Taurus's Infamous Disappearing Act

Well met this great Taurus man almost two months ago. Went on several dates we seemed equally crazy about each other. And now it's been 5 days and no text. I haven't reached out to him cause well, if he's interested he'd reach out to me no? Sigh. Why do you Taurus men pull back before the going gets good?

reach out.

Taurus are stone faced and seemly secure on the outside but very much in their own head.

from my understand is Taurus are very good at controlling there emotions to not show on the ourside. but with that comes serious internal build up that they usually choose to deal with privately - thus they might have needed a little personal time to focus on their thoughts, but if you want to reach out to your Taurus reach out.... its as easy as texting "just thinking about you, wanted to say hi. have a good day"

they may be wondering what you think about them.

my Taurus when we started dating though that I was just using him like a toy. because I never verbally reassured him about how I felt about us as our "ship" progressed.

taurus need reassurance, they may think they know how you feel about them , then it will switch to a 2nd feeling of doubt or negative and then they wont know whats going on anymore.

and don't rush anything, they move at their own pace. don't expect them to have immediate answers to your question or to know what they want. they wont think about what they want until you let them know what they want and they can confirm they want the same.

love my bull. hope it all works out.

Taurus infamous disappearing act—

Lol bulls don't disappear. Not on me at least.

Posted by Dolluxxe
Taurus infamous disappearing act—

Lol bulls don't disappear. Not on me at least.

Right. There is no Taurus infamous disappearing act. We don't do those if we're interested.

Posted by TaurusFlower22

Posted by Dolluxxe
Taurus infamous disappearing act—

Lol bulls don't disappear. Not on me at least.

Right. There is no Taurus infamous disappearing act. We don't do those if we're interested.

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Exactly. You guys may be quiet and slow to act but will NEVER lose contact no matter what. Y'all are too fixed and stubborn lol

Posted by Airfairy215
Well met this great Taurus man almost two months ago. Went on several dates we seemed equally crazy about each other. And now it's been 5 days and no text. I haven't reached out to him cause well, if he's interested he'd reach out to me no? Sigh. Why do you Taurus men pull back before the going gets good?

Are you only dating your Taurus?

Posted by TaurusFlower22

Posted by Dolluxxe
Taurus infamous disappearing act—

Lol bulls don't disappear. Not on me at least.

Right. There is no Taurus infamous disappearing act. We don't do those if we're interested.

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^^ this

when we like you and know you're interested, we will continuously be in touch. have you steadily reached back out to him? are u sure something didn't come up on his end that's serious like fam issues, etc? if so, if u don't hear back from him for another week or so, he's probably not interested or is seeing other ppl.

Posted by sagittariusxo
reach out.

Taurus are stone faced and seemly secure on the outside but very much in their own head.

from my understand is Taurus are very good at controlling there emotions to not show on the ourside. but with that comes serious internal build up that they usually choose to deal with privately - thus they might have needed a little personal time to focus on their thoughts, but if you want to reach out to your Taurus reach out.... its as easy as texting "just thinking about you, wanted to say hi. have a good day"

they may be wondering what you think about them.

my Taurus when we started dating though that I was just using him like a toy. because I never verbally reassured him about how I felt about us as our "ship" progressed.

taurus need reassurance, they may think they know how you feel about them , then it will switch to a 2nd feeling of doubt or negative and then they wont know whats going on anymore.

and don't rush anything, they move at their own pace. don't expect them to have immediate answers to your question or to know what they want. they wont think about what they want until you let them know what they want and they can confirm they want the same.

love my bull. hope it all works out.

I know that this is true of me. I need the other person to verbalize their feelings, and then I will feel safe to verbalize mine... I am always in my head, true...

quite possibly he is asking, why after several dates and appearing to be crazy about him, are you not texting him?

Posted by Airfairy215
Well met this great Taurus man almost two months ago. Went on several dates we seemed equally crazy about each other. And now it's been 5 days and no text. I haven't reached out to him cause well, if he's interested he'd reach out to me no? Sigh. Why do you Taurus men pull back before the going gets good?

Why can't you reach out? I'm not understanding. By your own definition your behavior is signalling your not interested.

Posted by Dolluxxe

Posted by TaurusFlower22

Posted by Dolluxxe
Taurus infamous disappearing act—

Lol bulls don't disappear. Not on me at least.

Right. There is no Taurus infamous disappearing act. We don't do those if we're interested.

Exactly. You guys may be quiet and slow to act but will NEVER lose contact no matter what. Y'all are too fixed and stubborn lol

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Hmm so maybe he's just not interested. I've heard from so many people and countless of forums that tauruses will just stop texting out of nowhere hence the disappearing act.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Airfairy215
Well met this great Taurus man almost two months ago. Went on several dates we seemed equally crazy about each other. And now it's been 5 days and no text. I haven't reached out to him cause well, if he's interested he'd reach out to me no? Sigh. Why do you Taurus men pull back before the going gets good?

Why can't you reach out? I'm not understanding. By your own definition your behavior is signalling your not interested.

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Should I reach out? I mean I've been out of the whole dating scene for so long that I'm rusty!!! 😔 I don't want to come off as needy but I am wondering why he'd go all this time without wondering what's my day been like or what I have planned for the week.

Posted by Airfairy215

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Airfairy215
Well met this great Taurus man almost two months ago. Went on several dates we seemed equally crazy about each other. And now it's been 5 days and no text. I haven't reached out to him cause well, if he's interested he'd reach out to me no? Sigh. Why do you Taurus men pull back before the going gets good?

Why can't you reach out? I'm not understanding. By your own definition your behavior is signalling your not interested.

Should I reach out? I mean I've been out of the whole dating scene for so long that I'm rusty!!! 😔 I don't want to come off as needy but I am wondering why he'd go all this time without wondering what's my day been like or what I have planned for the week.

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Yeah. Keep it light. "Hey stranger, how you been" or the like.

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by sagittariusxo
reach out.

Taurus are stone faced and seemly secure on the outside but very much in their own head.

from my understand is Taurus are very good at controlling there emotions to not show on the ourside. but with that comes serious internal build up that they usually choose to deal with privately - thus they might have needed a little personal time to focus on their thoughts, but if you want to reach out to your Taurus reach out.... its as easy as texting "just thinking about you, wanted to say hi. have a good day"

they may be wondering what you think about them.

my Taurus when we started dating though that I was just using him like a toy. because I never verbally reassured him about how I felt about us as our "ship" progressed.

taurus need reassurance, they may think they know how you feel about them , then it will switch to a 2nd feeling of doubt or negative and then they wont know whats going on anymore.

and don't rush anything, they move at their own pace. don't expect them to have immediate answers to your question or to know what they want. they wont think about what they want until you let them know what they want and they can confirm they want the same.

love my bull. hope it all works out.

I know that this is true of me. I need the other person to verbalize their feelings, and then I will feel safe to verbalize mine... I am always in my head, true...

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Lol I'm dating a Taurus and I'm a taurus, we're both constantly reassuring each other and we can tell when the other is in their head.

I thought my taurus was pulling away this week because he only texted me a few times this weekend and didn't make any plans to see me. Then this morning he reached out said "I've been having a bad weekend. Can I see you tonight? Love you " he had some personal things happening and I immediately jumped to the conclusion he was losing interest. Lol

My advice, reach out. They appreciate it, You Never Know What they Are Going through.

Posted by Ineedadvice
Did he get back in touch?

I ended up reaching out to him and he responded right away and we began to catch up. Seemed like he had a busy week which is why I didn't hear from him but idk something is telling me he is pulling away or losing interest. Haven't heard from him since our convo two days ago. Oh well, this was pretty short lived.