BigTeddyBear2
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Fat Acceptance is Dumb and only for hypocritical Fat Bitches
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I don't get it. Why go to the gym and work out and eat a proper diet just to impress the ladies? Just be your natural self. I say the hell with what women say or think of you. Don't work out for them. Do it for yourself. I used to work out all 7 days of the week. Not for people but for myself. I was skinny and needed to bulk up. Big is beautiful. Goes for both men and women.
Don't pay gemitati no mind. She's doing the exact same thing you implying on your post....fat shaming. When in actuality she's in no place to talk about fat when she needs to join a gym herself.
Don't pay gemitati no mind. She's doing the exact same thing you implying on your post....fat shaming. When in actuality she's in no place to talk about fat when she needs to join a gym herself.
I find chubby and bbw attractive. The second it gets to ssbbw territory however its no longer attractive imo. I love chubby people in general tbh. Fat people can easily be attractive. Morbidly obese is not attractive whatsoever though. Like there is a fine line between sexy fat and gross, at least for me.
I probably shouldn't go too deep into it, but I get it. When people end up super fat it's extramly hard to get into shape. Just the amount of stress and pain working out puts on a large body is enough to make most people just quit. Thin and fit people find working out easy because they are exactly that, thin an fit. The amount of work and effort mentally and physically an obese person has to put in to lose weight is 10 times more intense and difficult then those simply maintaining fitness. So I give kudos to those who lose a ton of weight, but at the same time understand why people dont.
I probably shouldn't go too deep into it, but I get it. When people end up super fat it's extramly hard to get into shape. Just the amount of stress and pain working out puts on a large body is enough to make most people just quit. Thin and fit people find working out easy because they are exactly that, thin an fit. The amount of work and effort mentally and physically an obese person has to put in to lose weight is 10 times more intense and difficult then those simply maintaining fitness. So I give kudos to those who lose a ton of weight, but at the same time understand why people dont.
Fat acceptance is actually life acceptance.
Here we go again, addressing men and women as if they were monoliths.
Where did you come from, The Fresh and Fit comment section on YouTube?
And no, you don't have to date a fat woman. No one is forcing you to do anything you don't want to do despite your claims.
Where did you come from, The Fresh and Fit comment section on YouTube?
And no, you don't have to date a fat woman. No one is forcing you to do anything you don't want to do despite your claims.
Posted by BigTeddyBear2
I said what I said. I think most men will agree.
How many times are we going to pretend like all fat women are beautiful no matter how they look.... just for being fat. Meanwhile, these same fat bitches will shame a fat man in a second. And everyone will laugh and tell him to lose weight. A fat woman won't even date a fat man 99% of the time.
Some fat women look good. But it's still not good to tell a fat person to not to try and better themselves. As a fat ass man myself, I have to be in the gym 6 days a week w/ a proper diet just so a woman will even look my way. But I have to accept a woman as she comes?
Honestly, it's mostly women who pretend that fat women are beautiful. Men aren't pretending (online). Most just keep their honest opinions to themselves out of respect and politeness in real life/face-to-face interactions. Which is the right thing to do...
We don't need more men bashing fat women. Nor fat women bashing fat men. Be the change you want to see and lead by example.
I don't give a fuck if 10,000,000 fat women or men feel or think they're beautiful or attractive. More power to them if they can feel confident and accept their weight and appearance. Not everybody is meant to have a successful weight loss story.
There's plenty of information out there that proves obesity is unhealthy. They make their own decisions, their problem. No one has to tell them to their face that they're fat and unhealthy; they know that.
A good piece of advice: Mind your business. Live and let live.
Posted by Dastard2020
There's plenty of information out there that proves obesity is unhealthy. They make their own decisions, their problem. No one has to tell them to their face that they're fat and unhealthy; they know that.
A good piece of advice: Mind your business. Live and let live.
But that's the problem. No one is up their business telling them anything, rather they are up everyone's business promoting obesity as "self acceptance" and if you don't buy into their bs you are fat-phobic. Gtfo..
Maybe they should live and let live and they wouldn't have to listen to sensible ppl correcting their dumb asses
I don't understand why people get so angry about how much someone weighs. Like it is somehow some kind of personal attack.
Never been to a gym in all my life, but skiing and other outdoor activities keep you fit too. That said, I’m fascinated by technology, biotechnology and robotics and would love some cyborg body that would allow for more than nature provides, not just because of longevity but even more so as to added possibilities like having four arms or being able to breathe under water. Therefore I find the following particular amusing (pardon my bad sense of humor).
Cause like with any shape, attractiveness matters. If you're fat and ugly, it's gonna be harder to date then fat and attractive.
Not many woman are turning down a fat guy if he has a handsome face, good sex, and some money to spend. Going out to eat is usually a high priority.
But ugly and fat for either sex is hard.
It's still based on the same generalizations.
Why settle if they know their worth and what they have pulled before?
Everyone has a preference, and if they are fat and attractive and pull attractive men, they still have their pick of options, being fat doesn't affect their dating life.
I didn't know fat women shamed fat men though. I would think it would be something both could relate to.
Not many woman are turning down a fat guy if he has a handsome face, good sex, and some money to spend. Going out to eat is usually a high priority.
But ugly and fat for either sex is hard.
It's still based on the same generalizations.
Why settle if they know their worth and what they have pulled before?
Everyone has a preference, and if they are fat and attractive and pull attractive men, they still have their pick of options, being fat doesn't affect their dating life.
I didn't know fat women shamed fat men though. I would think it would be something both could relate to.
Posted by saggurl88
Cause like with any shape, attractiveness matters. If you're fat and ugly, it's gonna be harder to date then fat and attractive.
Not many woman are turning down a fat guy if he has a handsome face, good sex, and some money to spend. Going out to eat is usually a high priority.
But ugly and fat for either sex is hard.
It's still based on the same generalizations.
Why settle if they know their worth and what they have pulled before?
Everyone has a preference, and if they are fat and attractive and pull attractive men, they still have their pick of options, being fat doesn't affect their dating life.
I didn't know fat women shamed fat men though. I would think it would be something both could relate to.
Yes fat women shames fat men too. Only the insecure ones to make themselves feel good and special. Your dearly beloved friend gemitati being one of those.
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88
Cause like with any shape, attractiveness matters. If you're fat and ugly, it's gonna be harder to date then fat and attractive.
Not many woman are turning down a fat guy if he has a handsome face, good sex, and some money to spend. Going out to eat is usually a high priority.
But ugly and fat for either sex is hard.
It's still based on the same generalizations.
Why settle if they know their worth and what they have pulled before?
Everyone has a preference, and if they are fat and attractive and pull attractive men, they still have their pick of options, being fat doesn't affect their dating life.
I didn't know fat women shamed fat men though. I would think it would be something both could relate to.
You'd be surprised by some women lol I have a friend who's complained on her husband's height (boyfriend at a time). Mind you, he's still taller than her, just not very tall guy. Shorter than me for example, I'm 5.6. But he's handsome and has pretty face, works out and is in great shape in general (Aries, so natural for them lol), meanwhile she's quite fat and never even bothered to lose some weight. She also implied similar things on our Gem's now hubs (also Gem), then also boyfriend who is similar in height to her hubs now, she would say that he's short, she can find better and stuff like that. Gem friend is better looking than her for example, but her husband is just fine in every aspect as well.
She's also a Sag unfortunately lol
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A little confidence goes a long way lol Proves my point. She's fat AND married. Her husband is nice looking and she was able to marry him.
I don't know if she was slim previously, but my point has to do with dating and being selective, since weight gained in a relationship is sometimes overlooked if you love someone.
Posted by StubbornSagittarius
If you're going to the gym cause women don't look at you otherwise - something else is off there, not just the looks. Also, fat isn't healthy and everyone should try to work on themselves to reduce it as much as they can. Acceptance of it is just acceptance of failure to do better, to look better and to be healthier
Nope, it's literally JUST being a fat man that has held me back admittedly. The only time a fat man really has options is to either have a super huge BIG personality, have a ton of money/status, or be the "Funny Fat Guy".
You have to have some kind of angle.
Lets not act like America doesn't want it's citizens fat, sick and weak. That's why so much unhealthy bullshit is pushed on us by Media and by making healthy food and resources both expensive and scarce.
But that's a whole different topic, for a different, for my Americans 🙂
But that's a whole different topic, for a different, for my Americans 🙂
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88Posted by StubbornSagittariusA little confidence goes a long way lol Proves my point. She's fat AND married. Her husband is nice looking and she was able to marry him.Posted by saggurl88
Cause like with any shape, attractiveness matters. If you're fat and ugly, it's gonna be harder to date then fat and attractive.
Not many woman are turning down a fat guy if he has a handsome face, good sex, and some money to spend. Going out to eat is usually a high priority.
But ugly and fat for either sex is hard.
It's still based on the same generalizations.
Why settle if they know their worth and what they have pulled before?
Everyone has a preference, and if they are fat and attractive and pull attractive men, they still have their pick of options, being fat doesn't affect their dating life.
I didn't know fat women shamed fat men though. I would think it would be something both could relate to.
You'd be surprised by some women lol I have a friend who's complained on her husband's height (boyfriend at a time). Mind you, he's still taller than her, just not very tall guy. Shorter than me for example, I'm 5.6. But he's handsome and has pretty face, works out and is in great shape in general (Aries, so natural for them lol), meanwhile she's quite fat and never even bothered to lose some weight. She also implied similar things on our Gem's now hubs (also Gem), then also boyfriend who is similar in height to her hubs now, she would say that he's short, she can find better and stuff like that. Gem friend is better looking than her for example, but her husband is just fine in every aspect as well.
She's also a Sag unfortunately lol
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I don't know if she was slim previously, but my point has to do with dating and being selective, since weight gained in a relationship is sometimes overlooked if you love someone.
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She never was slim, met him while she was fat too. But tbh I'm not sure if he's with her out of interest partly maybe. Her family is a bit richer than his and they live in a capital, while he comes from a small townclick to expand
She knows her worth. Just like celebrities with money. You pay for what you want! Unless he becomes more successful, he's stuck with her.
Posted by BigTeddyBear2
Lets not act like America doesn't want it's citizens fat, sick and weak. That's why so much unhealthy bullshit is pushed on us by Media and by making healthy food and resources both expensive and scarce.
But that's a whole different topic, for a different, for my Americans
Very true! So many things banned in other countries are sold here. Household staples too. I stopped buying them for my house.
Lots have cancer causing agents, that in small quantities are deemed safe.- YEAH RIGHT!
"Americans eat long list of food banned in other countries"
"Coffee-mate, RITZ Crackers and those warm, buttery Pillsbury biscuits, are all banned in Switzerland, Austria, Hungary, Iceland, Norway and Denmark because of trans fats like partially hydrogenated soybean and cottonseed oils."
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Posted by saggurl88Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by saggurl88
Cause like with any shape, attractiveness matters. If you're fat and ugly, it's gonna be harder to date then fat and attractive.
Not many woman are turning down a fat guy if he has a handsome face, good sex, and some money to spend. Going out to eat is usually a high priority.
But ugly and fat for either sex is hard.
It's still based on the same generalizations.
Why settle if they know their worth and what they have pulled before?
Everyone has a preference, and if they are fat and attractive and pull attractive men, they still have their pick of options, being fat doesn't affect their dating life.
I didn't know fat women shamed fat men though. I would think it would be something both could relate to.
You'd be surprised by some women lol I have a friend who's complained on her husband's height (boyfriend at a time). Mind you, he's still taller than her, just not very tall guy. Shorter than me for example, I'm 5.6. But he's handsome and has pretty face, works out and is in great shape in general (Aries, so natural for them lol), meanwhile she's quite fat and never even bothered to lose some weight. She also implied similar things on our Gem's now hubs (also Gem), then also boyfriend who is similar in height to her hubs now, she would say that he's short, she can find better and stuff like that. Gem friend is better looking than her for example, but her husband is just fine in every aspect as well.
She's also a Sag unfortunately lol
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A little confidence goes a long way lol Proves my point. She's fat AND married. Her husband is nice looking and she was able to marry him.
I don't know if she was slim previously, but my point has to do with dating and being selective, since weight gained in a relationship is sometimes overlooked if you love someone.click to expand
Only FAT WOMEN can get decent looking men. But not the other way around. Fat Women want fit men, and Fit Women also want fit men.
But... ya know... "Love Yo' Self" right? You're beautiful at ALL SIZES right..... unless you're a man. Then you need to go to the gym and lose weight fatass ROFL!!
Posted by BigTeddyBear2Posted by saggurl88Posted by StubbornSagittariusA little confidence goes a long way lol Proves my point. She's fat AND married. Her husband is nice looking and she was able to marry him.Posted by saggurl88
Cause like with any shape, attractiveness matters. If you're fat and ugly, it's gonna be harder to date then fat and attractive.
Not many woman are turning down a fat guy if he has a handsome face, good sex, and some money to spend. Going out to eat is usually a high priority.
But ugly and fat for either sex is hard.
It's still based on the same generalizations.
Why settle if they know their worth and what they have pulled before?
Everyone has a preference, and if they are fat and attractive and pull attractive men, they still have their pick of options, being fat doesn't affect their dating life.
I didn't know fat women shamed fat men though. I would think it would be something both could relate to.
You'd be surprised by some women lol I have a friend who's complained on her husband's height (boyfriend at a time). Mind you, he's still taller than her, just not very tall guy. Shorter than me for example, I'm 5.6. But he's handsome and has pretty face, works out and is in great shape in general (Aries, so natural for them lol), meanwhile she's quite fat and never even bothered to lose some weight. She also implied similar things on our Gem's now hubs (also Gem), then also boyfriend who is similar in height to her hubs now, she would say that he's short, she can find better and stuff like that. Gem friend is better looking than her for example, but her husband is just fine in every aspect as well.
She's also a Sag unfortunately lol
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I don't know if she was slim previously, but my point has to do with dating and being selective, since weight gained in a relationship is sometimes overlooked if you love someone.
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Only FAT WOMEN can get decent looking men. But not the other way around. Fat Women want fit men, and Fit Women also want fit men.
But... ya know... "Love Yo' Self" right? You're beautiful at ALL SIZES right..... unless you're a man. Then you need to go to the gym and lose weight fatass ROFL!!click to expand
Women and men get their revenge bodies. It takes hard work and dedication and eating boring food. I think that's the main issue with people that are heavier, there is a stigma that they are lazy.
A woman can be fat and still cook a good meal or be seen to still be able to accomplish her traditional roles by the outside world.
A fat man is seen as lazy and its hard to see them as a hard working provider when people assume they aren't even taking care of themselves.
No one takes into account that it could be a genetic issue. People just assume it's laziness and no ambition, which is unfortunate.
But if you notice, in the celebrity world and even in politics, not many heavy/ fat people make it that far. The stigma follows them up the ladder, to the top and there is a glass ceiling that stops them from progressing.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by BigTeddyBear2Posted by MonaLisa26You're just a Fat bitch who's offended and triggered by a post of pure facts. Typical fat cunt who looks down on fat men while also being fat herself.
I know that white fat women can ALWAYS find a black men to date. This is why his post making him sound like being unable to find ANYBODY to fuck.
Come to think of it - I am feeling sorry for him.
Just kidding. I am ROFLMAO 😂
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You came out of the CUNT!
Funny how you think this word is insulting!
Is this mommy issue? Was she a cunt to you?
I love my cunt. 😂😂😂😂click to expand
It was enough of an insult for you to feel the need to keep responding obviously.
You saw the Thread Title and thought... "HOW DARE HE CALL ME A FAT HYPOTCRICAL BITCH!"😂😂😂😂
Posted by BigTeddyBear2
I said what I said. I think most men will agree.
How many times are we going to pretend like all fat women are beautiful no matter how they look.... just for being fat. Meanwhile, these same fat bitches will shame a fat man in a second. And everyone will laugh and tell him to lose weight. A fat woman won't even date a fat man 99% of the time.
Some fat women look good. But it's still not good to tell a fat person to not to try and better themselves. As a fat ass man myself, I have to be in the gym 6 days a week w/ a proper diet just so a woman will even look my way. But I have to accept a woman as she comes?
Whatever their build is we are naturally attracted to people who are in a healthy state. It's part of our biological wiring.
Beyond being healthy, build(shape and size of your body) becomes a superficial preference. That woman will look past given other qualities you possess that they find desirable to them. Just like...men.
Basically being healthy draws attention and puts you on the menu so to speak.
Posted by StubbornSagittariusPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by BigTeddyBear2
I said what I said. I think most men will agree.
How many times are we going to pretend like all fat women are beautiful no matter how they look.... just for being fat. Meanwhile, these same fat bitches will shame a fat man in a second. And everyone will laugh and tell him to lose weight. A fat woman won't even date a fat man 99% of the time.
Some fat women look good. But it's still not good to tell a fat person to not to try and better themselves. As a fat ass man myself, I have to be in the gym 6 days a week w/ a proper diet just so a woman will even look my way. But I have to accept a woman as she comes?
Whatever their build is we are naturally attracted to people who are in a healthy state. It's part of our biological wiring.
Beyond being healthy, build(shape and size of your body) becomes a superficial preference. That woman will look past given other qualities you possess that they find desirable to them. Just like...men.
Basically being healthy draws attention and puts you on the menu so to speak.
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You missed his point. He's talking about double standards. Ofc healthy looks are more appealing to everyone. But same standards in women don't apply to them as they do apply to men and that was the point of that post.click to expand
It's not true double standard, it's conditional treatment. What I said is the truth of it. Anyone who says otherwise is lying to themselves. It's like this,
To be fair, we got to define what we are looking for and stage of life we are talking about.
Hookup culture and that stage of life is very superficial. So ya that double standard exists there but it's still actually not. More like supply and demand issue. When it comes to just getting laid, Dick is a dime a dozen.
While men can't say the same on their end unless they meet those superficial standards OR at least really great personality and game.
When people get more serious about relationships, they will look beyond those things if other kinds of attraction and chemistry exist. Even when it comes to just sex the kind of connection and chemistry determines what it's going to be like there too.
On that note, nothing kills attraction lke someone dismissing your desire and attraction, with self loathing. I've come across this situation myself many times. I'm cool with big woman. There have been times I'm flirting or even making a pass at one and some demeaning self deprecating depressing shit comes out their mouth and just kills it for me.
Just wondering if a non famous person would be able to pull off these looks in public and everyone shouts it's body positivity.
People of Walmart don't get such credit!
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People of Walmart don't get such credit!
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I can understand your frustration and I think young people can be very superficial in that way, hell some people are just superficial 🤷♀️ however, I can say that for me it’s all about personality. I have been both fat and fit and I’m somewhere in the middle now, but my ex fiancé who I’m talking to again is on the fluffier size and always has been. At 18 he was over 300lbs and ended up losing about half of that, though that left him with a lot of loose skin that makes him self conscious. I DONT CARE. I think he’s sexy af!!! I mean, I broke my first date rule with him and ravaged him lol best lover I’ve ever had. And even though he’s put some weight back on in the past 10 years again, what really bothers me is him not loving his own body. I just want him to love himself.
I feel like this is a complicated topic. I believe that the “health at every size” narrative is a bunch of bullshit, and of the fat women (I am talking morbidly obese) I know, they post body positive memes in between binge eat sessions of 7,000+ calories a day and self loathing. One girl I know posts angry fat girl memes and rhetoric, to fight for body positivity. She goes to therapy for her weight behind closed doors. Instead of losing the weight, she simply can and will not because she’s an addict of food. Someone who eats this way is not healthy physically obviously, but also not well mentally or emotionally to be able to consume food at this extreme level and risk killing themselves over it in the process. But body positivity right? What a lie to tell yourself and for what. It’s doing no one any favors here.
I don’t believe someone can truly love themselves and be 300+ lbs. People who are morbidly obese and at risk for heart disease, diabetes, etc would care enough about themselves and be aware about themself, their bodies, their health to take better care.
I don’t believe someone can truly love themselves and be 300+ lbs. People who are morbidly obese and at risk for heart disease, diabetes, etc would care enough about themselves and be aware about themself, their bodies, their health to take better care.
Posted by nanochip
I feel like this is a complicated topic. I believe that the “health at every size” narrative is a bunch of bullshit, and of the fat women (I am talking morbidly obese) I know, they post body positive memes in between binge eat sessions of 7,000+ calories a day and self loathing. One girl I know posts angry fat girl memes and rhetoric, to fight for body positivity. She goes to therapy for her weight behind closed doors. Instead of losing the weight, she simply can and will not because she’s an addict of food. Someone who eats this way is not healthy physically obviously, but also not well mentally or emotionally to be able to consume food at this extreme level and risk killing themselves over it in the process. But body positivity right? What a lie to tell yourself and for what. It’s doing no one any favors here.
I don’t believe someone can truly love themselves and be 300+ lbs. People who are morbidly obese and at risk for heart disease, diabetes, etc would care enough about themselves and be aware about themself, their bodies, their health to take better care.
Like I mentioned, the human body gets to a point it can't easily fix itself anymore. It still is possible though, and I won't act like it's not. However, imagine being obese and trying to lose weight. 3 days into it your feet start to crack and bleed due to so much weight and stress on them. It hurts so bad you lose the ability to keep pushing it because you are physically hurting your body to lose the weight. Dealing with actual wounds. Most people just quit and give up. Those type of people need real experts that can help, the only problem is the people who can truly help them want to charge out the ass for some program that might not even work. So I truly feel bad for obese people, especially in America. At that point you pretty much have to pay a ton of money for intense physical exercise training, or intense mental dieting training, which is going to absolutely fuck your body and mind up until a decent amount of weight comes off. Like losing a lot of weight is honestly on par with getting over a heavy drug addiction. I don't give a fuck what thin fit people say either. You have to have so much drive along with willpower, and go through so much more pain and effort to see real results if you are obese. No one can argue that. It's 10 times harder to get fit for someone obese then for someone already maintaining fitness. I feel like healthy people forget that when judging someone obese.
Also 7000 calories a day is insane. Like I use to take about 3000 to 3500 a day with no exercise and ended up fat as fuck within 1 year. I'm assuming you are exaggerating a bit. Like how could someone morbidly obese even afford a 7000 calorie a day diet? There is no way they could hustle enough work to afford that much food, even if its fast-food. Unless someone else is doing it for them I guess.
Posted by MonaLisa26
I think hi issues that being fat his dick seems even smaller than it is so he can’t keep a woman. That sad but he won’t lose weight. That’s is lazy fat ass man and his shitty personality doesn’t help at all.
You are so angry lol. He must have really got under your skin.
Posted by SoulPosted by nanochip
I feel like this is a complicated topic. I believe that the “health at every size” narrative is a bunch of bullshit, and of the fat women (I am talking morbidly obese) I know, they post body positive memes in between binge eat sessions of 7,000+ calories a day and self loathing. One girl I know posts angry fat girl memes and rhetoric, to fight for body positivity. She goes to therapy for her weight behind closed doors. Instead of losing the weight, she simply can and will not because she’s an addict of food. Someone who eats this way is not healthy physically obviously, but also not well mentally or emotionally to be able to consume food at this extreme level and risk killing themselves over it in the process. But body positivity right? What a lie to tell yourself and for what. It’s doing no one any favors here.
I don’t believe someone can truly love themselves and be 300+ lbs. People who are morbidly obese and at risk for heart disease, diabetes, etc would care enough about themselves and be aware about themself, their bodies, their health to take better care.
Like I mentioned, the human body gets to a point it can't easily fix itself anymore. It still is possible though, and I won't act like it's not. However, imagine being obese and trying to lose weight. 3 days into it your feet start to crack and bleed due to so much weight and stress on them. It hurts so bad you lose the ability to keep pushing it because you are physically hurting your body to lose the weight. Dealing with actual wounds. Most people just quit and give up. Those type of people need real experts that can help, the only problem is the people who can truly help them want to charge out the ass for some program that might not even work. So I truly feel bad for obese people, especially in America. At that point you pretty much have to pay a ton of money for intense physical exercise training, or intense mental dieting training, which is going to absolutely fuck your body and mind up until a decent amount of weight comes off. Like losing a lot of weight is honestly on par with getting over a heavy drug addiction. I don't give a fuck what thin fit people say either. You have to have so much drive along with willpower, and go through so much more pain and effort to see real results if you are obese. No one can argue that. It's 10 times harder to get fit for someone obese then for someone already maintaining fitness. I feel like healthy people forget that when judging someone obese.
Also 7000 calories a day is insane. Like I use to take about 3000 to 3500 a day with no exercise and ended up fat as fuck within 1 year. I'm assuming you are exaggerating a bit. Like how could someone morbidly obese even afford a 7000 calorie a day diet? There is no way they could hustle enough work to afford that much food, even if its fast-food. Unless someone else is doing it for them I guess.
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Well a 400-450lb woman of average height in her mid thirties has to eat already around 3000-3500 calories a day on average to maintain that weight. If that’s an average day, it’s not completely unreasonable that they would eat twice that when going through a mental/emotional breakdown + binge eating session. I’ve personally known someone who can eat an entire tub of ice cream and a dozen donuts in 1 setting. And that was in front of people…. Who knows what happens behind closed doors. It’s a legitimate illness
I agree with everything else you said, it would basically be like a drug addict trying to stop using. My whole point was that you have to be in a really dark and self deprecating place in your mind to get to that point where it becomes so severe as with any type of addiction, so I reject the notion of “health at every size” and that morbidly obese people can truly love themselves as they are.
As for the OP, I am not familiar with what dating culture is like for really fat people. I imagine it’s not very kind. It is a surprise to me to hear that fat women would reject fat men. I never knew of this happening, but I think maybe it boils down more to unrealistic standards which is commonplace
Posted by SoulPosted by MonaLisa26
I think hi issues that being fat his dick seems even smaller than it is so he can’t keep a woman. That sad but he won’t lose weight. That’s is lazy fat ass man and his shitty personality doesn’t help at all.
You are so angry lol. He must have really got under your skin.click to expand
And yet she thanked that Sagittarius stubborn user for not taking this place seriously to her heart and this site ain't for the weak. And now look who's contradicting themself. MonaLisa26
Posted by nanochip
I feel like this is a complicated topic. I believe that the “health at every size” narrative is a bunch of bullshit, and of the fat women (I am talking morbidly obese) I know, they post body positive memes in between binge eat sessions of 7,000+ calories a day and self loathing. One girl I know posts angry fat girl memes and rhetoric, to fight for body positivity. She goes to therapy for her weight behind closed doors. Instead of losing the weight, she simply can and will not because she’s an addict of food. Someone who eats this way is not healthy physically obviously, but also not well mentally or emotionally to be able to consume food at this extreme level and risk killing themselves over it in the process. But body positivity right? What a lie to tell yourself and for what. It’s doing no one any favors here.
I don’t believe someone can truly love themselves and be 300+ lbs. People who are morbidly obese and at risk for heart disease, diabetes, etc would care enough about themselves and be aware about themself, their bodies, their health to take better care.
I never felt insecure when I was 300+ lbs. I guess because all that weight I had was pretty tight and solid and not sloppy and greesy looking. I was just a big boned person who was as big as a brick wall and was quite content with it. I think my biggest downfall and sadness struck when I lost all that weight due to diabetes. But now I learn to accept that because I was heading for disaster. So that what saved me and brought me to my senses. I don't want to end up on my 600 pound life someday. Good thing about it all is I haven't lost any muscles. I still got all my definitions in my arms and shoulders still big and muscular enough to literally kill a man by tackling them. I was a sight to look at. Now I'm just a plain ole attraction to look at.
It's incredibly amazing how I could still run at full speed at 300 pounds and kick my legs up high enough to touch my forehead. Not very many 300 pounders can do that. And now I can't do any of the above. And I thought you suppose to have energy and flexible enough to do those razzle dazzle type stuff when you lose weight. Not the case with me.
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Just wondering if a non famous person would be able to pull off these looks in public and everyone shouts it's body positivity.
People of Walmart don't get such credit!
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Personally, I couldn't give a fuck whether the woman is famous or not. And anyone with that pathetic mindset is brainwashed scum.
One thing that always makes me shudder is the passing thought of how obese people are able to effectively clean their arses after going to the toilet.
Delusional romanticism is one thing but, hey, let's be fucking practical here.
You might BE on something here. Women run when they smell him.
I actually ALWAYS curious how fat people fucking. There is NO WAY!!! Imagining that fat man has a hard on for more than 2 seconds is a myth…because he start thinking of a donut and erection just gone! Right @ BlackTeddyBear2click to expand
Let me give you a piece of history. My stepdad was a fat man and made kids. You would be surprise to know how many fat men fucked and got kids. If you put down the cell phone or whatever you use to forever stay on dxpnet and go outside and meet some big people you'll know just how many big people fucked and produced. Even I myself was sexually active as a huge man. And I had women and produced. Now what you got to say about that?
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by nanochip
I feel like this is a complicated topic. I believe that the “health at every size” narrative is a bunch of bullshit, and of the fat women (I am talking morbidly obese) I know, they post body positive memes in between binge eat sessions of 7,000+ calories a day and self loathing. One girl I know posts angry fat girl memes and rhetoric, to fight for body positivity. She goes to therapy for her weight behind closed doors. Instead of losing the weight, she simply can and will not because she’s an addict of food. Someone who eats this way is not healthy physically obviously, but also not well mentally or emotionally to be able to consume food at this extreme level and risk killing themselves over it in the process. But body positivity right? What a lie to tell yourself and for what. It’s doing no one any favors here.
I don’t believe someone can truly love themselves and be 300+ lbs. People who are morbidly obese and at risk for heart disease, diabetes, etc would care enough about themselves and be aware about themself, their bodies, their health to take better care.
I never felt insecure when I was 300+ lbs. I guess because all that weight I had was pretty tight and solid and not sloppy and greesy looking. I was just a big boned person who was as big as a brick wall and was quite content with it. I think my biggest downfall and sadness struck when I lost all that weight due to diabetes. But now I learn to accept that because I was heading for disaster. So that what saved me and brought me to my senses. I don't want to end up on my 600 pound life someday. Good thing about it all is I haven't lost any muscles. I still got all my definitions in my arms and shoulders still big and muscular enough to literally kill a man by tackling them. I was a sight to look at. Now I'm just a plain ole attraction to look at.click to expand
But you just proved my point, because you said you had to lose weight for your diabetes and knew you were heading for disaster. There’s no way someone that big can be healthy, so the “health at every size” thing is a joke and a lie people are telling themselves.
Maybe a 6’8 line backer athlete can be healthy at that weight. I don’t know.
Posted by nanochipPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by nanochipI never felt insecure when I was 300+ lbs. I guess because all that weight I had was pretty tight and solid and not sloppy and greesy looking. I was just a big boned person who was as big as a brick wall and was quite content with it. I think my biggest downfall and sadness struck when I lost all that weight due to diabetes. But now I learn to accept that because I was heading for disaster. So that what saved me and brought me to my senses. I don't want to end up on my 600 pound life someday. Good thing about it all is I haven't lost any muscles. I still got all my definitions in my arms and shoulders still big and muscular enough to literally kill a man by tackling them. I was a sight to look at. Now I'm just a plain ole attraction to look at.
I feel like this is a complicated topic. I believe that the “health at every size” narrative is a bunch of bullshit, and of the fat women (I am talking morbidly obese) I know, they post body positive memes in between binge eat sessions of 7,000+ calories a day and self loathing. One girl I know posts angry fat girl memes and rhetoric, to fight for body positivity. She goes to therapy for her weight behind closed doors. Instead of losing the weight, she simply can and will not because she’s an addict of food. Someone who eats this way is not healthy physically obviously, but also not well mentally or emotionally to be able to consume food at this extreme level and risk killing themselves over it in the process. But body positivity right? What a lie to tell yourself and for what. It’s doing no one any favors here.
I don’t believe someone can truly love themselves and be 300+ lbs. People who are morbidly obese and at risk for heart disease, diabetes, etc would care enough about themselves and be aware about themself, their bodies, their health to take better care.
But you just proved my point, because you said you had to lose weight for your diabetes and knew you were heading for disaster. There’s no way someone that big can be healthy, so the “health at every size” thing is a joke and a lie people are telling themselves.
Maybe a 6’8 line backer athlete can be healthy at that weight. I don’t know.click to expand
Actually I was implying that it's a good thing I lost the weight. To be truthfully honest, I didn't want to lose the weight in fear of muscles turning to flabs. I wanted to keep it all tight. Luckily I don't have any flabs tho. The weight just fell off. When your blood glucose is very high and stays on the very high level without properly maintaining it unexplain weight loss happens. All it did was made me learn a valuable lesson. Cus if I was in full control over this whole thing without diabetes entering my life I wouldn't of been here today.
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Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by nanochipPosted by SoulWell a 400-450lb woman of average height in her mid thirties has to eat already around 3000-3500 calories a day on average to maintain that weight. If that’s an average day, it’s not completely unreasonable that they would eat twice that when going through a mental/emotional breakdown + binge eating session. I’ve personally known someone who can eat an entire tub of ice cream and a dozen donuts in 1 setting. And that was in front of people…. Who knows what happens behind closed doors. It’s a legitimate illnessPosted by nanochip
I feel like this is a complicated topic. I believe that the “health at every size” narrative is a bunch of bullshit, and of the fat women (I am talking morbidly obese) I know, they post body positive memes in between binge eat sessions of 7,000+ calories a day and self loathing. One girl I know posts angry fat girl memes and rhetoric, to fight for body positivity. She goes to therapy for her weight behind closed doors. Instead of losing the weight, she simply can and will not because she’s an addict of food. Someone who eats this way is not healthy physically obviously, but also not well mentally or emotionally to be able to consume food at this extreme level and risk killing themselves over it in the process. But body positivity right? What a lie to tell yourself and for what. It’s doing no one any favors here.
I don’t believe someone can truly love themselves and be 300+ lbs. People who are morbidly obese and at risk for heart disease, diabetes, etc would care enough about themselves and be aware about themself, their bodies, their health to take better care.
Like I mentioned, the human body gets to a point it can't easily fix itself anymore. It still is possible though, and I won't act like it's not. However, imagine being obese and trying to lose weight. 3 days into it your feet start to crack and bleed due to so much weight and stress on them. It hurts so bad you lose the ability to keep pushing it because you are physically hurting your body to lose the weight. Dealing with actual wounds. Most people just quit and give up. Those type of people need real experts that can help, the only problem is the people who can truly help them want to charge out the ass for some program that might not even work. So I truly feel bad for obese people, especially in America. At that point you pretty much have to pay a ton of money for intense physical exercise training, or intense mental dieting training, which is going to absolutely fuck your body and mind up until a decent amount of weight comes off. Like losing a lot of weight is honestly on par with getting over a heavy drug addiction. I don't give a fuck what thin fit people say either. You have to have so much drive along with willpower, and go through so much more pain and effort to see real results if you are obese. No one can argue that. It's 10 times harder to get fit for someone obese then for someone already maintaining fitness. I feel like healthy people forget that when judging someone obese.
Also 7000 calories a day is insane. Like I use to take about 3000 to 3500 a day with no exercise and ended up fat as fuck within 1 year. I'm assuming you are exaggerating a bit. Like how could someone morbidly obese even afford a 7000 calorie a day diet? There is no way they could hustle enough work to afford that much food, even if its fast-food. Unless someone else is doing it for them I guess.
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I agree with everything else you said, it would basically be like a drug addict trying to stop using. My whole point was that you have to be in a really dark and self deprecating place in your mind to get to that point where it becomes so severe as with any type of addiction, so I reject the notion of “health at every size” and that morbidly obese people can truly love themselves as they are.
As for the OP, I am not familiar with what dating culture is like for really fat people. I imagine it’s not very kind. It is a surprise to me to hear that fat women would reject fat men. I never knew of this happening, but I think maybe it boils down more to unrealistic standards which is commonplace
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@BlackTeddyBear2
Bozo doesn’t get that his fat ass comes with shitty personality and 100% bad sex.
It’s NOBODY’s fault BUT HIS! His fat ass - his fault!
He won’t admit being narcissistic pos and all!click to expand
ROFL!!!
sooooo mad!!!!!
And this coming from a whale, or at least that's what others in the community have said. You're proving the point of this thread. And you're probably like.... 40+. Such a pathetic existence. Look at how much time you spend on here.
I would happily be all of the things you said about me instead of be you.
Posted by MonaLisa26
I think hi issues that being fat his dick seems even smaller than it is so he can’t keep a woman. That sad but he won’t lose weight. That’s is lazy fat ass man and his shitty personality doesn’t help at all.
Sometimes I wonder how 2 morbidly obese people have sex. Because those couples seem common.
Or do they just live a life of oral sex only.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by MonaLisa26
I think hi issues that being fat his dick seems even smaller than it is so he can’t keep a woman. That sad but he won’t lose weight. That’s is lazy fat ass man and his shitty personality doesn’t help at all.
Sometimes I wonder how 2 morbidly obese people have sex. Because those couples seem common.
Or do they just live a life of oral sex only.click to expand
It only works if one Fat person is less fat than the other. They both can't be morbidly obese and of the same size and make sex work. Virtually impossible.
Every woman I've had has been smaller than me.
first time i've heard of 'feeder' 🤔🤔
wonder what sign would practice that 🤔🤔
wonder what sign would practice that 🤔🤔
Posted by BunnyMacDougalPosted by BunnyMacDougal
Who are the fat bitches on here?click to expand
Next time quote me 😭…. I know you’re talking about me
the most gorgeous of my friends married a dude that looks like majin buu.
that's her ideal type tho coz she told me she wants a man and a baby to take care of at the same time. turns out she doesn't really mean that as like 2 separate beings but wants all that even in just one person.
he's a doctor tho so yeah.
that's her ideal type tho coz she told me she wants a man and a baby to take care of at the same time. turns out she doesn't really mean that as like 2 separate beings but wants all that even in just one person.
he's a doctor tho so yeah.
Posted by virgoOPPP
the most gorgeous of my friends married a dude that looks like majin buu.
that's her ideal type tho coz she told me she wants a man and a baby to take care of at the same time. turns out she doesn't really mean that as like 2 separate beings but wants all that even in just one person.
he's a doctor tho so yeah.
Yeah....
Goes back to what I'm saying. If you're a Fat Man, you either have to be the Fat Funny Guy or have Money/Status.
Again, you can't be Fat AND Regular.
Luckily, I have money and humor on my side 😂
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
I have noticed the double standard between genders (calling a man fat is socially acceptable but not calling a woman fat)
I'm probably just being envious here but
some of the local overweight "baddies" (not actual plus size models who look good in raw, full-focus camera images and on video) have the same formula for getting tons of male praise:
-bleach your hair - pose in "snap" pose from bend & snap from legally blonde -apply teen filter -most importantly, include a caption such as the following:
"Love yourself enough to never give up !!" "Make life the best you can !!!" "Don’t ever let anybody get in the way of your happiness !!! if hating on you makes him happy then shine even brighter !! with every Curvy road there always be a straight path!!! " "if I you can’t love my fat rolls my fat thighs messed up  smile !! My three children than so be it 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️because I’m learning to love my self more an more daily !! I’m learning my worthily !! 😉"
It's a catch 22 situation.
Body shaming is bad. There are legitimate body types people are born with that do not match current societies "standards".To top it off depression is a leading culprit of weight gain. There is a vicious cycle there.
To be clear obesity.. is obesity that's the only exception to what I'm saying, it's bad and should never be encouraged or glorified.
Are you healthy? Are you happy? Should be the only concerns. They say yes, let them do them.
Work with your body type. Not everyone needs to look like Hefner's girlfriends or supermodels, popstars, and whatever the fuck the Kardashians are🤮 etc.
Be happy be healthy.
Btw I love woman with meat. Be it mom bods/milfs, lower body woman, softball players....😉
I'm sure biological hardwiring and my personal experience has a lot to do with that preference..but I'm ok with that.
P.S it the 1600 hundreds fat woman were considered desirable by society because they were "well kept" so to speak. Same could be said with not being Tan and yet modern days having a tan is attractive..
Oh ya 90s super models living off of celery, speed, and cocaine to keep that "attractive" body and their jobs.
Society is well...bullshit.
Happy and healthy✌️
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by dragonh0rsecvck
I have noticed the double standard between genders (calling a man fat is socially acceptable but not calling a woman fat)
I'm probably just being envious here but
some of the local overweight "baddies" (not actual plus size models who look good in raw, full-focus camera images and on video) have the same formula for getting tons of male praise:
-bleach your hair - pose in "snap" pose from bend & snap from legally blonde -apply teen filter -most importantly, include a caption such as the following:
"Love yourself enough to never give up !!" "Make life the best you can !!!" "Don’t ever let anybody get in the way of your happiness !!! if hating on you makes him happy then shine even brighter !! with every Curvy road there always be a straight path!!! " "if I you can’t love my fat rolls my fat thighs messed up  smile !! My three children than so be it 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️because I’m learning to love my self more an more daily !! I’m learning my worthily !! 😉"
It's a catch 22 situation.
Body shaming is bad. There are legitimate body types people are born with that do not match current societies "standards".To top it off depression is a leading culprit of weight gain. There is a vicious cycle there.
To be clear obesity.. is obesity that's the only exception to what I'm saying, it's bad and should never be encouraged or glorified.
Are you healthy? Are you happy? Should be the only concerns. They say yes, let them do them.
Work with your body type. Not everyone needs to look like Hefner's girlfriends or supermodels, popstars, and whatever the fuck the Kardashians are🤮 etc.
Be happy be healthy.
Btw I love woman with meat. Be it mom bods/milfs, lower body woman, softball players....😉
I'm sure biological hardwiring and my personal experience has a lot to do with that preference..but I'm ok with that.
P.S it the 1600 hundreds fat woman were considered desirable by society because they were "well kept" so to speak. Same could be said with not being Tan and yet modern days having a tan is attractive..
Oh ya 90s super models living off of celery, speed, and cocaine to keep that "attractive" body and their jobs.
Society is well...bullshit.
Happy and healthy✌️
I definitely think men prefer meat + a pretty face
I grew up in ballet and also like being pale
but idk if I could gain and look good and am too afraid to find outclick to expand
Ballet? If I remember correctly ballet is extremely competitive and demanding on the body. To the point only people with a certain body type progress. Slim slender frame correct?
If you are happy with how you are then be happy with it.
Now the healthy part. I know a lot of the opposite side of the scale.
I have a few questions for you.
I assume that picture is real and you correct?
There are many warning signs that are universal when it comes to being under weight.
You have a slender face but not angler.
Do your cheeks sink in?
Are your ribs clearly visible beyond the bottom one?
Excluding old injuries, do you some times feel like your muscles are aching as if you excersised but you did not?
Do you feel fatigued often throughout the day?
These are all signs of having too low of body fat.
If you wish to gain a little weight and still maintain a healthy look, eat when you are hungry.
This one is key:
Listen to your body's cravings for certain foods. While avoid eating a lot of sweets with a lot of processed sugars.
Continue to excersise as you always have. Considering your background your body will shift weight in the right places.
Genetically, we are all attracted to signs of good health. The social trends are just that. Temporary trends that shift. Unless you plan on spending your whole life and energy keeping up with that, ignore it.
As far as attraction goes, there is one other aspect of attraction people rarely talk about. That is self expression through style . When someone is happy with themselves and is confident in themselves. They naturally draw attention, man or woman.
In the case of style of dress, whatever your is, displaying that will draw someone that is more apt to like you for you.
It just like the difference between wearing a revealing red dress vs. Simple Black dress vs. covered up with a full sweater.
It has little to do with the expense/price itself of the cloths themselves, rather how you feel in them and what you wish to convey to others.
We are such interestingly complex creatures.
I see so many overweight people and wonder why they don’t worry about their health?
Apart from the way they look, it’s so unhealthy to be more than a few pounds overweight. You can still eat well and lose some pounds.
I saw two women cramming burgers and chips down their throats in a cafe last week and wondered if they are aware of how they live
and the health risks.
They were both massive…
Apart from the way they look, it’s so unhealthy to be more than a few pounds overweight. You can still eat well and lose some pounds.
I saw two women cramming burgers and chips down their throats in a cafe last week and wondered if they are aware of how they live
and the health risks.
They were both massive…
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by alexscariesPosted by Saturn_Returns
What I don't get is Americans' fixation with beauty equating to thick, large or 'excessively voluptuous' frames.
I mean when did the goalposts suddenly change?
Hip hop videos and porn
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And influencers.
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The ideal body type got even harder to achieve like how hard is it genetically to achieve this without just getting fat and looking terrible. And they're all like, it's body positivity no it's not they moved the goal posts even further hahahah.
Posted by MyStarsShine
I see so many overweight people and wonder why they don’t worry about their health?
Apart from the way they look, it’s so unhealthy to be more than a few pounds overweight. You can still eat well and lose some pounds.
I saw two women cramming burgers and chips down their throats in a cafe last week and wondered if they are aware of how they live
and the health risks.
They were both massive…
Quite frankly I love to see people eat and enjoy themselves whether their overweight, morbidly obese or even thin. When company come by the first thing i do is offer them something to eat. I dont like to let my peeps go hungry. That strong cancer and water dom'll do that to ya. I think the worst thing you can do is kindly tell overweight eaters about it or even just thinking to yourself about their eating habits. It only hurts them to oblivion and it would make them eat more than usual. Personally I say just let them enjoy themselves stuffing burgers fries and pizzas down their throats without thinking negatively of them. In my opinion that is the equivalent of fat shaming.
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by MyStarsShine
I see so many overweight people and wonder why they don’t worry about their health?
Apart from the way they look, it’s so unhealthy to be more than a few pounds overweight. You can still eat well and lose some pounds.
I saw two women cramming burgers and chips down their throats in a cafe last week and wondered if they are aware of how they live
and the health risks.
They were both massive…
Quite frankly I love to see people eat and enjoy themselves whether their overweight, morbidly obese or even thin. When company come by the first thing i do is offer them something to eat. I dont like to let my peeps go hungry. That strong cancer and water dom'll do that to ya. I think the worst thing you can do is kindly tell overweight eaters about it or even just thinking to yourself about their eating habits. It only hurts them to oblivion and it would make them eat more than usual. Personally I say just let them enjoy themselves stuffing burgers fries and pizzas down their throats without thinking negatively of them. In my opinion that is the equivalent of fat shaming.click to expand
No it isn’t it’s about people putting their health first ….
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by BigTeddyBear2
I said what I said. I think most men will agree.
How many times are we going to pretend like all fat women are beautiful no matter how they look.... just for being fat. Meanwhile, these same fat bitches will shame a fat man in a second. And everyone will laugh and tell him to lose weight. A fat woman won't even date a fat man 99% of the time.
Some fat women look good. But it's still not good to tell a fat person to not to try and better themselves. As a fat ass man myself, I have to be in the gym 6 days a week w/ a proper diet just so a woman will even look my way. But I have to accept a woman as she comes?
Whatever their build is we are naturally attracted to people who are in a healthy state. It's part of our biological wiring.
Beyond being healthy, build(shape and size of your body) becomes a superficial preference. That woman will look past given other qualities you possess that they find desirable to them. Just like...men.
Basically being healthy draws attention and puts you on the menu so to speak.
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Yes it does…
Posted by alexscariesPosted by Saturn_Returns
What I don't get is Americans' fixation with beauty equating to thick, large or 'excessively voluptuous' frames.
I mean when did the goalposts suddenly change?
Hip hop videos and pornclick to expand
Rap is influential, but in no way shape or form does it dictate what's shown in Vogue or Women's Health magazines and change what's socially accepted in other cultures.
We need to go further back. The obesity rate was almost 70% back in 2003.. 66% of people were fat in America. This was back when everyone was supersizing every meal.
When the supersize me documentary came out some reform happened, but then 10 years or so later, Twitter's popularity exploded and suddenly everyone was offended at every thing imaginable. The culture then shifted to where opinions became facts. All of a sudden 10K people agreeing with a tweet made it factual and you're wrong for disagreeing.
Even though being overweight is only socially acceptable for women, it's NOT socially acceptable to blame or put them at fault for being happy with it. This is the mistake Adam made with Eve, he blamed his wife. The goalposts change when men are afraid to stand their ground or express concerns about what they dislike.
The exact same thing has happened to online dating. Women are able to have a list of requirements but are offended if a man has preferences. Men are afraid and change their beliefs to conform. The end result is always a shit-show
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I am currently working on an MBA online. I do not prefer online school as I am a traditionalist when it comes to school. But at any rate I wanna go to Music School instead because it's my passion and I know I can at least be an Audio Engineer at the leas
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would it make more sense if this guy broke up with me?
so i've been dating this guy since june. and i absolutely love him (not that it prevented me from trying to break up with him at least once a month) but for lack of better words, i went absolute
offerings work on you?
pls state sun and venus
How do you feel about a woman proposing to a man? Would it bother you somehow, or wouldn’t you have any issues with that?
Would you say yes if it happened to you?
There's a gunshow coming up and I'm thinking about getting either an AK or a AR. I'm much more familiar with the AR, but was leaning toward the AK because of its reliability and greater stopping power. Any input on the two from those that know?
Just need to vent.
So I have to female roommates, Carla is borderline and her boyfriend almost lives here, he spent months in her room. Sarah got fed up and finally complained to the landlord.
Carla had a breakdown cried and deleted Sarahs number. Then s
I was cooking my lunch yesterday, and the neighbor comes over, who I had talked to a couple times before in passing, and complains that there is a snake behind her house and wanted me to come kill it. So I go over there to look at it, and it's a damn cott
Would date one? Why or why not?
I downloaded a dating app and naturally most women in my age group have kid(s). I don't make any kind or value judgement about that, but it did make me consider the hypothetical situation of dating a woman with kids and wh
Say yes or no please list your sun, moon, and Venus sign. You can give explanation if you want. Me No sun Virgo, moon cap, Venus Virgo.
Say yes or no please list your sun, moon, and Venus sign. You can give explanation if you want. Me No sun Virgo, moon cap, Venus Virgo.
You're hanging out with a female friend who you only have platonic friendship feelings for when all of a sudden she tells you how wet she is and whips out her pussy telling you to feel how wet she is and that she wants to ride that dick.
What do you do?
Fellas, how long would you be serious with a lady before considering this—
Your interested in a lady romantically… maybe… you reach out a little but not much.. you’ve hung out a couple times but she isn’t jumping on your bone.. so to speak.
Can you turn it around and just be mates?
Does she need to tell you that or will y
Guys, what are some of the things women do that turn you that they may not necessarily realize are turn-ons? What about turn-offs, what are they?
For me, posture. And taller women can pull this off so well, but a straight back, poise and intentional mann
a dude go for a woman he looks down on?
why would he make chad posts about how men like him don't have enough standards like: "I know we can be shallow, always going for looks. But I've decided I'm not ever gonna fold and date desperate single moms. They
someone act like this?
so there's this cheap asf guy who cheated on his gf. she was faithful and gave him a lot of freedom to do whatever he wanted. never relied on him financially ever nor nagged him about drinking or whatever. anyway, she found out and
How many times are we going to pretend like all fat women are beautiful no matter how they look.... just for being fat. Meanwhile, these same fat bitches will shame a fat man in a second. And everyone will laugh and tell him to lose weight. A fat woman won't even date a fat man 99% of the time.
Some fat women look good. But it's still not good to tell a fat person to not to try and better themselves. As a fat ass man myself, I have to be in the gym 6 days a week w/ a proper diet just so a woman will even look my way. But I have to accept a woman as she comes?