vesper
@vesper
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Posted by Vageenkano you don't have to understand. FORGET IT. NOTHING! go somewhere else boo.Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaThanks I like LADY GAGAPosted by vesperPosted by VageenkaWOMEN! I'm not creating conflict here okay; if I'm gonna have it 'so be it' but seriously don't go creating something out of the questions ''I'm only asking'' do you understandPosted by vesperPosted by VageenkaHow did I make it so complicated hah? is it because you just don't get it do you? You're assuming that its childish and retarded?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaNo offence. Do you know what I block in SOCIAL MEDIA ? people like you. who had a very strong judgemental (potentially) or plainly just lack of understanding and knowledge.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
Why are you making a simple situation so complicated? I'm not judgemental I just find this situation retarded and childish. If I'm sick of someone reaching out to me I give them no way of getting into contact with me. Problem solved.
wow do you actually use the word retarded without respect too. IMPRESSIVE. the way how you use words its actually reflecting it from you.
What's impressive is that you're here wining about a guy you supposedly have 0 interest in and want him out of your life but refuse to do anything about it.
God you are one complicated woman.
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lol I don't understand what you're hoping to get out of this thread?!click to expand

Posted by vesperPosted by TaurusBull1977
Vesper,
You were wrong.
Stop vilifying a man you had consensual sex with who didn't want to commit to you after hooking up with you briefly.
....And amputated his efforts when he did try to reach out you.
Not blocking him, but still admiring his persistence so that you can feed your own ego.
You shot yourself in the foot with that one.
Here is the answer to your question....
He KNOWS you're interested.
He wants to see there if there may be a potential for longevity.
If so, then a Bull will move forward...
If not, then he will feed his hedonistic tendencies, and settle for just sex.
This will be left up to you.
Thank you! there you go. This is what I've been waiting for- a DECENT ANSWER and a HUMAN BEING too.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Look! i never have time to block people in my life. its just rude to me. its not nice.
A direct question will always get you a direct answer.
You were sidestepping and skirting around the issue.
This is why we kept 'probing' you and asking you why haven't you used the block feature.

Posted by vesperYou're trying to get opinions, yet you don't like anyone's opinions on here, and get pissed when they say what you don't wanna hear LOL.Posted by VageenkaHow is it so complicated? when all I do is create an article get people give there best opinion without judging. just HOW?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaLol even if we hang out; do you even think that I can give that so easily to someone who turn to be not so good? ha?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaGirl if you do understand that there's nothing wrong of not 'BLOCKING' people then i don't have a problem accomplishing it. BLOCKING people are just for narrow minded. I'm nice but there's limit of being nice too and blocking people out.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
only kids do the blocking.
Kids put up with stuff that adults wouldn't. If you want him out of your life, make it impossible for him to contact you. Period.
I feel like you're looking for some sort of confirmation that he wants more then just sex. But who knows? He was a hook up and you barely got to know him. So he could be back for the sex or maybe he wants to get to know you? Find out by hanging out with him and NOT having sex... Or if you truly hate him, what are you waiting for? Remove him from your life.
I don't know. I just feel like you're complicated your life
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Posted by Vageenkahehehe yes that's right 🙂)Posted by vesperPosted by Vageenkano you don't have to understand. FORGET IT. NOTHING! go somewhere else boo.Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaThanks I like LADY GAGAPosted by vesperPosted by VageenkaWOMEN! I'm not creating conflict here okay; if I'm gonna have it 'so be it' but seriously don't go creating something out of the questions ''I'm only asking'' do you understandPosted by vesperPosted by VageenkaHow did I make it so complicated hah? is it because you just don't get it do you? You're assuming that its childish and retarded?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaNo offence. Do you know what I block in SOCIAL MEDIA ? people like you. who had a very strong judgemental (potentially) or plainly just lack of understanding and knowledge.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
Why are you making a simple situation so complicated? I'm not judgemental I just find this situation retarded and childish. If I'm sick of someone reaching out to me I give them no way of getting into contact with me. Problem solved.
wow do you actually use the word retarded without respect too. IMPRESSIVE. the way how you use words its actually reflecting it from you.
What's impressive is that you're here wining about a guy you supposedly have 0 interest in and want him out of your life but refuse to do anything about it.
God you are one complicated woman.
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lol I don't understand what you're hoping to get out of this thread?!
lol okay.
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Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by vesperYou're trying to get opinions, yet you don't like anyone's opinions on here. LOL.Posted by VageenkaHow is it so complicated? when all I do is create an article get people give there best opinion without judging. just HOW?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaLol even if we hang out; do you even think that I can give that so easily to someone who turn to be not so good? ha?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaGirl if you do understand that there's nothing wrong of not 'BLOCKING' people then i don't have a problem accomplishing it. BLOCKING people are just for narrow minded. I'm nice but there's limit of being nice too and blocking people out.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
only kids do the blocking.
Kids put up with stuff that adults wouldn't. If you want him out of your life, make it impossible for him to contact you. Period.
I feel like you're looking for some sort of confirmation that he wants more then just sex. But who knows? He was a hook up and you barely got to know him. So he could be back for the sex or maybe he wants to get to know you? Find out by hanging out with him and NOT having sex... Or if you truly hate him, what are you waiting for? Remove him from your life.
I don't know. I just feel like you're complicated your life
all I do is readclick to expand

Posted by vesperYeah but why ask for opinions when you're gonna get mad and argue with everyone? Defeats the whole purpose imo.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by vesperYou're trying to get opinions, yet you don't like anyone's opinions on here. LOL.Posted by VageenkaHow is it so complicated? when all I do is create an article get people give there best opinion without judging. just HOW?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaLol even if we hang out; do you even think that I can give that so easily to someone who turn to be not so good? ha?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaGirl if you do understand that there's nothing wrong of not 'BLOCKING' people then i don't have a problem accomplishing it. BLOCKING people are just for narrow minded. I'm nice but there's limit of being nice too and blocking people out.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
only kids do the blocking.
Kids put up with stuff that adults wouldn't. If you want him out of your life, make it impossible for him to contact you. Period.
I feel like you're looking for some sort of confirmation that he wants more then just sex. But who knows? He was a hook up and you barely got to know him. So he could be back for the sex or maybe he wants to get to know you? Find out by hanging out with him and NOT having sex... Or if you truly hate him, what are you waiting for? Remove him from your life.
I don't know. I just feel like you're complicated your life
all I do is read
huh? where did you come from? Look opinion is just an opinion; it's amusing and it's honest. thats all.click to expand
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusargue!? girl there's no argument here; its all in you're mind. They're cool and I am okay with itPosted by vesperYeah but why ask for opinions when you're gonna get mad and argue with everyone? Defeats the whole purpose imo.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by vesperYou're trying to get opinions, yet you don't like anyone's opinions on here. LOL.Posted by VageenkaHow is it so complicated? when all I do is create an article get people give there best opinion without judging. just HOW?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaLol even if we hang out; do you even think that I can give that so easily to someone who turn to be not so good? ha?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaGirl if you do understand that there's nothing wrong of not 'BLOCKING' people then i don't have a problem accomplishing it. BLOCKING people are just for narrow minded. I'm nice but there's limit of being nice too and blocking people out.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
only kids do the blocking.
Kids put up with stuff that adults wouldn't. If you want him out of your life, make it impossible for him to contact you. Period.
I feel like you're looking for some sort of confirmation that he wants more then just sex. But who knows? He was a hook up and you barely got to know him. So he could be back for the sex or maybe he wants to get to know you? Find out by hanging out with him and NOT having sex... Or if you truly hate him, what are you waiting for? Remove him from your life.
I don't know. I just feel like you're complicated your life
all I do is read
huh? where did you come from? Look opinion is just an opinion; it's amusing and it's honest. thats all.click to expand

Posted by thecrazyariestaurusyou're creating you own conflict not me. so I'm out. tsk! lolPosted by vesperYeah but why ask for opinions when you're gonna get mad and argue with everyone? Defeats the whole purpose imo.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by vesperYou're trying to get opinions, yet you don't like anyone's opinions on here. LOL.Posted by VageenkaHow is it so complicated? when all I do is create an article get people give there best opinion without judging. just HOW?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaLol even if we hang out; do you even think that I can give that so easily to someone who turn to be not so good? ha?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaGirl if you do understand that there's nothing wrong of not 'BLOCKING' people then i don't have a problem accomplishing it. BLOCKING people are just for narrow minded. I'm nice but there's limit of being nice too and blocking people out.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
only kids do the blocking.
Kids put up with stuff that adults wouldn't. If you want him out of your life, make it impossible for him to contact you. Period.
I feel like you're looking for some sort of confirmation that he wants more then just sex. But who knows? He was a hook up and you barely got to know him. So he could be back for the sex or maybe he wants to get to know you? Find out by hanging out with him and NOT having sex... Or if you truly hate him, what are you waiting for? Remove him from your life.
I don't know. I just feel like you're complicated your life
all I do is read
huh? where did you come from? Look opinion is just an opinion; it's amusing and it's honest. thats all.click to expand
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusyou're creating you own conflict not me. so I'm out. tsk! lolPosted by vesperYeah but why ask for opinions when you're gonna get mad and argue with everyone? Defeats the whole purpose imo.Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by vesperYou're trying to get opinions, yet you don't like anyone's opinions on here. LOL.Posted by VageenkaHow is it so complicated? when all I do is create an article get people give there best opinion without judging. just HOW?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaLol even if we hang out; do you even think that I can give that so easily to someone who turn to be not so good? ha?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaGirl if you do understand that there's nothing wrong of not 'BLOCKING' people then i don't have a problem accomplishing it. BLOCKING people are just for narrow minded. I'm nice but there's limit of being nice too and blocking people out.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
only kids do the blocking.
Kids put up with stuff that adults wouldn't. If you want him out of your life, make it impossible for him to contact you. Period.
I feel like you're looking for some sort of confirmation that he wants more then just sex. But who knows? He was a hook up and you barely got to know him. So he could be back for the sex or maybe he wants to get to know you? Find out by hanging out with him and NOT having sex... Or if you truly hate him, what are you waiting for? Remove him from your life.
I don't know. I just feel like you're complicated your life
all I do is read
huh? where did you come from? Look opinion is just an opinion; it's amusing and it's honest. thats all.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977There's not gray areas for me too no sideways as well! it's all DARK and SHADY
In order to assess his intentions, actions and behavior.... we had to observe what was your 'stake' in all of this.
Still not buying your reason for not blocking him excuse.
But here is some advice to you lady....
Bulls move linear, not sideways.
There is the beginning of the linear line...and then there is the end of that linear line.
There are no gray areas in that linear line.
Moving sideways to a Bull doesn't make you look clever,
Instead,
It laughs and holds a mirror to your reflection.
He's moving how you're moving!

Posted by vesperThe game isn't over because you're still playing it with him. Surely, that's clear to you?Posted by jeaneLol what game, that game is over though. There's nothing I can do with/without his presence. in fact no one even can understand what my questions was all about? because all the JUDGEMENTAL here are literally starting without empathy/understanding.Posted by vesperPosted by jeanewell yes; whenever he initiate i do give him the attitude/say ''not to bother me''. He knows that. He get the vibe but it's not working.Posted by vesperYou're not engaging in conversations? So you don't respond? I think if you want him to leave you alone, just keep ignoring him like you are now.Posted by TaurusBull1977he tells me that his attracted to me, he likes me as a person, an artist etc.
Vesper,
When he initiates contact....
1. What is he telling you?
2. How is he contacting you? (via social media, phone call, text, etc)
You're not blocking him, but yet something tells me you're not engaging him in conversation either....
Let me ask you a question,
How did you bring up the monogamy question?
The two of you hooked up prematurely, not judging you, but sometimes I have to absorb how unorthodox the rest of the world may view "hooking up" as immediately being equated to "in a relationship."
With Bulls, there are no gray areas, we do not merge the two.
Only time can tell if these two entities can be intertwined as one.
Something tells me he was dismissed quickly before he was given the option.
Someone once created a thread asking about the most difficult part of dating a Bull.
I answered.
"The Waiting Game"
he contacts me via social media.
I don't block people not unless someone pisses me off, I'm not blocking him because its not necessarily and yes I'm not engaging any conversations with him. His the one who initiate.
Yes, I understand ''Hooking up'' being equated to ''in relationship'' is not a very good thinking. I used to think that way too but that was in the past; I'm learning and careful about it.
Option? there were no option; he made it clear and I have to understand or accept the truth. I have to dismiss him as soon as possible (even though it was very hard for me) I have too. I have no choice.
He knows I forbid him for doing that.
So you do engage him then. You've made yourself a challenge. He'll continue to pursue while you playing along with his game.
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Thank you! there you go. This is what I've been waiting for- a DECENT ANSWER and a HUMAN BEING too.