Isn't that a bull's #1 objective? To make sure their lover isn't hungry lol
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Jeane and AgentP will have the best insight for you Op. Don't worry about the rest. Haters gonna hate.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So just to clarify that I'm following...Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother Pisces trait... It's always someone's else's fault...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What can I say...it takes quite the effort to follow your faulty line of logic.Posted by LadyNeptuneWow! Finally, a "light bulb moment"...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??Posted by LadyNeptuneHe lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OFPosted by JohnTheBaptist100
What sun sign are you? You sound very very selfish with a huge ego...
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
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...it's MY fault that YOU mistakenly thought the Op was a Pisces. Hmmm, more of that faulty logic.
Posted by NefertariI agree with the high drama from both sides. Sweating the small stuff while ignoring the bigger picture.Posted by karebearI see the back story now. Quite a bit of drama there over small things.
Okay guys sorry but I'm new to this site. It's taking me awhile to get back to everyone this wanted to know the backstory. Here's the deal. He sent me a message on Facebook back in March of 2016 and I completely ignored the message. I did not want to have someone be in my inbox asking me for nude pictures or trying to see if all I wanted was sex. Fast forward to the month of August and I'm cleaning out my in-box and I come across his message. I decided to take a look at his page to get a better understanding of who he was. My friends had told me that sometimes I can be a bit harsh and I can reject people from the very beginning without taking the time to get to know anyone. I don't know how it happened but we becoming friends on Facebook. Maybe I accepted a request from him or I sent a request by accident. That I am not sure how it happened. Anyhow, we have a small conversation and he continue to tell me how beautiful I was and started sending me pictures of my own pictures off of my Facebook page, which I thought was a little creepy. None the less I figured I would just continue to talk to him until he became just respectful and then I would cut them off. The conversation we had was very brief and nothing was really discuss as far as us getting to know each other, but it was more of him just saying that he found me to be attractive. I did not speak to him the next day however the following day he did send me a message in the morning saying good morning. I found his message to be sweet and I decided to keep talking to him. He asked if he could push up on me. I'm too old to think that that meant anything else besides trying to get to know me. I told him that he could as long as he was serious about getting to know me. We started having conversations that were leading us into the right path. I discovered that he is really a great father to his children and is a very hard-working man. He told me that there was some mistakes that he made in his past that led him to prison, but that he changed his life around so that he could be there for his children. We discussed his home life how he was raised by his father and how his mother was absent in the home. We also discussed him being a homeowner being very strong-willed what he likes to do when he relaxes. I told him about myself and being adopted. We discussed that I didn't have children and that it may be a possibility. In other words, General conversation that you do when you're trying to get to know somebody.
We decided one night that we would go out to dinner. This took place about a couple of weeks after our initial conversation. The attraction was very strong at this point and I have slept with him. Now don't go judging me, it's not the most politically correct thing to do, but it happens. Immediately afterwards I felt bad and I explain to him that I felt like I had made a mistake. Wrong move. He took it very personal that something he did was wrong. His response to me was to tell him what was wrong so he could fix it and to open up to him and explain what was going on. I gave him the response that I was not looking for sex that I wanted more. He stated that he wasn't just looking for sex either. We went on to dinner afterwards and it was really awkward. I ordered a dessert because I had went out with my mother earlier that day. I was not hungry and he seemed upset because I didn't order a meal. I explained to him what happened and I could tell that he was even more upset. I told him that is my mother and that I really have a real good relationship with my mother and I take that very seriously. There was nothing I could do to make him understand where I was coming from, and in reality, I was trying to make both him and my mother happy. After talking to my mom about the situation she explained to me that I should have just went out with him and went out with her earlier that day. I knew immediately what I had done was wrong. I called him back the next day to explain to him that I was sorry and he was already turned off at this point and just rejected me. I was hurt but I felt like his decision was genuine and I chose to move on.
Sometime around Thanksgiving I found out that his mother had passed away. I wanted to talk to him to give him my condolences but I knew that he would question how I knew since we weren't talking. A few weeks after she had passed I did call him but I was so angry about the way that he just rejected me that I just told him how I felt. He explained that he couldn't talk about it that he was going through too much and that that wasn't on his mind. He told me he would get back with me and he never did. Fast-forward a couple of weeks from that date and I sent him a text message letting him know exactly how I felt and that I was hurt that he had walked away so quickly and that I felt like he was playing mind games. He then went on to say that he had a conversation with a mutual friend of ours and that she let him know that a conversation took place between her and I about him. Now let me say this, this friends is a client of mine that we both know. The extent of the conversation about him was that he was a really great guy and that he was hard-working. When he said that she gave details about a conversation that I had about him I immediately knew that he was fishing for information. I know that to be typical of Taurus. He then flipped the conversation around as if to ask me what it was that I wanted to do and I knew that it wasn't over at that moment between us. I know that he plays some mind games, but I don't think that they are Mind Games to hurt people. I think he plays Mind Games to see exactly what's going on with the other person. I apologize to him a few weeks later going into detail about how I should have said that I made a mistake with sleeping with him. I told him that I should have put on my big-girl panties that night and accepted it for what it was. I told him that my relationship with my mother is very important to me. He shocked me when he responded back that you only get one mother and that she's important. I knew that he has softened up about me eating out with my mother because of the loss of his mother. I told him that I wanted to make it up to him and that I wanted to start all over and forget what happened in the past so I offered to make him dinner. And this is where my other portion of the Story begins
Somehow I don't feel optimistic about this.
Doesn't his actions make you feel insecure? He seems interested but not sure on you. That's my feel here.
Knowing his manner, don't get yourself disappointed by having high expectations.
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I don't think sleeping with him so fast was helpful to the OP. It's nothing to do with being politically correct. It's to do with yourself and decision making but luckily OP and this guy haven't lost the connection completely.
My very good guy friend (Gem Sun/Scorp moon, early 40's) described a situation similar to this. He'd been on a first date with a georgeos lady, he was definitely punchin'! They got on great. They ended up in bed that night at hers. In the morning he had a big smile on his face, he went and made them some coffee and breakfast, he came back to the bedroom and she was completely different. She was crying and saying she shouldn't have slept with him etc. He felt like shit. He actually felt like she was accusing him of rape or that's how he felt. He went from being so happy to feeling like crap in two seconds. He left very quickly and was confused as to what had happened. He never saw her again. I told him loads of women do this. No idea why. I always think it might be better that if you are regretting it for whatever reason then just keep it to yourself, bid the guy goodbye, and then look at how/why you did it or how/why you feel that way. There's something and it's usually insecurity. The reality is that you liked someone but you think you've fucked up your chances by sleeping with them so you dwell on it and it make a problem where there wasn't one instead of just being happy about your decision and going with it to see what happens. Granted, it can be better to hold off the sex but you can't undo things.
That's just s story from a guy point of view.
JohntheBaptist, you are sooooooo funny! Sometimes you sound mean, but it doesn't offend me at all cos I know where you are coming from. Made me laugh instead!
Hope you are better now! Throat infection or sinusitis? Coincidentally, I had a bacterial upper respiratory tract infection in the last month too. Didn't see the doc, so getting better was so slow.
Dear karebear, hope you are sorting things out with yourself. Think clearly about what you want and how you would like to be treated.
Hope you are better now! Throat infection or sinusitis? Coincidentally, I had a bacterial upper respiratory tract infection in the last month too. Didn't see the doc, so getting better was so slow.
Dear karebear, hope you are sorting things out with yourself. Think clearly about what you want and how you would like to be treated.
Posted by LadyNeptuneAgree and disagree.
Jeane and AgentP will have the best insight for you Op. Don't worry about the rest. Haters gonna hate.
In this forum, I feel JohntheBaptist gives very good practical advice. She herself being a Taurus and with one, she does really know what she is talking about.
She might come across as unfriendly, but she is just being realistic. She gets the important points across.
It's great to hear encouragement and good things coming from others, but sometimes we also need to hear the UGLY TRUTH spoken to us loud and clear and this is what she does. She's sharp, maybe sometimes perceived as mean, but her intentions are good. And the things others do wrong, she will also point it out.
She spends time understanding everyone's post and situation and make time to pen practical, insightful advice. It takes experience and time to do it. Appreciate it.
Posted by NefertariNope.Posted by LadyNeptuneAgree and disagree.
Jeane and AgentP will have the best insight for you Op. Don't worry about the rest. Haters gonna hate.
In this forum, I feel JohntheBaptist gives very good practical advice. She herself being a Taurus and with one, she does really know what she is talking about.
She might come across as unfriendly, but she is just being realistic. She gets the important points across.
It's great to hear encouragement and good things coming from others, but sometimes we also need to hear the UGLY TRUTH spoken to us loud and clear and this is what she does. She's sharp, maybe sometimes perceived as mean, but her intentions are good. And the things others do wrong, she will also point it out.
She spends time understanding everyone's post and situation and make time to pen practical, insightful advice. It takes experience and time to do it. Appreciate it.
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My taurus is not that funny, she looks and act funny sometimes...But not saying things like that.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100This was days ago, literally everyone has moved on, even this 'emotional' Pisces. Just Lol @ your salty ass.Posted by LadyNeptuneI know exactly what sign the OP is. I was just adding your list of faults and comparing them with the faults of the other Pisces I know....Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So just to clarify that I'm following...Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother Pisces trait... It's always someone's else's fault...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What can I say...it takes quite the effort to follow your faulty line of logic.Posted by LadyNeptuneWow! Finally, a "light bulb moment"...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??Posted by LadyNeptuneHe lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OFPosted by JohnTheBaptist100
What sun sign are you? You sound very very selfish with a huge ego...
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
...it's MY fault that YOU mistakenly thought the Op was a Pisces. Hmmm, more of that faulty logic.
Why don't you use some logic instead of emotions for a change... But u are not quick witted or smart enough to read between the lines...
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So much salt.Posted by LadyNeptune1) unlike you I have a busy life life so I respond when I get timePosted by JohnTheBaptist100This was days ago, literally everyone has moved on, even this 'emotional' Pisces. Just Lol @ your salty ass.Posted by LadyNeptuneI know exactly what sign the OP is. I was just adding your list of faults and comparing them with the faults of the other Pisces I know....Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So just to clarify that I'm following...Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother Pisces trait... It's always someone's else's fault...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What can I say...it takes quite the effort to follow your faulty line of logic.Posted by LadyNeptuneWow! Finally, a "light bulb moment"...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??Posted by LadyNeptuneHe lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OFPosted by JohnTheBaptist100
What sun sign are you? You sound very very selfish with a huge ego...
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
...it's MY fault that YOU mistakenly thought the Op was a Pisces. Hmmm, more of that faulty logic.
Why don't you use some logic instead of emotions for a change... But u are not quick witted or smart enough to read between the lines...
2) everyone else may have moved on but it's obvious you have dumbass!!!click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by JohnTheBaptist100So much salt.Posted by LadyNeptune1) unlike you I have a busy life life so I respond when I get timePosted by JohnTheBaptist100This was days ago, literally everyone has moved on, even this 'emotional' Pisces. Just Lol @ your salty ass.Posted by LadyNeptuneI know exactly what sign the OP is. I was just adding your list of faults and comparing them with the faults of the other Pisces I know....Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So just to clarify that I'm following...Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother Pisces trait... It's always someone's else's fault...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What can I say...it takes quite the effort to follow your faulty line of logic.Posted by LadyNeptuneWow! Finally, a "light bulb moment"...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??Posted by LadyNeptuneHe lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OFPosted by JohnTheBaptist100
What sun sign are you? You sound very very selfish with a huge ego...
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
...it's MY fault that YOU mistakenly thought the Op was a Pisces. Hmmm, more of that faulty logic.
Why don't you use some logic instead of emotions for a change... But u are not quick witted or smart enough to read between the lines...
2) everyone else may have moved on but it's obvious you have dumbass!!!click to expand
Errrr I haven't moved on! —
Posted by AgentP911Lol must be a Taurus thingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by JohnTheBaptist100So much salt.Posted by LadyNeptune1) unlike you I have a busy life life so I respond when I get timePosted by JohnTheBaptist100This was days ago, literally everyone has moved on, even this 'emotional' Pisces. Just Lol @ your salty ass.Posted by LadyNeptuneI know exactly what sign the OP is. I was just adding your list of faults and comparing them with the faults of the other Pisces I know....Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So just to clarify that I'm following...Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother Pisces trait... It's always someone's else's fault...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What can I say...it takes quite the effort to follow your faulty line of logic.Posted by LadyNeptuneWow! Finally, a "light bulb moment"...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??Posted by LadyNeptuneHe lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OFPosted by JohnTheBaptist100
What sun sign are you? You sound very very selfish with a huge ego...
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
...it's MY fault that YOU mistakenly thought the Op was a Pisces. Hmmm, more of that faulty logic.
Why don't you use some logic instead of emotions for a change... But u are not quick witted or smart enough to read between the lines...
2) everyone else may have moved on but it's obvious you have dumbass!!!
Errrr I haven't moved on! —
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Posted by LadyNeptuneHa! I'm Scorp Sun and Venus with Pisces moon. Blame that instead. Off to bed now though, V day celebrations with my Taurus fella!Posted by AgentP911Lol must be a Taurus thingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by JohnTheBaptist100So much salt.Posted by LadyNeptune1) unlike you I have a busy life life so I respond when I get timePosted by JohnTheBaptist100This was days ago, literally everyone has moved on, even this 'emotional' Pisces. Just Lol @ your salty ass.Posted by LadyNeptuneI know exactly what sign the OP is. I was just adding your list of faults and comparing them with the faults of the other Pisces I know....Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So just to clarify that I'm following...Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother Pisces trait... It's always someone's else's fault...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What can I say...it takes quite the effort to follow your faulty line of logic.Posted by LadyNeptuneWow! Finally, a "light bulb moment"...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??Posted by LadyNeptuneHe lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OFPosted by JohnTheBaptist100
What sun sign are you? You sound very very selfish with a huge ego...
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
...it's MY fault that YOU mistakenly thought the Op was a Pisces. Hmmm, more of that faulty logic.
Why don't you use some logic instead of emotions for a change... But u are not quick witted or smart enough to read between the lines...
2) everyone else may have moved on but it's obvious you have dumbass!!!
Errrr I haven't moved on! —
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Posted by AgentP911Have fun! Ride em cowgurl lolPosted by LadyNeptuneHa! I'm Scorp Sun and Venus with Pisces moon. Blame that instead. Off to bed now though, V day celebrations with my Taurus fella!Posted by AgentP911Lol must be a Taurus thingPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by JohnTheBaptist100So much salt.Posted by LadyNeptune1) unlike you I have a busy life life so I respond when I get timePosted by JohnTheBaptist100This was days ago, literally everyone has moved on, even this 'emotional' Pisces. Just Lol @ your salty ass.Posted by LadyNeptuneI know exactly what sign the OP is. I was just adding your list of faults and comparing them with the faults of the other Pisces I know....Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So just to clarify that I'm following...Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother Pisces trait... It's always someone's else's fault...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100What can I say...it takes quite the effort to follow your faulty line of logic.Posted by LadyNeptuneWow! Finally, a "light bulb moment"...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Lol are you referring to me? If so your 'insult' is kinda funny. I'm not trying to get with a Taurus, she is.Posted by LadyNeptuneAnother reason why Pisces is not good for Taurus.... Next.....!!!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100And...? Until he chooses to open up to her about his mom passing it is inappropriate for her to bring it up. What does her ego have to do with not forcing him into an emotional conversation he didn't initiate??Posted by LadyNeptuneHe lost his MOTHER... Ok! Her damn ego should have been set aside... END OFPosted by JohnTheBaptist100
What sun sign are you? You sound very very selfish with a huge ego...
1) don't ever go to a restaurant with a Taurus and have only pudding. If you have eaten beforehand come clean... Tell the truth and let the Taurus know that you have eaten and be smart enough to get some other activity in place ie a movie that way a Taurus can still eat....
When a Taurus books a restaurant to go and eat they want at least a proper meal starter, main and pudding with some wine etc... The full works... Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking
2) his mother DIES and all you can think about is your image. Instead of contacting him (regardless as to how you got the information) to give your condolences and to let him know you are there for him and this extremely painful time, you are thinking about your ego (he will find out that you got information from someone else) - the taurus does not give a fuck how you got the info. I straight up told my Taurus that I check his fb page big deal. At least if you were upfront the Taurus would know that you are an honest person.
3) even after his mother dying you yell him YOU are hurt because of the way he "rejected" you when he has BIGGER emotional issues like his mother's death....
4) you had sex with him a few days in... Who cares..
I hope he does not get with you and I will not give you advice on how to get him.
You are SELFISH.. One of the most self absorbed persons I have seen on dxp to date. All I got from your post was "me me me syndrome"....
Leave him alone.. So he can get use to the idea of his mother's passing and see how he can put the pieces of his life together now she is gone... Smh
How is SHE the selfish one?! He has manipulated her at every turn. She is apologizing to him for having lunch with her own mother, how ridiculous!!
Also Taurus/Pisces pairings have a high compatibility rating, certainly higher compatibility than Taurus/Taurus. So lol @ your logic there.
...it's MY fault that YOU mistakenly thought the Op was a Pisces. Hmmm, more of that faulty logic.
Why don't you use some logic instead of emotions for a change... But u are not quick witted or smart enough to read between the lines...
2) everyone else may have moved on but it's obvious you have dumbass!!!
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''Just a "pudding" is an insult... I'm not joking ''
LOL
Annoted!
LOL
Annoted!
Ummm, hello. I am a Gemini! LOL
LOL have we ever heard the outcome of this thread ?
I texted him a week ago to say hello and he has not responded. I guess he is still pissed from that night, because I did tell him that same night, that a call to cancel would have been nice.
Taurus or no Taurus, he was rude.
Taurus or no Taurus, he was rude.
If that's the case then everything that I've read about Taurus men is not true. I've been told that you have to give them their space to allow them to work out whatever inner conflict that they have. He was all game for dinner and actually seemed interested in seeing me that night. The problem is is that his children's mother did not show up in time to get the kids. I did not send him the text message to to chase him. It was a gesture to say that I was still here if he wanted to reach back out. Like I said earlier in the same post I read a book that someone suggested and this is exactly what the author stated to do. If he wasn't interested then he should have turned down dinner. I asked prior to me asking about dinner if it was okay for me to contact him and he stated yes. So if a Taurus is honest and blunt than that was his time to say that he didn't want to be bothered.
Posted by karebearThere you see, his kid is his family. You haven't become his family yet or haven't been acting as 'one unit' as JohntheBaptist advices you to. That's why his priority is his kid, not you.
If that's the case then everything that I've read about Taurus men is not true. I've been told that you have to give them their space to allow them to work out whatever inner conflict that they have. He was all game for dinner and actually seemed interested in seeing me that night. The problem is is that his children's mother did not show up in time to get the kids. I did not send him the text message to to chase him. It was a gesture to say that I was still here if he wanted to reach back out. Like I said earlier in the same post I read a book that someone suggested and this is exactly what the author stated to do. If he wasn't interested then he should have turned down dinner. I asked prior to me asking about dinner if it was okay for me to contact him and he stated yes. So if a Taurus is honest and blunt than that was his time to say that he didn't want to be bothered.
If you don't see the both of you as a 'we', then your actions will be based on landing him, not supporting him.
I read the book as well since I was the one who recommended it. From my understanding, your Taurus seemed to be interested in you and you would have a smooth relationship if not for the ex wife and kid issue. I have stated in an earlier post that such scenarios will be an issue in the future if he does not work things out with his ex wife etc.
If you also follow JohntheBaptist's post, she mentioned a week is usually the average time for Taurus to cool off. I agree your Taurus was rude. He has back issues he had to deal with. And from what I learnt from the book and my Taurus, they dislike ladies who wants to be their woman give them drama. My Taurus is sweet but if I make an issue over little things, he tends to lose patience with me as well because he sees other things like career as more important.
My Taurus does not always put me as his priority, but he is clear with me on where I stand and wants me to be there with him.
If you don't want those issues, leave him early. Taurus wants women who can understand their actions and what they say. If you don't have the confidence to understand him, then it will be you who suffer in the long run.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Yes I do understand you because my Taurus talks the same way. I also have Aries friend and a couple who don't hesitate to tell the truth. So I appreciate what you're doing, especially when you can take time to read what everyone else is posting, keep track about them and even remember their signs.Posted by NefertariThank you.Posted by LadyNeptuneAgree and disagree.
Jeane and AgentP will have the best insight for you Op. Don't worry about the rest. Haters gonna hate.
In this forum, I feel JohntheBaptist gives very good practical advice. She herself being a Taurus and with one, she does really know what she is talking about.
She might come across as unfriendly, but she is just being realistic. She gets the important points across.
It's great to hear encouragement and good things coming from others, but sometimes we also need to hear the UGLY TRUTH spoken to us loud and clear and this is what she does. She's sharp, maybe sometimes perceived as mean, but her intentions are good. And the things others do wrong, she will also point it out.
She spends time understanding everyone's post and situation and make time to pen practical, insightful advice. It takes experience and time to do it. Appreciate it.
You understand me very well and all those who are with a Taurus will understand me as you do.
It's my aries merc. It will tell it like it is... As it does not give a shite. The TRUTH is ugly sometimes and when it is, I'm not gonna paint a pretty pictures. A spade is a spade ♠ in my book.
The advice I give her is exactly as I do my Taurus male and his Taurus is in mercury. So if he can take it come back more, I must be doing something RIGHT..
Men like a sweet woman but when they are nasty I get the BITCH
Babe
In
Total
Control of
Herself
Guess what... They like the Bitch too...😉
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Haha, good to see the acronym for BITCH. So appropriate. I read that book too. Quite an interesting read.
Sometimes, the truth might be ugly but it would help us more when we reflect on what others say rather than to retort.
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