Taurus sun, Scorpio moon relationship?

Have you ever had a relationship with a Taurus sun, Scorpio moon? How did it work out?

Only once, I had a BF with a Taurus sun and Scorp moon. We were attracted to each other right away, but he was very Scorp like in foreplay and sex which was actually painful. (Sometimes, I bled from it). He was a very tall guy, (6'4") and though I'm tall myself I'm delicate and I used to come away physically hurt from these intimate experiences. He was rough on me verbally too, the way a Scorp can be, humiliating you, sometimes publicly. I talked to him about it but things didn't change and we broke up after just a few months. It was NOT an amicable breakup either. Everything was hard with this guy. He said some really cruel things to me when we broke up. After we split, I began seeing someone else and my TauScorp ex would follow me and try to get me back. I finally had a talk with him and told him we were done. I even said to him the cruel things he said to me. Replay time. He deserved it IMHO. He got the message.

I wonder if our relationship was so bad because my sun and moon are in conjunction while his were in opposition? Did you ever have a similar experience? Either with a Tau sun Scorp moon or someone whose sun and moon oppose each other?

Posted by Dastard
A relationship with a Scorpio Moon is not exactly a walk in the park.

Well, I've had friends who are Scorp moons and they were okay, but this is a sun/moon opposition between two powerful signs I'm speaking of, which is what made me ask the question of others' experiences with the same.

@buttwipe has these placements. Maybe he can shed some light on your queries from the other perspective

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No... Relationship with Scorpio moon CAN be a walk in the park.. I want mine to be a walk in the house.. 😢 I mean I want such a simple easy relationship!

On topic.. IDK, season. Sorry it was bad

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Posted by wagtail
@buttwipe has these placements. Maybe he can shed some light on your queries from the other perspective

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Honestly every scorp moon story i've read and have been told about. They all seem like terrors. I'm mellow AF, and understanding. I always put people before me. Barely get angry, and am really really really low maintenance so i dunno if i can add anything here because they just seem way different than me. I have high intuition and a high capacity for emotions. I always been told "I'm TOO nice" like wtf does that even mean?

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Posted by wagtail
@buttwipe has these placements. Maybe he can shed some light on your queries from the other perspective

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Honestly every scorp moon story i've read and have been told about. They all seem like terrors. I'm mellow AF, and understanding. I always put people before me. Barely get angry, and am really really really low maintenance so i dunno if i can add anything here because they just seem way different than me. I have high intuition and a high capacity for emotions. I always been told "I'm TOO nice" like wtf does that even mean?

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Me too, I don't get it, ppl often say, I'm too nice and even perhaps naive on occasion but not according to astrology, apparently I'm supposed to be a monster. And a hard break up, oh no - my bull pride kicks in and you will never hear from me again.

Posted by Dastard
A relationship with a Scorpio Moon is not exactly a walk in the park.

it's very intense allright. well my experience is more parental, and very strict. but very well ride and die kind of thing. super loyal but so very sensitive.

but there are sites that vary, for example this site says, their downfall, would be hedonistic pleasures. I thought that would be more taurean (for earthly pleasures) but I guess it's also their opposite. so this site is the first one I've read that is more of a "warning".

http://hermetic.com/crowley/astrology/your-place-among-the-stars/moon-in-scorpio.html

"THE Moon is in her fall in Scorpio, never a good position for her. Scorpio brings out the watery and sensuous side of the Moon, but tends to make her extremely positive and impassioned. People with this position are naturally hedonists, regarding the senses as vehicles of pleasure rather than of knowledge. These qualities, of course, may {173} be overbalanced by aspects, as in the case of Herbert Spencer, whose Moon has the opposition of the Sun and a square of Mars. The interference of these planets eliminates the laxity of the sign, thereby allowing its scientific qualities freer scope. Thomas Moore, and Louis XVI, are, however, good examples of the hedonistic nature of the position. When, however, Scorpio tends to science, its effect is truly admirable, more so, perhaps, than any other sign. The senses are preternaturally acute and the powers of observation almost unlimited. The mind, too, reacts steadily, neither too quickly nor too slowly, to its impressions, and, unless there is some contrary indication in the horoscope, great will-power is indicated; for so strongly do the ideas presented take hold of the mind that it cannot rest in the mere acquisition of knowledge, but must construct, organize, and give out to the world what it has received.

One cannot say, however, that Scorpio is an altogether happy position for the Moon, for the tendency to sensuality is undoubtedly very great. This is especially dangerous in women born with this position. This sign influences the Moon in this respect more powerfully than it does Venus. Not only do we find a danger of sexual irregularity or excess, but a strong predisposition to indulgence in liquor.

The women with whom the native is associated are apt to be very strongly sexed, self-willed, and somewhat unscrupulous in attaining their ends. They may be deceitful and treacherous; this, of course, applies to bad cases only. But where the Moon of the native is well-dignified, he will meet the better type of Scorpio woman, courageous, ambitious, enterprising, and endowed with executive power. In spite of these facts, it does not necessarily follow that women will play a very important part in the life of the native. Scorpio is the weakest sign as well as the strongest. There is an element of corruption in it, unless"

basically, extremes of either side.

I'm a taurus with a scorpio moon....I am nothing like what you mentioned. Sex is extremely sensual with me, I make love...always about pleasure and not about pain.

I am a giver, a lover, a fighter (in a good way) I don't walk away easily and I don't emotionally abuse. My biggest struggle is my aries in venus/mars placement. My scorpio is all about deep emotion, passion and drive. Idk...maybe he's got something else going on.

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Posted by Season
Have you ever had a relationship with a Taurus sun, Scorpio moon? How did it work out?

Only once, I had a BF with a Taurus sun and Scorp moon. We were attracted to each other right away, but he was very Scorp like in foreplay and sex which was actually painful. (Sometimes, I bled from it). He was a very tall guy, (6'4") and though I'm tall myself I'm delicate and I used to come away physically hurt from these intimate experiences. He was rough on me verbally too, the way a Scorp can be, humiliating you, sometimes publicly. I talked to him about it but things didn't change and we broke up after just a few months. It was NOT an amicable breakup either. Everything was hard with this guy. He said some really cruel things to me when we broke up. After we split, I began seeing someone else and my TauScorp ex would follow me and try to get me back. I finally had a talk with him and told him we were done. I even said to him the cruel things he said to me. Replay time. He deserved it IMHO. He got the message.

I wonder if our relationship was so bad because my sun and moon are in conjunction while his were in opposition? Did you ever have a similar experience? Either with a Tau sun Scorp moon or someone whose sun and moon oppose each other?

That's sad... I don't think Sun-moon affliction alone can bring out cruelty. IMHO he was cruel to you. Were there any Mars-Uranus or Mars-Pluto aspects in the Synastry? I'm happy you walked away.

My Scorp ex was like that. He would corner me and however I reacted, either meek or aggressive was wrong. And he got off on that. And it wasn't consensual. So.... There is a clear line btwn BDSM(Ours wasn't) and abuse.

Was this long ago?

Hope you don't get to see him again.

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IK he didn't consider himself abusive and he wasn't, except verbally he could be cruel. His lovemaking was just so rough physically I came away bloody from it so this had to stop. He never hit me or anything. I wouldn't have put up with that for a second. He liked me. It was just his way of expressing affection was painful physically and I wanted gentleness which, I guess, wasn't his way of expressing love.

So I wondered if the Sun/Moon opposition might have had something to do with it. I know not all Scorp moons are like this.

I'm not sure about squares and pluto aspects in his chart. This relationship was a long while ago but I've always remembered it for obvious reasons.

the sex drive is affected by his mars sign as well..... what is his mars sign?

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Posted by lisabethur8
basically, extremes of either side.

We're supposed to be like this:

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lmao

Posted by Pandora101
the sex drive is affected by his mars sign as well..... what is his mars sign?

I just read that above, and yes that would help with what his mars is.

just scorpio moon alone doesn't do violence in sexual matters.

reading that above sounds terrible.

edit - sounds like he needs a dominatrix or something.

Posted by Pandora101
the sex drive is affected by his mars sign as well..... what is his mars sign?

His Mars was in Taurus which I would think means stamina more than intensity?

Yes, it was good for a long time, but it seems it's lost the appeal for her. They seem to be drawn to their Scorp Suns, lucky them, sux to be me