me, and this is highly relatable to how one of my ex Taurus best friend and I was, just have to switch the genders here. click to expandclick to expand
really wow?! Care to explain? Also ex does not sound promising đ˘
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Why?
When I asked him why we canât just be friends, he s
Happy Friday everyday bein a Taurus , I'm not dreaming riteee
Taurus Sun/Aries Venus man with Aquarius Sun/Pisces Venus woman.
Hi. Since my other thread was ignored, I made another one.
How do I get my Taurus best friend of 7 years to open up to me?
Due to past mistakes, I feel like I lost his trust, but at the same time, it doesn't seem like it.
I want him to open up if possi
I wish I could find a true, evolved Scorpio. Ever since I started reading up on them, I have always wanted to find a Scorpio mate I could win over by showing him my intense commitment in love.
Itâs tough for me being a Taurus Sun/Venus & a Leo Moon/Mar
theres this Sag sun/ Taurus moon/ scorpio venus i adore.. i know Taurus sun people can be NOTORIOUSLY slow with everything, just wondering if that's the same with Taurus moon people because he is showing CLASSSSIC Taurus "i REEEEALLY like you" signs (supe
Hi,
I am a sensitive, agreeable guy, I am a type B personality. That characteristics seem to hinder me, when I deal with your typical aggressive, domineering alpha People.
When I came across "Rockstarassholes",they could easily make me speech
Hey so here I am asking for advice regarding my Taurus Crush. We met, everything went smooth, we connected on a deeper level and then when he went back to his country and working everyday everything kinda changed.
Here is the first post if you wanna re
So i met this female that I thought was really beautiful at the gym I go to. She happens to work there and from the start she gave off a very positive vibe. She later on tells my friend to tell me that Iâm very attractive. He relays the message to me but
I think we are picky but then overall make all the right choices in the end to allowing peeps in our circle & let go of the bummy trashy ones, no offense just get your ish together & you're cool.
We've been dating from almost 2 yrs, he wanted to brake up with me a few times, basically his reason was either "I don't know, things just don't feel right" or I texted him too often, called him to much, reconfirm his feelings and him feeling pressured to
I made a joke, wasnt mad or anything ...kept trying to talk to him.. But he started ignoring me. Finally i said :well dunno why you arent talking to me anymore but hope it works out for you! (trying to be nice) he responds the next day with : yea no nothing..sometimes i just don't respond....
Ok wtf?? Is this normal?? Does it sound like BS? Cuz it kinda does to me.....be nice, please. Also its his bday soon, we had plans now not so sure.....he'll prolly flake again....đ˘