TeddyBearMD
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Why do Women wait until they are all "Used Up" before looking for a Good Man?
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I get what you guys are saying. I guess, I'm just trying to understand the psychology behind it all.
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One part of me is asking myself why I care about it so much. But the analytical part me (which is a big part) wonders why these walruses feel entitled to a "Good Man" after they rejected me in the past?
How could these girls have rejected you if you in your own words say "I think it's worth mentioning that prior to this, I had never even had a conversation with half of these girls."
Could it be that they didn't reject you but that you were content jerking off to them as oppose to approaching them, which is what "bad boys" do.
walruses? haha made me chuckle
Psychology behind it, they probably did not find you attractive because you were too available. That is a put off. Women, like men, like a little bit of a challenge, hence the bad boys. "Maybe I can get him to change" Think of how romantic that is. Also, although early 20's should be considered as a person becoming mature, I think it takes a little bit longer to really get it together and realize what is good and what is not. Some experiences people have to learn through their own trials and errors, which is why they put themselves in the situation they are in without realizing it. If you are lucky, you learn from other's errors.
Psychology behind it, they probably did not find you attractive because you were too available. That is a put off. Women, like men, like a little bit of a challenge, hence the bad boys. "Maybe I can get him to change" Think of how romantic that is. Also, although early 20's should be considered as a person becoming mature, I think it takes a little bit longer to really get it together and realize what is good and what is not. Some experiences people have to learn through their own trials and errors, which is why they put themselves in the situation they are in without realizing it. If you are lucky, you learn from other's errors.
Posted by Haregood word "shadenfreude" - deriving pleasure from another one's misfortune - shadenfreude"
Unless the schadenfreud is giving you a thrill.
They're overweight, out of shape, and have all this emotional baggage. But NOW.... now they want to "talk". I've already moved on with my life at this point and are dealing with women who are like me. Single, Successful, and Ambitious. But, I even I did want to talk to these washed up women, I wouldn't. Just on principle alone. One part of me is asking myself why I care about it so much. But the analytical part me (which is a big part) wonders why these walruses feel entitled to a "Good Man" after they rejected me in the past?
you were not alone with your pain in your younger days - school and peers and all that was difficult for many of us - but try to be respectful at least - you don't have to speak to anyone you don't feel you want to
live in the moment of now and enjoy your life and what you have learned along the way - so that you may grow ever so exponentially into the future ...
you were not alone with your pain in your younger days - school and peers and all that was difficult for many of us - but try to be respectful at least - you don't have to speak to anyone you don't feel you want to
live in the moment of now and enjoy your life and what you have learned along the way - so that you may grow ever so exponentially into the future ...
They're overweight, out of shape, and have all this emotional baggage. But NOW.... now they want to "talk". I've already moved on with my life at this point and are dealing with women who are like me. Single, Successful, and Ambitious. But, I even I did want to talk to these washed up women, I wouldn't. Just on principle alone. One part of me is asking myself why I care about it so much. But the analytical part me (which is a big part) wonders why these walruses feel entitled to a "Good Man" after they rejected me in the past?
you were not alone with your pain in your younger days - school and peers and all that was difficult for many of us - but try to be respectful at least - you don't have to speak to anyone you don't feel you want to
live in the moment of now and enjoy your life and what you have learned along the way - so that you may grow ever so exponentially into the future ...
you were not alone with your pain in your younger days - school and peers and all that was difficult for many of us - but try to be respectful at least - you don't have to speak to anyone you don't feel you want to
live in the moment of now and enjoy your life and what you have learned along the way - so that you may grow ever so exponentially into the future ...
Posted by Hareor call her a walrus ... well maybe you didPosted by tctaI've succumbed to it upon running into an ex.Posted by Haregood word "shadenfreude" - deriving pleasure from another one's misfortune - shadenfreude"
Unless the schadenfreud is giving you a thrill.
But I also didn't add them to FB.
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once you stop jerkin off and get some poosey , this thread will be deleted
What makes you believe they would have ended up differently if they accepted a relationship with you...?
Yes, women have children.
Yes, women put on weight when they have children.
Yes, many relationships do not survive.
And your problem is...?
Yes, women have children.
Yes, women put on weight when they have children.
Yes, many relationships do not survive.
And your problem is...?
Posted by DivaCanLeoHow do you know they don't take responsibility for falling in love or lust and birthing children when they were young? Did they abandon their children? If not, they took responsibility as well as they could!Posted by Undinehis problem is that young women generally are bad decision makers, i know exactly what type of women hes' talking about, and i've seen this play out.
What makes you believe they would have ended up differently if they accepted a relationship with you...?
Yes, women have children.
Yes, women put on weight when they have children.
Yes, many relationships do not survive.
And your problem is...?
he's right, they take no fuking responsibility for their choices then they get old and want some dude like mr. educated nice guy to save them.
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It is actually what nature dictates. Going with the nature/flow does actually make people happy.
What is against nature, is what you and me are doing: growing old being slim, sucessful, picky and childless! Are we happier? LOL, just look at the dxpnet threads we produce 😄 😄 😄!
The question is why do men like you dwell on this shit? You look just as bad as you accuse them of.
Check your ego. It's gross.
Check your ego. It's gross.
Good is subjective. You didn't have anything to offer by your own admission, but they should have dated you based on your looks? Shallow much?
And how do you know how/who these men are that these women dated unless you dated them too. Also how do you know these women are used up?
So many assumptions.
And how do you know how/who these men are that these women dated unless you dated them too. Also how do you know these women are used up?
So many assumptions.
Posted by HareThis is the source of so many dating woes you hear from this type of guy.
What I see are a lot of young guys who have this idea they are entitled to the attention of women because "derp...I r nice guy" and bitch about being single while completely ignoring the scads of other women that, while not necessarily up to the guys bratty entitled standards, are great women and would love to find a guy to spend time with.
Utter and pure entitlement. It's also creating a lot of psychotic resentment and this is why you see this sickening wave of 1950s mindsets coming from kids born 50 years beyond this era.
This whining and throwing tantrums for not getting their way, proceeded by a shit ton of finger pointing (lack of accountability is also another go to tactic for this entitled shit), are usual indicators.
What these total losers don't (or won't) ever realize is that anyone with half a brain wouldn't want to be around assholes like them. Nobody likes a dick who thinks he's entitled to a woman just because he fulfils a self prescribed list of what has to be done to "get" the girl.
If you need to create a "list" or read some sort of manual in how to "get" a woman, it's all on you dude. Fix yourself because your personality sucks.
Posted by UndineHis problem is he's a misogynist.
What makes you believe they would have ended up differently if they accepted a relationship with you...?
Yes, women have children.
Yes, women put on weight when they have children.
Yes, many relationships do not survive.
And your problem is...?
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Some of these replies are funny. People jumping to all sorts of conclusions about me. I guess this post hit home for some of the women here since they got sooooo offended by it.
Some of these replies are funny. People jumping to all sorts of conclusions about me. I guess this post hit home for some of the women here since they got sooooo offended by it.
Posted by oyes0435Finally, someone who can just answer a question without taking it personal or jumping to a s hit load of conclusions. LOL.
OP wasn't sexy. In their 20s, women wanted sexy. The strong guy/asshole/bad boy= sexy.
The nice guy= mush.
When a woman is too SEXUALLY available, to men this demonstrates low value.
When a man is too EMOTIONALLY available, to women this demonstrates low value.
Women who value themselves don't bed easily, these are the ones men want to merge with.
Women who give them sex will just get sex.
Men who value themselves won't commit easily, these are ones women want to merge with.
Men who commit after one date, or look, or hello= man with no options, therefore no value, therefore not sexy (why make more low value children with this man..etc)
When women are older---especially with children-- they no longer need sexy, they need security. They already have (high value) children with that bad boy who wouldn't commit (cos he was high value, had options, and probably found someone worth his time. which, OP, so should you). Basically the game changes for them when their needs go from sexy to security.
Posted by irreconcilabledifferencesWhat are these tiers you speak of sir?
you can't escape the 2nd tier
it follows you throughout life
I believe that I am the top 1% of the 1st tier. Or at least I am in my head.
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Posted by HareOf course I will add them. I would add anybody I recognize from high school or college. Unless there is an explicit reason for me to deny them.
Why are you even entertaining them or adding them on FB?
Ignore them.
Give them some tae bo dvds and tell them they gotta work for that shit
Posted by Capri-sunBecause pigs like him see women as objects.
Why do some men view "used" women as experienced instead of used?
OP are you in a small town where these are the only women available?
Why do some women look better after having kids than they did in high school?
The OP seems to fall under the "fuckboy" category.
Posted by HareAgreed. It's depressing, and depressing to deal with.Posted by rockyroadicecreamA lot of young guys are like this. It's not completely their fault...it's upbringing.Posted by HareThis is the source of so many dating woes you hear from this type of guy.
What I see are a lot of young guys who have this idea they are entitled to the attention of women because "derp...I r nice guy" and bitch about being single while completely ignoring the scads of other women that, while not necessarily up to the guys bratty entitled standards, are great women and would love to find a guy to spend time with.
Utter and pure entitlement. It's also creating a lot of psychotic resentment and this is why you see this sickening wave of 1950s mindsets coming from kids born 50 years beyond this era.
This whining and throwing tantrums for not getting their way, proceeded by a shit ton of finger pointing (lack of accountability is also another go to tactic for this entitled shit), are usual indicators.
What these total losers don't (or won't) ever realize is that anyone with half a brain wouldn't want to be around assholes like them. Nobody likes a dick who thinks he's entitled to a woman just because he fulfils a self prescribed list of what has to be done to "get" the girl.
If you need to create a "list" or read some sort of manual in how to "get" a woman, it's all on you dude. Fix yourself because your personality sucks.
But you'd expect them to grow out of that mindset pretty quickly. Which doesn't happen unfortunately.
Posted by TeddyBearMDThe only thing women are "offended" by you fuckboy, is that you talk about them as if they're objects. "Used up?" I'm sorry, this is 2016. Why are women still viewed as objects to be obtained as if this 1700?
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Some of these replies are funny. People jumping to all sorts of conclusions about me. I guess this post hit home for some of the women here since they got sooooo offended by it.
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You sound "used up" yourself with all your emotional baggage and personal issues. Women steer clear of your type, sweetie.
Change your attitude and maybe you'd have a better outcome with women. You can start off by not viewing them as "used up" because life experience happened. At least THEY learned. You clearly haven't. So who's really the "lesser" individual here?
Posted by tctaYes, that's why I didn't immediately curve them when they added me on FB. People from high school and college add me all the time, and it's usually not a big deal. Still not really.
you were not alone with your pain in your younger days - school and peers and all that was difficult for many of us - but try to be respectful at least - you don't have to speak to anyone you don't feel you want to
live in the moment of now and enjoy your life and what you have learned along the way - so that you may grow ever so exponentially into the future ...
Posted by HareWhat predicament? The one where I'm doing well for myself and deal with women that are in my "tier".Posted by TeddyBearMDAnd your attitude towards women evident in this post is part of the reason you're in this predicament to begin with.
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Some of these replies are funny. People jumping to all sorts of conclusions about me. I guess this post hit home for some of the women here since they got sooooo offended by it.
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I think that I like this predicament 🙂
Posted by Arielle83Funny that you mention it. I immediately recognized the insincerity. But I didn't want to be a complete Dick and curve them like some of them did me when I was younger. Maybe I should have.
They dont work?
No motivation?
For sluts, babies = cash.
They used up the wallets of supposed bad boys by getting child support and they see u being successful and you're going to be their next sucker.
If you're a cancer you should of ignored how insincere their approach to you was.
Posted by TeddyBearMDBut are you really dating women in your tier? To me it sounds like you thought you elevated out your tier only to reminded that you never left, based on the women you attract. Otherwise why don't you just move on and enjoy the top tier? You really made a account and thread to just ask this?Posted by HareWhat predicament? The one where I'm doing well for myself and deal with women that are in my "tier".Posted by TeddyBearMDAnd your attitude towards women evident in this post is part of the reason you're in this predicament to begin with.
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Some of these replies are funny. People jumping to all sorts of conclusions about me. I guess this post hit home for some of the women here since they got sooooo offended by it.
I think that I like this predicament 🙂
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Posted by yupvirgoYep, totally makes sense. Sucks for them though...Posted by TeddyBearMDI've heard stories like this one before and it totally happens. I guess.. maybe when people are younger (not just women), they just pursue whoever they want based on attraction, romance, physical chemistry, etc. but when they get older they realize that's not enough for a good relationship or a stable relationship so then they decide to go for those guys they rejected in the past who they think would be more stable or could provide for them better.
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I don't think its about being used up. A lot of people just want to have fun when they are young whether its a man or women. The fact bad boys have no long term potential is exactly why you date them when you are young.
Posted by tizianiThose are in short supply so it could be tricky ?
Only dating Instagram models could fix the pain.
Posted by bkbella86How does it "sound like" anything? You're just taking what little info you have and jumping to conclusions about my current situation.Posted by TeddyBearMDBut are you really dating women in your tier? To me it sounds like you thought you elevated out your tier only to reminded that you never left, based on the women you attract. Otherwise why don't you just move on and enjoy the top tier? You really made a account and thread to just ask this?Posted by HareWhat predicament? The one where I'm doing well for myself and deal with women that are in my "tier".Posted by TeddyBearMDAnd your attitude towards women evident in this post is part of the reason you're in this predicament to begin with.
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Some of these replies are funny. People jumping to all sorts of conclusions about me. I guess this post hit home for some of the women here since they got sooooo offended by it.
I think that I like this predicament 🙂
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And yep, I did make an account just for this... totally did that 🙂
Posted by HareI can agree with that. Not exactly my case, but I see that all the time as well.
What I see are a lot of young guys who have this idea they are entitled to the attention of women because "derp...I r nice guy" and bitch about being single while completely ignoring the scads of other women that, while not necessarily up to the guys bratty entitled standards, are great women and would love to find a guy to spend time with.
Posted by DivaCanLeoThere are a lot of things that supposedly fall under the Cancer category that are completely opposite from me. Considering all the "water" in my chart you wouldn't ever think I was a cancer IRL. Just goes to show... this zodiac shit isn't everything.Posted by TeddyBearMDweird, crabs are usually private people, you like to show off i think, you're better or something.Posted by HareOf course I will add them. I would add anybody I recognize from high school or college. Unless there is an explicit reason for me to deny them.
Why are you even entertaining them or adding them on FB?
Ignore them.
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Posted by ExplicitI don't even totally believe his story because as he admitted he didn't even know these women personally. He's amping it up for sympathy. Really pathetic and nothing sexy about that. I can tell why some people may have kept their distance.
Why are so many women getting so offended? This guy is speaking his truth. Get over it.
The women who didn't give him the time of day in his school years are all trying to jump on his dick now that they're fat, have babies and are single and he's successful with a good head on his shoulders.
How disgusting. Hate women like that.
What do you take a woman as? Some sort of product? If you stop being objectifying, you'd find a good woman quick. But right now you just sound like a lonely douche bag that has nothing else left but his bitchy mouth.
@TeddyBearMD can you stop trying to get my woman, @rockyroadicecream, all riled up. We get it, you make good money and couldn't get girls. Well, I am fugly, poor, and still manage to find the love of my life. I love you baby. #bawandrockydxpcouples2016
Posted by ExplicitNo shit, sherlock.
Why are so many women getting so offended? This guy is speaking his truth. Get over it.
The women who didn't give him the time of day in his school years are all trying to jump on his dick now that they're fat, have babies and are single and he's successful with a good head on his shoulders.
How disgusting. Hate women like that.
But he's no better by viewing them as "used up" and objectifying them, like they have no value now that they're older, have kids, aren't thin as they used to be, etc. FYI, privileged male, society views older women as "less valuable" because they have kids, aren't in their barely legal "prime" for gross creepers, etc. This is what stirred the pot. If this dipshit had left out "used up" from his title, he probably would have had a lot less backlash.
The situation in itself is lol worthy because men AND women do that shit- go around, fucking their way through dating and then realize what it's REALLY about and come crawling back. ...To which you just lol and move along. They aren't worth anyone's time. They couldn't be bothered back then because they were fucked in the head and selfish? Pfft. Bye bitch. Can't be bothered with them now, right?
However, his attitude is no better than theirs so he doesn't have room to talk, tbh.
I also can't help but wonder if this is just a humble brag post. The answer to this is so obvious and someone his age should know this answer already.
"I'm so great now and look at them. Why are they crawling back now??" Bitch you know why. Stfu. Jfc. Sad little boys go on the internet to brag about their financial and sexual prowess.
Posted by TeddyBearMDWith this reply it is obvious what this thread is really about Mr. Troll.
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Some of these replies are funny. People jumping to all sorts of conclusions about me. I guess this post hit home for some of the women here since they got sooooo offended by it.
Posted by bawlikestogomooLmao
@TeddyBearMD can you stop trying to get my woman, @rockyroadicecream, all riled up. We get it, you make good money and couldn't get girls. Well, I am fugly, poor, and still manage to find the love of my life. I love you baby. #bawandrockydxpcouples2016
Posted by AriesLoveExactly!Posted by bkbella86Yes and he has this "look at me" persona all while generalizing that of which he is not.Posted by ExplicitI don't even totally believe his story because as he admitted he didn't even know these women personally. He's amping it up for sympathy. Really pathetic and nothing sexy about that. I can tell why some people may have kept their distance.
Why are so many women getting so offended? This guy is speaking his truth. Get over it.
The women who didn't give him the time of day in his school years are all trying to jump on his dick now that they're fat, have babies and are single and he's successful with a good head on his shoulders.
How disgusting. Hate women like that.
A "good man" has humbling characteristics and can bypass the need for resentment and still get a point across.
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A bunch of hurt feelings and home hitting 🙂
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Posted by ExplicitToo much truth for 'em. They're not ready for it.
And by the way, if this thread was made by some girl who was fat in High School and no guys payed attention to her, and then suddenly she lost weight and became hot and the same guys who didn't care for her were messaging her then everyone would be like "YOU GO GIRL, GOOD FOR YOU."
But since it's a man doing it then he's "objectifying" women and he's insecure and creepy.
Posted by TeddyBearMDWhy are you entertaining these 'walruses' if you believe they are so below you? It would be simple to ignore the friend requests and conversations but your engaging with them. Why come on here and bitch about something YOU'VE encouraged?
And now most of the same girls are adding me and Facebook and starting conversations to "catch up". I think it's worth mentioning that prior to this, I had never even had a conversation with half of these girls. Their stories are all the same. They got with a guy, he pumped and dumped them. They have kids and no father. Or it's a situation where the husband was abusive and now they are single with about 3 kids.
They're overweight, out of shape, and have all this emotional baggage. But NOW.... now they want to "talk". I've already moved on with my life at this point and are dealing with women who are like me. Single, Successful, and Ambitious. But, I even I did want to talk to these washed up women, I wouldn't. Just on principle alone. One part of me is asking myself why I care about it so much. But the analytical part me (which is a big part) wonders why these walruses feel entitled to a "Good Man" after they rejected me in the past?
I can only conclude that your here trying to humble brag that the mean girls in high school now want your dick. *yawn
Posted by ExplicitIf the Op really found it disgusting he wouldn't have accepted friend requests and engaged in conversations with them. He is low key flattered that the mean girls of high school now are giving him the time of day.
Why are so many women getting so offended? This guy is speaking his truth. Get over it.
The women who didn't give him the time of day in his school years are all trying to jump on his dick now that they're fat, have babies and are single and he's successful with a good head on his shoulders.
How disgusting. Hate women like that.
Usually if your bragging about how big the peen is... it's usually in the golf pencil size.
So its great to hear how attractive, successful, and wanted you are Op. But we need dick pics to prove it.
So its great to hear how attractive, successful, and wanted you are Op. But we need dick pics to prove it.
Posted by LadyNeptuneYupPosted by ExplicitIf the Op really found it disgusting he wouldn't have accepted friend request and engaged in conversations with them. He is low key flattered that the mean girls in high school now are giving him the time of day.
Why are so many women getting so offended? This guy is speaking his truth. Get over it.
The women who didn't give him the time of day in his school years are all trying to jump on his dick now that they're fat, have babies and are single and he's successful with a good head on his shoulders.
How disgusting. Hate women like that.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneI'll inbox them to you 😉
Usually if your bragging about how big the peen is... it's usually in the golf pencil size.
So its great to hear how attractive, successful, and wanted you are Op. But we need dick pics to prove it.
Posted by TeddyBearMD
A bunch of hurt feelings and home hitting 🙂
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Must be their egos haven't adjusted to their current reality / status. They know they still have it regardless of what the mirror says. Once a fine broad, always a fine broad.
Posted by TeddyBearMDIt only counts if we ALL see them.Posted by LadyNeptuneI'll inbox them to you 😉
Usually if your bragging about how big the peen is... it's usually in the golf pencil size.
So its great to hear how attractive, successful, and wanted you are Op. But we need dick pics to prove it.click to expand
Posted by tizianiPersonal preference isn't objectifying imo. I just want the op to call it how it is.Posted by ExplicitLol now that I think about it, this is actually true
And by the way, if this thread was made by some girl who was fat in High School and no guys payed attention to her, and then suddenly she lost weight and became hot and the same guys who didn't care for her were messaging her then everyone would be like "YOU GO GIRL, GOOD FOR YOU."
But since it's a man doing it then he's "objectifying" women and he's insecure and creepy.click to expand
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