@malloryor
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How does it feel for Men to be fucked and "dumped"? (Page 2)
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Posted by malloryor
Okay so if you all are in a relationship, I am going to go with the assumption that you would feel hurt or betrayed in some way. But this is about fwb, casual hookups and sex with women you are dating just not in love with yet.It rarely happens that a woman can sneak out of a man's bed without him noticing. Unless she's leaving at 4 a.m. in the morning I'd say there's no way she can just leave without saying a word.
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i guess this is because men are constantly poised to catch burglars, even in their sleep.
Posted by malloryor
Okay so if you all are in a relationship, I am going to go with the assumption that you would feel hurt or betrayed in some way. But this is about fwb, casual hookups and sex with women you are dating just not in love with yet.It rarely happens that a woman can sneak out of a man's bed without him noticing. Unless she's leaving at 4 a.m. in the morning I'd say there's no way she can just leave without saying a word.
i guess this is because men are constantly poised to catch burglars, even in their sleep.
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It's an unspoken rule: we all know - no matter the circumstances - it's because "boner is always up first".
Posted by GiveMeAqua
Though I'm no man and am guilty of such behavior.. I even made my now Aqua ex feel crummy when I made him go home a good 10 minutes after the act (that was when we were fwb at the time). Not something I'm proud of, of course, but from experience a lot of males can feel just as used as females do when these things happen..
Aww now I feel bad for the Aqua but in a strange way it probably made him want to see you as more than a fwb.
Posted by GiveMeAqua
Though I'm no man and am guilty of such behavior.. I even made my now Aqua ex feel crummy when I made him go home a good 10 minutes after the act (that was when we were fwb at the time). Not something I'm proud of, of course, but from experience a lot of males can feel just as used as females do when these things happen..Aww now I feel bad for the Aqua but in a strange way it probably made him want to see you as more than a fwb.
Yes it was, but he didn't admit to it until 3 months
in lol then asked me to marry him a few months after that..
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Wow an Aqua proposing lol
I ended several FWB "relationships".
Sag accepted it and didn't call me again. We bumped into each other 2-3 years later....he was very pleased to see me, bought me a drink and wrote me his phone number ....if he ever got hurt/offended, it certainly did not show!
Aqua was probably a bit hurt...he kept on sending me friendly emails with news from his life for a year or so...I never replied, so he eventually gave up. We bumped once into each other for a second and he complimented my looks.
Posted by Palerio
I don't believe one word Finbuff is saying.Dude - none of what I said is made up - not ONE word. Trust me...there's many more. What point would there possibly be to make any of this up?
To feel good about yourself.
Well I don't need to make up stories to feel good about myself. And honestly it doesn't matter if you or anyone else believes me or not. The fact is, most of it is nothing to be terribly proud of, but it's all true. DJ said he had 300.....maybe exaggerated, maybe not. I'd guess I've had 150, maybe 100 or somewhere in between.
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So you're spoiled and used goods? How many stds?
Posted by Palerio
I don't believe one word Finbuff is saying.Dude - none of what I said is made up - not ONE word. Trust me...there's many more. What point would there possibly be to make any of this up?
To feel good about yourself.
Well I don't need to make up stories to feel good about myself. And honestly it doesn't matter if you or anyone else believes me or not. The fact is, most of it is nothing to be terribly proud of, but it's all true. DJ said he had 300.....maybe exaggerated, maybe not. I'd guess I've had 150, maybe 100 or somewhere in between.
So you're spoiled and used goods? How many stds?
I guess these types of men are forever lost
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No, they'll find the kind of birds that are just like them.....and that's fine, to each their own. Considering how he "slut shames" I thought I'd see how he likes being labeled a slut.
Hahahahahahahahahahaha at this topic omg.
I had this one friend in college who had the worst luck with girls, he'd always end up hitting the bars near campus or try to get lucky in the clubs we all went out to. He did though, he would get laid.
This one time though, the girl did just as you described-she bounced sometime during the night and my friend said he woke up feeling like a 12 year old school girl being put on the spot in class, hahahahaha
His face was priceless, sheer wonder and utter confusion. Like its so atypical for girls to pull that it completely mind fucked him for the longest and all he could do was think of why she left and if he was a bad lay.
Asked me for advice that whole afternoon. Whether I'd ever done that and why, gave me a whole rundown of way too much information so I could try and decipher where he went wrong. It was a huge deal for a random girl I thought, but oh did it matter.
So yes, I think they care and it bruises their egos the seldom times it does happen lol
Dying, op. Haha —?
Posted by Darthwe
Hahahahahahahahahahaha at this topic omg.I had this one friend in college who had the worst luck with girls, he'd always end up hitting the bars near campus or try to get lucky in the clubs we all went out to. He did though, he would get laid.
This one time though, the girl did just as you described-she bounced sometime during the night and my friend said he woke up feeling like a 12 year old school girl being put on the spot in class, hahahahaha
His face was priceless, sheer wonder and utter confusion. Like its so atypical for girls to pull that it completely mind fucked him for the longest and all he could do was think of why she left and if he was a bad lay.
Asked me for advice that whole afternoon. Whether I'd ever done that and why, gave me a whole rundown of way too much information so I could try and decipher where he went wrong. It was a huge deal for a random girl I thought, but oh did it matter.
So yes, I think they care and it bruises their egos the seldom times it does happen lol
Dying, op. Haha —?
Wow hahaha that was probably one of the best descriptions in response to this thread, thanks! Did your friend ever talk or hook up with that girl again? Did it make him in a weird way more into her ? Did he ever figure out why she dipped?
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Were you bf and gf or just dating? He could of talked it over before cslling it quits.