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This topic was created in the The Man Cave forum by Listenlearnteach on Tuesday, June 14, 2016 and has 36 replies.

Why Men Are Drawn to Clingy Women Based on Astrology

Men with certain sun and moon signs may feel more emotionally connected to clingy women due to their need for intimacy and reassurance. Understanding your astrological profile can reveal why you might be attracted to clinginess and how it influences your relationships. Recognizing these traits helps improve relationship harmony and personal insight.

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@AL4813
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Leo sun/sag moon

One of my sons mom is a cancer sun and she ridiculously clingy. That's the reason we never stayed together. She didn't want me going anywhere by myself and always wanted to come along.

At first I thought I liked the clingyness but it ended up suffocating me. We maintain contact due to my son but I have to end the conversation because she crosses the line and comes on to me knowing I'm married with another son.

What I did like about clingyness is that it led to sex much quicker.

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@LillyPetal
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I bet there is a higher ratio of men that like clingy women than men that don't. I've only hear women complain about themselves being clingy! I rarely hear guys talk about women being clingy unless he doesn't like her or she's abusive.

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@RumiL
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Yes yes, tell us! 🙌

I'm going to cling whether my husband likes it or not 😄 ..otherwise I'll feel like fish out of water! 😄 (fish mars)

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I'm coming to the reality that my lover I chose for life will likely be clingy. The fact is I have trust issues, major issues with jealousy, and I'm extremely controlling. The type of women who aren't clingy will just make worry and then I disengage from the relationship. Clingy women piss me off a bit too, which is exactly the reason why I'll end up wit no one.

Leo sun scorpio moon.

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Posted by starlover

Posted by Soul
I'm coming to the reality that my lover I chose for life will likely be clingy. The fact is I have trust issues, major issues with jealousy, and I'm extremely controlling. The type of women who aren't clingy will just make worry and then I disengage from the relationship. Clingy women piss me off a bit too, which is exactly the reason why I'll end up wit no one.

Leo sun scorpio moon.

Of course you won't......you will find your match, Soul

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I sure hope so. I'll be 26 July 30, and my personality doenst seem to be getting less weird and anti social with time..

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Posted by Soul
I'm coming to the reality that my lover I chose for life will likely be clingy. The fact is I have trust issues, major issues with jealousy, and I'm extremely controlling. The type of women who aren't clingy will just make worry and then I disengage from the relationship. Clingy women piss me off a bit too, which is exactly the reason why I'll end up wit no one.

Leo sun scorpio moon.

Thank you for your input.

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@kissmygrits
14 Years5,000+ PostsCancer

I can be clingy but I prefer to give freedom and they give me freedom. It's when I'm feeling insecure I get all panicky and cling wrap. That's when I sense I'm being used or they are detaching for some reason. If I see it's a loss I withdraw and do my own thing to get my mind off the dickwad.

This is with so called friends too. Most of my gang I've known for 10+ years. Others are just people I know.

Oops this was for dudes. Sewry! Carry on.

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Posted by Ryoko

Posted by Soul
I'm coming to the reality that my lover I chose for life will likely be clingy. The fact is I have trust issues, major issues with jealousy, and I'm extremely controlling. The type of women who aren't clingy will just make worry and then I disengage from the relationship. Clingy women piss me off a bit too, which is exactly the reason why I'll end up wit no one.

Leo sun scorpio moon.

Can you explain this a bit more. They make you worry so you disengage--how do you disengage, i mean is it easy like with the snap of your fingers?

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Its hard to explain. Somewhat like bottling things till I'm so upset of frustrated my true and real opinions and thoughts explode, and jet propel me straight out of the relationship.

Most people aren't ready for how I truly feel, because both Leo suns and Scorpio moons are the kings at hiding how they truly feel. So what I truly feel is normally the total opposite of what my timid friendly Cancer rising is showing the world.

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Posted by Fox
smh going to have to slap all the non-clingy people i.e men.
yer all going to die at some point, so ya might as well cling for dear life.
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I love you, fox ˜

I need to find a Cap moon or Taurus moon.

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Posted by starlover
The question is probably best here because men maybe look at this forum more, than r/ship one?

The question was meant for the man cave audience. I wanted to get a mans perspective in its raw form. Now all that have chimed in are appreciated but that was the intent.

@(this user above) the bumps are welcome too

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Relationships board is that way ->

You're more than welcome to go. Pft

Your more than welcome to ask there.

Is there a section for grammatical questions?

Is there a section for stupid questions?

How about one for stupid people?

How about one for retards?

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You'll find them close to the same area. Make sure you click the one for retards and stay there.

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13 Years5,000+ PostsCapricorn

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Posted by Sn1p3r187
Relationships board is that way ->

You're more than welcome to go. Pft

Your more than welcome to ask there.

Is there a section for grammatical questions?

Is there a section for stupid questions?

How about one for stupid people?

How about one for retards?

You'll find them close to the same area. Make sure you click the one for retards and stay there.

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Good, take your own advice and head there. And make sure you lock the door from the outside

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Posted by Sn1p3r187
Relationships board is that way ->

You're more than welcome to go. Pft

Your more than welcome to ask there.

Is there a section for grammatical questions?

Is there a section for stupid questions?

How about one for stupid people?

How about one for retards?

You'll find them close to the same area. Make sure you click the one for retards and stay there.

Good, take your own advice and head there. And make sure you lock the door from the outside

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Ok so clearly you are confused. I know you're going to find that special section for you, however before you go feel free to leave your input for the op questions. Special ones have a perspective too! This mean you!

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Posted by ImTheRam
I run from them like the plague...lol

Aries + Clingy Women...not gonna work...(at least from my pov)

I have a coleague from work...he lives with his gf...everyday at the exact same hour..she calls him to know how is he doing...

This is a next level of clingy and i simply can't understand how he manages it.....and he even starts talking all sweety and buttery........

I just....i really don't get it.

Do you know your colleague's and his SO sign?

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by ImTheRam
I run from them like the plague...lol

Aries + Clingy Women...not gonna work...(at least from my pov)

I have a coleague from work...he lives with his gf...everyday at the exact same hour..she calls him to know how is he doing...

This is a next level of clingy and i simply can't understand how he manages it.....and he even starts talking all sweety and buttery........

I just....i really don't get it.

Mmmm consistency

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Im a clinger...all day everyday.

But not so much phone checkins. More so if im in your vicinity, im not too far away. Always within an ear shot. Eye view.

I like to watch and fantasize

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Posted by ImTheRam

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Posted by ImTheRam
I run from them like the plague...lol

Aries + Clingy Women...not gonna work...(at least from my pov)

I have a coleague from work...he lives with his gf...everyday at the exact same hour..she calls him to know how is he doing...

This is a next level of clingy and i simply can't understand how he manages it.....and he even starts talking all sweety and buttery........

I just....i really don't get it.

Do you know your colleague's and his SO sign?

I know his sun sign...hers..i have no clue...

Wana guess?

It's starts with a C..and ends with ancer.

😆

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That's interesting. Makes me really wonder what hers is now.